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How Long Does The Sex Last For?

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I know every ones diffirent and some people can go for longer some people come too fast and all the rest of it but I just wondered how long the sex normally lasts for. Say most of the time you get half an hour so does this mean you get 30 mins of sex? or does the massage take most of the time up?. How long does the sex last? From my experience I have never timed it but I normally get around 5-7 minutes worth of sex I would say on my 30 min slot.

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I dunno - I take my watch off to avoid scratching the lady with the strap, so I don't have access to its stopwatch facility.

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Seems to me you are just talking about the formula offered at some parlours Down. Personally I don't go to these establishments anymore and I would never dream of just seeing someone for half an hour> So from my experience of seeing indies i would have to say the time spent enjoying one sexual activity or another is far far greater than the time you indicate.

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Any escort who could answer that question would, correctly, be decried as a clock-watcher.

As other posters have asked, what do you mean by "sex"? Does reverse oral count? Do blowjobs? What about tit-wanks? How about if I'm shagging him with a strap-on, or have a toy in his arse?

I kind of think kissing should be recognised, as it can be a real turn-on.

Is the massage an essential start-point?!

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I know every ones diffirent and some people can go for longer some people come too fast and all the rest of it but I just wondered how long the sex normally lasts for. Say most of the time you get half an hour so does this mean you get 30 mins of sex? or does the massage take most of the time up?. How long does the sex last? From my experience I have never timed it but I normally get around 5-7 minutes worth of sex I would say on my 30 min slot.

Hmmm, the way you have asked this makes me think as if what you 'get' in terms of sex is down to the escort in question, whereas in reality it's actually up to the man. Or am I being thick here? Many of my clients don't want to get to the sex part too quickly because they don't want to come too soon and many (in my experience) do come fairly quickly when it gets to the shagging so the 5-7 minutes you talk of is about their lasting not me keeping it to a minimum!

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I know every ones diffirent and some people can go for longer some people come too fast and all the rest of it but I just wondered how long the sex normally lasts for. Say most of the time you get half an hour so does this mean you get 30 mins of sex? or does the massage take most of the time up?. How long does the sex last? From my experience I have never timed it but I normally get around 5-7 minutes worth of sex I would say on my 30 min slot.

As you point out it varies a lot. Actual penetration for me would be average 15 minutes in half an hour, or 35 minutes in an hour. However that rush of a quickie can be awesome ie two or three minutes only. You'll know when the lady has had enough when she suggests doggy <_< I've never been told that is it. Usually it's me losing control, feeling lazy or tired out. Very few ladies offer, or want to do massage in my neck of the woods these days.

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If i were you i'd be more assertive with my needs. Cut the massage..

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I know every ones diffirent and some people can go for longer some people come too fast and all the rest of it but I just wondered how long the sex normally lasts for. Say most of the time you get half an hour so does this mean you get 30 mins of sex? or does the massage take most of the time up?. How long does the sex last? From my experience I have never timed it but I normally get around 5-7 minutes worth of sex I would say on my 30 min slot.

It depends on the day, i have no interest in a massage so that isnt part of my punting modus though. People are all different of course and i see some punters at parties shagging for very long periods sometimes, thats rarely my bag very much enjoying DFK, OWO and RO as much as shagging.

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Hmmm, the way you have asked this makes me think as if what you 'get' in terms of sex is down to the escort in question, whereas in reality it's actually up to the man. Or am I being thick here? Many of my clients don't want to get to the sex part too quickly because they don't want to come too soon and many (in my experience) do come fairly quickly when it gets to the shagging so the 5-7 minutes you talk of is about their lasting not me keeping it to a minimum!

Not thick at all. For me there are far more things to do at a punt than just shagging, thats just one activity and i dont always want to do it at all. it depends on how i feel and how much i am enjoying those other things.

This is an age thing with me because in my youth into my 30s i would always want to shag but thats changed as i have got older. :)

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I just cant imagine me having an appointment without shagging.

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Paulo Coelho wrote a great book called "11 minutes" well worth a read - the answer is somewhere there in the title...... :ph34r:

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With punts I usually book for 1 hour and mostly cum twice

So taking the in between/down time and shower time into account its probably around 20-25 mins of sex/sexual activity before orgasm each time

If I cum once then its around 50 minutes of sexual activity, whether thats HJ, OWO and sex (usually a combination of all 3)

I recently enjoyed a duo with Maria and Marisa which culminated in just one huge orgasm right at the end of the hour

However if I wanted to I could probably cum through penetrative sex in around 5 minutes or less, its just I'd far rather savour the occasion and the pleasure and make it last as long as possible......and also enjoy the various different forms of stimulation and the ladies particular techniques/charms/skills

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I normally have a 2 hour booking, I like getting to know the girl a little first but then fit in at least an hour of sex. Not sure whether it’s a blessing or a curse but I have quite a bit of stamina so I can only normally fit in 1 session!

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In a 1 hour slot I do everything I want to do - then a 5 minute shag at the end.

If I do the shag and cum at beginning - it kills my desire to do anything else and I would be in danger of leaving - unless I found the girl interesting in other ways.

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1hr is almost always never enough time to do all the activities I want to do. But its always as much as I can financially afford at the time :(

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There's foreplay then there's penetration activity. Together I have made these last over an hour, depending how receptive the lady is to receiving oral, then how long I can last once the sex starts. I try to avoid being more than an hour on round 1 in case I cant get up for round 2 in my normal 2-hour visit.

Once I get going, I can usually keep going - condoms are great orgasm retarders, so its no unheard of for girls to try and encourage me to cum if they think Ive been on the job a tad too long.

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im lucky if i even cum once let alone twice lol

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Seems to me you are just talking about the formula offered at some parlours Down. Personally I don't go to these establishments anymore and I would never dream of just seeing someone for half an hour> So from my experience of seeing indies i would have to say the time spent enjoying one sexual activity or another is far far greater than the time you indicate.

Which parlours do you have in mind? I have found that formulas seem to differ considerably and some don't seem to practice massage at all any more.

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I just cant imagine me having an appointment without shagging.

Some men only get to shag in real life so the other stuff is far more exciting! Some men know they will cum when it gets down to the shagging so they prolong the 'inevitable' by doing the other stuff for as long as possible beforehand.

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When I was young I thought a real man delayed his orgasm, and lasted as long as possible, discovered that most girls cant be arsed with a guy who takes ages to come. Nowadays I tend to shoot on sight, unless the girl tells me to hold on. One girl told me most punters were "two strokes and they were finished"

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By sex - we are talking actual shagging? I actually asked my regular to time it recently and I was rather suprised. Within a 2 hour session I was "having sexual intercourse" for only 15 minutes, overall 2 "pops". It felt like at least twice that!

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Depends on you and the lady I guess. Normally, if I've not seen the lady before, I spend more time chatting than having sex. If I've seen her before I spend more time having sex than chatting, but that's just me.

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Skip the massage. It's a time filler. Use the time for foreplay instead. I make it clear what I like when I meet the SP - plenty of touching, kissing, RO, etc. I like both of us to be completely naked too, so usually help her out of her clothes first, followed by foreplay and finally intercourse. I find if I've given her RO I'm usually very turned on so it's hard not to come quite quickly. I count it all as sex from the first kiss through to the last drop. But I'm not clock watching!

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I would say on average dependent on the guy any where between 5-10 minutes usually (in my working girl experience)

I personally like lots of foreplay, but some prefer sex, and then to go again etc.

But yeah 5-10mins I find :)

Cx

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I would say on average dependent on the guy any where between 5-10 minutes usually (in my working girl experience)

I personally like lots of foreplay, but some prefer sex, and then to go again etc.

But yeah 5-10mins I find :)

Cx

sounds about right. sometimes its more but i actually just get bored after a bit. id rather kiss and do other stuff

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