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Genuine question here a newb like me worries about.

In Porno movies you see a guy go down on a lady and often they "spit" (dribble etc) to generate lubrication. I must say I thought this somewhat rude.

It just got me thinking, is this an acceptable way to lubricate and what are the alternatives? I wouldn't take offense to lubricate my penis in this way, but is it offensive to a lady or "normal" practice, can anyone offer any advice?

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I think ladies do use their own spit a fair bit although many will want to use a lubricant.

I certainly would not think of spitting on a vagina without express permission!!!

But then I haven't been asked to appear in many porn films.

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Genuine question here a newb like me worries about.

In Porno movies you see a guy go down on a lady and often they "spit" (dribble etc) to generate lubrication. I must say I thought this somewhat rude.

It just got me thinking, is this an acceptable way to lubricate and what are the alternatives? I wouldn't take offense to lubricate my penis in this way, but is it offensive to a lady or "normal" practice, can anyone offer any advice?

I love Lube myself, i take Maximus or Pjur with me after an horrific experience with Durex Play Tingle, tingle, it felt like my cock was on fire. :eek: I certainly have no problem with any woman i fancy spittting on my cock, its a turn-on but i wouldnt spit on her pussy unless asked. ;)

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Porn has a lot to answer for!

Having never had encountered this spitting thing in 5 or so years of escorting, I've recently been asked several times to spit on cocks and had guys ask to spit on my pussy.

Not only do I find it pretty vile, it's also a completely useless form of lubrication unless you happen to have a damn sight more saliva than I can generate.

Smiths, I agree with you 100% on the Durex Tingle lube. It's more like Fiery Jack than a pleasant sort of lube and the burning sensation goes on for ages. Lethal stuff.

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Vaginas can & do self-lubricate. I'd wonder why you'd need extra lube for penetrative sex.

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Vaginas can & do self-lubricate. I'd wonder why you'd need extra lube for penetrative sex.

In my case to avoid friction burns especially at 3-4 hour parties. I have a delicate cock.

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If any one spat on me they would get a smack around the chops!

A lady can and will naturally self lubricate given the right sexual and mental stimulation.

If not a bit of lube is all it takes..

I meet one guy who makes me naturally get wet and we get on fine for hours on end without lube.

Another guy I meet turns me on in the same way, but he prefers added lube for his own personal reasons.

I once met an lady escort (now retired) for a natter, who would post on my local sex site forum that she was always wet wet wet and never needed lube during any of her meets with the guys.

When she chatted with me she said she always lubed up before a meet!

Lucy :)

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If any one spat on me they would get a smack around the chops!

A lady can and will naturally self lubricate given the right sexual and mental stimulation.

If not a bit of lube is all it takes..

I meet one guy who makes me naturally get wet and we get on fine for hours on end without lube.

Another guy I meet turns me on in the same way, but he prefers added lube for his own personal reasons.

I once met an lady escort (now retired) for a natter, who would post on my local sex site forum that she was always wet wet wet and never needed lube during any of her meets with the guys.

When she chatted with me she said she always lubed up before a meet!

Lucy :)

Like him i require Lube for my own reasons, pussy juice doesnt stop my cock getting friction burns on ocassion i have found and i had to stop three hours into a four hour party once due to a burn and get Sudocrem which they fortunately had on it immediately. Lube ensures that doesnt happen. ;)

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luckily the girls i see have enough self lube not to need any help :D

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In my case to avoid friction burns especially at 3-4 hour parties. I have a delicate cock.

Why not something like a silicone gel (condom safe), as a moisturizer before you start?

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Why not something like a silicone gel (condom safe), as a moisturizer before you start?

I like Lube.

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Vaginas can & do self-lubricate. I'd wonder why you'd need extra lube for penetrative sex.

Lara, my dear, you are quite wrong there. When I met the love of my life after 25 years, courtesy of Facebook, she told me that I was the most sexually incompetent man she had ever met. I responded by saying that as we were exchanging pleasantries, I would happily tell her what I had thought of her..."that she had been like a dried-up old prune". This bit of information seemed to bring on symptoms rather like a seizure...

Anyway, next time I saw her she confided that she had never been able to secrete and that she had only ever had five organisms in her life (all with the sexually most incompetent man she had ever met!).

I now offer small financial inducements and rely on the "friendship of strangers" as it is altogether less complicated!

Jack

PS I should have just spat.

Edited by jackjones

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I like Lube.

It's sold as a lube!

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Yeah but just thinking out loud surely a guys "tongue" has to be wet (i.e saliva) to go down on a lady?

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Porn has a lot to answer for!

Having never had encountered this spitting thing in 5 or so years of escorting, I've recently been asked several times to spit on cocks and had guys ask to spit on my pussy.

Not only do I find it pretty vile, it's also a completely useless form of lubrication unless you happen to have a damn sight more saliva than I can generate.

Smiths, I agree with you 100% on the Durex Tingle lube. It's more like Fiery Jack than a pleasant sort of lube and the burning sensation goes on for ages. Lethal stuff.

I do agree Sarita, but if you haven't much experience otherwise you can wonder what is norm and what is porn, hence the motivation of my question I guess.

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It's sold as a lube!

I will be sticking to my tried and tested, thanks for the suggestion though.

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Ew. I'd rather no-one spat on me, if it's all the same.

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I do agree Sarita, but if you haven't much experience otherwise you can wonder what is norm and what is porn, hence the motivation of my question I guess.

'What is the norm and what is porn?' An very well phrased question in my opinion and could be applied to a number of activities we're asked to perform.

I've even had a man ask me to spit on my own breasts (on cam rather than real life, I admit). Needless to say I declined.

Whilst I agree with the other responses on here that suggest lube is usually unnecessary for straightforward vaginal penetration, there are times when it's helpful (with toys, for example), but I've mostly been asked to spit on the man's cock before giving him a hand job or bj and sometimes before oral because it seems to be a turn on.

Each to their own I guess, but i really don't like it at all.

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The WG that I visit spits on my hard cock when she is jerking me off - I think its a "turn on"

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The WG that I visit spits on my hard cock when she is jerking me off - I think its a "turn on"

So do i, when on my cock, ;) not yours though. ;)

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'What is the norm and what is porn?' An very well phrased question in my opinion and could be applied to a number of activities we're asked to perform.

I've even had a man ask me to spit on my own breasts (on cam rather than real life, I admit). Needless to say I declined.

Whilst I agree with the other responses on here that suggest lube is usually unnecessary for straightforward vaginal penetration, there are times when it's helpful (with toys, for example), but I've mostly been asked to spit on the man's cock before giving him a hand job or bj and sometimes before oral because it seems to be a turn on.

Each to their own I guess, but i really don't like it at all.

It is very well phrased in my view to. Ones norm is anothers porn and vice versa i would think. Irrespective of what posters on here think including me who knows what really goes on behind closed doors. ;)

Edited by smiths

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It is very well phrased in my view to. Ones norm is anothers porn and vice versa i would think. Irrespective of what posters on here think including me who knows what really goes on behind closed doors. ;)

Very true! A guy I spoke to on the phone yesterday asked me if I would do a PSE instead of GFE, so i asked him what he meant. He said "oh, you know, dirty sex". On the basis that one person's norm is another's porn, I asked him what 'dirty sex' was for him and he muttered something about cumming on my tits.

And there was me, expecting something thrilling!

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Don't like spitting at all, in public or in private. I met one girl who asked me to spit on her vagina, and as with almost anything legal, I'll happily do it if I can see the positive effect it has on my lady friend.

When a girl gives proper deep throat, that releases very sticky saliva that's good as lubricant, but I don't know many WGs who can/will deepthroat when I'm wearing a condom.

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In my case to avoid friction burns especially at 3-4 hour parties. I have a delicate cock.

It seems to me Smiths that you punt enough for almost everyone on this forum (said in admiration I must add) - I'm really not surprised you todger is a tad delicate, in fact I'm more surprised it hasn't fallen off already :P

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Spitting at or on someone is universally seen as a sign of contempt for that person. Use of saliva as lubrication either by direct oral application or by mouth to hand does not have the same connotations.

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