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Not A Masterbate Aid.

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I have seen this come up a few times in the last few days on adult forums, surely the escorts we book are there for the sexual reason, so its going to be an aid for most guys either before or after the event, as well as during the booking.

To claim they are not a sexual aid, ( or fantasy) is denying the point of some of us who pay top rates to seek out someone we would not have a chance with otherwise.

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I have seen this come up a few times in the last few days on adult forums, surely the escorts we book are there for the sexual reason, so its going to be an aid for most guys either before or after the event, as well as during the booking.

To claim they are not a sexual aid, ( or fantasy) is denying the point of some of us who pay top rates to seek out someone we would not have a chance with otherwise.

It depends on the punter how he views his punts, he is the one paying so as long as he is respectful if he views a WG as a masterbation aid then thats his business in my opinion. If you sell sex such a thing is to be expected i would of thought its part and parcel of the job.

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I agree it depends on the punter, but there's a difference between sex and masturbation, an activity which is generally a solo undertaking. I believe the comments referred to were probably just women expressing a marked preference for the punters who come along wanting to have proper, full-on sex with another human being and all their interesting bits, rather than the ones that when they've left you wonder why they didn't just buy a pound of liver and a sock.

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The Masturbatory clients have no interest in any conversation & only say about 10 words in the hour.

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I agree it depends on the punter, but there's a difference between sex and masturbation, an activity which is generally a solo undertaking. I believe the comments referred to were probably just women expressing a marked preference for the punters who come along wanting to have proper, full-on sex with another human being and all their interesting bits, rather than the ones that when they've left you wonder why they didn't just buy a pound of liver and a sock.

Sometimes i like a good wank at a punt admiring the WGs naked body, a pound of liver and a sock doesnt cut the mustard for me. ;)

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I view the paid sex scene as a mutually beneficial transaction for both, I do not treat my clients as walking wallets but a person and treat them the way I expect to be treated myself.

Some girls like the guys that masturbate in them and leave, it is easy, some girls prefer interaction on other levels.

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I agree it depends on the punter, but there's a difference between sex and masturbation, an activity which is generally a solo undertaking.

Masterbation does take place during many bookings by both male and female, and stimulation by both folk on themself and the other is one of the treats for many people during the paid for time, some punters like to come on face or body seem to whack it off this way.

But yes it does seem strange that some folk go to see an escort, spend their time in silence, as if they are too scared to say anything for fear of divulging too much about themself's.

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Masterbation does take place during many bookings by both male and female, and stimulation by both folk on themself and the other is one of the treats for many people during the paid for time, some punters like to come on face or body seem to whack it off this way.

I realise that, but I was talking about masturbation in the context of the comments which are the topic of this thread - the punters referred to wouldn't be interested in any of what you mention above, as that would mean acknowledging that another person was present. I quite agree that mutual masturbation with plenty of kissing and whatnot is a great way to spend a bit of downtime. The punters who prefer things as discussed would not.

I do agree with Gemma that everything has it's place - such punters are undemanding, if nothing else and can be a Godsend if you're tired since they don't care at all about any sort of proper interaction. I personally wouldn't choose to see them often.

Edited by AdorableAmy

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I think it's fairly clear from this site that men have a huge range of reasons for seeing an escort and a huge range of attitudes towards these women. It is one of the things I do enjoy about my job actually, the variety is nice.

The extremes of the spectrum are less nice- i.e. those who think you are more than wonderful, clam to be in love with you and think you are equally as enamored by them are tiresome and the ones that do treat you like a piece of meat can be scary and make you feel a little used (in a bad way).

However a man playing out a using and fucking a 'slut' fantasy can still be done with huge respect and mutual enjoyment if handled in the right way by the client and lets face it most girls who genuinely enjoy their job are likely to get off on sex with anonymous strangers. It would be silly for any escort to expect every client wants a cup of tea and a nice chat first.

Frankly, sometimes the men who book for an hour, barely speak then shoot their load pretty quickly and leave within half an hour are sometimes the easiest bookings and I really don't care if they see me as a hole to fuck.

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interacting with the WG i important to me. which is why i prefer seeing brit ones. the banter with someone who speaks the same language make for more fun, i find.

I imagine the scary ones are those who have sex with you with eyes closed cos they are thinking of someone else.

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I see it as much more than masturbation, otherwise I wouldn't waste my time or money on it. Brooke Magnanti identified it, correctly IMHO, as a desire for sexual intimacy.

I like an hour normally so that it gives me time to talk before, as well as afterwards, so that I can understand the woman in front of me as a human being, rather than just a sack of meat, and beautiful one at that, with her own personality and style. OK my knowledge of her, in that sense, will be superficial, but better that than nothing.

So the acts that follow, however animalistic they might be and we are, at heart, just very clever animals, become acts of genuine intimacy and mutual respect between two human beings, involving all the senses in a real way that just knocking one out cannot replicate.

*Stands back to wait for his fluffy arse to get shot down in flames*

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