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Unformal Socialising Or Outer Bedroom Activities...

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Here's a question for you all....how much time do you spend not having sex and do you enjoy things like wining and dining, sport, concerts, entertainment in general, holidays or whatever you get up to outside the bedroom as much as the action between the sheets...

I for one like to break the ice with a drink or two (lunch or even dinner depending on the time/length of appoitment)....it is now very rare for me not to include the above when making a booking....

I know similair threads have been done previously but thought I'd freshen things up a little and bring this to the fore once again....

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Brace yourself for some "I'm not paying to watch her eat" type of replies :wacko:

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They may be surprised that some girls don't actually get paid to watch us eat either....(I'm talking dinner of course) :-)

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I'm with you Hero, and personally I love to watch a girl eat.

Affordability is the issue of course.

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If I could afford it - I would love to have an afternoon slot with one of my favourites - start with an espresso in a nice cafe, walk around a few shops - go for a walk in the park - yes I would love to do all that and finish off with an hour in the bedroom. But at 100 - 150 an hour it would end up a very expensive time so I settle for an hour in the bedroom as all the other activities would count for little without a mindblowing fuck as part of it.

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I agree with you completely Hero.

There is nothing nicer than to spend some time in the company of a gorgeous young Lady or two for that matter,whether it be over lunch/dinner or just an informal drink,as, and this is purely a personal preference, for me it does make for a perfect prelude to the more intimate activities that are to follow...

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I agree with you completely Hero.

There is nothing nicer than to spend some time in the company of a gorgeous young Lady or two for that matter,whether it be over lunch/dinner or just an informal drink,as, and this is purely a personal preference, for me it does make for a perfect prelude to the more intimate activities that are to follow...

Some ladies have special offers from time to time. Perhaps ask her to email you when she has special offers on for dinner dates?

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Surely most guys have girlfriends they can call on to go out to dinner or social events without having to pay a lady [ to watch her eat ]

We are not such social misfits are we ? I can get a string of girls to go out to dinner . Even real japanese . But they don't want to play after hence the punting .

Hope JRC doesn't read this thread , or his input will dwindle even further . :wacko:

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Here's a question for you all....how much time do you spend not having sex and do you enjoy things like wining and dining, sport, concerts, entertainment in general, holidays or whatever you get up to outside the bedroom as much as the action between the sheets...

I for one like to break the ice with a drink or two (lunch or even dinner depending on the time/length of appoitment)....it is now very rare for me not to include the above when making a booking....

I know similair threads have been done previously but thought I'd freshen things up a little and bring this to the fore once again....

I punt for the sex and as most of my 121 punts are an hour i get on with the punting, i have no interest in paying for social time, i am though happy to pay for a drink or meal which i do on occassion which is something the WG initiates in my experience.

So with me i chat in the breaks between rounds and this suits me very well. At parties i enjoy the social setting of talking to other punters and WGs along with sometimes having a bite to eat during the breaks.

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Surely most guys have girlfriends they can call on to go out to dinner or social events without having to pay a lady [ to watch her eat ]

We are not such social misfits are we ? I can get a string of girls to go out to dinner . Even real japanese . But they don't want to play after hence the punting .

Hope JRC doesn't read this thread , or his input will dwindle even further . :wacko:

Sure - the board is brimming with guys who can get dinner dates with young beautiful women - no misfits here - surprised you haven't noticed - and in the same fashion - those same girls go off at the end of that date and shag someone else's brains out who didn't even pay for the meal she just devoured - it's really strange that.

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I am meant to be publishing a price list for clothed, social bookings - due to demand from clients.

There are two types of clients: the ones who don't speak to WGs more than necessary and treat us as masturbation devices (our pussies being substitutes for their hands) & those who want some degree of human connection.

I have my preferences, and my pricing should encourage that.

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Sure - the board is brimming with guys who can get dinner dates with young beautiful women - no misfits here - surprised you haven't noticed - and in the same fashion - those same girls go off at the end of that date and shag someone else's brains out who didn't even pay for the meal she just devoured - it's really strange that.

and what's wrong with that , unless YOU are one of the social misfits ,as your 10 am post seems to show . That you cannot go out to eat with a beautiful woman without a " mind blowing shag " at the end of it . Some guys should seriously try dating sites .

Can't believe I said that , the dating site bit , recommending a punter to visit a dating site .

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Its nice to be nice...

Without giving away too many secrets you will be surprised that ladies are more than happy to go for drinks/dinner and still spending the allocated time with you in the bedroom....by no means am I saying this is the norm or that you should expect this, but anything from a 2 to 4 hour booking, and the lady is comfortable with the above....and if you're really lucky then even on an hour's appoitment...

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Its nice to be nice...

Without giving away too many secrets you will be surprised that ladies are more than happy to go for drinks/dinner and still spending the allocated time with you in the bedroom....by no means am I saying this is the norm or that you should expect this, but anything from a 2 to 4 hour booking, and the lady is comfortable with the above....and if you're really lucky then even on an hour's appoitment...

This can happen, the other consideration not mentioned yet is that just as many punters will have friends they can go to dinner with, surely attractive women have more than enough offers too!

I once had a client who couldn't understand why I wouldn't accept his offers of lunch, I tried to explain that if I spent the extra curricular time with with every client who asked well I just wouldn't have time to see clients like himself or do the various other things I enjoy in my life either. Sitting around chatting over coffee, drinks and dinner 24/7 isn't something that's going to allow me to have a decent income, and/or make me happy. Besides whilst I was ok with him in the bedroom, I genuinely didn't want to spend any time outside with him - we had a severe personality clash. We've also seen complaints re girls being uncontactable, if she's wining and dining outside of bookings this may also restrict her availability too.

If/when it works and is possible for both parties, then it's fine but as above shouldn't be expected.

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I am meant to be publishing a price list for clothed, social bookings - due to demand from clients.

There are two types of clients: the ones who don't speak to WGs more than necessary and treat us as masturbation devices (our pussies being substitutes for their hands) & those who want some degree of human connection.

I have my preferences, and my pricing should encourage that.

Here here - but with the right WG I find she's fair. But cost does get in the way of booking more than a couple of hours. It's all aobut what you girls need to earn, and what sort of business you wish to attract. If you want regular business clothed, then I think you need to charge a different rate, but I'd still want some fun before finishing :) so would expect to pay for that.

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and what's wrong with that , unless YOU are one of the social misfits ,as your 10 am post seems to show . That you cannot go out to eat with a beautiful woman without a " mind blowing shag " at the end of it . Some guys should seriously try dating sites .

Can't believe I said that , the dating site bit , recommending a punter to visit a dating site .

Maybe you should try that yourself. But then if the girls you wine and dine won't go to bed with you - I suppose there's not much hope and you might as well keep paying up.

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This can happen, the other consideration not mentioned yet is that just as many punters will have friends they can go to dinner with, surely attractive women have more than enough offers too!

I once had a client who couldn't understand why I wouldn't accept his offers of lunch, I tried to explain that if I spent the extra curricular time with with every client who asked well I just wouldn't have time to see clients like himself or do the various other things I enjoy in my life either. Sitting around chatting over coffee, drinks and dinner 24/7 isn't something that's going to allow me to have a decent income, and/or make me happy. Besides whilst I was ok with him in the bedroom, I genuinely didn't want to spend any time outside with him - we had a severe personality clash. We've also seen complaints re girls being uncontactable, if she's wining and dining outside of bookings this may also restrict her availability too.

If/when it works and is possible for both parties, then it's fine but as above shouldn't be expected.

No problem with that. If you don't get on, no point socialising. I'm surprised you take his appointments Though.

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Reading above, I would say there is a definite demand for "social time" or just "spending time, company".

And it happens. Sometimes.

My job/life doesnt make it easy to spend daytime with an escort but my secret is : Regulars.

The modus operandi is more or less known by now:

You start by seeing a Lady on her conditions: 1, 2 or 3 hrs booking at the advertised rate.

You dont haggle, you try to be as nice as you can and see how she reacts to it all. See if you click.

Repeat that a few times, with longer + longer bookings, and then see how things develops.

Some will cook for you (even bring the ingredients)!

Some will slide into overnighters (with delicious early-morning action, and a dangerously sleepy-dozy day ahead).

Some will smoke two packets on an evening (+ the liquor and redbull - not to mention the brilliant action and the humourous conversation to boot).

Some will pick you up from trainstation or drive you to airport.

And if with all of that extra activity+time, you still click well: You have a Regular!

And after a while, you may even end up staying at her apartment, rather than in your own hotel or aprtmnt (a nice way to end a visit to UK: last night before flying out, sleep at Her place!).

Now.. Dont Cross the Line.

It is a delicate balance. And the pretty-woman story is very, very improbable - both parties Must realize that!

To "keep" a regular: make sure it stays interesting for her, both financially and socially. If you catch signals of fatigue or if you try to abuse too much: take a break.

Like: if you invite her to join you on long/week trip abroad, at sharply reduced rate, because you think it is a holiday for her.. Tread carefully. You risk breaking the relationship, and you lose a brilliant Regular!

Likewise: if you feel you are being milked (long expensive overnight with little fun...?): take a break.

Anyway... that is just me rambling, I'm sure JRC can put me right (and awaiting sober reply with staccato grammar too)

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Pteleeds has it sussed!

This is how it can be if you hit it off.

Well it is for me anyway.

Lucy :)

P.S Grooming comes to mind ;) mind you us ladies are in the driving seat at the poodle parlour, so only allow a grooming to happen if we want it too!

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Now.. Dont Cross the Line.

Thats half the fun....luck favours the brave and all that

*Disclaimer - Please note I take no responsibilty whatsoever if the ladies hit you...

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No problem with that. If you don't get on, no point socialising. I'm surprised you take his appointments Though.

I don't, we eventually decided to call it quits. Don't you come across people in your working or daily life you get on fine with in that context and situation, but simply wouldn't be comfy or interested in socialising with?Possibly because you don't share similar interests or just not on the same wavelength as?

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