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Eye Contact While Having Sex/getting Bj

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What are your experiences? Do most WGs do it? For me, it would be a big turn off, if the girl wouldn't look at me while having sex.

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Eye contact is very important. Eyes give a lot away. I've had 2 girls who have almost made me cum, purely on eye contact. Had loads and loads who have given me the impression that they are thinking, "cum you bastard, cum".

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Eye contact is important when meeting someone. However, I naturally close my eyes when I'm having sex (even with my partner) so I have to remind myself to look at the chap every once in a while so he doesn't think I'm imagining he is Brad Pitt (or whoever). I do open eyes when a man comes though, some of those O faces are worth seeing!

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Eye contact is important when meeting someone. However, I naturally close my eyes when I'm having sex (even with my partner) so I have to remind myself to look at the chap every once in a while so he doesn't think I'm imagining he is Brad Pitt (or whoever). I do open eyes when a man comes though, some of those O faces are worth seeing!

lol 'O faces' :P

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What are your experiences? Do most WGs do it? For me, it would be a big turn off, if the girl wouldn't look at me while having sex.

What if she doing reverse cowgirl...............or you're doing " doggie " ?

Unless she's a gymnast... :P

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What are your experiences? Do most WGs do it? For me, it would be a big turn off, if the girl wouldn't look at me while having sex.

Eye contact is very important to me except when in doggy when i dont like a mirror in case i see myself and put myself off. :eek: Although some WGs feel uncomfortable with intense eye contact so i dont pursue it with them some of my very best punts have been with WGs seemingly happy to offer it. Shamila ex of LMP was an all-time maintaining intense eye contact expert, an amazing turn-on i found.

So for me the more intense the eye contact the better if the WG seems ok with it, and its one of those things like dirty talk done without giggling thats guaranteed to get my going and coming back for more. :)

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Eye contact is very important to me except when in doggy when i dont like a mirror in case i see myself and put myself off. :eek: Although some WGs feel uncomfortable with intense eye contact so i dont pursue it with them some of my very best punts have been with WGs seemingly happy to offer it. Shamila ex of LMP was an all-time maintaining intense eye contact expert, an amazing turn-on i found.

So for me the more intense the eye contact the better if the WG seems ok with it, and its one of those things like dirty talk done without giggling thats guaranteed to get my going and coming back for more. :)

Ha,ha -- maybe bring along your own 'magic mirror ' ( together with your usual bag of goodies ) which makes you look fit and mean !! :D

Eye contact is something I have only recently become really aware of. If you get a nice connection going with the lady, it can be great ! :P

I try the eye contact thing when I am down under in RO but I often feel a bit foolish, like I'm putting my head over the trench top looking to see if an attack is coming !! :D

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I try the eye contact thing when I am down under in RO but I often feel a bit foolish, like I'm putting my head over the trench top looking to see if an attack is coming !! :D

LOL!!!

What are your experiences? Do most WGs do it? For me, it would be a big turn off, if the girl wouldn't look at me while having sex.

I definitely prefer eye contact. Not only is it a huge turn on for both parties, but it's also a good indicator of what's working for the gentlemen i.e. which technique makes his eyes roll to the back of his head...

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One thing I noticed recently, with one girl who was on top, was that every time you caught her eye the smile was switched on like turning a light switch, and switched off again when you weren't.

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A good many ladies find that eye contact during intercourse is just a bit too "personal", but are happy to keep their eye on me when engaged in Oral. I have to say that I love the eye to eye when being sucked and am happy to screw with both pairs of eyes shut.

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big turn on - love to have eye contact during sex but don't find too many girls will do it - the girl looking into my eyes while giving me oral is also very sexy

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A good many ladies find that eye contact during intercourse is just a bit too "personal", but are happy to keep their eye on me when engaged in Oral. I have to say that I love the eye to eye when being sucked and am happy to screw with both pairs of eyes shut.

That must be why I like it so much. Same with FK ! Funny enough I dont worry so much about eye contact in a BJ . I cant really see how WGs enjoy this ,so it doesnt mean much to me.

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the girl looking into my eyes while giving me oral is also very sexy

Couldn't agree more. My second-ever punting experience was made much more erotic for me by the frequent eye-contact, maintained even as I came <_<

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Eye contact is so very important! It's great to see someone enjoying themselves and I love to be looked at whilst engaging in "ahem" activities! What's not to love about eye contact.... well for me anyway!

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Ha,ha -- maybe bring along your own 'magic mirror ' ( together with your usual bag of goodies ) which makes you look fit and mean !! :D

Eye contact is something I have only recently become really aware of. If you get a nice connection going with the lady, it can be great ! :P

I try the eye contact thing when I am down under in RO but I often feel a bit foolish, like I'm putting my head over the trench top looking to see if an attack is coming !! :D

Very funny Cumandgo! I agree with Smiths that watching myself would be a massive turn off but assumed, like you, after another thread that he'd have a mirror in his punting bag!! Dont be cross Smiths just a funny thought.

I also occasionally look up during RO and your description of looking over the top, as it were, in a first world war trench is very apt!

Best BJ Ive ever had (apart from my wife last week - yeah right) was with Kinky La rue aka Buxom Brandy. The whole how many inches went in and was sucked, nibbled, bitten.........fantastic. And she had her eyes open watching me wriggle and squirm!

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LOL!!!

I definitely prefer eye contact. Not only is it a huge turn on for both parties, but it's also a good indicator of what's working for the gentlemen i.e. which technique makes his eyes roll to the back of his head...

Only the very best wgs would come up with a quote like this, and its also so true in my own experience

My best punts, and the girls who become regulars and seem to get the best overall feedback are the ones who arent afraid to make eye contact, or at least dont do their utmost to avoid it

I'm not talking about a staring contest inches from each others face during missionary, but even the odd fleeting look during moments of intimacy adds so much to the whole experience...............and as you say Jasmine, its very helpful from a practical perspective too !

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One thing I noticed recently, with one girl who was on top, was that every time you caught her eye the smile was switched on like turning a light switch, and switched off again when you weren't.

I'm so sorry but I literally laughed out loud when I read your post. It's a bit like playing peek-a-boo with a baby!

How did you manage to keep a straight face?

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I like eye contact, some guys are just so nervous they just lie there eyes screwed tightly shut, you wonder if they are not thinking just get it over with...............

There was this one client that would while on top get his fingers and prize my eyelids open further and start going on about how dilated my pupils were in relation to how aroused I was getting, I found this extremely creepy. I am wondering how I managed to fake dilated pupils as they were apparently getting bigger.

*shudders

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Eye contact during oral feels strangely contrived.

Eye contact during sex just makes me think of the scene at the end of "Matador". I can do it at work, I can do it at home, but it makes me self-conscious: do I look as weird as he looks right now?

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Eye contact during oral feels strangely contrived.

Eye contact during sex just makes me think of the scene at the end of "Matador". I can do it at work, I can do it at home, but it makes me self-conscious: do I look as weird as he looks right now?

Agree with you. Unless you already have a connection with the lady and get on really well,I always just think she is thinking " ok, better get into position to do the eye contact thing ! "

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Too much or too little eye contact can be equally off-putting. If someone won't look at me (or, worse, doesn't seem to realise there's anything to look at above my neck), I get a bit miffed and will generally start quipping and chatting until they acknowledge that they are not in the presence of a blow-up doll. But equally, if someone stares at me very intensely, I find it uncomfortable and begin to feel like an exhibit in a sideshow.

There's a happy medium. As mentioned above, making eye contact every so often, flashing one another cheeky, conspiratorial grins at the appropriate moment ... I think that's the way to do it.

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There's a happy medium. As mentioned above, making eye contact every so often, flashing one another cheeky, conspiratorial grins at the appropriate moment ... I think that's the way to do it.

Do you mean having a game of 'Who Blinks First' is not sexy and erotic? :P

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Eye contact is surely something that we can expect to have, as the face gives away the sence of pleasure you are recieving, I always enjoy the look on an escorts face when I give oral and likewise expect to get some eye contact back.

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There's a happy medium. As mentioned above, making eye contact every so often, flashing one another cheeky, conspiratorial grins at the appropriate moment ... I think that's the way to do it.

Do you know what I find off putting --- when 20/30 mins into the booking, you both suddenly hit that intimate eye contact moment and the lady says " Hi " !! Perfectly harmless I know and accept but its just false and so ... well .... cliched !! :D

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flashing one another cheeky, conspiratorial grins at the appropriate moment

That's sooo sexy!

Eyes are the most beautiful part of a woman and green eyes are the most alluring, every time her gaze meets yours, you see the flames of desire flickering within...delicious!

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