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Anxiety First Time

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Hey, went for the first time to sandys superstars today in notherden(my first time ever for paid sex), had half an hour with Lexi, i must say she absolutely stunning,

like one of the ladies out of FHM except she's there with me in the flesh, wow!

My problem was i couldn't keep a hardon at all and this is very unusual for me i'm 28 and get a raging one at the click of my fingers and have had no problems with other girls that i have been with(un paid).

I mean she was sucking me off in 69, i had a face full of her fanny an amazing view of her ass omg, and i was just limp, is this a common problem with you lot, should i try viagra does that even work?

I was thinking to myself, hmmm does she actually like me, i hope she does, i know she doesn't have much choice who she sleeps with anyone who has money can i guess. Maybe i

was thinking to much into it i don't know <_<

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Hey, went for the first time to sandys superstars today in notherden(my first time ever for paid sex), had half an hour with Lexi, i must say she absolutely stunning,

like one of the ladies out of FHM except she's there with me in the flesh, wow!

My problem was i couldn't keep a hardon at all and this is very unusual for me i'm 28 and get a raging one at the click of my fingers and have had no problems with other girls that i have been with(un paid).

I mean she was sucking me off in 69, i had a face full of her fanny an amazing view of her ass omg, and i was just limp, is this a common problem with you lot, should i try viagra does that even work?

I was thinking to myself, hmmm does she actually like me, i hope she does, i know she doesn't have much choice who she sleeps with anyone who has money can i guess. Maybe i

was thinking to much into it i don't know <_<

Welcome to the forum Andy. :) This isnt unusual going on previous threads and posts about it, it can take a couple or a few punts to get used to punting. Just relax and dont over think it is my advice.

A WG is offering a service which i am prepared to pay for is simply how i look at it, i lap it up and hope its good.

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Hehe, i think your right there, just got to get into the swing of it. Thanks for the advice and welcome :)

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Smiths is right Andy. After a few punts you will get there, but there should also be a few little butterflies no matter how much you punt, especially with a new girl. Enough to heighten the experience without impairing performance. You wouldn't want it to become boring.

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I thought I'd have this problem the first time I saw an escort. So far I haven't and I think the issue is pressure.

Don't put yourself under pressure andy or think too much. This is why I haven't elected for a full service appointment yet.

So maybe take things slowly?

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Yeah slowly i got ya, i deffinetly agree with you on pressure. I wasn't used to the girl wanting to make me happy, if you know what i mean, i get off more by pleasing the woman, going down and fingering etc, which i actually i did toward the end but was to late. I know i paying for her to please me, but i want to please her.

I found myself like placing my hand on her leg or side of her stomach like caressing her like i would with a girlfriend, in that some way it would create an emotional bond. But then i though to myself later, what the hell am i playing at this is just sex and business, obviously my way of thinking was flawed, and will be much different next time. Psychology this is a different game.

If i can bridge the gap between the difference between being with a wg and a girlfriend i should be allright. And judging by the type of wg's out there, i think that might just happen :).

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dont over think it - you're there for sex, and sex only.

I also had the same problem the first time at Sandys (I went with the best looking early 20's something girl I've ever seen in my life) - she was mind blowingly attractive - totally out of my league in civvie ville and i think i was also thinking just like you (why is she doing this, she could have anyone, wander if she likes me blah blah blah).

next punt went with an older indie (she was around 35-38) of a similar looks ration to me - she was great, put me totally at ease and we had a great time.

I then got what i'd call me punting wings......this was around 11 years ago, i can now punt without that anxiety - my stiff now really depends on other things

be careful going down the hard-on drugs route - you can get psychologically addicted to it and then wont be able to punt without them (this has also happened to me - I went through a stage of not getting it up unless i knew i'd taken a pill - took around 12 months to stop and get back to "normal" again).

go for it - and relax and enjoy - it's a great hobby!

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Hehe glad i'm not the only one that has thought like that.

Some great advice there HungDong, very much appreciated indeed.

Like you say with the hard-on drugs route i'll likely avoid that, i don't so much as drink or smoke so it probably wouldn't suit me, and yeah psychological addiction, i agree with you there,

i can see that would happen with me.

Maybe i'll try going with a less attractive girl, if such a thing exsists there lol. I saw two younger girls there around the reception area though, around early 20's, Lexi was i would say around 30, and they were fit, i just didn't expect that to be honest.

If i can just stop this over analysing I'll be fine lol.

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