Dirty Harry

Sex And Dinner

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Ok here's a question, and I hope to phrase it correctly and not to get lambasted for asking it:

Hypothetically speaking a WG charges £350 for 3 hours incall; and all other things being equal, and assuming the client is actually good company and fun to be with.

What would be mutually acceptable:-

A) £350 for 3 hours' incall sex at her place and only the customary pleasantaries and chat that go with a punt.

B) To be taken out to a nice restaurant where the meal costs, say £100 and then back to her place for the remainder of the evening (say 2 max 3 hours) for the remainder of the money, being £250.

So the client still ends up spending the full £350 but both have enjoyed an evening out to a nice restaurant, followed by sex back at her place for which the WG has earned £250. More like a date where the outcome is pre-determined!

C) Some other combination of time / money for dinner / sex? If so - what?

Perhaps what I am trying to find out is - is there some value TO the WG of being taken out on a nice date (remembering that "even working girls are human" as is so often said tongue-in-cheek) and in return still providing the client up to 3 hours' sex. Or would she just prefer the money and no dinner?

Of course I understand that everyone is different but I was curious as to the general consensus.

DH

PS - Warning - this post is in contrast to my "Advice on a first punt" post in which I don't seek a dinner-date. I am asking this for later and/or general interest!

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Fuck me first, feed me after...

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Depends if you take her to McDonalds....she might not be too impressed :lol:

I also think fucking on a full stomach probably isn't the best thing!! That's just me though ;)

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Many agencies and independents specify a special dinner rate. At Agency Allure, for example, prices are listed for both 3 hour dinner dates (at the same price as a standard 2 hour outcall) and 4 hour dinner dates (at the price of a 3 hour outcall). I think it is assumed dinner will take up about 2 hours so the prices are equivalent to a standard rate for the private time you will get plus a significantly reduced rate for the dinner time.

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Fuck me first, feed me after...

Amen to that :D.

I don't think most ladies would appreciate what amounts to being asked to pay for dinner with company they didn't choose out of their fee? You're still taking up three hours of her time, after all - if you want a two hour incall, book one and then if she wants to go out for dinner she can do so afterwards with the same amount of money in her wallet and select her dining partner herself. Why should she work for free? It's the same principle as the 'but you'll be getting a free holiday!' nutters that put week-long reverse bookings up for £50 on Adultwоrk.

Or just book somebody who offers dinner dates :).

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I do a lot of these type of meetings nowadays.

I do them at set rate, but am a bit loose with time on them.

Some ladies will do reduced rates for those type of meetings, others will not.

You will have to check who does what.

The thing is it is your choice or not if you take her out for food at a nice restaurant, she would not ask you to take her out for food.

So as Amy says above, time booked is time booked....

You always have to remember that we are being paid to watch you eat and to listen to you talk, not the other way around ;)

Lucy :)

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Why should she work for free?

Or just book somebody who offers dinner dates :).

Amy my guess is that WG's are never free only Available so with the risk of being unpopular with the guys I guess you are right on both counts

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Haha or you could try taking a non WG on a dinner date, then if your charm and personality hasn't made her want to jump into bed at the end of it you could offer her money to seal the deal :P

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Ok here's a question, and I hope to phrase it correctly and not to get lambasted for asking it:

Hypothetically speaking a WG charges £350 for 3 hours incall; and all other things being equal, and assuming the client is actually good company and fun to be with.

What would be mutually acceptable:-

A) £350 for 3 hours' incall sex at her place and only the customary pleasantaries and chat that go with a punt.

:cool: To be taken out to a nice restaurant where the meal costs, say £100 and then back to her place for the remainder of the evening (say 2 max 3 hours) for the remainder of the money, being £250.

So the client still ends up spending the full £350 but both have enjoyed an evening out to a nice restaurant, followed by sex back at her place for which the WG has earned £250. More like a date where the outcome is pre-determined!

C) Some other combination of time / money for dinner / sex? If so - what?

Perhaps what I am trying to find out is - is there some value TO the WG of being taken out on a nice date (remembering that "even working girls are human" as is so often said tongue-in-cheek) and in return still providing the client up to 3 hours' sex. Or would she just prefer the money and no dinner?

Of course I understand that everyone is different but I was curious as to the general consensus.

DH

PS - Warning - this post is in contrast to my "Advice on a first punt" post in which I don't seek a dinner-date. I am asking this for later and/or general interest!

I punt for sex, i have no interest going to dinner on the clock, i am happy to go to dinner off the clock and pay for said dinner though which i have on ocassion.

I prefer to eat with family and friends rather than pay a WG to eat with me at whatever fee she charges for doing so, what others do is of course a matter for them.

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Fuck me first, feed me after...

Haha brilliant!

I don't think most ladies would appreciate what amounts to being asked to pay for dinner with company they didn't choose out of their fee? You're still taking up three hours of her time, after all - if you want a two hour incall, book one and then if she wants to go out for dinner she can do so afterwards with the same amount of money in her wallet and select her dining partner herself. Why should she work for free? It's the same principle as the 'but you'll be getting a free holiday!' nutters that put week-long reverse bookings up for £50 on Adultwоrk.

Amy yes that was of course my question - do ladies see a value to them in a nice time at dinner as opposed to wanting the fee and just the sex. I did say that all other things being equal and the guy was good company and the sort of person the lady would wish to spend time with anyway. The other view is, of course, that "time is time" and if the client wants to spend the time watching television, playing scrabble or shagging the lady sensless for three hours that's up to him.

I do agree with you that a £50 reverse booking for a week's holiday is silly - but tell me it wouldn't be at 168 x the girl's hourly rate? In other words it is all negotiable.

You always have to remember that we are being paid to watch you eat and to listen to you talk, not the other way around ;)

Really? Have I understood you correctly in that if you were being paid for your time to accompany a client at dinner all you think you'd be expected to to is watch him eat and listen to him talk?

You could do that more effectively without being encumbered by a meal of your own! ;)

I punt for sex, i have no interest going to dinner on the clock, i am happy to go to dinner off the clock and pay for said dinner though which i have on ocassion.

I prefer to eat with family and friends rather than pay a WG to eat with me at whatever fee she charges for doing so, what others do is of course a matter for them.

Thank you - you have put it better than I managed to. Would a WG consider a meal to be "on the clock" or "off the clock". Some do - some dont it seems.

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I'm sure a lot of ladies (me included) pop out and grab something to eat with some of their regulars after a booking if they're not busy, and I wouldn't dream of charging them for it, but this would be as I would with friends, partners and family and isn't likely to happen with a stranger.

It's a bit like discounts; if it's offered and you like the idea then accept graciously, but don't ask for or expect it - it's rude. And telling us what great company you are and how we are bound to like you enough to dish out a free hour rather than trusting us to decide for ourselves is not going to do you any favours (although it's a damn sight better than those who ask what our 'best price' is because they are so very handsome and we will probably be just dying to shag them for free as soon as we meet them, and so forth).

It depends on how the lady works too - somebody who wants to be busy in the evenings is not going to give away an hour for free that she could have earned her hourly rate for. Others would normally have knocked off at eight or nine (or whenever) anyway and be hungry so it won't make any odds to them. Her decision is going to centre largely around whether or not it's going to cost her anything, basically (which to be fair, is how most people make business decisions :)).

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I'm sure a lot of ladies (me included) pop out and grab something to eat with some of their regulars after a booking if they're not busy, and I wouldn't dream of charging them for it, but this would be as I would with friends, partners and family and isn't likely to happen with a stranger.

It's a bit like discounts; if it's offered and you like the idea then accept graciously, but don't ask for or expect it - it's rude. And telling us what great company you are and how we are bound to like you enough to dish out a free hour rather than trusting us to decide for ourselves is not going to do you any favours (although it's a damn sight better than those who ask what our 'best price' is because they are so very handsome and we will probably be just dying to shag them for free as soon as we meet them, and so forth).

It depends on how the lady works too - somebody who wants to be busy in the evenings is not going to give away an hour for free that she could have earned her hourly rate for. Others would normally have knocked off at eight or nine (or whenever) anyway and be hungry so it won't make any odds to them. Her decision is going to centre largely around whether or not it's going to cost her anything, basically (which to be fair, is how most people make business decisions :)).

Gosh you must have met some prize ones in your time Amy!

All good points and, again, you highlighted a point that I didn't make well - which is the drink/dinner would be as with friends and not with a stranger or on a first meeting.

I just wanted to find out if ladies wanted to socialise (depending on the guy of course) whether before or after a booking. As I said previously, I hadn't thought of "fuck me first, feed me after"!

As you said, and others have also mentioned in the chat room, you wouldn't dream of charging for grabbing a bite to eat with a regular - whereas other girls think it's a chargeable service.

It's interesting to read peoples' differing views.

DH

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Gosh you must have met some prize ones in your time Amy!

All good points and, again, you highlighted a point that I didn't make well - which is the drink/dinner would be as with friends and not with a stranger or on a first meeting.

I just wanted to find out if ladies wanted to socialise (depending on the guy of course) whether before or after a booking. As I said previously, I hadn't thought of "fuck me first, feed me after"!

As you said, and others have also mentioned in the chat room, you wouldn't dream of charging for grabbing a bite to eat with a regular - whereas other girls think it's a chargeable service.

It's interesting to read peoples' differing views.

DH

I never punt on a full stomach, it plays havoc with me so i always fuck first and feed later.

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Gosh you must have met some prize ones in your time Amy!

I've been a prostitute for nine and a half years, our Harry; four and half of them registered on Adultwоrk :blink:.

You never do actually meet these people face to face though, because the wonders of modern technology allow us make them vanish at the press of a button. Thank God :P.

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I've been a prostitute for nine and a half years, our Harry; four and half of them registered on Adultwоrk :blink:.

You never do actually meet these people face to face though, because the wonders of modern technology allow us make them vanish at the press of a button. Thank God :P.

I like your style, Amy! :)

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Depends if you take her to McDonalds....she might not be too impressed :lol:

Ha, I'd actually love that!Chicken nuggets por favor, and a milkshake....

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I punt for sex, i have no interest going to dinner on the clock, i am happy to go to dinner off the clock and pay for said dinner though which i have on ocassion.

I prefer to eat with family and friends rather than pay a WG to eat with me at whatever fee she charges for doing so, what others do is of course a matter for them.

I totally agree with you here smiths. The sad thing is the WG may not even want to be there but is only doing it for the money.

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Harry......

I think you know I was taking the Michael.

That is a comment we see so often on sex site forum boards like this, but typed up the other way around usually.

Matrix......

You cynical old sod!

I am doing one tonight.

A bloke I have met once before before, but for that type of meet, just a sex meet before.

I am looking forward to it.

I am getting my hair done, getting my nails done, making an effort.

I have chosen where we are eating, a nice place In Leeds that is not going to eat in to his wallet.

I may even pay the food bill, I often do to show willing even though most seem annoyed when I do pay the bill behind their back.

I enjoyed his company in all ways last time, so what is not to look forward to?

I will have have a laugh and a joke and a flirt, then back to mine for a bit of nooky, oh and I receive money at the end of the evening as well.

Jobs a good un......

Remember folks that some blokes love to do those type of meets, each to their own and all that.

Lucy :)

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I don't mind dinner dates, yes they are at a slightly lower rate than that for the equivalent time privately. I quite like the chatter, nice food etc BUT I don't like doing it all the time it's not compatible with a few things in my life, plus I often have my own friends, family or past-times, studies, important hobbies to be getting on with at various points. It has been known for me to pop out with a regular off the clock, but if I were to do it with everyone who asks - well I'd hardly ever have time for actual, paid parts of bookings, or the other things I get up to. Constantly eating out (more than once or twice max per week) isn't something that fits with my life either, finally it wouldn't be to discrete either.

Last 6 months I've hardly been able to accept any dinners, I'm offering them again and because I know a few potential clients were disappointed they couldn't have their booking of choice, well I'm running a promotion on them.

By the way not every lunch or dinner out is likeable, remember we are there on a dinner date to be pleasant, dress well, smile, nod, giggle, flirt, travel to a place you'd might not otherwise bother with, give him your full attention. With a 'friend' I may or may not use my mobile phone, will wear what I like and also arrange at a time and place convenient to me. Would you go for dinner with any woman who asked?

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Fuck me first, feed me after...

My kind of gal - food sends me to sleep these days.................

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I love these type of meetings, although to use SSN's words it's usually been 'fuck me, feed me, fuck me again'. With the right Lady, the undertones over dinner, having already enjoyed some naughty fun, along with the below the table touchy feely stuff (restaurant with tablecloths required), make for an exciting evening. Remember to have a light bite though & don't go for the full 5 course dinner!!!!!

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By the way not every lunch or dinner out is likeable, remember we are there on a dinner date to be pleasant, dress well, smile, nod, giggle, flirt, travel to a place you'd might not otherwise bother with, give him your full attention. With a 'friend' I may or may not use my mobile phone, will wear what I like and also arrange at a time and place convenient to me. Would you go for dinner with any woman who asked?

No I wouldn't go out for dinner with just any woman who asked - I would go out if I liked their company. As I said in my original post, for the hyopthetical example I assumed that the lady and the client did enjoy each others' company and both actually wanted to be there.

Would you really arrange things with a friend to suit only yourself as you said? With a friend I would still dress up reasonably smartly, I would not use my phone, and I would arange a mutually convenient time and place.

Each to their own.

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No I wouldn't go out for dinner with just any woman who asked - I would go out if I liked their company. As I said in my original post, for the hyopthetical example I assumed that the lady and the client did enjoy each others' company and both actually wanted to be there.

Would you really arrange things with a friend to suit only yourself as you said? With a friend I would still dress up reasonably smartly, I would not use my phone, and I would arange a mutually convenient time and place.

Each to their own.

I did not say I wouldn't be dressed smartly, just that I enjoy a variety of clothing styles and not all would be to everyone's tastes although my friends would be fine since they know it's just one of my styles. The timing thing was an exaggeration however clients tend to be the ones with specific timing requirements or limits.

Interesting re the phone, not too long ago I recall a thread where if I remember correctly a poster said they expected most people to respond to their electronic communcations whereever, and whenever fairly quickly these days because of the prevelance of mobile handsets. This suggested that if you are self-employed or WG that it's half expected you'll be using it whenever not fully engaged. I also do know there are people at the other end of the spectrum who believe whole heartedly that technology has it's place, but only a limited place - for me it just depends where I am and what I'm doing at the time!

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Sex and dinner, the two go hand-in-hand....nothing better then long lingering evenings that sometimes drift well into the night....

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Sex and dinner, the two go hand-in-hand....nothing better then long lingering evenings that sometimes drift well into the night....

Yes with a partner i totally agree, not while paying on the clock with a WG though for me.

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