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Have I Missed Something,or Are English Girls And Women In General Getting A Bashing On Here At The Moment?!

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Reading through the threads, of course people can express their opinion.

But COME ON....why are some people lumping all women together through their own empirical evidence? Men wouldn't like it if I did the same.

I hope that these people are just doing it as a wind up as it's actually quite sad if they are not.

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Nope, they are not getting a "bashing" any more than women of other nationalities.

If you think it is a bashing, you should have seen the brouhaha on the old PNMB. By comparison, posters now look like they are all on Prozac with their nice fluffy views to one another.

Just saying ...

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OP, whilst I thank you for ceasing your infantile replies to me, I find myself needing to reply to this.

I do not group all women as the same. I often specify in my posts with the adjective 'some' in what appears now to be a futile effort to avoid the fury of individuals like yourself.

If you wish to debate, fine. However, if you wish to scream, shout, hurl insults and generally behave like a rowdy chav, I'll not be conversing with you.

Ironic that someone 'defending' English ladies and claiming the chav and ladette problem is vastly overstated appears to be able to behave in such a manner rather easily...

Edited by Mr Bastard

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Reading through the threads, of course people can express their opinion.

But COME ON....why are some people lumping all women together through their own empirical evidence? Men wouldn't like it if I did the same.

I hope that these people are just doing it as a wind up as it's actually quite sad if they are not.

KSG is right, Student S. Those were the days, though I rarely felt moved to enter the lists there and take on the barbed lances that would follow.

However, 'taking the mick' is rife on this board now, as then, and much of it well deserved - but few of the posters appear to be as sensible or even-handed as you do, so just shrug and ignore them. There are a lot of very genuine people here who have problems and find that posting on this board is both cathartic and therapeutic for them. Not everyone is able to or prepared to empathise with them (often including yours truly), which can result in barbs or teasing. But it's just a talking shop for people who (mostly) share the same hobby, whether service providers or seekers, and it is a mistake to take anything written here to seriously.

English girls and women are great, it's just that some are greater than others. (But the same goes for oriental, ebony, latin and EE girls, as well).

Sorry for sounding fluffy - I promise to be a right bastard next time. :P

Edited by Tiggy 7

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There are a lot of very genuine people here who have problems and find that posting on this board is both cathartic and therapeutic for them. Not everyone is able to or prepared to empathise with them (often including yours truly), which can result in barbs or teasing. But it's just a talking shop for people who (mostly) share the same hobby, whether service providers or seekers, and it is a mistake to take anything written here to seriously.

This.

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Yes. I am a chav. You have found out my secret.

Thanks the rest for explaining it well...Tiggy, I get it now, thank you!x

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Reading through the threads, of course people can express their opinion.

But COME ON....why are some people lumping all women together through their own empirical evidence? Men wouldn't like it if I did the same.

I hope that these people are just doing it as a wind up as it's actually quite sad if they are not.

Certainly no more than usual in my experience, those that have been have every right to post their opinions which can be challenged. There has been some lumping of people together which i have replied to on ocassion over recent months, as in reality its all individual which it appears to me, a few male and female posters dont seem to understand. Lots of "we", "us" and "them" being posted but its always been like this and in fact worse over the years that i have been a member. :)

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the chav and ladette problem

Hey Mr B, just be glad you don't live in California where the women are vacuous, money-grabbing & self-obsessed!!! :D;)

(according to this parody video)

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Are English girls getting a bashing???

My regular is english.

Majority of girls Ive seen more than once have been English,

Majority of my FRs are for English girls......

But I punt with girls who interest me and "arouse" me obviously.... can I help it if a majoirty of the girls who I enjoy, have a great time with. see again, do FRs for turn out to be biased as English.? ;)

Its not my fault...just the way the stats and results turned out..

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Reading through the threads, of course people can express their opinion.

But COME ON....why are some people lumping all women together through their own empirical evidence? Men wouldn't like it if I did the same.

I hope that these people are just doing it as a wind up as it's actually quite sad if they are not.

I'm not sure about English women in particular, as I tend to stop following threads once they disintegrate into a back-and-forth of 'you're an idiot' -- 'No, you are'. Riveting.

There is however a low-level misogyny present most of the time on the board, which probably gives us a reasonable cross section of society as a whole and its sexist undertones. I am forever glad and grateful to note that this is often policed and challenged by the decent punters who make up the majority of the members on here, and the mods respond promptly and appropriately to anything that's reported (but they can't be everywhere at all times, and I think we know that.) There are things men have said about women on this board which turn my stomach, and no doubt they think nothing of it -- but thankfully one of the best things about meeting new men on a daily basis is that I get to reaffirm just how few of them are like that. Decent human beings account for 95% of my clients, and I do a little dance of gratitude after every one (if I've got the energy!).

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Opposite for me. I bash Eastern Europeans. Generally, in my area, they look a notch up the beauty scale compared to the rest of the escorts there but my God, they're emotionless, blunt and difficult. English girls, on the other hand, are a joy to be around. They're funny and fun. Tender yet naughty. Willing to please. Just generally a pleasure to spend time with. These days, when searching on the other site, I add "english" as a search option for the escorts first language.

But again, as others say, this is just my opinion and of course others will differ and that's fine by me.

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Opposite for me. I bash Eastern Europeans. Generally, in my area, they look a notch up the beauty scale compared to the rest of the escorts there but my God, they're emotionless, blunt and difficult. English girls, on the other hand, are a joy to be around. They're funny and fun. Tender yet naughty. Willing to please. Just generally a pleasure to spend time with. These days, when searching on the other site, I add "english" as a search option for the escorts first language.

But again, as others say, this is just my opinion and of course others will differ and that's fine by me.

To my surprise, this is a really great thread. If it hadn't been for a slightly paternalistic interest in OP, I probably would have passed right over it, as I do with most threads with titles that sound too 'obvious' or 'forced', and scrolled on to the few that did. Ordinarily, these would rarely have anything much to do with either P4P or NSA sex with women who come from backgrounds like mine and predominate in the in my day-to-day civilian life. When I seek extra-marital sexual relief (sadly, I still crave the 'relief' that my lovely wife has been unable to offer for many years), I slip into a phone booth, shed my street clothes and don my blue tights and the blue sweatshirt with a big red 'S' on it and fly off to rescue oriental maidens in distress. That both dates me for anyone under the age of 50 and also demonstrates yet again that some men really never grow up.

In any case, a title reading:

Have I Missed Something,or Are English Girls And Women In General Getting A Bashing On Here At The Moment?!

ordinarily would be given a miss, but:

1. I am not really surprised but certainly impressed at the articulate and well thought-out comments of practically all the contributors - sensible, sensitive, understanding and mature. Okay, Mr Bastard needs help, probably of a kind that only a professional therapist can supply, but he tells enough about himself that we all can 'see where he's coming from' and what he hopes will be his destination. He sets up an emotional slalom course for himself and then proceeds to head directly into every gate. But he's here because he's here and he has my sympathy, even though he makes it all but impossible to feel empathy with him.

2. English (and American, with whom I am even more familiar), women are terrific and when I read threads like this I recognise that I give up something when I have a brief afternoon tryst with a Thai WG here in London or spend several weeks with a Thai girlfriend in Thailand. The opportunity to communicate in a (more or less) common tongue - I tend to find pleasant alternative uses for my tongue with Thai maidens, however - and discuss not just matters of the heart (however ephemeral), but current affairs, shared cultural interests, contemporary mores and folkways, personal problems of a variety of sorts or just plain chatter. However, I am able to meet those needs, fully-clad, with family and friends of both sexes and of varied ages and see my own oriental studies being far more appealing than enrolling at SOAS at a concessionary rate.

3. Despite my years of life experience, I usually end up learning something interesting or useful to me every day that I log onto the PunterNet UK Forum. Something I would not come across from any other source or in conversation. I recognise that I, too, must still have a need or two beyond those that are obvious to me - like why I seem to have a need to get things like this off my chest. So beware if you start spotting new threads here initiated by me with titles having to do with anything other than locating, identifying and ravishing oriental women.

In any case, thank you once again, G, and thank you OP!

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, as I tend to stop following threads once they disintegrate into a back-and-forth of 'you're an idiot' -- 'No, you are'. Riveting.

They are generally a waste of internet space i agree, but sometimes it's like the car crash scenario.....no matter how bad, you just can't stop watching!!! :lol:

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Some people have some weird beliefs on here...you need to ignore them. Ignore anything that doesn't resonate with you. That's the only way you'll get through life because no matter where you are, whether it be here or in real life, you will come across people with different views to your own. Being asian, racism is something i've had to deal with my whole life. Imagine how fucked up i'd be if i hadn't learnt how to ignore it.

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Some people have some weird beliefs on here...you need to ignore them. Ignore anything that doesn't resonate with you. That's the only way you'll get through life because no matter where you are, whether it be here or in real life, you will come across people with different views to your own. Being asian, racism is something i've had to deal with my whole life. Imagine how fucked up i'd be if i hadn't learnt how to ignore it.

I see what you're saying (though I don't claim to understand, being in possession of white privilege -- I can only try and sympathise as a member of the second-class gender group) but it makes me a little sad and angry. You shouldn't have to ignore it, though I'm sure it's often the only option as it is with women. I just want more of the people from the privileged groups (male, white, heterosexual, middle-class) to hold their own to account and say "No, actually, you are not allowed to treat people as if they're not as good as you," because it is much more difficult to do that and be taken seriously if you're the disenfranchised person.

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I see what you're saying (though I don't claim to understand, being in possession of white privilege -- I can only try and sympathise as a member of the second-class gender group) but it makes me a little sad and angry. You shouldn't have to ignore it, though I'm sure it's often the only option as it is with women. I just want more of the people from the privileged groups (male, white, heterosexual, middle-class) to hold their own to account and say "No, actually, you are not allowed to treat people as if they're not as good as you," because it is much more difficult to do that and be taken seriously if you're the disenfranchised person.

i totally agree. Ignoring it has been a coping skill for me, but you are right, we shouldn't have to. Instead the people that make these generalizations should be taught about eqaulity and come to the understanding that they are no better than anyone else. Unfortunately this is not an ideal world and there will always be the odd few people that honestly believe they are superior. Those are the people i ignore

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i also find it strange that the main argument for the english girl bashing was chavs and weatherspoons. i wonder if any of these people have even ever seen a weatherspoons...

because if they had they would notice that the customer base is not just white females....but that there are just as many males (if not more) there too. and people from different races.

gotta love those generalizations.

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i also find it strange that the main argument for the english girl bashing was chavs and weatherspoons. i wonder if any of these people have even ever seen a weatherspoons...

Indeed.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with your run-of-the-mill JD Wetherspoons. Cheap food, fairly cheap drink, warm surroundings, a couple of widescreen TVs, and they don't kick you out after you are done. It beats living at home if you are a pensioner, student or on the dole..

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Tiggy 7 - you are my new favourite poster! I bet you're great fun to have a drink with.

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Tiggy 7 - you are my new favourite poster! I bet you're great fun to have a drink with.

Sorry, I'm under age. Got asked for my ID in Florida by a check-out clerk who was young enough to be my granddaughter while buying a couple of bottles of wine, which made my day. I attribute it all to a lifetime of punting pleasure. ;) Edited by Tiggy 7

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Sorry, I'm under age. Got asked for my ID in Florida by a check-out clerk who was young enough to be my granddaughter while buying a couple of bottles of wine, which made my day. I attribute it all to a lifetime of punting pleasure. ;)

Well, I'm no more than 20 on the inside! The outside, however, is of a considerably greater vintage...and I don't mean like a fine wine either :(

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If you are beautiful does what it says on the tin and you charge less you are a successful WG. English or not. A beautiful woman with strong character an ever ever extending service list could make a fortune in this business. Call House of Divine on ........................ it's all there for you and Mr Divine needs a new speedboat !!!!!!!!!!

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Not a lot different to those that run down woman because of their age/shape.......

Thank gawd most of those misogynists have done one,

Used to annoy me but now I just think thank fook you are not going to turn up on my doorstep...........I attract those who appreciate me for me, if I am not your type then move along to someone that is.......no need to be spiteful to those that are not your ideal, we are all adored by someone

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Not a lot different to those that run down woman because of their age/shape.......

Thank gawd most of those misogynists have done one,

Used to annoy me but now I just think thank fook you are not going to turn up on my doorstep...........I attract those who appreciate me for me, if I am not your type then move along to someone that is.......no need to be spiteful to those that are not your ideal, we are all adored by someone

I am a bit torn because to me Punting encourages shallow behaviour ie the search for body beautiful. I was a tad sarcastic in my post above but that's what I believe. I detect a lot of misogyny and pure resentment on here though when there is little negative comment aimed to us men. In a way Punting has cured me of shallowness in the real world.

Edited by Vulvasailor

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I dont think any group of wg's in particular have been targeted on here. If you look around the forum both EE and British/English girls all get praise and a bashing in equal measures. Its ignorance in some cases, where generalisations are being thrown about etc Some punters do have 'favs' like Oriental or Spanish wg's....all good, each to their own etc

In much the same way that 'cheaper' girls who tend to be EE also get a bashing on here, horses for courses eh

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