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Why Does An Escort Ask If You Have A Girlfriend/partner/wife?

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I wonder, does this question come up a lot with the guys and do the ladies ask it a lot?

I suspect it is a chit-chat question, but is that really the case? Is there something more to it, like it affects the course of an appointment, or what a lady may think of a guy or how she may act?

And do the guys feel they should tell the truth on the subject?

I really wonder on this one.

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Just chit chat.

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Just chit chat.

Maybe she also gives you a good check over when you leave.

Lipstick traces

Perfume

etc.

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Just chit chat.

Well I thought that Matt, but when a lady asked me she said "it will affect what massage scent I use i.e. scented or not" and it just got me thinking sometimes these questions have a deeper reason than you think of or realise?

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I don't ask, but clients tell me.

At the end of the appointment, a client kissed me "goodbye", I said he needed to wash his face again & use mouthwash, he disagreed. I suggested that his wife might object to his mouth tasting of someone else's pussy.

He was shocked, but he followed my advice. If he were single, I wouldn't mind.

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Well I thought that Matt, but when a lady asked me she said "it will affect what massage scent I use i.e. scented or not" and it just got me thinking sometimes these questions have a deeper reason than you think of or realise?

Or maybe, with a local Thai girl to me, how deep she digs her nails into your back. :D

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I think it is one of those questions that should not be asked, but may be at times.

It is a bit like "so what do you do for work then?", some guys would think that a harmless question and say roughly what they do, others may think it is highly intrusive and not like it at all.

Chit chat is all it is.

I think all us ladies realise that a heck of a lot of you are married.

We would never judge anyone though, none of our business really is it.

Most seem to tell me their marital status though.

I actually do what one lady has said above though, check a guy for tell tale signs like long blond hairs.....

Lucy :)

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I wonder, does this question come up a lot with the guys and do the ladies ask it a lot?

I suspect it is a chit-chat question, but is that really the case? Is there something more to it, like it affects the course of an appointment, or what a lady may think of a guy or how she may act?

And do the guys feel they should tell the truth on the subject?

I really wonder on this one.

I am rarely asked this on a first punt, it sometimes gets asked when a WG becomes a regular, and i put it down to chit chat, its very rarely affected a punt. I have no idea what a WG may think of me so i dont concern myself with that, its not dating so i dont care beyond being polite. I dont feel compelled to tell the truth, i either do, lie or dont bother discussing it depending on whats being asked.

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I have never been asked.

I think wgs can smell out a married guy and just don't need to ask or are not interested.

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If you're single, how often do you get asked, "Why aren't you married or got a girlfriend?"

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If you're single, how often do you get asked, "Why aren't you married or got a girlfriend?"

If you get asked that question - there is some hope for you.

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i would never ask or even mention it, but many men do mention it themselves or it's pretty obvious from the wedding ring!

But as has been said anything we do ask is chitchat- If I ask what a man does for a living its small talk not me trying to work out where they work so I can stalk them!!!

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If you get asked that question - there is some hope for you.

Thank you, I believe so to. However;

It is often accompanied by the question;

"Do you understand how to complete a Form AN?"

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i would never ask or even mention it, but many men do mention it themselves or it's pretty obvious from the wedding ring!

But as has been said anything we do ask is chitchat- If I ask what a man does for a living its small talk not me trying to work out where they work so I can stalk them!!!

Maybe they want/need stalking! :D

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From an earlier thread (and a link to the saafe board) I detected the opion was: Married Clients are the better, easier, Clients.

Married guy, 40 and upward, is generally confident, respectful, understands the boundaries.

Lowest risk of hassle.

Singles or younger guys: harder work for the Lady, and more risk to turn complicated.

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I don't ask, but clients tell me.

At the end of the appointment, a client kissed me "goodbye", I said he needed to wash his face again & use mouthwash, he disagreed. I suggested that his wife might object to his mouth tasting of someone else's pussy.

He was shocked, but he followed my advice. If he were single, I wouldn't mind.

And that's all part of the service!! I would want an escort to be watching out for me. Keep up the good work Lara!

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If you're single, how often do you get asked, "Why aren't you married or got a girlfriend?"

I'm single, and just the once so far, but I took it to be a very good sign, particularly given the activities that preceded the comment :D . I think I've been asked if I was single/married by each of the girls I've seen, just as part of the general chat during the time as far as I could tell.

I'm a bit guarded with answers when seeing someone for the first time, and the girls tend to be the same, but on return visits once we know each other better then I'm more likely to share information, and they appear to be the same.

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I suggested that his wife might object to his mouth tasting of someone else's pussy.

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interesting point Lara

do we taste of pussy after giving a lady oral?

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Once I booked 2 girls in parlour. Once was a regular with me and other was actually a new girl on job. I heard regular girl teaching the new girl that if guy is married he is more interested in BJ than intercourse as most wife don't satisfy their husband with BJ while they are giving intercourse to husbands. If guy is unmarried they prefer intercourse more than BJ as they have no other option to have sex. From that day I believe the girls ask me whether I am married or not to understand what kind of service I am looking forward to.

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This is a question I've been asked on many occasions over the years. More often than not, it is merely chit-chat. A few times, I felt that the lady may have been genuinely curious, especially since the question was asked after the business end of the visit was completed. Once or twice, when I was unnattached, I was paid the compliment of being told that a future wife would be very happy with me! Nowadays, I sometimes lie to see if I can extract the same flattery!!

Lucy7 has mentioned that sometimes a punter might be asked what he works at/does for a living. I must say, I find this a more difficult question to deal with since my profession is one of the more unusual ones and is virtually impossible to explain to foreign ladies, especially my favourites from southeast Asia. I'm not going to give away what I do, for obvious reasons, but my ego is always bruised when I have to use some generalisation like manager, engineer or consultant!

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interesting point Lara

do we taste of pussy after giving a lady oral?

Let's flip the question: after you've cum in a woman's mouth, can you taste your own spunk?!

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This is a question I've been asked on many occasions over the years. More often than not, it is merely chit-chat. A few times, I felt that the lady may have been genuinely curious, especially since the question was asked after the business end of the visit was completed. Once or twice, when I was unnattached, I was paid the compliment of being told that a future wife would be very happy with me! Nowadays, I sometimes lie to see if I can extract the same flattery!!

Lucy7 has mentioned that sometimes a punter might be asked what he works at/does for a living. I must say, I find this a more difficult question to deal with since my profession is one of the more unusual ones and is virtually impossible to explain to foreign ladies, especially my favourites from southeast Asia. I'm not going to give away what I do, for obvious reasons, but my ego is always bruised when I have to use some generalisation like manager, engineer or consultant!

Why is your ego bruised?

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I wonder, does this question come up a lot with the guys and do the ladies ask it a lot?

I suspect it is a chit-chat question, but is that really the case? Is there something more to it, like it affects the course of an appointment, or what a lady may think of a guy or how she may act?

And do the guys feel they should tell the truth on the subject?

I really wonder on this one.

I always wear my wedding ring during my punts and if asked I just view it as a chit-chat question and show them the ring. It does not bother me one bit.

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Why is your ego bruised?

Sometimes the inquisition on here is harder than you ever get when you step into the WG's bedroom!!!!!

:D

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Maybe she also gives you a good check over when you leave.

Lipstick traces

Perfume

etc.

I hate wg's who wear any form of perfume or lipstick that leaves traces. C'mon, thats hardly discreet is it? Even the alternative of a shower afterwards leaves room for worry in the case of strong smelling gels.

As it happens, I can only recall being asked once and I tell the truth. Don't see what the problem is as it's unlikely I'm going to bump into the girls in public, and even if I did, would think that she would like as much discretion on my part as I, hers.

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