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Is the nerve thing one sided?I'm just waiting for a cab to take me to an outcall and my stomach is full of butterflies!Is it only on the escort side that you get this nervy/fear/excitement adrenaline buzz thing, or does it go for punters too?

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No it's NOT one sided :unsure:

I get butterflies in my tummy even when going to see a Lady I have seen before :) Even more so with a "new" one for me ;)

Maybe it's just the "rush" of adrenaline/anticipation/buzz thing, but whatever it is, I rather LIKE it :D

Hope you have a good time with your outcall appointment, SSN :)

Jack :ph34r:

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Hell if i didn't get that buzz before & after, never mind during, i think i'd give up with this hobby! In fact, same old, same old - come to think of it i might give up!!

Just kidding :D The anticipation is a big part of it for me. Just this morning i've arranged to see a Lady on Saturday morning, quite unexpectedly, it has to be said, and the excitement for me is already building or should that be 'on the up' :P

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The anticipation is a big part of it for me. Just this morning i've arranged to see a Lady on Saturday morning, quite unexpectedly, it has to be said, and the excitement for me is already building or should that be 'on the up' :P

Contain yourself man.

Keep sat down..........

Lucy :)

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Is the nerve thing one sided?I'm just waiting for a cab to take me to an outcall and my stomach is full of butterflies!Is it only on the escort side that you get this nervy/fear/excitement adrenaline buzz thing, or does it go for punters too?

I rarely get nervous, the last time was before my first party when i was terrified. Excited anticipation of the fun to come sums it up. As long as i continue to get a buzz i will punt. :)

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I rarely get nervous, the last time was before my first party when i was terrified. Excited anticipation of the fun to come sums it up. As long as i continue to get a buzz i will punt. :)

To be fair Smiths, it's anticipation with me rather than nerves. Long may it continue. :)

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Contain yourself man.

Keep sat down..........

Lucy :)

Errr :unsure:

Do you mean "sitting down" Lucy ?

I know we're both Yorkshire folks ..... but "SAT" down ? :wacko:

Jack :ph34r:

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You can sit on my face any time you like, btw Lucy :D

Jack :ph34r:

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Do you mean "sitting down" Lucy ?

I know we're both Yorkshire folks ..... but "SAT" down ? :wacko:

Jack :ph34r:

Actually I am a southerner.

Thanks for correcting my grammar though Jack me Lad.

Lucy :)

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I've been in the business for 14 years now and still get nervous when I meet someone new.

It just proves that you are human and being a little nervous, for me, can enhance the excitement and make for a good encounter.

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Actually I am a southerner.

Thanks for correcting my grammar though Jack me Lad.

Lucy :)

SORRREE Lucy,

I had not realised you were from Darn Sarth, me lass, and I don't mind at all introducing you to the pleasures of an open air shag "On Ilkley Moor Bar Tat" if you would like to try that ? :D

Never mind the grammar, Lass, just so long as you don't mind an Old Man between your legs ? :)

Jack :ph34r:

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I have been doing this over 4 years, and I always get nervous on an out-call for a first time client. Mainly it is bc I am worried for my safety of course, also, bc I am a control freak so I guess I feel less in control in an out-call situation as it is not my own place.

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It all went swimmingly!Needn't have worried, in fact he confessed that he had a glass of wine to calm himself before hand - so yup, it's both sides :)

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I've been nervous on the first visit to a girl - you don't know what she's really like until you actually meet her, after all, and then there's the worry of going somewhere you haven't been to before, what it's going to be like...and will you get there on time! With regulars it's like visiting a friend, so it's much more relaxed.

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I thought I didnt get nervous as such anymore ( only anticipation ) but I was planking for a couple of hours recently before the booking but then happily relaxed as soon as the door opened.So yep, I get nervous sometimes . :)

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It all went swimmingly!Needn't have worried, in fact he confessed that he had a glass of wine to calm himself before hand - so yup, it's both sides :)

Good to hear it went well. :)

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Is the nerve thing one sided?I'm just waiting for a cab to take me to an outcall and my stomach is full of butterflies!Is it only on the escort side that you get this nervy/fear/excitement adrenaline buzz thing, or does it go for punters too?

Part of the attraction, the Excitement!

With first-time meetings new Ladies, especially,

but even with regulars: there is always some jitters.

The Excitement, and a lot of strong coffee, sometimes a littel shared alcohol, make for the good Orgasms and the relaxing sleep afterwards.

Edited by ptrleeds

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I love that sense of slightly nervous anticipation just before meeting a WG for the first time. It's still there after 5 years as a punter. Long may it last. In fact if it all becomes commonplace, I may well consider packing it all in.

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I am very chilled out and relaxed really in all areas of my life, but I still get quite nervous though when meeting someone new.

Not quite sure why really, I suppose it is just as even though I get to know a little bit about a gentleman new to me before we actually meet up, that nervy feeling of not truly knowing who is going to be knocking on my door.

I think if all became matter of fact to me, I would feel like KK above typed in his last sentence.

Lucy :)

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I rarely get nervous, the last time was before my first party when i was terrified. Excited anticipation of the fun to come sums it up. As long as i continue to get a buzz i will punt. :)

Was that your first birthday party, Smiths?

I was thinking about the nervousness this morning. Isn't part of it the fact of both being naked together, with none of the social props like clothes and possessions which talk for us?

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I'm nervous about meeting new clients, sometimes, but not other times. Having a chat with them whilst I watch them approaching my building makes them seem familiar.

Nervous people make me nervous, unless I know why they're nervous.

If I have an unusual booking, I'm nervous about making mistakes. BDSM bookings make me nervous about causing injury & being prosecuted.

Generally, the nerves are short-lived, and then there is a kind of catharsis - generally an orgasm, or intense arousal.

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SORRREE Lucy,

I had not realised you were from Darn Sarth, me lass, and I don't mind at all introducing you to the pleasures of an open air shag "On Ilkley Moor Bar Tat" if you would like to try that ? :D

Never mind the grammar, Lass, just so long as you don't mind an Old Man between your legs ? :)

Jack :ph34r:

You hattist!

*Scowls*

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Surprised to hear WGs say they get nervous..... even sometimes (assuming you're not brand new to the game)

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Surprised to hear WGs say they get nervous..... even sometimes (assuming you're not brand new to the game)

It goes to show that WGs are just like real people - fancy that! ;)

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