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Is Dfk More Intimate Than Sex?

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Just wondered what people's thoughts are on this? If the DFK (deep French kissing) is done correctly and with a reasonable degree of passion, I find this to be far more intimate than anything else that may occur during a booking.

I realise that a lot of guys may not actually want this and I know that many ladies don't offer it, (or just pretend to when in reality all they offer is a quick peck on the lips!) so this is really directed towards the ladies who genuinely DO offer this service and the guys who want it.

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In the eighties there was very little DFK action in the parlours, but then it seemed to get quite popular and it was very common to get this action, the line about keeping it special for my boyfriend was used a lot, but as the number of parlours sprung up, it was a regular thing for many girls to offer.

Nowadays we seem to be seeing that this is less often provided, despite what some escorts say, which makes me wonder how the hell can someone give a GFE without DFK, it is part and parcel of what a GFE is.

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Just wondered what people's thoughts are on this? If the DFK (deep French kissing) is done correctly and with a reasonable degree of passion, I find this to be far more intimate than anything else that may occur during a booking.

I realise that a lot of guys may not actually want this and I know that many ladies don't offer it, (or just pretend to when in reality all they offer is a quick peck on the lips!) so this is really directed towards the ladies who genuinely DO offer this service and the guys who want it.

I find it is. And I also find its the most fun thing to do during the appointment by a long way. But like you say many escorts refuse to do it (on the basis that they say its being unfaithful to their boyfriend - don't ask me why they feel that this is just what they say).

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Just wondered what people's thoughts are on this? If the DFK (deep French kissing) is done correctly and with a reasonable degree of passion, I find this to be far more intimate than anything else that may occur during a booking.

I realise that a lot of guys may not actually want this and I know that many ladies don't offer it, (or just pretend to when in reality all they offer is a quick peck on the lips!) so this is really directed towards the ladies who genuinely DO offer this service and the guys who want it.

As Spklors posted in the 80s and actually well into the 90s DFK or indeed any kissing wasnt generally on offer and i include from any WGs in my own experiences as it was too intimate a service for a WG to offer as they often told me. Quite prepared to shag me though so then it was considered more intimate than shagging by those many WGs.

Nowadays its seemingly viewed differently, i would say its far more professional now and DFK is a known popular service some punters require including myself, and with the GFE being popular as well offering DFK is a good business move for those WGs prepared to offer it. I find it incredibly intimate especially after many years of punting without it being on the menu.

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A combination of the 2, sex in cowgirl while DFK'ing is very intimate I think.

And yes, in fact I enjoy DFK more than sex.

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I personally think that intimacy comes from the head rather than the physical act. Whether kissing, shagging or giving oral how I feel depends on who I am doing it with!

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As Spklors posted in the 80s and actually well into the 90s DFK or indeed any kissing wasn't generally on offer and i include from any WGs in my own experiences as it was too intimate a service for a WG to offer as they often told me. Quite prepared to shag me though so then it was considered more intimate than shagging by those many WGs.

Into the noughties too. It's something I only want to do in a relationship, but should be part of a GFE if GFE means anything.

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A combination of the 2, sex in cowgirl while DFK'ing is very intimate I think.

I agree, and my favourite positions for sex are those that allow me to still kiss my partner this way. The most memorable wg I've seen did exactly what you're describing, and it felt really special, particular as we were both getting out of breath.

That may be why dfk feels very intimate to me, you are almost certainly going to be sharing each others breath. I'm sure there's some s,bolism with breath being life in there somewhere, but I can't quite out it into words.

Being a newcomer who looks for the GFE, I've not experienced dfk not being available, and I've not generally been the one to initiate it either.

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Into the noughties too. It's something I only want to do in a relationship, but should be part of a GFE if GFE means anything.

In my experiences by the noughties kissing including some SPs offering DFK was generally available to me, offered initially by EE WGs followed by Brits who didnt offer it before, the beauty of the free market, god bless those EE WGs.

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It's a crime not to enjoy deep french kissing....mind you every inch of the female body should be enjoyed (and I do mean every inch)....sure there's an art to it....

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Funny how the real world and punting get it the opposite away around. In the real world you start with kissing and then move onto sex while in punting you start with sex and if you develop a rapport with a girl she might let you have a snog.

Always have to laugh when a girl says she won't DFK out of respect for her boyfriend. Saw a girl a couple of months ago who brought this out yet she was quite happy for me to fuck her and take a load in her mouth.

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Funny how the real world and punting get it the opposite away around. In the real world you start with kissing and then move onto sex while in punting you start with sex and if you develop a rapport with a girl she might let you have a snog.

Always have to laugh when a girl says she won't DFK out of respect for her boyfriend. Saw a girl a couple of months ago who brought this out yet she was quite happy for me to fuck her and take a load in her mouth.

Some would be happy to rim your arse but would not want to kiss you. Its a funny old world.

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Some would be happy to rim your arse but would not want to kiss you. Its a funny old world.

That made me chuckle :lol:

Yes, it is a funny old world indeed. I agree with Hero, it is a crime not to enjoy it!

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DFK is more intimtate: it is more exclusive, and needs more acting skills to do well. Any whore can lay back (with lube) and be fucked.

now, the combination, the Lady who can play it out well: that is a Talent.

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Q: Is DFK more intimate?

A: YES x 10

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I'm suprised that no one has mentioned that DFK is a good way to exchange body fluids, and thus transmitting some germs.

Shagging which is done mostly with a condom on does not transmit body fluids, maybe thats why so many escorts dont agree with DFK.

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I'm suprised that no one has mentioned that DFK is a good way to exchange body fluids, and thus transmitting some germs.

Shagging which is done mostly with a condom on does not transmit body fluids, maybe thats why so many escorts dont agree with DFK.

Glandular Fever looks like so much fun!

I didn't mind kissing clients, and I didn't find it more intimate than sex, either.

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I didn't mind kissing clients, and I didn't find it more intimate than sex, either.

Now, now Lara, I thought you had another day and a half to go before you started referring to us clients in the past tense :).

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A combination of the 2, sex in cowgirl while DFK'ing is very intimate I think.

And yes, in fact I enjoy DFK more than sex.

So do i as evidenced by me always wanting DFK but not always wanting to shag. When the WGs tongue is down my throat tickling my tonsils its like being in heaven. ;)

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I'm suprised that no one has mentioned that DFK is a good way to exchange body fluids, and thus transmitting some germs.

Shagging which is done mostly with a condom on does not transmit body fluids, maybe thats why so many escorts dont agree with DFK.

In well over 10 years of DFK with hundreds of WGs i havent had any throat problems or indeed any other sexual disease problems.

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Now, now Lara, I thought you had another day and a half to go before you started referring to us clients in the past tense :).

I'm not doing incalls & if the right outcall comes along, I'll do it, but pragmatically.....

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OH ! C'mon Guys and Gals :)

DKF is great, but better than the real thing :mad:

You have to be Joking ?

Jack :ph34r:

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OH ! C'mon Guys and Gals :)

DKF is great, but better than the real thing :mad:

You have to be Joking ?

Jack :ph34r:

No joking from me Jack, i can take or leave shagging, i dont want to leave DFK, along with OWO and RO as a minimum i can easily spend an hours punt just indulging in those things. :)

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Best combined in my opinion, and from current experience, great DFK leads to great sex.

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