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What Would Make Your Wife Angrier?

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What would make your wife angrier? Finding out you're being unfaithful, or discovering that you're spending money on your own pleasure rather than hers?

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I would have guessed the latter. As a woman I expect my future husband to work hard in a high paid job and spend all his money on me. I need new shoes and handbags and I would begrudge him having any pleasure of his own.

PS: The 1950's called, they want their ridiculous outdated opinions back.

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I would have guessed the latter. As a woman I expect my future husband to work hard in a high paid job and spend all his money on me. I need new shoes and handbags and I would begrudge him having any pleasure of his own.

PS: The 1950's called, they want their ridiculous outdated opinions back.

Wife! Get back in the kitchen and give birth some more. I won't have people saying I can't control my woman.

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Wife! Get back in the kitchen and give birth some more. I won't have people saying I can't control my woman.

Sorry my darling, have a sandwich whilst I rub your feet and tell you what a clever bunny you are for making lots of money I can spend on gin and handbags.

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Seems to be something of a consensus here. Pretty much in line with my own thinking. To be honest I think my wife doesn't really care if I stray, so long as we never talk about it. But spending 'her' money .... now that's something else

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What would make your wife angrier? Finding out you're being unfaithful, or discovering that you're spending money on your own pleasure rather than hers?

Never been married and never will get married but finding out i was a selfish lying cheat would i imagine be worse.

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Seems to be something of a consensus here. Pretty much in line with my own thinking. To be honest I think my wife doesn't really care if I stray, so long as we never talk about it. But spending 'her' money .... now that's something else

One person agreed with you. One.

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One person agreed with you. One.

If I can get one other person to agree with me - that's an acheivement!!

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If I can get one other person to agree with me - that's an acheivement!!

That's what you get for getting feckin' married.

Over excited at the though of someone agreeing with you. ;)

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That's what you get for getting feckin' married.

Over excited at the though of someone agreeing with you. ;)

Sadly - all too true :(

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I have something to add which has more value than any of the comments so far.

If we are talking about discovering that you are a punting whoremonger. (as opposed to an affair)

It's neither the money nor the unfaithfullness which angers first.

The first emotion is fear that you've brought disease into the house - then disgust like you put your head into a pub toilet for your kicks - then anger about the money - and finally unfaithfullness - in that order. I have my own empiricle evidence.

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I have something to add which has more value than any of the comments so far.

If we are talking about discovering that you are a punting whoremonger. (as opposed to an affair)

It's neither the money nor the unfaithfullness which angers first.

The first emotion is fear that you've brought disease into the house - then disgust like you put your head into a pub toilet for your kicks - then anger about the money - and finally unfaithfullness - in that order. I have my own empiricle evidence.

I'll tell mine this evening, and report back to see if the process is the same as your experience :)

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I'll tell mine this evening, and report back to see if the process is the same as your experience :)

We may never hear from this man again. rip.

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i suspect it finding out that i have been lying to her to make wondows for punting.

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i suspect it finding out that i have been lying to her to make wondows for punting.

It's not the whoring then, she could forgive you for that - understand even. It's the dishonesty. Right.

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It's not the whoring then, she could forgive you for that - understand even. It's the dishonesty. Right.

yup. they are big on trust....

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I have something to add which has more value than any of the comments so far.

If we are talking about discovering that you are a punting whoremonger. (as opposed to an affair)

It's neither the money nor the unfaithfullness which angers first.

The first emotion is fear that you've brought disease into the house - then disgust like you put your head into a pub toilet for your kicks - then anger about the money - and finally unfaithfullness - in that order. I have my own empiricle evidence.

I dont agree it necessarily has more value than other comments, that depends on what posters think of it, not you. You have posted about your own experiences which was helpful to know about but it may be different to yours with other people. You cant assume everyone will view things in exactly the same way, other wives might or might not think exactly this in this order. Your own evidence is personal to how your wife reacted, my mates wife attacked him and immediately threw him out, there was no talking for a long time later about the matter. It transpired she was concerned about why he needed to shag a WG, not disease or money. Her pride was very hurt and it took a long time to move on from that.

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What would make your wife angrier? Finding out you're being unfaithful, or discovering that you're spending money on your own pleasure rather than hers?

Intresting post.

But why do you think you are being unfaithful for seeing an escort, its only when you see the same escort regularly and spend more time with her than you do with the wife or family that its becoming an unfaithful act!.

A one off punt with an escort if it does you good, is something that you should be able to do if it makes you a happier person then surely the family as a whole would benefit from it.

What is the price of a happy family life, and if your partner was to spend her moey on what made her happy, would you complain if it included a trip to a strip club to see firemen, or a quickie with a gigilo

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Intresting post.

But why do you think you are being unfaithful for seeing an escort, its only when you see the same escort regularly and spend more time with her than you do with the wife or family that its becoming an unfaithful act!.

A one off punt with an escort if it does you good, is something that you should be able to do if it makes you a happier person then surely the family as a whole would benefit from it.

What is the price of a happy family life, and if your partner was to spend her moey on what made her happy, would you complain if it included a trip to a strip club to see firemen, or a quickie with a gigilo

As soon as you punt or have sex with any woman behind your wife or partners back you are being unfaithful if she hasnt agreed to it, doing it only once with individual WGs doesnt change that fact.

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My ex wife got angry when she found out I was seeing an escort, but she will get angrier when she finds out that her new partner is seeing the same lady.

Saving that one until the next time she pisses me off

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Does anyone here have a wife who's really fond of sex and needs it nearly as much as you do and enjoys you making love to her because she has a high sex drive? But even although you still go out and pay for sex?

A wife who likes swinging could be good. Then you'd both get to have sex with different partners just for fun and variety and it would cost nothing except the fees for the club. Then you could both go home happy together and still in love, of course, and want to shag each other again because of all the excitement you'd just had! The beauty of it is there'd be no need for any anger or dishonesty because your wife would have seen exactly what you were doing and you'd have had the fun of watching another man shagging your wife! Quite a turn on! .... or am I just sex mad? :)

Even 'soft swinging' could be pretty good - having sex with your own wife while another couple were doing it too in the same room, but listening and watching each other, and maybe a little bit of touching .... I wonder if there are many wives who'd do this kind of thing. There definitely are some.

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My ex wife got angry when she found out I was seeing an escort, but she will get angrier when she finds out that her new partner is seeing the same lady.

Saving that one until the next time she pisses me off

That's not cool, bros before hos and all that. Unless he's a massive wanker then fair enough.

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...But why do you think you are being unfaithful for seeing an escort, its only when you see the same escort regularly and spend more time with her than you do with the wife or family that its becoming an unfaithful act!...

I can see your point but you only have to read the relationship forum of Mumsnet to realise that our views are not the norm and there are plenty of women who view their partners fucking prostitutes as the lowest of the low. They see it as far worse than if it was with a civvie woman as it is assumed sex workers are exploited or diseased. If you put your cock into another woman without your partner’s consent you are cheating on her, so don’t fool yourself into thinking that paying for it makes it less so. Frequency with the same person doesn’t seem to factor into it either, but the lies involved with cheating seem to be major factor; without trust there isn’t a healthy relationship and if you’ve lied once how will she ever trust you again?

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I can see your point but you only have to read the relationship forum of Mumsnet to realise that our views are not the norm and there are plenty of women who view their partners fucking prostitutes as the lowest of the low. They see it as far worse than if it was with a civvie woman as it is assumed sex workers are exploited or diseased. If you put your cock into another woman without your partner’s consent you are cheating on her, so don’t fool yourself into thinking that paying for it makes it less so. Frequency with the same person doesn’t seem to factor into it either, but the lies involved with cheating seem to be major factor; without trust there isn’t a healthy relationship and if you’ve lied once how will she ever trust you again?

Can you explain how you can see the point spklors made and what you mean by our views in this posts context please? You say later in your post that it is cheating which is an absolute fact, the number of women you have sex with doesnt change that fact, i dont just see actual penetration as cheating either, any sexual contact is cheating, the Clinton reasoning is a crock of shit to me. It just makes you a serial cheat if you have sex with more than one woman in my view. :)

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