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Before I started escorting the oldest guy I'd slept with was 23, but over the past three months have broadened my horizons (and lined my pockets...) by sleeping with guys much, much older.

The only issue I have (and it's not really an issue, more of a worry), is that the older a gent is, the harder he seems to find it to keep his little soldier standing to attention. Obviously I do as much as I can to rectify the situation, but sometime's there's just nothing you can do (stop smoking anyone reading this, one day it shall catch up with you). They always say it's not an issue, and it's about giving pleasure rather than recieving - but I can't help feeling like I'm a bit of an epic fail of a punt, and kind of ripping them off?

Ok the question I'm trying to frame here is: why do men with erectile issues punt? I'm not complaining as I actually enjoying being lavished with attention, but do they really get pleasure from it? Is it not just a waste of money? Or is it about the intimacy, caressing, appreciating - and I'm being too goal orientated about the whole thing?!

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Before I started escorting the oldest guy I'd slept with was 23, but over the past three months have broadened my horizons (and lined my pockets...) by sleeping with guys much, much older.

The only issue I have (and it's not really an issue, more of a worry), is that the older a gent is, the harder he seems to find it to keep his little soldier standing to attention. Obviously I do as much as I can to rectify the situation, but sometime's there's just nothing you can do (stop smoking anyone reading this, one day it shall catch up with you). They always say it's not an issue, and it's about giving pleasure rather than recieving - but I can't help feeling like I'm a bit of an epic fail of a punt, and kind of ripping them off?

Ok the question I'm trying to frame here is: why do men with erectile issues punt? I'm not complaining as I actually enjoying being lavished with attention, but do they really get pleasure from it? Is it not just a waste of money? Or is it about the intimacy, caressing, appreciating - and I'm being too goal orientated about the whole thing?!

I suffer from partial erectile dysfunction (following radiotherapy - prostate cancer). Most of the time, I can get an erection (following oral) and I can penetrate (not always though). Sometimes (very rare now), I can ejaculate while penetration occurs. Usually, I have to be finished off by hand.

Whatever, I find it pleasurable if I am with a lovely, naked young lady. So don't worry at all. When it is not worthwhile, they will stop paying and stay at home and pat the dog/cat.

Jack

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There are a number of reasons why some gentlemen can't get as hard as they may wish to.

Jack has told you one of them.

Illness and some prescription drugs can take the erection away.

Also some men as they get older just can not maintain an erection for too long even with a blue pill inside them.

Then you have the complexity of the brain playing tricks on the erection, sometimes if a bloke loses it, it gets in to his head and then he can be doomed for the meeting.

One thing I have realised though in my time of doing sex this way, is that it is not all about having a raging stiffy all the time.

The intimacy and just being with a woman is what some gentlemen like.

Typing that is not just the older man who can suffer from ED you know, but it is more common.

Some guys will feel bad enough if they can not remain hard all the time, but they will accept the way things are and just get on with it and have a nice time with a lady.

As long as they are happy that is all that matters.

Lucy :)

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There are a number of reasons why some gentlemen can't get as hard as they may wish to.

Jack has told you one of them.

Illness and some prescription drugs can take the erection away.

Also some men as they get older just can not maintain an erection for too long even with a blue pill inside them.

Then you have the complexity of the brain playing tricks on the erection, sometimes if a bloke loses it, it gets in to his head and then he can be doomed for the meeting.

One thing I have realised though in my time of doing sex this way, is that it is not all about having a raging stiffy all the time.

The intimacy and just being with a woman is what some gentlemen like.

Typing that is not just the older man who can suffer from ED you know, but it is more common.

Some guys will feel bad enough if they can not remain hard all the time, but they will accept the way things are and just get on with it and have a nice time with a lady.

As long as they are happy that is all that matters.

Lucy :)

Good response. Lucy.

Don't forget that the older the customer, the more likely it is that he might not have any other form of female company, and it may be the intimacy that Lucy describes which is the main purpose of the meeting, not an hour of raging all-action sex.

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Good response. Lucy.

Don't forget that the older the customer, the more likely it is that he might not have any other form of female company, and it may be the intimacy that Lucy describes which is the main purpose of the meeting, not an hour of raging all-action sex.

Yes that is so true.

My hubby always used to say that what he missed more than the sex was just the company and the feel of a woman next to him.

Lucy :)

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Hallo! I agree with Lucy, some older man want to be close to a woman, be that penetration or otherwise.

Saying that, I have agreed with the OP once particularly, as I spent ages and ages trying to please someone and it wasn't working...he was saying "keep going" and I did feel like a failure!!

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as I spent ages and ages trying to please someone and it wasn't working...he was saying "keep going" and I did feel like a failure!!

I used to feel like that, but we are not accountable.

I always like to be told if there is a bit of a problem down there in advance, as it then takes the pressure off both of us in my opinion.

I once recommended a guy I see to go see a massage lady in York.

He did not tell her he often failed to rise to the occasion and very rarely came during a meeting.

She said she tried her best tricks and her hand nearly dropped off......

Some younger men just want to be close to a woman too.

It's not just the wrinklies ;) (typed in jest gentlemen, I am an old bugger myself!)

Lucy :)

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Interesting post, and the responses have been on the button... It might be worth mentioning that all the great feelings of a body, hands and a warm mouth around your wee fella still exist with or without an erection, also the image of a cracking shelia's naked body is often worth the visit alone. I do think it would be fair on the lady if you mentioned that there might be a problem up front, that way there is nothing for the girl to worry about and if blood flows where it should then the lady should feel chuffed.

My experience when happened once, the girl stopped trying to wank my cock and just sucked deeply and slowly, this sucking motion is known to bring the blood flowing (sure as heck worked for me).

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Well said Lucy. I too have suffered erectile dysfunction issues for years due to a combination of serious health conditions which are controlled by medicines that affect my libido. Sadly, I only get to climax perhaps one punt in ten so I go to great lengths to assuage any potential disappointment by explaining initially that my poor showing is due to circumstances beyond anyone's control. The point about the booking being a chance for intimacy rather than an all out penetrative exercise is also spot-on.

Before sildenafil became available I used to use alprostadil (Caverject) which meant injecting into one's todger 20 minutes beforehand. I would probably have been shown the door if I'd done this during a punt.

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erectile dysfunction can be fixed in many cases.

the big worry is it may be a symptom if a bad health issue, so first port of call is your GP to get stuff checked out.

may be stress, - even the stress of punting.

or other stuff notably in the cardio-vascular

this may help

http://www.emedicinehealth.com/causes_of_erectile_dysfunction/article_em.htm

i'd get checked out before taking blue pills!

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Thanks for all the replies - a lot of the other threads here are about value for money/not being able to cum more than once in a session, and it does make you a little bit paranoid if someone doesn't even manage once!And yes Lucy, I think if someone mentions it before hand it makes it much, much easier....

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Don't worry about complaints from punters in other threads about sub standard service from other girls.

If you provide a good service and your customers are going away happy then you're doing it right.

Have you had any repeat business from the gents with erectile or ejaculation problems ? If you have then that tells you all you need to know.

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Before I started escorting the oldest guy I'd slept with was 23, but over the past three months have broadened my horizons (and lined my pockets...) by sleeping with guys much, much older.

The only issue I have (and it's not really an issue, more of a worry), is that the older a gent is, the harder he seems to find it to keep his little soldier standing to attention. Obviously I do as much as I can to rectify the situation, but sometime's there's just nothing you can do (stop smoking anyone reading this, one day it shall catch up with you). They always say it's not an issue, and it's about giving pleasure rather than recieving - but I can't help feeling like I'm a bit of an epic fail of a punt, and kind of ripping them off?

Ok the question I'm trying to frame here is: why do men with erectile issues punt? I'm not complaining as I actually enjoying being lavished with attention, but do they really get pleasure from it? Is it not just a waste of money? Or is it about the intimacy, caressing, appreciating - and I'm being too goal orientated about the whole thing?!

For some its not just about penetrative sex, they might prefer kissing and cuddling for example. You arent ripping them off as they should know what they are capable of beforehand and its their responsibility to punt or not, your providing the service, they decide if they want it or not.

When my cock wont play ball which happens on ocassion especially as i have got older i can very much so still have a good punt, find it fun and excellent VFM. :)

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erectile dysfunction can be fixed in many cases.

the big worry is it may be a symptom if a bad health issue, so first port of call is your GP to get stuff checked out.

may be stress, - even the stress of punting.

or other stuff notably in the cardio-vascular

this may help

http://www.emedicine.../article_em.htm

i'd get checked out before taking blue pills!

Good advice Cov, ALWAYS go see a Doctor first before self diagnosing or taking the word of anyone on a forum, they might offer good advice and be right but only a qualified Doctor can ensure you receive the correct treatment if you require it.

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Yes that is so true.

My hubby always used to say that what he missed more than the sex was just the company and the feel of a woman next to him.

Lucy :)

So true Lucy just wish the world outside of punting and escorts could see this.

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hey nursey whats wrong with pokemon cards? :D

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I understand where you're coming from SweetShyNurse but believe me, you are NOT ripping anyone off! I'm at the age now (dammit!) where my todger won't always behave itself but I DO get just as much pleasure from just being with a lovely responsive lady and giving her pleasure. It's not all about penetrative sex all the time

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Guys who suffer from erectile dysfunction should refrain from masturbating and see if it helps the situation.

I myself suffered from minor ED and stopping masturbating has helped me a great deal. It's not been easy of course, but the benefits thus far have far outweighed the minor inconvenience of denying myself instant pleasure whenever I feel like it. Benefits like stronger and more intense orgasms, increased sensitivity in my dick, harder erections, increased libido and general sense of wellbeing (probably due to all the testosterone I've now got sloshing around me now).

I had a punt today and it was incredible. My erection was magnificent - rock hard and sustained - and I could really feel the girl through the condom. When I came it wasn't forced and lasted ages (a real knee-trembler).

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Guys who suffer from erectile dysfunction should refrain from masturbating and see if it helps the situation.

I myself suffered from minor ED and stopping masturbating has helped me a great deal. It's not been easy of course, but the benefits thus far have far outweighed the minor inconvenience of denying myself instant pleasure whenever I feel like it. Benefits like stronger and more intense orgasms, increased sensitivity in my dick, harder erections, increased libido and general sense of wellbeing (probably due to all the testosterone I've now got sloshing around me now).

I had a punt today and it was incredible. My erection was magnificent - rock hard and sustained - and I could really feel the girl through the condom. When I came it wasn't forced and lasted ages (a real knee-trembler).

Whereas i would advise punters to go see a qualified Doctor immediately, you just never know if its a minor or more serious problem. A good GP will at least offer some hopefully useful and sound advice.

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I don't have a problem with getting an erection (although some ladies try its patience with their manner...) but I find I am less likely to come the better I am getting on with lady, whether a familiar one or someone new to me.

So, to get to my point, I will always tell the lady that me coming is not the point of it all for me if she shows concern so she does not feel somehow a failure but more sees it as a compliment that I am seeing her more as a lovely person than a cum facilitator - all of which is true in my case.

It is only fair to tell the lady such things.

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I find it strange that a Student Nurse, is surprised by the erectile difficulties encountered by older men.

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I find it strange that a Student Nurse, is surprised by the erectile difficulties encountered by older men.

I won't insult you by saying she just might not be a real nurse but I will point out to others, she has just about the most effective profile I have ever seen to make me so want to meet her.

Sadly not in my price range but if she really is a nurse, I bet it's t one of those posh private places and I bet she gives rather lot of patients cause to readjust the bedding...

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I can only agree with what most of the other posters have already said. I occasionally have the problem, do not think I have dysfunction as it only happens rarely but one of the most pleasant punts I had was one time when my erection disappeared mid punt and would not return. Thankfully I was with a very imaginative and committed lady who gave a great toy show, massage and who loved RO! Happy memory.

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Lara I'm down with the A and P behind erectile dysfunction, and if you're not too busy with your 'Masters' course I'd be more than happy to give you a run through of the various physiological causes - what I was more interested in was the psychology behind it. Why guys want to punt when there's no chance of a Big O at the end. It's an awful lot of money, and I was curious, and slightly worriedAnNie my question has been ( politely) answered by all, thank you.

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I find I am less likely to come the better I am getting on with lady, whether a familiar one or someone new to me.

I too am of that opinion but first time anyone has agreed

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