sugabsheffield

Chancer's, Just Had My First One

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Saturday night, I had been contacted earlier in the day by client who got my number from **. Sounded genuine, discussed times, fees, location, clothing etc. He was doing a trade job which ran over time and kept me informed throughout. So it sounded fine, anyway he arrived, immediately got on my case about my pics not being of me, which they ate, they are all self taken!! And I've asked my other clients if they think my pics are a good representation and they say they are!! So then he starts saying, well you're a big girl, so I said wtf do you mean by that? My stats on the other site show I'm no polly pocket, but he just kept going on. Then he got it out and wanted me to play, so I was like 'I think you had better leave', which thank fully he did. It concerns me, as I know I could look after myself if push came to shove but if I couldn't would he have taken advantage? I think I was just a bit shocked as well as it's the first time this has happened, and it's not nice to have someone who you don't want in your home. So my question is anyone had this happen and how did you deal with it?

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Really sorry to hear that sugab, it sounds like a horrible experience. Good job you are assertive enough to deal with it.

I'd look back now and think 'Were there any clues I missed there, were there any teeny little indicators that it might not be quite okay?'

Hindsight is a great learning tool. Or it may be that you just got very, very unlucky.

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I usually filter guys like that out along the way... I can only be contacted (initially) by email, so that helps for a start.

The ones that do get through, I kill and then bury them under the patio. :D

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Really sorry to hear that sugab, it sounds like a horrible experience. Good job you are assertive enough to deal with it.

I'd look back now and think 'Were there any clues I missed there, were there any teeny little indicators that it might not be quite okay?'

Hindsight is a great learning tool. Or it may be that you just got very, very unlucky.

It's funny, but since I've been reading this forum and others it's certainly helped me weed out the weirdo's! So perhaps I was just unlucky! I don't think there were any indicators, and that's why it came as a surprise!

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I usually filter guys like that out along the way... I can only be contacted (initially) by email, so that helps for a start.

The ones that do get through, I kill and then bury them under the patio. :D

Had to laugh at that!!! I have only just started having my number displayed as it has seemed to bring more work my way, previously just working on email was much slower, and I also advertise elsewhere with my contact number.

Maybe location dictates success, and where I am contact numbers certainly help. I only have it on the other site when I'm working so that should help!

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Saturday night, I had been contacted earlier in the day by client who got my number from **. Sounded genuine, discussed times, fees, location, clothing etc. He was doing a trade job which ran over time and kept me informed throughout. So it sounded fine, anyway he arrived, immediately got on my case about my pics not being of me, which they ate, they are all self taken!! And I've asked my other clients if they think my pics are a good representation and they say they are!! So then he starts saying, well you're a big girl, so I said wtf do you mean by that? My stats on the other site show I'm no polly pocket, but he just kept going on. Then he got it out and wanted me to play, so I was like 'I think you had better leave', which thank fully he did. It concerns me, as I know I could look after myself if push came to shove but if I couldn't would he have taken advantage? I think I was just a bit shocked as well as it's the first time this has happened, and it's not nice to have someone who you don't want in your home. So my question is anyone had this happen and how did you deal with it?

Sounds like a right arsehole, glad to hear she dealt with him and he fucked off. :)

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Saturday night, I had been contacted earlier in the day by client who got my number from **. Sounded genuine, discussed times, fees, location, clothing etc. He was doing a trade job which ran over time and kept me informed throughout. So it sounded fine, anyway he arrived, immediately got on my case about my pics not being of me, which they ate, they are all self taken!! And I've asked my other clients if they think my pics are a good representation and they say they are!! So then he starts saying, well you're a big girl, so I said wtf do you mean by that? My stats on the other site show I'm no polly pocket, but he just kept going on. Then he got it out and wanted me to play, so I was like 'I think you had better leave', which thank fully he did. It concerns me, as I know I could look after myself if push came to shove but if I couldn't would he have taken advantage? I think I was just a bit shocked as well as it's the first time this has happened, and it's not nice to have someone who you don't want in your home. So my question is anyone had this happen and how did you deal with it?

Thank you for being honest about not being a "polly pocket", Sugababe ;)

Soo many are NOT these days that i am often disappointed to find a size 8/10 on the profile turns out to be a 14/16 :mad:

Jack :ph34r:

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Oh you poor thing. I can usually spot the dickheads beforehand on the phone, but a clever one will slip through the net. You sound as if you handled it really well, just rely on instinct and be assertive again is all I can suggest. Sadly there are a few idiots out there, but they are few and far between. Don't let this one get you down.

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Sugab.....

Are you a newish escort?

You could have a read of SAFFE forum, or join it as well if you need any help in any areas of what you do.

The back up is there, if only by other ladies showing support for you by words of type.

Lucy :)

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Thank you for being honest about not being a "polly pocket", Sugababe ;)

Soo many are NOT these days that i am often disappointed to find a size 8/10 on the profile turns out to be a 14/16 :mad:

Jack :ph34r:

Your obvious concern for the Lady is overwhelming !!!!

Good for you Sugab - pity you didn't bury his balls up his arse!!

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The ones that do get through, I kill and then bury them under the patio. :D

LOL that made me chuckle, :D

Seriously I am sorry to hear that Sugarb, must of been an awful experience ,

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So my question is anyone had this happen and how did you deal with it?

I'm so sorry that you had a moron. It's not nice, especially not in your home.

I don't work from home, except webcam. My home is my sanctuary and I wouldn't want to risk anything affecting how I feel in my home.

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Sugab.....

Are you a newish escort?

You could have a read of SAFFE forum, or join it as well if you need any help in any areas of what you do.

The back up is there, if only by other ladies showing support for you by words of type.

Lucy :)

Thats at www.saafe.info/ :)

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Sugab.....

Are you a newish escort?

You could have a read of SAFFE forum, or join it as well if you need any help in any areas of what you do.

The back up is there, if only by other ladies showing support for you by words of type.

Lucy :)

Hi Lucy,

yes I am newish! I quite often read the forum and find some good pointers on there. I think i will put a post this client as a warning because as I said if I had been unable to defend myself it could have had a very sorry ending.

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i personally have seen sugabsheffield and her pictures and details are very accurate so considering the amount of garbage on that site, its sad that the a hole had a go at one of the genuine posters on there.

He shud have just laid back and enjoyed sugab's magic hands and oral skills, now he's gonna appear on the 'abolute wankers' list and maybe lose out on future punts

actually sugab gets 10 out of 10 on many aspects, her house is very nice, easy to slip into without being spotted, photo's and details accurate, she's a lovely lady, very nice to talk to, cheap price etc so ppl shudnt be rude, she gives genuine pics and info so if ppl aint happy then go somewhere else but dont be rude, thats just bang out of order. Then the cheeky bastard still expects some action! Hes lucky she didnt bite his bits off

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when u think about the stories of people getting robbed via a w, and booking indians only to find eastern europeans, its really sad that he wud be such an ass hole to such a genuine wg. There are far more worries in my mind that whether someone is a bit more photogenic in their pics than in real life. That guy was an absolute tosser who gives punters a bad name and i recommend u expose him sugab so that he struggles to find someone else, also dont forget to leave him negative feedback too on his profile so others wont book him. Even if u didnt book, u can still leave feedback

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