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So you punt/offer services.

Is your partner allowed to do the same?

What would you do if you found out they did?

Or if they wanted to?

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I'm not sure there would be a market for my partner being a man whore. If there was then I would be happy for him to do so!

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It would be very hypocritical of me to tell a partner that they shouldn't do the same job I do. I'd be fine with this. I'm not a particularly jealous person anyway.

The reality is that I'd probably have to be dating a woman for this situation to arise, since a heterosexual man would have little chance in the industry unless he were going to go gay for pay (or happened to be bisexual). Very, very few women pay for sex.

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So you punt/offer services.

Is your partner allowed to do the same?

What would you do if you found out they did?

Or if they wanted to?

I dont do jealousy or possessiveness, wasted emotions in my view, what makes my partners happy is what makes me happy ultimately. I have been swinging with some partners so have no problem seeing them fuck other men or women. Unlike some i have no moral objection to such things and dont believe in monogamy as a concept anyway.

To me a partner fucking someone else doesnt mean she doesnt love me, its just sex she is getting, love and sex are two completely different things and i can seperate the two very easily. When a partner isnt interested in shagging others i lie and cheat to and on her to get the sexual variety i require due to my selfishness and this and being guilt free are advantages in punting to me.

As i appreciate through experience its unikely though not impossible to find love with a WG i have met non-WGs for relationships as like many people i want to be loved in a mutual way, however that love is expressed, and in my case i wanted children, i ended up with just one due to circumstances.

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Depends, if they were doing it to just prove a point then unacceptable. If it was something they felt they needed to do I'd want to discuss it so there'd be no sneaking around, and equally to ensure everyone was ok and no-one had their emotions trodden on. People do and can get hurt by relationships, often when least expected.

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Depends, if they were doing it to just prove a point then unacceptable. If it was something they felt they needed to do I'd want to discuss it so there'd be no sneaking around, and equally to ensure everyone was ok and no-one had their emotions trodden on. People do and can get hurt by relationships, often when least expected.

A very perceptive comment, if I may say so without appearing condescending? Leaving the parlour scene out of it, I have a feeling that a large part of most indies' professional time is spent on what it is fashionable to call "counselling" rather than fucking!

So, young lady, what are you going to do when your beauty fades?

"I'm going to go back to psychiatry!"

Hmmmm

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he wouldn't offer services anyway.

if he wanted to seek services elsewhere i'd first see what he's lacking with me.

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he wouldn't offer services anyway.

if he wanted to seek services elsewhere i'd first see what he's lacking with me.

Fair enough of course but some things arent fixable, if like me a punter requires variety and likes shagging around with as many WGs as possible one woman however much i love her cant offer that. In my case its me thats the problem not her being lacking in some way. Obviously some punters on here dont get enough, any or good enough sex from their partners so punt, fortunately thats never been a problem for me though. :)

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If she did so, whether to prove a point or not..I would have to say "fair play" to my other half

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I'm not sure there would be a market for my partner being a man whore. If there was then I would be happy for him to do so!

What a LOVELY attitude, Lydia !!! :D

I wish to hell and back that i could get paid for my sexual favours !

Regrettably, at my age, I need to pay for nice looking, well built ladies to take their clothes off for me :(

Jack :ph34r:

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Actually, it would kind of turn me on if he did do it- sadly, as has been said, there isn't a market for men, especially not older chaps.

*wonders if I can pimp his arse out*

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Actually, it would kind of turn me on if he did do it- sadly, as has been said, there isn't a market for men, especially not older chaps.

*wonders if I can pimp his arse out*

only his arse?

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only his arse?

Well, any bit of him that is required really!

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Fair enough of course but some things arent fixable, if like me a punter requires variety and likes shagging around with as many WGs as possible one woman however much i love her cant offer that. In my case its me thats the problem not her being lacking in some way. Obviously some punters on here dont get enough, any or good enough sex from their partners so punt, fortunately thats never been a problem for me though. :)

I see where you are coming from but my husband has never been much of a shagger.

I'd like to think he'd tell me if he was going to punt so we could discuss it

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Well the personal situation is exactly this.

Person A: who provides services is in a relationship with person B: who wants to have sex with other people.

Person A isn't keen on this. Person B cannot understand why considering..

It's like a cheater getting upset when they find out their partner wants to swing or some such..

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I started off as a MF couple in this world, we only met with men for MMF fun.

I now meet solo (long story) and my hubby has not got a problem with it at all, it fact he relishes in all that I do.

However I am one who can not share my man at all with another woman.

It may sound totally hypocritical of me, but that is the way it is.

I care not a jot if he looks or flirts with a lady, but if he went a step further I know I could not handle it.

I wish in one way that I could let him meet with another lady, as he has that fantasy to do so now, but it would put our relationship to test greatly for him to do that which surely would not be worth it.

It makes me realise that once I told him it was ok for him to meet another lady, that my feelings will of dwindled towards him.

What I don't know will not hurt me, but if I did know, I know it would.

Lucy :)

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So you punt/offer services.

Is your partner allowed to do the same?

What would you do if you found out they did?

Or if they wanted to?

I'd tell her to have fun and not spend too much. I'm not the jealous type.

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It would be hypocritical of me to expect the partner to be 100% faithfull, when im getting fun using escorts, so if the other half was to get time and cash together and slip out to see excorts either male or female then I would have no problem with it.

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I admit that I am a hypocrite and wouldn't like my partner to seek services when I was with him, but then I probably wouldn't know, would I?

But then if I find a "proper" boyfriend, I would consider giving it all up anyway, but that's a different issue.

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