Carrie

You Will Never Believe This!

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In August last year I joined this forum after finding out that my OH had been punting for several years. I was angry hurt and wanted to understand why and to gain a better insight into the industry.

I have posted on here giving my opinion and even advice to punters on how not to get caught by your wife/partner. I have been welcomed on this forum which was quite a surprise knowing that I'm the wife of a punter and it has and is greatly appreciated.

I befriended a member on here and one thing led to another and we met up. I now understand why the guys on here find not just the punt but the anticipation of and excitement prior to the event.

Last Tuesday how it happened I don't know but before I knew it I had shown my OH my posts on here and then he read my PMs which then led to my personal emails. How stupid that I did not delete all my messages d'oh! He read everything and made sure I stayed awake all night as he commented on every single detail. The fact that I tried to delete my emails very quickly just added to his suspicion.

The outcome has been somewhat amazing and certainly not what I expected. I suppose what I did was the ultimate payback. For the past few days things have certainly changed (for the better) I should add. We now talk openly about sex, we can't seem to get enough of it and has proved to both of us to be such a turn on.

So it can work out when you get caught. To my friend I'm sorry for the voicemail that was left and that's from both myself and my OH.

No doubt I'll still read and may well post in the future :)

Carrie x

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I'm really happy for you Carrie, and glad that things have taken such a positive turn. The odds against such a happy outcome must be quite high and I'm not tempted myself to "be caught". But a nice story nevertheless. My best wishes to you - and your OH.

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I'm really happy for you Carrie, and glad that things have taken such a positive turn. The odds against such a happy outcome must be quite high and I'm not tempted myself to "be caught". But a nice story nevertheless. My best wishes to you - and your OH.

lol this is a frickin funny post

what an interesting thread btw, glad it all worked out well for u carrie, i wish you and your husband all the best and a happy future together

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So your partner got hugely turned on by knowing you'd had sex with another man (and had been talking about sex to other men)? Is that right? I bet he wanted all the details :D

I think many men find this a very exciting thought. In fact the 'Wifelovers' website - ever been there? - is full of men who share their wives and get a tremendous thrill from watching other men having sex with their wives. It's often a superb turn on for both partners, it seems. Adds a huge dollop of spice to their marriage. The swinging scene would definitely have been for me! But too late, too late, and I'd have needed a very different partner.....

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Carrie, I take my hat off to you sweetheart. What a mature and calm attitude, and such a positive way to deal with what could have been an absolute nightmare. You obviously are a very open minded woman, your OH is a very lucky man.

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I'm really happy for you Carrie, and glad that things have taken such a positive turn. The odds against such a happy outcome must be quite high and I'm not tempted myself to "be caught". But a nice story nevertheless. My best wishes to you - and your OH.

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Carrie, I take my hat off to you sweetheart. What a mature and calm attitude, and such a positive way to deal with what could have been an absolute nightmare. You obviously are a very open minded woman, your OH is a very lucky man.

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That's great news, I hope you both continue to be happy and have a wonderful sex life together!

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Wait, am I reading this right?

  • You caught your husband sleeping with an Escort(s)
  • So you met up with a man on Punternet as the "ultimate payback"
  • Got found out by your husband

And this has actually brought you closer together rather than destroying your relationship? :blink:

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Wait, am I reading this right?

  • You caught your husband sleeping with an Escort(s)
  • So you met up with a man on Punternet as the "ultimate payback"
  • Got found out by your husband

And this has actually brought you closer together rather than destroying your relationship? :blink:

Well, she did say we'd never believe it!

Carrie, so glad it worked out well for you - against the odds and all that, but delighted to see a happy ending!

By the way, as a matter of curiosity: how did you first learn about Punternet?

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i dont really know if her OH would be in any position to complain about her seeing somneone and seeing as they were even then why break up a family?

Im glad you guys are making a go of things and everything is all well. Hope it lasts

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has he stopped punting though?? or dont u care

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Isn't anyone else concerned about the 3rd party involved? Am I the only one who picked up on the following?

To my friend I'm sorry for the voicemail that was left and that's from both myself and my OH.

:eek:

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Something smells a bit fishy about this. Doubt we know the whole story.

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has he stopped punting though?? or dont u care

yes he has.......... and yes I do care even after all that has happened..... it may not turn out this way a second time! ;)

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Something smells a bit fishy about this. Doubt we know the whole story.

the whole story is exactly as I have put it here and in the other posts I have written JS......

My OH is a changed person and it refl;ects in our relationship again. He tells me he is even considering joining up here and posting a picture of my tattoo that everyone was so interested in!!!!!

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My OH is a changed person and it refl;ects in our relationship again. He tells me he is even considering joining up here and posting a picture of my tattoo that everyone was so interested in!!!!!

So Carrie, if your husband joins, we'll have :-

1) A reformed punter, trying to kick the punting habit, hanging around a punting board

2) His wife, not part of the punting scene but prone to posting about the state of her marriage and sex life on the forum

3) The (as yet) unnamed poster/punter with whom the wife was presumably (albeit justifiably) unfaithful and to whom the husband has already given verbals over the phone

All posting on the forum simultaneously. I can't see any problem with that at all, can you :)? What could possibly go wrong ?

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Some of us are in the industry, to avoid the complexities of civilian sex & relationships.

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couldn't agree more Lara - much rather have a simple commercial arrangement than all the messy relationship aggro!

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Something smells a bit fishy about this. Doubt we know the whole story.

Nah, it's too ridiculous. It must be true.

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yes he has.......... and yes I do care even after all that has happened..... it may not turn out this way a second time! ;)

If you have a dog with no leash, then he is free to do what he wants. When you put that dog on a leash, he will be restricted. But when dog is tempted he wouldn't feel like his on a leash.

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You Will Never Believe This!

You are right about one thing. I don't believe it.

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You are right about one thing. I don't believe it.

Believe! Don't believe!

That's entirely up to you and all who post on this forum. There are 3 people who know the truth and that really is all that matters. The reason for my original post was to let those on here know that sometimes getting caught doesn't mean the end of a marriage or relationship and can open doors to a whole new world :)

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