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I got a taste last night of the elusive thing called 'sex appeal' or in the case of this booking ( for me ) the lack of it. My first impressions when the door opened was 'lovely'. I would guess she is late 30s / early 40s, blonde curls,good looking face,nice smile, dressed in a nice black number which showed off her slim toned figure.Perfect ! If you saw her waliking into a restaurant or whatever, you would think there goes a good looking attractive sexy lady.

However, for me and I stress for me, I knew I was in trouble before I had even dried off after the shower. How do I explain this ? I found her loud, her language sometimes coarse, she talked at a hundred miles an hour and she talked constantly and I mean constantly.I have no doubt that many others would find her lively, engaging, girl next door and great crac.She was a nice girl no doubt but I would describe her as a ladette and this just does not appeal to me at all.I panicked a bit because I thought I might not be able to 'rise to the occasion'.

For me, a good intimate time requires there to be a certain amount of calmness and concentration on both sides so that you get a chance to get into the moment. . I find this difficult to do when the escort is animatedly effing and blinding about a football manager's decision to pick certain players for the team !

I eventually felt I had no option but to tell her to 'shurrup ' which to be fair she did, which then allowed for some nice RO and FK ( she was a great kisser ) which I am happy to say brought everything back on an even keel and there was a successful conclusion to things. :)

So it got me thinking about sex appeal and what is it that you look for at a booking, what are the ingredients that really attract you to the escort for that intimate hour, as it is not just looks and attitude , as this lady was very good in both these areas.For me, I like very feminine ladies who are good fun, good communicators but who know how to slowdown, use their guile, their sexiness to lure you and to command the attention of your senses during that booking so that you are putty in their hands.

For the guys, what does it for you ? For the ladies, from your experience of the men you have seen, what do you think is men's understanding of sex appeal in their lady ?

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Good topic: as I'm sure everyone is different.

For me I like many types from ladette to lady. I like you, don't like a potty mouth

What must be in there for me a far as sex appeal goes is a little bit of something naughty, if that makes sense, it's all about the personality.

A few years ago I was in Leeds at a hotel with over 20 floors and my room was on the 18th. The WG I had a punt with turned up I open the door, not a word spoken and she was on her knees, with great eye contact. Then later when she saw how high we were and the view we had, opened the curtains to play up against the window. She ended up waving at someone in a room in another hotel, who waved back. :D

Before the punt the lady was one of those WG you think is stunning looking but it was her personality that I ended up finding very hot more than anything else.

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Hi, I recall one of my best punts was when the lady was coming down the stairs in her red basque, red fishnets, killer heels and a big smile and totally embraced me

Porn was on the tv with no sound and it was really like an old girlfriend and one of the most femine ladys I have ever come across.

After the meeting she said I hope you visit me again.............boy this lady defined sex sex sex..........sorry she has now retired

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It's a very individual thing but a sense of humour must rank up there with the sexy look, smart dress and a smile.

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I got a taste last night of the elusive thing called 'sex appeal' or in the case of this booking ( for me ) the lack of it. My first impressions when the door opened was 'lovely'. I would guess she is late 30s / early 40s, blonde curls,good looking face,nice smile, dressed in a nice black number which showed off her slim toned figure.Perfect ! If you saw her waliking into a restaurant or whatever, you would think there goes a good looking attractive sexy lady. However, for me and I stress for me, I knew I was in trouble before I had even dried off after the shower. How do I explain this ? I found her loud, her language sometimes coarse, she talked at a hundred miles an hour and she talked constantly and I mean constantly.I have no doubt that many others would find her lively, engaging, girl next door and great crac.She was a nice girl no doubt but I would describe her as a ladette and this just does not appeal to me at all.I panicked a bit because I thought I might not be able to 'rise to the occasion'. For me, a good intimate time requires there to be a certain amount of calmness and concentration on both sides so that you get a chance to get into the moment. . I find this difficult to do when the escort is animatedly effing and blinding about a football manager's decision to pick certain players for the team ! I eventually felt I had no option but to tell her to 'shurrup ' which to be fair she did, which then allowed for some nice RO and FK ( she was a great kisser ) which I am happy to say brought everything back on an even keel and there was a successful conclusion to things. :) So it got me thinking about sex appeal and what is it that you look for at a booking, what are the ingredients that really attract you to the escort for that intimate hour, as it is not just looks and attitude , as this lady was very good in both these areas.For me, I like very feminine ladies who are good fun, good communicators but who know how to slowdown, use their guile, their sexiness to lure you and to command the attention of your senses during that booking so that you are putty in their hands. For the guys, what does it for you ? For the ladies, from your experience of the men you have seen, what do you think is men's understanding of sex appeal in their lady ?

I love loud extroverts as long as its not all talk and if it is all talk it must be about sexual things not her family, shopping or suchlike while i am trying to concentrate on punting, in the breaks no problem talking. I view WGs like this as offering a PSE, Keira Pharrell being a good example, loud, rude but a good laugh with no airs or graces.

On another day i might like more of a GFE, i have wide tastes which i have always found very handy as it has given me more choices rather than limiting myself to a particular type. As long as offering a good or better service i like experiencing all sorts bar those that offer BB. I punt primarily for variety as its my spice. ;):D

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I love loud extroverts as long as its not all talk and if it is all talk it must be about sexual things not her family, shopping or suchlike while i am trying to concentrate on punting, in the breaks no problem talking. I view WGs like this as offering a PSE, Keira Pharrell being a good example, loud, rude but a good laugh with no airs or graces.

On another day i might like more of a GFE, i have wide tastes which i have always found very handy as it has given me more choices rather than limiting myself to a particular type. As long as offering a good or better service i like experiencing all sorts bar those that offer BB. I punt primarily for variety as its my spice. ;):D

I think I prefer sultry combined with a bit of humour to loud extrovert. I like the idea of the quiet, demure, sexy lady who turns confident and assertive between the sheets.To sum it up, I generally find I am not attracted to girls who drink pints !! :D

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It's a very individual thing but a sense of humour must rank up there with the sexy look, smart dress and a smile.

Yes if a lady doesnt have a sense of humour it is difficult to get any connection going. Personally though I have no need for the lady to be a comedian, in fact the funny girl type puts me right off.

Self confidence is very important I think when it comes to sex appeal.

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I got a taste last night of the elusive thing called 'sex appeal' or in the case of this booking ( for me ) the lack of it. My first impressions when the door opened was 'lovely'. I would guess she is late 30s / early 40s, blonde curls,good looking face,nice smile, dressed in a nice black number which showed off her slim toned figure.Perfect ! If you saw her waliking into a restaurant or whatever, you would think there goes a good looking attractive sexy lady.

However, for me and I stress for me, I knew I was in trouble before I had even dried off after the shower. How do I explain this ? I found her loud, her language sometimes coarse, she talked at a hundred miles an hour and she talked constantly and I mean constantly.I have no doubt that many others would find her lively, engaging, girl next door and great crac.She was a nice girl no doubt but I would describe her as a ladette and this just does not appeal to me at all.I panicked a bit because I thought I might not be able to 'rise to the occasion'.

For me, a good intimate time requires there to be a certain amount of calmness and concentration on both sides so that you get a chance to get into the moment. . I find this difficult to do when the escort is animatedly effing and blinding about a football manager's decision to pick certain players for the team !

I eventually felt I had no option but to tell her to 'shurrup ' which to be fair she did, which then allowed for some nice RO and FK ( she was a great kisser ) which I am happy to say brought everything back on an even keel and there was a successful conclusion to things. :)

So it got me thinking about sex appeal and what is it that you look for at a booking, what are the ingredients that really attract you to the escort for that intimate hour, as it is not just looks and attitude , as this lady was very good in both these areas.For me, I like very feminine ladies who are good fun, good communicators but who know how to slowdown, use their guile, their sexiness to lure you and to command the attention of your senses during that booking so that you are putty in their hands.

For the guys, what does it for you ? For the ladies, from your experience of the men you have seen, what do you think is men's understanding of sex appeal in their lady ?

You pretty much nailed it for me with this description

Girls like this are the ones who really 'get under my skin'

The ones who if I werent careful I'd all too easily fall for

I've also enjoyed numerous excellent punts with extroverted, loud'ish', more obviously and brazenly sexual women, but for me its almost always the 'quiet but surprising ones' who cause the biggest, longest and most thrilling hormonal surges of all

Never punted or had a relationship with a coarse, loud mouthed, foul mouthed ladette, which is no accident, and hopefully I never will

However, I do feel that oodles of all-slaying sex appeal can come in truly the most unexpected packages, as I've experienced over the years.

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How would I personally define sex appeal? As has already been mentioned attitude is very important. Attractiveness, for me, is not necessarily a key ingredient as I have known lots of women who would not be regarded as natural beauties but still had lots of sex appeal. Feminity and good sense of humour are important but the key quality for me is NAUGHTINESS. By this I mean someone who is provocative, a little daring with a slight rebellious streak (in the nicest possible way) and someone who genuinly enjoys sex.

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Good thread - made me think. Easy to say I prefer slim natural tits, great DFK ... but this is only half the story. I enjoyed Tiffany of HOD, and a recent (excellent!) encouter with Juliet had no DFK. So it is not only that.

I think it is the focus on me. Cumandgo, if the WG was talking up a storm about football and you were not loving it, she was not focused on you. When they focus on me, the sex appeal works.

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Interesting thread- for me it's the eyes and the smile first of all, I like to see a variety of different physical types and looks, but femenine grace is essential- no ladettes, even tattoos and smokers put me off. Personality-wise I like the 'quiet but surprising', the 'friendly & chatty', even the 'loud & brash' as long as they focus on me and deliver the action enthusiastically and with good humour.

I've had great times with lots of different girls...they're great aren't they?? :wub:

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Good thread - made me think. Easy to say I prefer slim natural tits, great DFK ... but this is only half the story. I enjoyed Tiffany of HOD, and a recent (excellent!) encouter with Juliet had no DFK. So it is not only that.

I think it is the focus on me. Cumandgo, if the WG was talking up a storm about football and you were not loving it, she was not focused on you. When they focus on me, the sex appeal works.

you are so right. when the lady is bothered to be truly focussed on you it makes all the difference !

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For me, the sexiest thing about a lady is her demeanour from the outset of the encounter. A smile, good eye-contact and a 'welcome kiss' sets a good tone and is an immediate turn-on, as my brain is aroused at the same time as my errm... well, you know <_<

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Interesting thread- for me it's the eyes and the smile first of all, I like to see a variety of different physical types and looks, but femenine grace is essential- no ladettes, even tattoos and smokers put me off. Personality-wise I like the 'quiet but surprising', the 'friendly & chatty', even the 'loud & brash' as long as they focus on me and deliver the action enthusiastically and with good humour.

I've had great times with lots of different girls...they're great aren't they?? :wub:

Absolutely Venturer - they're all lovely. Like Smiths I have a wide range of tastes - mostly large - and I find all the ladies fascinatinating and with great sex appeal as long as they arent patently bored and show it.Only happened once and I aint been back! Its not the clothes, or lack thereof, its the smile and the eyes which tell me you shouldnt be doing this but we're gonna do something very naughty indeed that nobody else will know about....

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I once had a steady girlfriend who was very vocal and noisey during an orgasam that i found very sexy and appealing, mind you whenever we stayed in a hotel it could be awkward!! :)

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I once had a girlfriend who was charming, demure and sophisticated until she had a drink inside her. One cocktail or glass of champagne and her personality completely altered and she'd be flashing her knickers and climbing on the furniture. It was fun at first but became tiresome after a while.

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I once had a girlfriend who was charming, demure and sophisticated until she had a drink inside her. One cocktail or glass of champagne and her personality completely altered and she'd be flashing her knickers and climbing on the furniture. It was fun at first but became tiresome after a while.

It is surprising just how many girls are like that when they have "taken drink". I know quite a few.

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good thread, but could go on forever.

I'm lazy, so copy off my blog:

Here are the factors that, IMHO, determine the Quality of a date (e.g. the sex-appeal):

In order of importance, they are:

1. Mental connect. Spark.

2. Mutual enjoyment (Quality acting or real enjoyment)

3. Bedroom Mechanics, the PSE

4. Personality, Education, General background

5. Looks and physique.

more later...

too lazy and too late now.

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It is surprising just how many girls are like that when they have "taken drink". I know quite a few.

hehe. Newcastle!

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I find a man sexy who does not even appear to realise that is he sexy!

He does not have to be the most amazing looking man in the world with the beautiful face and body to go with it all though.

It is something in the way he acts, the look in his eyes, little things that he does without even knowing he does them.

I can recall talking to a man years ago in a normal work situation, and as we spoke he raised his hand and pushed a strand of hair away from my face.

That one act I still remember well today and I started looking at him in whole new light.......

Lucy :)

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As a provider, may I just offer an alternative perspective here?

Those of us who actually care about our clients and the level of service we provide, take great measure and care to try and provide each and every guy we see with a pleasurable experience. Now, considering that number could range anywhere from 3-15+ clients a week (depending on how busy you are), surely it is not hard to understand that no matter how hard we try, we will not always please every single one? Despite our best efforts, we cannot be all things to all men - it's just impossible.

Some men like lots of chatter during a session, some loathe it. Some like the lady to be dressed up, others don't mind. Some men need the temparature of the room to be warmer, other need it cooler....and so on, and so forth. Oh, and let's not forget that each and every *ahem* needs its own special way of stimulation to achieve the desired result - and since we are meeting most of you for the first time, we have to figure your own special formula on the spot.

Anyways, my point is, we try out best to make each person happy, but sometimes it just won't happen bc it is a personalities clash thing.

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Maybe it's like "The Runaway Bride", you know the scene where they ask all her exes how she likes her eggs, and they all answer that she likes them the same way as them, even though they have different tastes.

If that's what turns you on, cool! What I like is the space to be myself, unchoreographed, relaxed & happy. From that space, I can get physically closer & more intimate with a client & it feels natural. We're just 2 people enjoying a space and each other's company.

It's a tough thing to achieve in a relationship because of all the distractions, but that time, space & focus is sexy for me.

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. Oh, and let's not forget that each and every *ahem* needs its own special way of stimulation to achieve the desired result - and since we are meeting most of you for the first time, we have to figure your own special formula on the spot.

Perhaps slightly off topic but is this genuinely a big hurdle for most WGs ? Is it something that you are anxious about before and during the booking ?

I ask this because I would have thought that in the vast majority of cases , the 'desired result' is relatively easily achieved, no ?

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Maybe it's like "The Runaway Bride", you know the scene where they ask all her exes how she likes her eggs, and they all answer that she likes them the same way as them, even though they have different tastes.

If that's what turns you on, cool! What I like is the space to be myself, unchoreographed, relaxed & happy. From that space, I can get physically closer & more intimate with a client & it feels natural. We're just 2 people enjoying a space and each other's company.

It's a tough thing to achieve in a relationship because of all the distractions, but that time, space & focus is sexy for me.

I would like to see it this way but I dont. I feel that someone has to make the running and 9/10 thats going to be me. It just doesnt 'happen' in a one hour booking, somebody has to take the lead.

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