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Why Is There Always A Feeling Of Regret And Guilt?

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Especially with the bad punts, I also consider the opportunity cost (ie what else I c

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Is there? "Tristesse" is usually seen as a female problem - me, when I leave a lady, I almost always leave with a spring in my step.

If I might make so bold as to imply a judgment, if a punter leaves with a feeling of R&G, then he may have been "using" a lady who hadn't freely chosen to see him?

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I feel crap after a poor appointment, anyone would. I also feel a 'come down. afterwards as deep down I know I am wasting my money on a quick thrill which does my no long-term favours and actually makes me more cynical about women and therefore less likely to meet a nice lass, which is what I really want.

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Especially with the bad punts, I also consider the opportunity cost (ie what else I c

I never feel guilt being selfish, i feel disappointment after a bad punt and immediately go see a regular, but not had any bad punts for a long time now. After a good punt i am walking on air.

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Especially with the bad punts, I also consider the opportunity cost (ie what else I c

The fees for this activity are high in comparision with something else you might do with the time. So if you have an average time for 150 pounds - imagine what else you could have done with that money - watched chelsea v barcelona and had a meal at an indian afterwards and still have enough money for a 1 hour therapeutic massage wiht HR at end - and you just wasted it on an indifferent clock watching eastern european trafficked whore with a podgy belly. Who wouldn't feel regrets.

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OP topped himself in mid-post?

Ah well, he was too good for this world.

It's the time wasted reading rubbish threads that makes me feel suici

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as regards opportunity cost, when i have to spend a large lump of cash on something, like car tax, i always think, i could have punted with that :(

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...... After a good punt i am walking on air.

For me, it lasts about 3 weeks, at best. :)

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I feel no guilt after seeing an escort because in my mind I have treated her with respect throughout our time together and everything that's occurred has happened between two consenting adults.

I never spend more than I can afford so feel no guilt with regards to the amount I spend.

If I were in a relationship then I just wouldn't punt.

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Regret/guilt are not good feelings to have after a visit - almost suggests you shouldn't be doing it. Me, i regret i can't visit more often and occasionally i feel a little guilty about running over, but i try to make up for that in other ways.

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It could be chemistry!

Many people experience a drop in serotonin levels during or just after having an orgasm. Serotonin is the neurotransmitter in the brain that helps maintain feelings of contentment or happiness. Serotonin is great for the mood, but too much of it is not good for sex.

Another physiological explanation for your feelings could be related to prolactin levels in the blood stream. Prolactin, a hormone related to fertility, can spike just after orgasm and this can cause a depressed mood, as well. One additional physical explanation comes by way of the amygdala, the structure in the brain that regulates the flight-or-fight response. During sex, the activity in the amygdala decreases, but after sex, there can sometimes be a rebound effect, where the amygdala becomes overactive for a period of time.

Or it could be guilt because a person is cheating on a partner or as said has felt he has 'used' the WG or indeed some deep rooted guilt complex about sex stemming from childhood.

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Let's face it-£150 in today's economy is a lot of money. I remember when I first started punting in Nov 2003 at the the Bel Air in West Hampstead, a very basic service cost £200. I wouldn't dream of spending that today in light of the on-going recession..

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Especially with the bad punts, I also consider the opportunity cost (ie what else I c

I only feel regret (but never guilt) after a particularly bad punt, and then its only regret at the thought of not having spent the money on a far more deserving wg

Thankfully, with much experience gained and a well developed potential 'bad punt radar', bad punts dont happen often these days

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yep...being highly selective is crucial.

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As an escort, I sometimes feel a bit guilty. My best clients make me cum several times, I make them cum once, they bring me chocolates, I give them no gifts.... And they pay me.

I know it makes sense to my clients, because they come back, but I regret that men can't have as many orgasms as I can.

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Let's face it-£150 in today's economy is a lot of money. I remember when I first started punting in Nov 2003 at the the Bel Air in West Hampstead, a very basic service cost £200. I wouldn't dream of spending that today in light of the on-going recession..

Well my punting has gone down in cost in the last 5 years and especially the last two, there arent many other things in my life that cost less than they did years ago.

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As an escort, I sometimes feel a bit guilty. My best clients make me cum several times, I make them cum once, they bring me chocolates, I give them no gifts.... And they pay me.

Make them cum twice or thrice and buy them a bottle of wine or a box of chocs Lara, that may help you with the guilt.

Lucy :)

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The fees for this activity are high in comparision with something else you might do with the time. So if you have an average time for 150 pounds - imagine what else you could have done with that money - watched chelsea v barcelona and had a meal at an indian afterwards and still have enough money for a 1 hour therapeutic massage wiht HR at end - and you just wasted it on an indifferent clock watching eastern european trafficked whore with a podgy belly. Who wouldn't feel regrets.

Even the ones who have bodies like models which fits your bill in every way can leave you feeling dissappointed.

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Well, I was raised in a very strict Christian environment. From as early as I can remember, I had people all around me telling me how to act, how to speak, how to dress, how to think even. Around age 14 I got tired of that shit and went out on my own and have since decided what I do/do not believe, etc.

I still struggle with guilt - not in a way of feeling guilty over what I am doing per se - but it's more like if I feel like I hadn't worked hard enough in a day, or gotten enough done, didn't work out, ate a cookie, etc etc. I honestly think it is still left over from my church days. I was told for so long I had to be a certain way and if I wasn't, it was wrong. So now that is translated into if I think I am not living the way I should live, I feel extreme guilt.

So maybe yours is something similar to this?

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Interesting, Madison. I never feel guilt about anything...even when I am guilty! I put that down to my non-religious upbringing...oh, and being a callous bastard. As for feeling shit after a lousy punt, well, of course, the same if I'd had a rubbish and expensive night out.

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I never feel guilt being selfish, i feel disappointment after a bad punt and immediately go see a regular,

yeah I some times have to do that to clear the air

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Interesting, Madison. I never feel guilt about anything...even when I am guilty! I put that down to my non-religious upbringing...oh, and being a callous bastard. As for feeling shit after a lousy punt, well, of course, the same if I'd had a rubbish and expensive night out.

Well it is something I work on. on a daily basis to overcome - like even if I do set goals for myself and I fail to achieve what I want, I have to allow myself to be human.

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OP topped himself in mid-post?.....................

Or maybe his other half came in and he's still sitting there, but with a cleaver imbedded in his skull!

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as regards opportunity cost, when i have to spend a large lump of cash on something, like car tax, i always think, i could have punted with that :(

Now, ain’t that the truth. A new set of tyres at £230 a wheel. Just think what else I could have done with that money!!

Regrets, I’ve had a few, but then again, too few to mention …….....

Edited by Calynx

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and you just wasted it on an indifferent clock watching eastern european trafficked whore with a podgy belly. Who wouldn't feel regrets.

Ow, that's harsh!

For myself, on the very odd occasion I've had a unsuccessful meeting then I've felt disappointed as I could've used that valuable opportunity to visit a regular for a guaranteed great experience instead. Then I think about the wasted money!

Edited by Grendel22

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