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I Cant Cum When Having Sex With My Wg

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hi yeah so I have this problem is it normal? I cant cum when having sex I would love to cum inside her but it hasnt happened yet. what am I doing wrong? I always feared that I would be one of them who cum too fast and it be all over but no I have the opposite where I can go for a long time but no joy. So i am abit down about this. I did the cowgirl positions and also missionary. I want to try another position like doggy but when I tryed for doggy she told me I wasnt hard enough for her. any one got any advice?

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hi yeah so I have this problem is it normal? I cant cum when having sex I would love to cum inside her but it hasnt happened yet. what am I doing wrong? I always feared that I would be one of them who cum too fast and it be all over but no I have the opposite where I can go for a long time but no joy. So i am abit down about this. I did the cowgirl positions and also missionary. I want to try another position like doggy but when I tryed for doggy she told me I wasnt hard enough for her. any one got any advice?

Any advice given will be dependent on many things, including any stress or worries you may have, your age, and any medication you might be on. Is this a problem you only have with wgs? Is it a problem that has only recently arisen? Do you have any underlying clinical conditions?

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Hi down. This subject has come up before so you certainly aren't alone. You can find one recent thread where it was discussed at some length here:

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hi yeah so I have this problem is it normal?

Yes.

any one got any advice?

Practice. Don't put pressure on yourself to perform - accept when you go in that you might or might not. You'll get the hang of it.

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I've had this issue.

For me it was down to the girl I found. When I was really physically attracted to someone I could cum quite easily. It also helps if you can find a WG with a bit of stamina on top.

Relaxing helped to, once it happened once I knew it would happen again which helped a lot. But if I'm with someone who doesn't turn me on, it just doesn't happen for me.

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It's ALL in the mind / brain / head, Guys !! ( as i learned from my favourite WG only quite recently ! ) Not REALLY where you think it is. The post about relaxing is spot on, Winto ;)

As an "oldie" myself, I have difficulty in cumming in a condom ( and therefore inside the WG, as I would NOT have it any other way theses days ! ) When I was in my sexual prime, AIDS / HIV had not even been thought of ( in the 70's, ) and the greatest risks then were pregnancy or "the clap" ! After the vasectomy, one of these barriers was removed, and "Thank the Lord" ( you with me here Rev ? ) the latter never got to me :D ( Jammy Sod ! )

SOOO, my more sexually active years never required me to wear a condom, so maybe that's why I I can't cum in one ?

Usually for me, AFTER penetrative sex, the damned thing HAS to come off, and allow me to cum anywhere else on or around the body that has brought me to this point :D

i hope the Ladies will understand all this, and make suitable allowances for "Older Gentlemen ?

Jack :ph34r:

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hi yeah so I have this problem is it normal? I cant cum when having sex I would love to cum inside her but it hasnt happened yet. what am I doing wrong? I always feared that I would be one of them who cum too fast and it be all over but no I have the opposite where I can go for a long time but no joy. So i am abit down about this. I did the cowgirl positions and also missionary. I want to try another position like doggy but when I tryed for doggy she told me I wasnt hard enough for her. any one got any advice?

Do you have such trouble with non WG partners ?

FWIW, I think this is pretty normal. Meeting a WG can be a stressful event if you are worried about being caught out. I occasionally struggle for a 2nd pop these days, but have no problem in simply admitting that is the case and asking the lady to finish me by hand or mouth. Lying back and getting a good handjob whilst being snogged is one of lifes great pleasures as far as I am concerned.

Don't beat yourself up about it. As others have said, relax. Find a girl you get on with and just go with the flow. Best of luck.

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i going to quit porn and masturbation and save myself for the lady then I can be more focused on her.

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i going to quit porn and masturbation and save myself for the lady then I can be more focused on her.

Sounds like a good start. I find if I haven't had a wank for about 3 days before a punt then I am at my peak. Any longer than that and I am on a bit of a hair trigger.

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Don’t masturbate/have sex for a fortnight then give it ago!

I’ve had similar problems where I seem to go on forever. I’ve put it down to a couple of things, alcohol and the girl.

Drinking is a common problem, never brewers droop but it reduces the sensitivity so you never reach ‘the moment’.

When I find a girl I really like I often concentrate on making them climax cus I love it when a girl orgasms. This has an adverse effect on me though, dam!!

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I've found that this is entirely down to how you connect with the woman, and whether she is your type. The first WG I ever saw was very expensive, and unbelievably beautiful. I mean drop dead gorgeous. But we just didn't click, I saw her three times but couldn't get aroused easily with her and never managed to come during sex. She was a very fast mover and was very forward which I now realise is not my type of girl. I took 2 years off the whole thing, thinking it would never work for me. But having recently dipped my toe back in, I've come to realise that I get much more turned on by the natural, friendly, girl next door type, if she is happy to go slowly with me, and for us to be gentle and tender with each other. That makes me feel connected, appeals to my romantic fantasy, and after 10 minutes of simple mutual caressing and soft kissing I am buzzing and ready to explode.

This is the beauty of sexuality, there is no right or wrong, no good or bad, just hundreds of different ways of expressing yourself in the bedroom and everyone needs to find the one that meshes with their sexual personality. Of course some people are more adaptable but I think most men have a type of woman that really appeals to them and when you meet her nothing will get in the way of your arousal and performance because it will just take over your whole senses.

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Sounds like a good start. I find if I haven't had a wank for about 3 days before a punt then I am at my peak. Any longer than that and I am on a bit of a hair trigger.

KK, now THERE'S honesty for you ! :D

Quite a few years since I was on a hair trigger, but nevertheless, it happened all too soon with my favourite WG not so long ago :(

As she has got used to me lasting rather longer, I think she was rather peeved with me for cumming so soon ( after only some of her brilliant oral, although OWO is usually a prelude, rather than the main event. Then I went and came without even getting into her ! I suppose it saved her a condom, though, to look on the bright side :) )

Jack :ph34r:

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KK, now THERE'S honesty for you ! :D

I don't imagine I'm the only guy (or gal) on here to take matters into his own hands now and again Jack ;) .

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I find I'm the opposite unfortunately and end up cumming too quickly a lot of the time. Either that, or I'm thinking about cumming too soon and end up losing my wood and trying to plug away with a semi until I give up and just cum via a hand job or something. I'd love to just relax and go with it but I hate cumming too soon so it preys on my mind.

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I find I'm the opposite unfortunately and end up cumming too quickly a lot of the time.

im glad to say thats not how it happens for me i would hate that even more.

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