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Pacing Yourself In 2 Hour Bookings?

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I normally go for 30min - 1hr bookings but I've decided to try a longer booking next. I was just wondering what advice people would have on how to pace the session for maximum enjoyment? ;)

I was thinking:

  • Get the first "performance" in early (30mins or so)
  • Relax, chat, catch breath etc.
  • Start 2nd round focusing more on her
  • See if im feeling up for a 2nd "performance"
  • If not, just enjoy giving her pleasure

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That seems a bit staged to me Sweexy - not knocking it, but i couldn't approach a meeting with a preconceived plan in my head like that. I much prefer to let things develop. It's great fun just seeing where the moment takes you, although i suppose it depends on how well or not you know the Lady, first meeting or regular, click or not or to what extent. Just enjoy ;)

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That seems a bit staged to me Sweexy - not knocking it, but i couldn't approach a meeting with a preconceived plan in my head like that. I much prefer to let things develop. It's great fun just seeing where the moment takes you, although i suppose it depends on how well or not you know the Lady, first meeting or regular, click or not or to what extent. Just enjoy ;)

Thanks Wudsy, excellent advice made me realise im totally over thinking it. I'll just let things pan out, chillout and enjoy it then!

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I think you need to get a balance between having a plan and going with the flow. It's easier on the girl if you tell her roughly what you anticipate. Without communication a girl isn't to know if you are the type that wants to come lots of times or if (as you have described) want a first quick session with time to relax and then another round. I hate it if I make a man come too quickly and then he tells me he won't be capable of coming again in the time.

Timetables are a bit too clinical but a good understanding of what a man wants is really useful!

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given that I usually shoot twice during a one hour booking, I would be looking to shoot 3 - 4 times in 2 hours, but I would not go in there with a plan. Even though I am pushing 40, I can still cum more than once in a session. In fact, about 5 years ago, I had a one-nighter with a non wg, and I came 8 times in 12 hours.

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I normally go for 30min - 1hr bookings but I've decided to try a longer booking next. I was just wondering what advice people would have on how to pace the session for maximum enjoyment? ;)

I was thinking:

  • Get the first "performance" in early (30mins or so)
  • Relax, chat, catch breath etc.
  • Start 2nd round focusing more on her
  • See if im feeling up for a 2nd "performance"
  • If not, just enjoy giving her pleasure

Hi Sweexy,

Your plan is great. Thats how i look to spend 2 hour booking. Of cause you got to have a chemistry but i am impressed you want to give pleasure for girl. I love that clients. I like your style! :wub:

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i normally go for a 30 min session and encourage and help the lady come first........after that we can then concentrate on me

i am not in my 30's any more ha ha

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My days of twice in an hour are gone, but I don't feel the intimacy in a 30 minute booking that I like. It's important to me too that my escort enjoys her time with me, or at least doesn't feel like a "piece of meat" as one girl described how some punters treated her. The problem for me as regards paying for a two hour booking is that rhe emphasis would shift to a must cum situation and could make things more awkward for me. I do have a girl in mind however who encouraged me after I came too quickly and without the pressure I feel it would have been an enjoyable 2nd hour. Who knows? I'm saving up to find out though

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Go with the flow has to be the best advice and relax. The biggest ardour killer is feeling pressure to perform. Do you actually need to cum more than once to have fun with a girl, after all its great if you can but would it really ruin things if you didn't?

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I like the plan! yes, keep it in mind that it may run different but as said, communicate that this will happen. Your plan is what usually happens with me! Keep in mind that if she is a talker like me (!) you need to get the second one in. I don't do it on purpose, but I tend to chat too much.

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given that I usually shoot twice during a one hour booking, I would be looking to shoot 3 - 4 times in 2 hours, but I would not go in there with a plan. Even though I am pushing 40, I can still cum more than once in a session. In fact, about 5 years ago, I had a one-nighter with a non wg, and I came 8 times in 12 hours.

We all think you are wonderful

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Even if I have paid for one hour or only half an hour, I have always thought that once I've cum that's more or less the end of it. It's over, as far as the girl's concerned. My experience is that most girls usually get up, leave me and busy themselves, get some clothes on, fix their makeup and expect me to get on the move, get dressed quickly, and get myself ready to go out the door. The atmosphere changes somehow. Everything becomes sort of brisk and much less romantic at that point.

If I'd booked an hour and came within 25 minutes I've never felt I could insist on the girl sitting with me for another 35 minutes. I feel I'm wasting her time then and that she just wants me to leave her now that I've cum. That's it.

With one or two exceptions only, where a girl hasn't been in so much of a hurry, in order to actually get an hour with a lovely girl's company I feel I've got to leave my climax till the very end, otherwise I'll be expected to go.

Have I spent my life getting all this wrong?. Or does this apply particularly to massage parlours where you know they just want to get downstairs again to attract a new customer?.

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We all think you are wonderful

Wonderful what?

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I normally go for 30min - 1hr bookings but I've decided to try a longer booking next. I was just wondering what advice people would have on how to pace the session for maximum enjoyment? ;)

I was thinking:

  • Get the first "performance" in early (30mins or so)
  • Relax, chat, catch breath etc.
  • Start 2nd round focusing more on her
  • See if im feeling up for a 2nd "performance"
  • If not, just enjoy giving her pleasure

My advice is always have a plan but be prepared to be flexible as sometimes the unexpected can take things off into a very exciting tangent. I go to parties where its a minimum of 2 or 3 hours but as i know my body i pace myself knowing what i can and cant do. However, a particularly good WG can ensure i achieve things i didnt think i was capable of. The lovely Linzi D now owner of the Pump in Birmingham was one such lady, she could talk a pop out of me with her enthusiasm as could the pornstar Keira Pharrell with her dirty talk, marvellous. :)

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That seems a bit staged to me Sweexy - not knocking it, but i couldn't approach a meeting with a preconceived plan in my head like that. I much prefer to let things develop. It's great fun just seeing where the moment takes you, although i suppose it depends on how well or not you know the Lady, first meeting or regular, click or not or to what extent. Just enjoy ;)

I followed your advice and just let it play out naturally, just want to say a big thank-you because it turned out AWESOME! By just letting things playout like a "normal" date it really gave time for the anticipation to build, plus I was totally into her on a mental level so more than happy to take things slowly. Overall it just felt totally natural, organic and spontaneous which for me is the "holy grail" I had been seeking.

Go with the flow has to be the best advice and relax. The biggest ardour killer is feeling pressure to perform. Do you actually need to cum more than once to have fun with a girl, after all its great if you can but would it really ruin things if you didn't?

This such good advice, I only came once in the 2 hours but because of the slow build up and being so comfortable and relaxed it was very intense and I was completely sated. I don't cum quickly so when I do it's a pretty seismic, rather have 1 awesome O than 3-4 fast ones personally.

I like the plan! yes, keep it in mind that it may run different but as said, communicate that this will happen. Your plan is what usually happens with me! Keep in mind that if she is a talker like me (!) you need to get the second one in. I don't do it on purpose, but I tend to chat too much.

Haha, yeah I see what you mean. I'm not exactly all Alpha Male in initiating the sex, I like how the sexual tension and excitement builds when your just chatting to the point where I'm REALLY horny. It's like being starving waiting for your meal in a restaurant, with loads of people eating all around you the delayed satisfaction makes it SO MUCH more gratifying to me than the shorter sessions ive had were the sex starts right off the bat.

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Great to hear you had a good time Sweexy. Looking forward even more now to my next 'appointment' tomorrow :)

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Even if I have paid for one hour or only half an hour, I have always thought that once I've cum that's more or less the end of it. It's over, as far as the girl's concerned. My experience is that most girls usually get up, leave me and busy themselves, get some clothes on, fix their makeup and expect me to get on the move, get dressed quickly, and get myself ready to go out the door. The atmosphere changes somehow. Everything becomes sort of brisk and much less romantic at that point.

Sounds to me like you are either seeing the wrong girls or going to the wrong parlours. I have punted twics a month for the past 5 years and the type of experience you describe above is pretty rare with the girls I see. Some EE girls in particular can be like that, but particularly British indies can be magnificent at instigating round 2 (or 3 or ....).

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