LittleStar

Why Are You Guys Talking So Badly About Girls?

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I just found this forum, i went onto the 'why do you choose massage' or something similar, and a few others, and i saw this: 'if you want to fuck, go and see a whore'. I had no idea that's what you say about us, when we can't hear :(

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Could you explain why you found that particular sentence upsetting? As a whore myself, I see no reason why a guy who wants more than a masseuse wishes to offer should not be recommended to see a whore instead?

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To the op, unfortunately there are some apparent women haters on this site, but I believe they are in the minority, the majority of the men on this site genuinely love the opportunity punting gives us to meet gorgeous ladies.

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Hello Little Star, welcome to Punternet.

This is a very public forum though, you do not have to be a member to even view it, so it is not behind our backs really now is it?

The name is just another name for what we are though, well those of us who sell anyway.

I embrace all names, but still answer to Lucy best!

Lucy :)

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I just found this forum, i went onto the 'why do you choose massage' or something similar, and a few others, and i saw this: 'if you want to fuck, go and see a whore'. I had no idea that's what you say about us, when we can't hear :(

Minority posters I would hope and generally is this case, and not around for long. Ive never used the word "whore".. unless of course, just then in this sentence.....

I punt with girls I like and, hopefully and usually, have a fantastic time with. I wouldnt give her abuse or class her under that word. Even girls that were bad I wouldnt call her that.

So please dont think we are all like that..

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Hello Little Star, welcome to Punternet.

This is a very public forum though, you do not have to be a member to even view it, so it is not behind our backs really now is it?

The name is just another name for what we are though, well those of us who sell anyway.

I embrace all names, but still answer to Lucy best!

Lucy :)

Well said Lucy I couldn't agree more, it is often just a term we are referred to Hun, most are not meaning it in a horrible way just another word for a escort or WG, and as Lucy mentioned this is a public forum for anyone to view so it isn't speaking behind our back.

Don't take it to heart

Cx

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Hi Little Star. Welcome xx. Read many more threads and find that the majority of us on here are very respectful of you girls and very grateful for what you do. I hope your own experiences are all good

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Hi Little Star

Sadly there are some men who act that way, either out of misogyny or a rather adolescent attitude (in my opinion). What they tend to lose sight of, in my view, as that all of us on this board are involved in prostitution- wheter as service providers/escorts/whores or as service users/clients punters. I see no logic in one side of the supply-and-demand looking down on the other.

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Here Here. All girls deserve respect, whatever way they are delivering services to us punters. We can choose the style of girl we would liek to see, but at the end of the day they are all girls who deserve respect from their clients.

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I have no problems with good wgs/escorts or whatever you like to be called, you have earned my respect.

I do have problems with the lying, cheating, thieving whores.

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I've never understood why some people use words like 'whore'. It's a derogatory word and I will never use it.

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Well said Lucy I couldn't agree more, it is often just a term we are referred to Hun, most are not meaning it in a horrible way just another word for a escort or WG, and as Lucy mentioned this is a public forum for anyone to view so it isn't speaking behind our back.

Don't take it to heart

Cx

That's true, most people who use that word don't mean it in a bad way and they definitely respect WGs. Unfortunately there are some people on this forum with no respect at all, but luckily they are a small minority

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I just found this forum, i went onto the 'why do you choose massage' or something similar, and a few others, and i saw this: 'if you want to fuck, go and see a whore'. I had no idea that's what you say about us, when we can't hear :(

Welcome to the forum LittleStar. :) Posters post their opinions as they wish within the rules, if you disagree with an opinion challenge it if you so wish as you have here. I view the word whore as one some use in a derogatory fashion, i use WGs myself.

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Men I have seen object to the word whore for me, and cringe when I say it. But that is what I act as sometimes.

When I stop, I will still have been.

SukhoiT50 - Why associate the words lying, cheating, etc with the word whore?

One can be a whore and not be lying and cheating. It's people that associate those words with that word that make it worse.

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Men I have seen object to the word whore for me, and cringe when I say it. But that is what I act as sometimes.

When I stop, I will still have been.

SukhoiT50 - Why associate the words lying, cheating, etc with the word whore?

One can be a whore and not be lying and cheating. It's people that associate those words with that word that make it worse.

I have no problems with good whores, you have earned my respect.

I do have problems with the lying, cheating, thieving wgs/escorts or whatever you like to be called.

Happy???

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hey all x

Thank you for your replies, i feel better after reading them. For a moment I thought that behind those 'oh you are so lovely' there was 'you are just a whore'. Such an ugly word...

However- now I think I might have been a bit naive here and there. And for sure I didn't consider myself a w.... therefore I was slighlty terrified when I saw a guy using this word to describe 'us'.

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Not a case of me being happy or not, just discussing on a forum.

I don't like cheating, lying, thieving PEOPLE.

I think most people would agree. I personally think this applies to all stratas of society.

Liers? Most punters are liers to their wives and most WG's are liers as I for one do not tell people what I do. Ok, more by ommission, but still.

I have thieved pick and piece in the past. I will admit that. Only a cola bottle.

Why not say lying accountants or thieving nurses? I know for a fact it happens in those professions also. Not all, of course, and not often I would hope, but it does.

Why use the old familiar cheating ;lying thieving whore line.

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i forgot. I am also a cheating whore, as I cheat at Scrabble as although I like to pride myself on words, I am a RUBBISH prostitute when it comes to Scrabble. That said, prostitute would probably get me a few points.

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LittleStar, the phrase:

'if you want to fuck, go and see a whore'.

.. was used by a forum member who may be of limited mental capacity, and someone who has diminished respect for women. Please be assured that most men who post here respect the ladies they see. :)

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I just found this forum, i went onto the 'why do you choose massage' or something similar, and a few others, and i saw this: 'if you want to fuck, go and see a whore'. I had no idea that's what you say about us, when we can't hear :(

I am not sure about the "can't hear" part of your post LS. It's a public forum that anyone can read.

Also, the word "whore", is just that - a word. It's the context it's used in that can make it either offensive, functional or even endearing.

Because it's an open forum, occasionally posters step over the line of acceptable decorum. Usually when that happens, the vast majority of decent posters here will express concern and, if required, the mods will take action. The significant majority of uses of the word I see here though aren't particularly offensive and I have no problem with.

Stick around and see what you think.

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Men I have seen object to the word whore for me, and cringe when I say it. But that is what I act as sometimes.

When I stop, I will still have been.

SukhoiT50 - Why associate the words lying, cheating, etc with the word whore?

One can be a whore and not be lying and cheating. It's people that associate those words with that word that make it worse.

I must admit, it makes me cringe, even when a WG referres to herself in that way, even in the "right" context, I just think its a horrible derogatory word.

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I can see that South Wales Punter, but neither do I think I am a "courtesan..." although I would like to think of myself as that. WG will do!

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hey all x

Thank you for your replies, i feel better after reading them. For a moment I thought that behind those 'oh you are so lovely' there was 'you are just a whore'. Such an ugly word...

However- now I think I might have been a bit naive here and there. And for sure I didn't consider myself a w.... therefore I was slighlty terrified when I saw a guy using this word to describe 'us'.

Some might think this who knows, the point is thats up to them and for others to challenge them if they so wish. Many different views are posted on this forum, i hope you stick around to post yours.

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I have no problems with good whores, you have earned my respect.

I do have problems with the lying, cheating, thieving wgs/escorts or whatever you like to be called.

Happy???

I have a big problem with the bad myself, i just call them lying cheating scum rather than whores though. Fortunately they are in a big minority in my own experiences.

A good WG has my upmost respect.

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i forgot. I am also a cheating whore, as I cheat at Scrabble as although I like to pride myself on words, I am a RUBBISH prostitute when it comes to Scrabble. That said, prostitute would probably get me a few points.

Same here. You'd think I'd be good at it, but no. I usually end up making it a game of strip-scrabble, in the hopes that every piece of clothing removed improves my chances of victory.

On a serious note, I agree that lying, cheating and thieving are words independent of whoring or prostitution. I know a few lying, cheating, thieving punters, but I'd never randomly wheel them into a thread about the use of the word 'punter' and whether it's respectful.

I don't know how much I object to the example from the OP, I use fuck as a verb all the time (because I love it) and whore holds a certain charm for me as well. I think, though, like many words, it's different when used to describe oneself than when being described my someone else. A lot of words have been reclaimed over the years (think of persons who would describe themselves as 'Gender queer' and so on) and whore might well be one that is or will be eventually taken back and re-appropriated.

Having said that, there are corners of this board into which I advise no lady to venture unless she's got a thick skin (for example, The Soho Walk-Up thread, which contains some of the most vile attitudes I've seen towards WGs anywhere. I'll never forget the string of posts-- now gone, thankfully -- in that thread, in which posters congratulated a punter who had grabbed the hair of a lady who had irritated him in some way and ejaculated all over her face against her express wishes in order to 'get his own back'. And then promptly came online to brag about having assaulted her and laugh about how angry and upset she had been. I wish I could wipe it from my mind.)

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