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Cant get my head around this.

I have being seeing a young part time escort recently and regularly. I dont know whether it is me or if she is like this with other clients but she gets into it slowly but immediately and gets turned on very quickly in a way and to a level that I have never experienced before, outside my SO. She is utterly relaxed sexually with me and lets herself go completely. Pleasing her is just heaven for me.

HOWEVER,,her communications outside the bookings are quite curt and to the point and when the hour is up, she is outta there on the button. I think she is quite conscious of the time towards the end quarter of the booking.

Having seen many escorts over the years, there seems to be a huge disconnect between the approach of this young lady in bed and outside of it. I would like to understand it and to find out if others have experienced it, as it is different to anything that has gone before for me.

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( I would be delighted for any views but I would ask you please not to confine your comments to the 'she is there as a professional for the booking time only' point as I am well aware of this , thoroughly accept it and am time conscious myself -- that is not the issue. It is the disconnect I refer to that intrigues me and which I have not experienced before )

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Sounds to me like you are thinking she likes you more than she really does. Obviously works if you keep going back. Only my opinion mind as I've often kidded myself that girls have enjoyed my company

Some of the girls I have met deserve an Oscar!!!

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Cant get my head around this.

I have being seeing a young part time escort recently and regularly. I dont know whether it is me or if she is like this with other clients but she gets into it slowly but immediately and gets turned on very quickly in a way and to a level that I have never experienced before, outside my SO. She is utterly relaxed sexually with me and lets herself go completely. Pleasing her is just heaven for me.

HOWEVER,,her communications outside the bookings are quite curt and to the point and when the hour is up, she is outta there on the button. I think she is quite conscious of the time towards the end quarter of the booking.

Having seen many escorts over the years, there seems to be a huge disconnect between the approach of this young lady in bed and outside of it. I would like to understand it and to find out if others have experienced it, as it is different to anything that has gone before for me.

p.s

( I would be delighted for any views but I would ask you please not to confine your comments to the 'she is there as a professional for the booking time only' point as I am well aware of this , thoroughly accept it and am time conscious myself -- that is not the issue. It is the disconnect I refer to that intrigues me and which I have not experienced before )

Sounds very professional and business like, a minx in the bedroom offering what punters want but keeping it within paid sex boundaries, thats what i expect is going on. :)

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Yep sounds to me like someone very keen on establishing and maintaining boundaries. this is largely a good thing IMO

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Sounds very professional and business like, a minx in the bedroom offering what punters want but keeping it within paid sex boundaries, thats what i expect is going on. :)

Yes,maybe it is as simple as that, although her communications are uber professional, to the point sometimes of being a bit cold . But by merely being professional, can a lady produce that level of physiological response at will ?

( There is absolutely zero question of anything happening outside the paid sex arena -- anyway,the huge age gap alone would be enough to take that completely out of the equation.)

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Yep sounds to me like someone very keen on establishing and maintaining boundaries. this is largely a good thing IMO

Absolutely. There would never be a hint of a possibility here of a boundary problem for a whole host of reasons.

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. But by merely being professional, can a lady produce that level of physiological response at will?

perhaps she's just very highly-sexed/ really enjoys sex (almost) regardless of her partner?

or she's a brilliant actress. or somewhere in the middle.

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Yes,maybe it is as simple as that, although her communications are uber professional, to the point sometimes of being a bit cold . But by merely being professional, can a lady produce that level of physiological response at will ?

( There is absolutely zero question of anything happening outside the paid sex arena -- anyway,the huge age gap alone would be enough to take that completely out of the equation.)

maybe she just loves sex. just because she loves sex, doesn't mean she has to be any less professional. sometimes during a booking i get incredibly turned on and turn into an animal....but that doesn't mean i want the session to run over.

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maybe she just loves sex. just because she loves sex, doesn't mean she has to be any less professional. sometimes during a booking i get incredibly turned on and turn into an animal....but that doesn't mean i want the session to run over.

remind me where you work? :)

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Yes,maybe it is as simple as that, although her communications are uber professional, to the point sometimes of being a bit cold . But by merely being professional, can a lady produce that level of physiological response at will ?

( There is absolutely zero question of anything happening outside the paid sex arena -- anyway,the huge age gap alone would be enough to take that completely out of the equation.)

Yes, in my experiences dependent obviously on the individual WG. :)

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Cant get my head around this.

I have being seeing a young part time escort recently and regularly. I dont know whether it is me or if she is like this with other clients but she gets into it slowly but immediately and gets turned on very quickly in a way and to a level that I have never experienced before, outside my SO. She is utterly relaxed sexually with me and lets herself go completely. Pleasing her is just heaven for me.

HOWEVER,,her communications outside the bookings are quite curt and to the point and when the hour is up, she is outta there on the button. I think she is quite conscious of the time towards the end quarter of the booking.

Having seen many escorts over the years, there seems to be a huge disconnect between the approach of this young lady in bed and outside of it. I would like to understand it and to find out if others have experienced it, as it is different to anything that has gone before for me.

p.s

( I would be delighted for any views but I would ask you please not to confine your comments to the 'she is there as a professional for the booking time only' point as I am well aware of this , thoroughly accept it and am time conscious myself -- that is not the issue. It is the disconnect I refer to that intrigues me and which I have not experienced before )

She sounds terrible. PM me her phone no and I'll take her off your hands :D.

Seriously, it sounds like she is simply a professional young lady. It's great that she gets into the sex so well, but you should count that as a blessing rather than contrast it to her attitude outside the bedroom. Must feel a bit odd at times though, I admit. Probably keeps you well grounded though, so for the best.

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Yes, good point Kantos, this young lady needs to be named and shamed......

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perhaps she's just very highly-sexed/ really enjoys sex (almost) regardless of her partner?

I'd say that is most likely to be the explanation behind her behaviour.

@ OP

You say she is almost cold towards you once the booking is over. Is she trying to prove a point perhaps? I mean, have you read more into things in the past and she's realised this? Hope you don't take offense to my questions. Just trying to establish why she is so cold towards you once the time is over, thats all.

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emmail and text comms can sometimes come across colder than intended anyway, i have re-read some of mine in the past and they have seemed quite curt when i was just trying to be businesslike and to the point

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Maybe she shags, gets hungry & needs to eat.

Maybe she has other commitments outside work.

Maybe she is worried about overrunning & her other clients.

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In my opinion:

She is probably aware of how engaging she is during the booking, and conscious that SOME punters may misinterpret that or read too much into it and that lines can get blurred. Thus keeping the communications curt and to the point is most likely just to ensure that those boundaries are kept clear for the benefit of BOTH parties.

Also, she may well have set templates for text messages etc simply to save time which might be why it comes across a bit cold because they have been depersonalized.

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you hit Quality.

Cherish it.

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Thank you all for your comments -- much appreciated. :)

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In my opinion:

She is probably aware of how engaging she is during the booking, and conscious that SOME punters may misinterpret that or read too much into it and that lines can get blurred. Thus keeping the communications curt and to the point is most likely just to ensure that those boundaries are kept clear for the benefit of BOTH parties.

Also, she may well have set templates for text messages etc simply to save time which might be why it comes across a bit cold because they have been depersonalized.

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In my opinion:

She is probably aware of how engaging she is during the booking, and conscious that SOME punters may misinterpret that or read too much into it and that lines can get blurred. Thus keeping the communications curt and to the point is most likely just to ensure that those boundaries are kept clear for the benefit of BOTH parties.

Also, she may well have set templates for text messages etc simply to save time which might be why it comes across a bit cold because they have been depersonalized.

I think you may have hit the nail on the head here. When the activity is over, I think she is very uncomfortable with any pillow talk,she wants out of there.,.She is very well aware of how good she is and revels in it but when its over, its over. Funny enough,I find that too clinical and somewhat unattractive. Its new to me though, as I have never come across this level of contrast, this type of switch on switch off before.

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perhaps she's just very highly-sexed/ really enjoys sex (almost) regardless of her partner?

or she's a brilliant actress. or somewhere in the middle.

She definitely acts but at the same time does get herself really turned on. I think she does some role play in her head, yes.

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maybe she just loves sex. just because she loves sex, doesn't mean she has to be any less professional. sometimes during a booking i get incredibly turned on and turn into an animal....but that doesn't mean i want the session to run over.

Ok yes, thank you. You could be spot on here.She certainly doesnt want the session to run over at all.

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Maybe she shags, gets hungry & needs to eat.

Maybe she has other commitments outside work.

Maybe she is worried about overrunning & her other clients.

No, I dont think any of these apply. :)

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emmail and text comms can sometimes come across colder than intended anyway, i have re-read some of mine in the past and they have seemed quite curt when i was just trying to be businesslike and to the point

This lady has said exactly this to me.! :)

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In my opinion:

She is probably aware of how engaging she is during the booking, and conscious that SOME punters may misinterpret that or read too much into it and that lines can get blurred. Thus keeping the communications curt and to the point is most likely just to ensure that those boundaries are kept clear for the benefit of BOTH parties.

Also, she may well have set templates for text messages etc simply to save time which might be why it comes across a bit cold because they have been depersonalized.

I too think you have hit the nail on the head here as well. Maybe the fact that she is young means she has not quite learnt to smooth out the two yet correctly to provide the great experience in the bedroom but at the same time show the client there is nothing more to it.

I am sure it will come with time as she gets more experience. You could ask her cumandgo?

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