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My Thoughts On Punting Thus Far...

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Hi All,

I'm new to the punting scene (having had only 3 punts up until this point) and feel that I would like to share my thoughts.

My lack of experience with women was causing me some emotional issues to the extent that I decided something needed to be done. Punting seemed to me to be the best way forward given my desires and the guarantee of an initimate encounter with an attractive woman.

I must say I am very pleased that I made this decision as it has had a massive effect on my emotional state. I feel much more relaxed and calm and some of the more irrational hang-ups that I had regarding myself are simply not there any more.

Having only seen one WG so far, I can see how emotional attachments can come into play. I guess given my circumstances I am somewhat susceptible to forming such an attachment. However, I am not under the illusion that there is anything beyond the service provided so I have thus far been able to treat this as a good time and nothing further.

I have my next punt booked with a different WG this time and am looking forward to it greatly.

Anyway, I felt compelled to share this somewhere and I figured this would be a good place to do so.

Cheers

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Hi All,

I'm new to the punting scene (having had only 3 punts up until this point) and feel that I would like to share my thoughts.

My lack of experience with women was causing me some emotional issues to the extent that I decided something needed to be done. Punting seemed to me to be the best way forward given my desires and the guarantee of an initimate encounter with an attractive woman.

I must say I am very pleased that I made this decision as it has had a massive effect on my emotional state. I feel much more relaxed and calm and some of the more irrational hang-ups that I had regarding myself are simply not there any more.

Having only seen one WG so far, I can see how emotional attachments can come into play. I guess given my circumstances I am somewhat susceptible to forming such an attachment. However, I am not under the illusion that there is anything beyond the service provided so I have thus far been able to treat this as a good time and nothing further.

I have my next punt booked with a different WG this time and am looking forward to it greatly.

Anyway, I felt compelled to share this somewhere and I figured this would be a good place to do so.

Cheers

Glad to hear your enjoying punting, it is a mainly excellent pastime in my experiences. :)

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British men appear to have an obsession with the number of women they've slept with. Be careful it doesn't become quantity over quality.

Last year, a friend of mine married a man who has never had sex with anyone but her. The love between them is palpable.

I wish you the best of luck!

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British men appear to have an obsession with the number of women they've slept with. Be careful it doesn't become quantity over quality.

Last year, a friend of mine married a man who has never had sex with anyone but her. The love between them is palpable.

I wish you the best of luck!

....and Lara, we're not all going through the escort index and ticking them off. I prefer to have a regular attachment rather than obsess over numbers. Quality IS everything. But I must say, sometimes the best remedy to get your head screwed on aobut punting is to go punt wiht someone else. I think I'll need to do that soon to bring me back down to earth after several cracking encounters with one girl.

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British men appear to have an obsession with the number of women they've slept with. Be careful it doesn't become quantity over quality.

Last year, a friend of mine married a man who has never had sex with anyone but her. The love between them is palpable.

I wish you the best of luck!

Some 450 meets with 246 WGs, 3 WGs account for 75 meets and 2 of these 2 retired while I was still keen to see them and several more were at 5+ meets and climbimg when they too retired/vanished away.

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Good for you mate, keep it up! (pun intended).

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Always remember that a punt is meant to be a great time, and never allow yourself to spend more than you can afford on the hobby, many a time some punters have got themself into some trouble because they tried to see as many as they could.

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British men appear to have an obsession with the number of women they've slept with. Be careful it doesn't become quantity over quality.

Last year, a friend of mine married a man who has never had sex with anyone but her. The love between them is palpable.

I wish you the best of luck!

Some British men.

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Some British men.

Actually, most.

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Actually, most.

You assert with confidence that "[most] British men appear to have an obsession with the number of women they've slept with". This is certainly not true amongst the men that I know and have known over the years. Have you access to unpublished and credible statistics or are you gifted with a unique insight? Or is this just your opinion? Please tell us what "most" is, exactly, and what form this obsession takes and how worried we, or the nation as a whole, should be about it.

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Welcome to the OP.

You seem to have the right mindset,

hope you enjoy the hobby,

and let us know your opinions from time to time.

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Some 450 meets with 246 WGs, 3 WGs account for 75 meets and 2 of these 2 retired while I was still keen to see them and several more were at 5+ meets and climbimg when they too retired/vanished away.

Some british men...

LOL and Respect to Aka.

I'd figured you at a higher nr tho

I'll let you know when I surpass that nr..

(kidding!)

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British men appear to have an obsession with the number of women they've slept with. Be careful it doesn't become quantity over quality.

Agree, althoug latins and arabs come close in the brag-dept...

But there are very few places where I myself would go brag about it.

And I agree: Quality is more important (you live n learn...)

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Actually, most.

It might be most in your own experiences, but as you havent met most British men you dont know if its most overall, so some is actually correct which is why i posted it.

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Thanks for the responses guys.

I don't see quantity as a priority at the moment. My aim for now is to find a few nice WGs that would take me as a regular and go from there.

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I don't see quantity as a priority at the moment. My aim for now is to find a few nice WGs that would take me as a regular and go from there.

Your original post rung true with me in places. Starting punting did wonders for me. Its not all great all of the time though, so you'll have to accept that there isn't any such thing as a guaranteed punt. Since the internet came along there is a lot of info out there. When I first started it was pick a name out of the local paper and see how it went.

If you can find 2 or 3 regulars who float your boat I think thats ideal as there is a fair chance one will be available if you want a spur of the moment session.

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Your original post rung true with me in places. Starting punting did wonders for me. Its not all great all of the time though, so you'll have to accept that there isn't any such thing as a guaranteed punt. Since the internet came along there is a lot of info out there. When I first started it was pick a name out of the local paper and see how it went.

If you can find 2 or 3 regulars who float your boat I think thats ideal as there is a fair chance one will be available if you want a spur of the moment session.

pbl, wlf, you guys sussed it.

have fun, and keep us posted from time to time.

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I'm in a similar situation and can attest that the benefits to ones confidence can be beneficial. In all matters though, you bring whatever hangups you have to the party with you. Doing this has certainly brought mine to the surface & I'm therefore dealing with them post haste. :)

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OP - do you see paid sex as a long term way of life? Or do you want a relationship?

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OP - do you see paid sex as a long term way of life? Or do you want a relationship?

Hmm, not entirely sure at this point. Probably leaning towards relationship.I'm planning on giving internet dating a go to see what happens, but in the interim I shall be doing this.

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I had a regular ex parlour girl who used to see a few of us away from the parlour, and then she set up working from home, this ws great as it was cheaper than the usual parlour rate, and I did build up a sort of rappor with her which made me stop going to some parlours.

Sadly she has now chosen to give up working, so im trying to come to terms with knowing that she floated my boat a lot and made the role play more intresting than I can expect at a parlour, so beware of getting too comfy with a regular, it can bounce back and bite you hard.

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I had a regular ex parlour girl who used to see a few of us away from the parlour, and then she set up working from home, this ws great as it was cheaper than the usual parlour rate, and I did build up a sort of rappor with her which made me stop going to some parlours.

Sadly she has now chosen to give up working, so im trying to come to terms with knowing that she floated my boat a lot and made the role play more intresting than I can expect at a parlour, so beware of getting too comfy with a regular, it can bounce back and bite you hard.

Yes, from what I have read from other punters I think this may well be something inevitable that comes with the territory of having a regular.

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Yes, from what I have read from other punters I think this may well be something inevitable that comes with the territory of having a regular.

It is unless your fortunate to meet a regular who continues to work in the same area for years which doesnt happen that often in my experiences. Literally disappearing overnight without a word is what i have found happens a lot, presumably to a new life. The search for a new regular is never ending in my case and as i like variety i enjoy that search. :)

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Some 450 meets with 246 WGs, 3 WGs account for 75 meets and 2 of these 2 retired while I was still keen to see them and several more were at 5+ meets and climbimg when they too retired/vanished away.

Who really cares ??

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Punting so far ? One thing I am noticing is that it is getting to the stage where I will not be able to cum unless the lady is wearing sexy heels !! :eek: And I thought I didnt have a heels fetish. I'll soon have to change my username to cameandwent or summat !

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