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Gemma Harris

When Is A Prostitute Not A Prostitute?

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Apparently when there is only the one person paying them!

I have an adorable (married) regular, he is such a sweetheart, during the pillow talk he said to me I really wish I could win the lottery so you do not have to be a prostitute, I would put you up in a flat, the Mrs will be happy doing her thing with her share of the cash and the kids that she will not notice/care that I spend the odd night with you, I will of course pay for all expenses and give you pocket money..............

Ok the sentiment was a lovely one but he was missing one little detail..................

I would still be a prostitute!

Its funny how some people can miss the glaring obvious :)

Which brings me along to wives.................. :P and they do not even put out! (mostly)

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A lot of women don't understand that.

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Are you not a mistress if you are maintained by one man. But you are right the principal is exacly the same.

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Are you not a mistress if you are maintained by one man. But you are right the principal is exacly the same.

Are you not a wife if you are maintained by one man. But you are right the principal is exacly the same. :D

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So...

Client lying next to a WG..

" I wish you didnt have to work as an escort"

"Why?"

"So I dont have to pay you".... :cool:

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I would suspect he means that you wouldn't have to sleep with all those other men. Will he pay into your future pension fund?and all those other things you tend to put money aside for?

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So...

Client lying next to a WG..

" I wish you didnt have to work as an escort"

"Why?"

"So I dont have to pay you".... :cool:

That is a given............I am in Yorkshire :D

Actually tI take that back.........I have many benefucktors that do not appear to begrudge me

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Surely the answer to the question in the thread title is: 'When she's a pro$$ie!' :D;)

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Please define "Prostitute" Ladies ? ( Or Gentlemen ? )

My own favourite WG insists on being described as such, despite being a "Classy Lady", IMHO.

Is there a difference between the self described "Courtesans", more down to earth and honest "Indies", Agency or Parlour Girls, Soho walk-ups, or those who literally "walk the streets" ? No offence intended if my own personal opinion of the descending order implied here does not go along with other's opinions.

If my ( in my eyes :D ) "Classy Independent" insists that she is a pro$$y, how am I supposed to describe a street walking scrubber ? ( or have I maybe done just that ? )

Jack :ph34r:

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'Prostitute' describes somebody offers sexual services in exchange for money/payment. The rest is harmless marketing fluff at best, pretentious crap at worst, and in the case of 'scrubber' downright ignorant, insulting and rude. We all do the same thing, and it's generally only the surroundings that are any different.

I find punters seem to object to the word far more than most prostitutes do (with the exception of the latest dopey tart to plagiarise my Adultwоrk profile - one of the few things she changed was the word 'prostitute' to 'escort' :rolleyes:). Maybe some punters would rather think of themselves as the 'clients' of 'escorts' than of 'prostitutes'?

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'Prostitute' describes somebody offers sexual services in exchange for money/payment. The rest is harmless marketing fluff at best, pretentious crap at worst, and in the case of 'scrubber' downright ignorant, insulting and rude. We all do the same thing, and it's generally only the surroundings that are any different.

I find punters seem to object to the word far more than most prostitutes do (with the exception of the latest dopey tart to plagiarise my Adultwоrk profile - one of the few things she changed was the word 'prostitute' to 'escort' :rolleyes:). Maybe some punters would rather think of themselves as the 'clients' of 'escorts' than of 'prostitutes'?

I, personally, am not to keen on being described as " A Punter" :( Yes, hypocritical Old Me :eek:

Gentleman, Gent, Customer, Client, whatever, but there's something about the word "punter" that I find rather unpleasant :angry:

What a bloody silly thing to say on a board called "PUNTERNet" :(

Ah me, another glass of sauvignon blanc, and I'll probably fall over, and leave you all in peace.

Jack :ph34r:

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Hell no! The pathetic little scrubber who is broke, but needs a holiday & goes on holiday with a bloke as his fuck-toy, because he got bored of fucking her friend, and the woman he claims to love jilted him, is a SCRUBBER!

I have too much respect for my fellow prostitutes to class someone who does a week-long job & comes back as broke as she left, as a prostitute.

Some women have neither dignity, nor ambition!

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Hell no! The pathetic little scrubber who is broke, but needs a holiday & goes on holiday with a bloke as his fuck-toy, because he got bored of fucking her friend, and the woman he claims to love jilted him, is a SCRUBBER!

I have too much respect for my fellow prostitutes to class someone who does a week-long job & comes back as broke as she left, as a prostitute.

Some women have neither dignity, nor ambition!

Sorry Lara,

I know i've "had a few", but i am still not sure of your definition of the difference between a prostitute and a scrubber. :blink:

I actually happen to have immense respect for the vast majority of "prostitutes" who give an Old Man like me so much pleasure in return for quite reasonable sums of money, and I think it's a wonderful system, here and on the purple site, for example, ( Oh hell, the whole bloody internet thing :) ) that we are able to get together, for hopefully mutual pleasure, fun, laughter and "naughtiness" :D

Nevertheless, IMHO, the Ladies like yourself who post here, and are available to Old Farts like me via this Modern Medium, are "streets ahead" of the "street walkers",

I feel that most Ladies on here and the purple site, do have dignity and ambition, whereas i doubt this applies to the majority of street walkers :(

Jack :ph34r:

Who Me, Trying to "blow smoke up your ass" ? Pleas just allow me the chance ? :D

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A prostitute gets paid, but isn't bought. eg: client pays me £750 for an overnight, as he's accepted my rules. I leave with £750.

A scrubber gets bought, but isn't paid. eg: man pays £550 for a holiday & £200 to change the name after he gets dumped. Scrubber goes along with his wishes & sets no rules. Man pays £750, Scrubber leaves with £0, having spent a week having sex whenever she was asked.

Actually, she probably loses money, as she has to pay to get to & from the airport.

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a scrubber is a term for a lady who does it but does not charge. WGs charge.

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.............

Maybe some punters would rather think of themselves as the 'clients' of 'escorts' than of 'prostitutes'?

Interestingly, I've known a couple of ladies who got a bit twitchy when I referred to their 'clients' as 'customers'. :mellow:

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Sorry Lara,

I know i've "had a few", but i am still not sure of your definition of the difference between a prostitute and a scrubber. :blink:

I actually happen to have immense respect for the vast majority of "prostitutes" who give an Old Man like me so much pleasure in return for quite reasonable sums of money, and I think it's a wonderful system, here and on the purple site, for example, ( Oh hell, the whole bloody internet thing :) ) that we are able to get together, for hopefully mutual pleasure, fun, laughter and "naughtiness" :D

Nevertheless, IMHO, the Ladies like yourself who post here, and are available to Old Farts like me via this Modern Medium, are "streets ahead" of the "street walkers",

I feel that most Ladies on here and the purple site, do have dignity and ambition, whereas i doubt this applies to the majority of street walkers :(

Jack :ph34r:

Who Me, Trying to "blow smoke up your ass" ? Pleas just allow me the chance ? :D

we all fuck for money. There is no difference between a cortesan, indie, parlour girl, or street walker besides the price and how they like to think of themselves. At the end of the day we all do the same thing.

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we all fuck for money. There is no difference between a cortesan, indie, parlour girl, or street walker besides the price and how they like to think of themselves. At the end of the day we all do the same thing.

All of the above are prostitutes. I have a genuine affection & admiration for prostitutes.

a scrubber is a term for a lady who does it but does not charge. WGs charge.

Scrubbers are beneath my contempt!

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..... so you do not have to be a prostitute.....

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" I wish you didnt have to work as an escort"

.....

These are the phrases that drive me mad. My reply is always 'I don't.'

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Interestingly, I've known a couple of ladies who got a bit twitchy when I referred to their 'clients' as 'customers'. :mellow:

I quite like the word customer, prefer it to punter anyway.

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I quite like the word customer, prefer it to punter anyway.

I quite like Benefucktor :)

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we all fuck for money. There is no difference between a cortesan, indie, parlour girl, or street walker besides the price and how they like to think of themselves. At the end of the day we all do the same thing.

Perfect interpretation for word prostitute. If money is paid and sexual service offered it is act of prostitution. Now when person keeps a mistress, not all times does he give money to her and get sexual favour in return. In fact there can be cases where a guy is pay her all expenses like rent, food, car etc for everyday and sleep with her only once a week or less. He begins to depend on her for emotional support too sometimes. So mistress cannot be called prostitute in many cases. If a guy solely keeps her as a object for sex and pays her only when he gets sex she is a prostitute.

Prostitute is a professional and will offer services only if money is paid or will be paid. She cannot offer any free service of sexual nature. If she does that act cannot be called prostitution and should be considered as natural human instincts.

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Perfect interpretation for word prostitute. If money is paid and sexual service offered it is act of prostitution. Now when person keeps a mistress, not all times does he give money to her and get sexual favour in return. In fact there can be cases where a guy is pay her all expenses like rent, food, car etc for everyday and sleep with her only once a week or less. He begins to depend on her for emotional support too sometimes. So mistress cannot be called prostitute in many cases. If a guy solely keeps her as a object for sex and pays her only when he gets sex she is a prostitute.

No. She is a prostitute! He is paying her for the opportunity to have sex. If I have a client who is impotent, he pays the same fee. There may not be penetration, but it is sexual contact. With the GFE, we provide all manner of emotional & social support too.

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The odd poster or two on this thread is starting to show a tendency to elevate prostitution into some kind of higher calling, at the expense of non-prostitutes who have sex for reasons of their own but of which you disapprove. Assumptions are made to support the argument (non-prostitutes are unable to set boundaries) and generalisations promoted as facts (woman who have sex for reasons you may not approve of are scrubbers).

Many ladies have posted on this board over the years that they escort because it's relatively easy money, gives them control over their lives, they enjoy sex, meeting new people etc, all very normal and human, and none have, as far as I have seen, regarded themselves as superior to non-prostitutes. This seems to be a new trend and makes me quite uncomfortable.

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I didn't even start on the drunken scrubbers!

I know a lot of scrubbers, away from this board, people my age call them "links" &"fuckbuddies". I wish that I could respect the scrubbers, but the one that calls the shots isn't the man, or the scrubber, it's his girlfriend, aka "the wifey".

All the prostitutes I know are closer in personality to "wifeys" than scrubbers.

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