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I prefer longer appointments and enjoy dinner dates in particular.

Unlike Jimmyredcab, I do not mind paying simply for the pleasure of an escort's company at dinner (or as Jimmy puts it "to watch her eat my food").

Now, I was reading jameo's recent field report on the forum's lovely Natasha (Field Report 92702) and I noted his comment that she enjoys dinner dates so much that she does not charge for time spent dining - only for the private time afterwards.

I know that May (Sexymaylondon) has a similar if not slightly different policy.

Let's face it, dinner dates are not cheap. They are usually 3 to 5 hours in duration. At full tariff, you are talking (based on London rates) somewhere between GBP400 and GBP600. Dinner and cab on top (and I like expensive London restaurants). So for guys like me the sort of deal offered by Natasha and May is a real bargain.

So guys, and in particular the guys who like longer appointments but normally would never consider dinner dates due to cost, would you be keen to shout for the cost of dining with an escort if the time involved was free?

Ladies, would you consider only charging for private time on dinner dates if there was say a 2 hour minimum charge for private time?

Jimmyredcab, would you consider paying an escort for a dinner date under any circumstances? Thought not.

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I prefer longer appointments and enjoy dinner dates in particular.

Unlike Jimmyredcab, I do not mind paying simply for the pleasure of an escort's company at dinner (or as Jimmy puts it "to watch her eat my food").

Now, I was reading jameo's recent field report on the forum's lovely Natasha (Field Report 92702) and I noted his comment that she enjoys dinner dates so much that she does not charge for time spent dining - only for the private time afterwards.

I know that May (Sexymaylondon) has a similar if not slightly different policy.

Let's face it, dinner dates are not cheap. They are usually 3 to 5 hours in duration. At full tariff, you are talking (based on London rates) somewhere between GBP400 and GBP600. Dinner and cab on top (and I like expensive London restaurants). So for guys like me the sort of deal offered by Natasha and May is a real bargain.

So guys, and in particular the guys who like longer appointments but normally would never consider dinner dates due to cost, would you be keen to shout for the cost of dining with an escort if the time involved was free?

Ladies, would you consider only charging for private time on dinner dates if there was say a 2 hour minimum charge for private time?

Jimmyredcab, would you consider paying an escort for a dinner date under any circumstances? Thought not.

Of course, if you are taking a lady to dinner the guy foots the bill. Although I have been lucky enough to have the girl buy me the meal. When you are not paying for her time that really does prove she is a friend and doing it cos she enjoys your company!:D:D:D:D

Four grins is a bit smug.....but I don't care!

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Of course, if you are taking a lady to dinner the guy foots the bill. Although I have been lucky enough to have the girl buy me the meal. When you are not paying for her time that really does prove she is a friend and doing it cos she enjoys your company!:D:D:D:D

Four grins is a bit smug.....but I don't care!

I can top that - just to put you in your place.

My first appointment with a WG was a four hour platonic luncheon at the River Cafe on the Thames at Hammersmith and it never cost me a penny other than the price of lunch.

No grins but I don't care.

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Good post and an interesting question. I have occasionally done this in the past and thoroughly enjoyed the evening out. However, for me, it has and would have to be with someone I'd seen a number of times before and 'clicked' with. I wouldn't particularly want to sit and have dinner as a form of social interaction with someone I didn't know or have some sense that they were interesting and good company. At best, sharing a meal and having a meaningful conversation is quite intimate whether in a platonic context or not and at worst it could be boring and awkward or just filled with inane small talk, which isn't the end of the world I guess but probably not worth the effort for both parties. I accept that I could be responsible for it being boring etc. btw!

I'd be really interested to hear what the ladies have to say about this. Funnily enough I have no real qualms about paying for sex and even though buying a meal is no big thing, I draw the line a paying to talk with someone - one of the reasons I'd never enter therapy...

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This is a toughie as you always get this debate as to:

  • If she is a friend she does not charge for dinner
  • I wont pay to watch her eat
  • "Johnny No Mates" if you cant get a "normal" woman to have dinner with you
  • Play for pay is not a relationship
  • etc etc ad nauseum

I only go out for dinner and pay for it (If taking a Lady out) if I like them and want to natter etc. I have WGs who I just meet for sex and others who I pay for sex but also enjoy their company over a meal and find they do seem to enjoy that too. The ones I want to have dinner with tend to be the intelligent ones with something to say that I want to hear. There are no hard and fast rules and what works for one will fail for another. It is always a case of YMMV and depends on the two personalities.

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I am neither rich enough nor keen enough to start paying WG hourly rates for the dinner part of "dinner dates". I do however enjoy the company of a few of the WGs I have met enough to want to spend some social time with them as well as sack time, especially where they have made it clear that the feeling is mutual (note, I am talking about nsa companionship here, not about love or romance).

Most WGs make it clear that it's just a job to them and they do not usually socialise with clients (or clients like me at least, ymmv :D). With a small handful however, I seem to have got friendly enough with to find myself with them in a pub or a restaurant (or even their kitchen) in unpaid time. It has been a real pleasure to have spent time with these ladies and get to hear a bit of the truth behind the smoke and mirrors of their professional lives. When out with one of them, I always offer to pay for the meal, but now and again, one lovely lady I see insists on taking her turn.

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For me it all depends on who it is, where it is and how long the private booking is. I've come to good arrangements with regulars, and they know it's subject to me having the personal, or spare work time available. Makes for an enjoyable evening for all.

However a few guys will try and vy for it without respecting the above, acting as if it's expected, crossing the line too soon often or trying to monopolise a lady. Result will be WG running a million miles from them!

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For me it all depends on who it is, where it is and how long the private booking is. I've come to good arrangements with regulars, and they know it's subject to me having the personal, or spare work time available. Makes for an enjoyable evening for all.

However a few guys will try and vy for it without respecting the above, acting as if it's expected, crossing the line too soon often or trying to monopolise a lady. Result will be WG running a million miles from them!

That's good advice Ruth. I think that punters who breeze into working girl's lives expecting to be the centre of their universe from day one are just self absorbed fools. They shouldn't be surprised when the old "stay away from me" signals start arriving. For me, it usually takes a few meetings to be sure I want to spend any time with someone socially (both in and out of the punting world). I doubt I'm alone in this.

The one exception (for me) to this was a young WG earlier this year who invited me out for a platonic lunch right after our first punt. You could have knocked me over with a feather. I accepted more out amazement than anything else and am ever so glad I did.

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Is it not just enough to enjoy women and their company and give a gallic shrug cava the man pays which ever way you look at it. C'est la vie...

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Jimmyredcab, would you consider paying an escort for a dinner date under any circumstances?

The answer to your question is absolutely no, there are however a couple of ladies that I would be happy to dine out with before a booking, I am not that desperate for company that I would pay a lady for the honour of watching her eat. :confused::rolleyes:

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The answer to your question is absolutely no, there are however a couple of ladies that I would be happy to dine out with before a booking, I am not that desperate for company that I would pay a lady for the honour of watching her eat. :confused::rolleyes:

What, not even if the lady fellates her banana fritter Jim? Hope you're enjoying HK by the way. Go to Bottoms Up, tourist trap yes, but it was in a Bond film (The Man With The Golden Gun). Stanley Market good too, HK Island.

Morning all. My dining policy is purely foreplay on my part. For me. I'm aware I put off the pump and dump brigade this way, and I think that's great.

Mind you, the pricing issue as raised by Oneputt. My agency I worked for, the dining fee £320. Two hours munching, one hour private time. The last group thing I did for that agency....

*Wavy lines, but it was only two yearsish ago*

Me. Two other girls, from different agencies. Essex lads wanting to celebrate selling their company, so what better to do than book three hookers for a night out? We meet at Cecconi's. The girl to my right doesn't know what to order, Mei, are oysters nice?

Fook yes, but if you haven't tried before, just pick what you fancy. You might not like, but go for it girl.

The other girl just settles for the most expensive starter and the most expensive main course.

Get called "Duchess" a lot, and I'm happy to say I was responsible for the loss of thousands. Casino after, they asked me to bet on chemin de fer. I went, er, black 31, not knowing that you could just say black or red. It came up, strangely. "My luck's run out! No....no....no". Still asked for numbers, these lottery era twats.

The next day I had a bracing full English, on me, alone. Money cannot buy that.

The full spectrum. One client took me to Nando's. One client took me to Le Gavroche, where my overnight fee was less than half of the total bill.

Dinner dates are civilized, and tasty foreplay yes, but some people are better left silent in my experience.

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Hi Oneputt,

I suppose everyone is different, I personally find going for lunch/dinner before a meeting/booking with a client a nice way to get to know each other a little, get a rapport going- civilized, good conversation-

Although not too good if your stuck for a couple of hours chatting about the decor of the room and the pattern on the tablecloth :o.:confused:

I lunch out and have dinner with friends/girlfriends quite frequently- it's a nice way to catch up and have a good chat over some good food and wine.:)

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I would rather go out for a lunch date and then some naughty afternoon fun. Sounds much better! Whilst everybody is working we would be having some slap and tickle in the bedroom:)

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What, not even if the lady fellates her banana fritter Jim? Hope you're enjoying HK by the way. Go to Bottoms Up, tourist trap yes, but it was in a Bond film (The Man With The Golden Gun). Stanley Market good too, HK Island.

Morning all. My dining policy is purely foreplay on my part. For me. I'm aware I put off the pump and dump brigade this way, and I think that's great.

Mind you, the pricing issue as raised by Oneputt. My agency I worked for, the dining fee £320. Two hours munching, one hour private time. The last group thing I did for that agency....

*Wavy lines, but it was only two yearsish ago*

Me. Two other girls, from different agencies. Essex lads wanting to celebrate selling their company, so what better to do than book three hookers for a night out? We meet at Cecconi's. The girl to my right doesn't know what to order, Mei, are oysters nice?

Fook yes, but if you haven't tried before, just pick what you fancy. You might not like, but go for it girl.

The other girl just settles for the most expensive starter and the most expensive main course.

Get called "Duchess" a lot, and I'm happy to say I was responsible for the loss of thousands. Casino after, they asked me to bet on chemin de fer. I went, er, black 31, not knowing that you could just say black or red. It came up, strangely. "My luck's run out! No....no....no". Still asked for numbers, these lottery era twats.

The next day I had a bracing full English, on me, alone. Money cannot buy that.

The full spectrum. One client took me to Nando's. One client took me to Le Gavroche, where my overnight fee was less than half of the total bill.

Dinner dates are civilized, and tasty foreplay yes, but some people are better left silent in my experience.

Ah yes, the May experience :o

Being a recent graduate of TME (including pre-punt lunch date), I did have you in mind when I posted last night, but mindful of rules on touting, I have decided to let my forthcoming PFR do the talking :confused:

BTW, were you up early on a saturday or going to bed late :) ?

P.S. A full english on your own is one of the things money can buy, but I do get your drift. Much as Natasha intimates above, dining on your own can indeed be preferable than dining with some terrible bore, male or female.

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This is a toughie as you always get this debate as to:

  • If she is a friend she does not charge for dinner
  • I wont pay to watch her eat
  • "Johnny No Mates" if you cant get a "normal" woman to have dinner with you
  • Play for pay is not a relationship
  • etc etc ad nauseum

I only go out for dinner and pay for it (If taking a Lady out) if I like them and want to natter etc. I have WGs who I just meet for sex and others who I pay for sex but also enjoy their company over a meal and find they do seem to enjoy that too. The ones I want to have dinner with tend to be the intelligent ones with something to say that I want to hear. There are no hard and fast rules and what works for one will fail for another. It is always a case of YMMV and depends on the two personalities.

Yes, add a little nauseum to the table Ghenghis! :confused::o xxx

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The answer to your question is absolutely no, there are however a couple of ladies that I would be happy to dine out with before a booking, I am not that desperate for company that I would pay a lady for the honour of watching her eat. :confused::rolleyes:

Me neither.

I wouldn't do it if I didn't want to or if it did not suit my style of punting.

Each to his own.

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I'm quite sure if I advertised myself at £200 yet included the first social hour as free, that I would [not] be inundated with requests.

Let's try it whilst I'm not working anyway.

By the way the local pub is a dive!

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Ah yes, the May experience :confused:.

TME. Eat a Pot Noodle, wank and have two pints whilst watching youporn...

BTW, were you up early on a saturday or going to bed late :o ?

Up early, but napped. Awoke to find myself cold, erect-nippled and goose pimply with a medieval murder mystery book next to my hip. Window open, whoops.

P.S. A full english on your own is one of the things money can buy, but I do get your drift. Much as Natasha intimates above, dining on your own can indeed be preferable than dining with some terrible bore, male or female.

Strawberry, your post below, do try it. I, like Natasha, don't charge a fee for time "off the meter", and it does mean that I don't meet wankers usually - it acts as a filter. It's all very civilized, and my silly female Asian mindset gets off on the hunter gatherer man tenderly bringing me food. Before screwing me silly. Sigh.

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I'm quite sure if I advertised myself at £200 yet included the first social hour as free, that I would [not] be inundated with requests.

Let's try it whilst I'm not working anyway.

By the way the local pub is a dive!

Touche :confused:. Let us know how the "experiment" goes.

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This Jameo ... must be some kind of nutter ... spending good money on watching ladies eat ... whatever next ..... :o .... :confused:

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Horses for courses, isnt it?

Its two completely different styles of escorting.

The 'personal' side of it has always been there and always will be, but to a lesser extent, the 'social' side of escorting has always been there too.

We find that 'social' clients want a companion to show-off at business functions and the like and dont want to be arsed trying to pick up a cocktail barfly from Flares, the like of which can actually end up costing MORE than an escort.

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No, Dinner Dates are not cheap but rather like Overnighters, you tend to get a lot more time than you have actually paid for if you get on with the Lady. Let's face it, if you are the sort that likes dinner dates, you are going to find it hard NOT to get on with someone who is a professional at getting on with you. (Definately not for the P.D & L. brigade though, I suppose, so that rules out our Jimbo :confused:)

Personally, I love 'em. I adore sitting opposite a gorgeous woman in a good restaurant for a couple of hours with good food and good wine while you put the world to rights AND.... knowing that you will end up in bed together at the end of it.

Dinner dates at the start of an overnighter are even better!!!!!!!!!

I believe it just proves the old adage - "The more you put in, the more you get out." (as it were :o)

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No, Dinner Dates are not cheap but rather like Overnighters, you tend to get a lot more time than you have actually paid for if you get on with the Lady. Let's face it, if you are the sort that likes dinner dates, you are going to find it hard NOT to get on with someone who is a professional at getting on with you. (Definately not for the P.D & L. brigade though, I suppose, so that rules out our Jimbo :D)

Personally, I love 'em. I adore sitting opposite a gorgeous woman in a good restaurant for a couple of hours with good food and good wine while you put the world to rights AND.... knowing that you will end up in bed together at the end of it.

Dinner dates at the start of an overnighter are even better!!!!!!!!!

I believe it just proves the old adage - "The more you put in, the more you get out." (as it were :D)

Hard to disagree with that Skyeman, but the financial outlay for a good overnight (escort, hotel, dinner) is not going to give much change, if any, out of a grand. This is financially out of reach of many (most?) punters. I am very lucky in that Mrs Northwinds pays very cursory attention to the household finances so doesn't miss the odd hundred here and there spent on my hobbies. If the odd grand started disappearing now and again, I think eyebrows might be raised and questions asked :D.

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I am very lucky in that Mrs Northwinds pays very cursory attention to the household finances so doesn't miss the odd hundred here and there spent on my hobbies.

Nor does Mrs S thank the Lord :D

If the odd grand started disappearing now and again, I think eyebrows might be raised and questions asked :D.

Yes, but you have to bear in mind that being where I am, my punting opprtunities are rather limited, so it is a case of saving up for a "special" occasion now and again. A case of less is more really. :D

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I should think it is a real problem..almost as bad as Inbhir Nis....but not as bad as Uist !

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