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Does Anyone Actually Enjoy A Good Heatlhy Sex Life.....

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...in the "real world" or even just "good sex" for that matter....I ask due to the number of what would appear negative threads on here recently regarding the same...

I can honestly say that in terms of sexual expereience's and social encounters....I have been lucky enough to enjoy the majority of my time both in and out of the real world....surely I cannot be the only one?

People may ask "why do you punt then"....my answer to that is "because I love to, I enjoy it as part of my life schedule" (is that so bad)...nothing better then the spontaneous meeting, that leaves you on the edge in mind and body (and this is just the thought process before you even meet)....

Be interested to hear others comments....

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i dont experience any of that for various reasons. so thats why I punt.

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I'd imagine that those who are punting because of a lack of real world sex post about it here because we don't have anywhere else to talk/moan about it. Except for the occasional WG who ends up listening to our tales of woe, bless 'em!

Those who are punting because they're single or supplementing the sex they have with their partner are probably just getting on with enjoying it!

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I do! He has to go to work, so seeing clients helps, when I get free time during the day.

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Great question - I was going to ask this.

I suppose I don't count paid sex - no matter how much fun you have with it - at the end of the day sex is really most satisfying as part of a relationship with someone you love and have the hots for.

So my answer is - no!

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nope. I used to enjoy good success with the ladies but i find it too difficult walking up to a lady in a club and dancing with her and getting her details etc, i used to meet a hot girl every six months or so, at college or work or randomly and id have a few months relationship before arguements start and back to square one, single, not confident enough to pull down town, and waiting round for the next hot girl to show up in my life for a few months. Or id get totally drunk and end up sleeping with girls im not even attracted to because i didnt have the confidence to pull the girls who were nice looking.

Punting enables me to have sex with stunning girls, no hassle, no chase, no waiting for months for chance encounters, no getting bored of the same girl everyday, no commitment that gets in the way of my studies, no arguements, no rejection, no heart break (apart from when i get a bit attached to a wg and have to fight that feeling), wgs seem the perfect option in this day and age for me. So my sex life outside of punting has dropped to non existent. And i cudnt be happier

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Aside from three very brief - literally two weeks - 'relationships' (can't think of an appropriate word, fling maybe), I've not had intimacy since becomming single almost a decade ago.

I rarely approach women for reasons I've stated in other threads. The only realistic opportunity for me to have a sex life is with escorts.

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In response to the original question ....

No, I don't. This is why I punt. This is why I am glad of the opportunity so to do.

Uncle Pokey

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I don't either, now. But I still punted even when I did. Just a way of life for me.

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To answer the original question:

Yes, mostly with very beautiful Thai girls who seem to enjoy my company, although not as much as enjoy them of course.

Otherwise, as an older man, I would have to spend a lot of time cultivating women closer to my age, who I don't find attractive or have any interest in.

Punting costs less than option 2 above, I am excited by meeting all these different girls, and I enjoy a much better sex life.

No contest I think?

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What is a normal sex life anyway? I include punting as part of that...

Don't get me wrong, I love my other half's cooking but also enjoy the odd take-away.

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Yep - I enjoy a good healthy sex life....each time I see a WG. I am deadly serious!!

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even when i was getting some free sex, and I met her through punting, was still seeing wgs, Dont have a healthy sex life in the sense of getting enough, or even with the right person. Its all vey ersatz at the moment.

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I have a great sex life with my wife, who i think most men (and women) would describe as a beautiful and sexy woman. However she's not a five foot nothing oriental girl, and sometimes that's what I fancy. In fact a lot of the time if I'm honest :-)

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I have a great sex life with my wife, who i think most men (and women) would describe as a beautiful and sexy woman. However she's not a five foot nothing oriental girl, and sometimes that's what I fancy. In fact a lot of the time if I'm honest :-)

:D :D Don't worry, Red, there are a few of us out there who know exactly what you are getting on about. Opposites attract, but so do 'likes' - why discriminate against either one?? :P

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sorry to be picky but thats scientifically incorrect as likes repel :-D i share the sentiment punter wise though. Variety is the spice of life :D

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sorry to be picky but thats scientifically incorrect as likes repel :-D i share the sentiment punter wise though. Variety is the spice of life :D

Jon, Isaac Newton and I were undergraduates together and you've got it all wrong. But, to your credit, you show the potential to become a fast learner at punting, which is infinitely more important, so keep up the good work! ;)

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not with my partner but I have a lady friend that requires servicing from time to time and she has a very healthy appetite

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I did then with time it started to fade

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Not with the missus, she's just not interested, I think she'd rather have a cup of tea and a hobnob. Have had some success using illicitencounters.com but it's a lot of work for sometimes no return. My job allows me to afford weekly punts so I guess the answer is yes.

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i have a great sex life with my partner.....i wouldn't be with her otherwise.

i just like the variety and cannot get my head around 100% monogamy for the rest of my life.....i would be gutted if she found out about my "hobby" and ever decided it was a relationship killer - i certainly do not have affairs with civvies, just the occasional paid for punt - which i personally see no problem with (and yes, before anyone asks i wouldn't mind if i found out she had paid for a punt with a guy or girl - in fact I would love us to see WG's together but haven't got the courage to ask!)

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I presume this thread is directed at the punters, but I'd be interested to know how some of the other ladies think of their sex 'lives' (there are effectively two, after all, a work one and a personal one.)

I know some ladies keep them entirely separate. Mine blend into one another from time to time where work becomes something that's a personal pleasure (I do enjoy a good IWFYFFD*) or personal liaisons become influenced by what I've been doing at work ("So I'd like to try something new. Don't be alarmed by the midget or the fish**.")

I think my sex life is pretty healthy. When I first started working I thought that my sex drive would be mopped up by work, and that I'd spend my evenings feigning headaches and so on to avoid sexing the partners in my private lives, but my capacity seems to have increased along with demand.

[*The lesser-spotted 'I would fuck you for free, Darling!' ;)]

[** A technique borrowed from LondonLydia!]

Edited by Curious Rose

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but I'd be interested to know how some of the other ladies think of their sex 'lives' (there are effectively two, after all, a work one and a personal one

My sex life is good at home, we do not do full sex all the time but mess around loads.

Inviting another guy in to our sex life has become the norm though for us about two times a week.

I find we sex each other up more than make love though at present when alone.

Before we got naughty we made love all the time, now we make lust......but we still love each other!

I get my lovey dovey fix off a couple of regular gentleman callers......strange but true.

Lucy :)

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