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hi

does anyone know about the rules regarding toys?

basically i want to find wg's who will give toy shows or allow me to bring along a magic wand - obviously cover it - then use it on them... or does anyone know of any WG's who have a magic wand? (bit of a thing i have)...

lots of girls suggest toys on the purple site profiles but there is never any mention and i once asked one who just said no i dont have any - even though it was on the purple profile...

thanks!

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hi

does anyone know about the rules regarding toys?

basically i want to find wg's who will give toy shows or allow me to bring along a magic wand - obviously cover it - then use it on them... or does anyone know of any WG's who have a magic wand? (bit of a thing i have)...

lots of girls suggest toys on the purple site profiles but there is never any mention and i once asked one who just said no i dont have any - even though it was on the purple profile...

thanks!

All you can do is ask when enquiring. :)

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In the last few years I have always taken both a Magic Wand and an Eroscillator on my punts. (They are very different. Some girls get off on one, some on the other. Girls who find the Magic Wand too violent will find the Eroscillator more effective. Other girls need the violence to get off.)

When I first started taking the toys I would ask before making the appointment whether the girl would be happy for us to use them on her. About half the girls would say yes and half would say no. If they said no, I wouldn't make the appointment.

More recently the toys have become less important to me. Consequently I have taken them with me but haven't asked the girls about them beforehand. Instead I would ask during the punt whether they would like to see the toys. If they had said no, I would simply have left them in the bag.

However, so far they have never said no. In fact they have been quite keen to see them, and having seen them they have then been happy for us to use them together. Maybe this also has something to do with the fact that, having met me, they felt more comfortable about the situation. I can imagine that it takes a bit of daring to say in advance that you will allow an unknown person to use unknown electro-mechanical implements on your sensitive parts.

Anyway, as Smiths says, you simply have to ask. If the toys are an essential part of the punt for you, then you have to ask before making the appointment. However, if you are prepared to take the risk of a punt in which the toys aren't used, then asking during the punt itself may enable you to use them on girls who would otherwise have said no.

Edited by CheekyBoy

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I will quite happily take my magic wand but I need to be near a plug socket and I don't allow people to use it on me - ill do it myself!

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I will quite happily take my magic wand but I need to be near a plug socket and I don't allow people to use it on me - ill do it myself!

I know this is your personal choice - but why not let others use it on you? (can it be dangerous - apart from you becoming oversensitive?)

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In the last few years I have always taken both a Magic Wand and an Eroscillator on my punts. (They are very different. Some girls get off on one, some on the other. Girls who find the Magic Wand too violent will find the Eroscillator more effective. Other girls need the violence to get off.)

I should amplify what I wrote above.

Some girls actively dislike the Magic Wand. So even if you have asked beforehand and they have consented to try it out, you may find that consent for further use is withdrawn once they have tried it.

I have never come across a girl who disliked the Eroscillator. However, a minority of WGs (around 10% in my experience) cannot get an orgasm through it. I suspect the proportion is higher amongst WGs than in the rest of the population because some WGs have become so used to their pussies getting a violent pounding that they have become desensitized. Often those are the girls that get off on the Magic Wand.

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Magic wands are amazing! Best thing aside from my louboutins I've ever bought.

I think most girls would be happy using a magic wands/ other toys and putting on a show, I myself tend to use toys on myself as aposed to letting guys use them on me (as some can be a little to rough at times).

I'm sure if you email the girls that offer this service and ask most would be happy to oblige :)

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I know this is your personal choice - but why not let others use it on you? (can it be dangerous - apart from you becoming oversensitive?)

Annabel can of course answer for herself, but to me the answer is obvious. The Magic Wand is extremely powerful. If you are sensitive to it, the slightest change in pressure can make the difference between an extremely pleasant and an extremely unpleasant experience. Only the person actually experiencing the sensations will be able to supply exactly the right pressure.

Even when girls have let me operate the Wand myself, their hand has usually been hovering around, ready to grab me if I am doing it wrong.

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I will quite happily take my magic wand but I need to be near a plug socket and I don't allow people to use it on me - ill do it myself!

It's very powerful but it's the same with any vibrator - no one can do it better than me! I know exactly when to move it, to turn it up or down at the right moment. I've let people use it in the past and it's not been a pleasant experience - turning it up and pressing it hard goin I'm going to make you come - no you've actually hurt me a little, now it's over sensitive, a little sore and now I don't want to be touched there anymore! The end goal is to watch the girl come - might as well let her do it herself.

CheekyBoy has it spot on!

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It's very powerful but it's the same with any vibrator - no one can do it better than me! I know exactly when to move it, to turn it up or down at the right moment. I've let people use it in the past and it's not been a pleasant experience - turning it up and pressing it hard goin I'm going to make you come - no you've actually hurt me a little, now it's over sensitive, a little sore and now I don't want to be touched there anymore! The end goal is to watch the girl come - might as well let her do it Herself

Good job I prefer to watch where toys are concerned then :). Vibrators are one tool that I have never really regarded myself as qualified to wield.

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I would feel icky using a toy on one girl that had already been used on another. I usually ask ladies to bring a toy with them or get throwaway ones that are single use that I can unseal in front of them.

There was a guy at an LMP party once who had a vibrator in the pocket of his robe. I felt totally creeped out by him whenever he got it out.

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I would feel icky using a toy on one girl that had already been used on another.

Most girls insist that you put a condom over it. It's a good idea to do so anyway.

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going to have to get to see this Magic Wand contraption first hand me thinks.....seen it lots on porn movies, but seems it really is the real deal - next time in Manc land that's my afternoon sorted!

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going to have to get to see this Magic Wand contraption first hand me thinks.....seen it lots on porn movies, but seems it really is the real deal - next time in Manc land that's my afternoon sorted!

Me to, got to have a go with one of those :D

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It's very powerful but it's the same with any vibrator - no one can do it better than me! I know exactly when to move it, to turn it up or down at the right moment. I've let people use it in the past and it's not been a pleasant experience - turning it up and pressing it hard goin I'm going to make you come - no you've actually hurt me a little, now it's over sensitive, a little sore and now I don't want to be touched there anymore! The end goal is to watch the girl come - might as well let her do it herself.

I have a magic wand and like Annabel says for the reasons above, I prefer to use it myself.

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I don't mind someone helping me out, but they have to be able to follow instructions :D

Nothing more horny then being watched/watching someone getting off imo.

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They are astonishing things. First time I had one used on me, I literally slid off the couch I was sitting on with the writhing about!

I have never come across a girl who disliked the Eroscillator. However, a minority of WGs (around 10% in my experience) cannot get an orgasm through it. I suspect the proportion is higher amongst WGs than in the rest of the population because some WGs have become so used to their pussies getting a violent pounding that they have become desensitized. Often those are the girls that get off on the Magic Wand.

This is a bit of a myth. That the use of intense stimulation desensitises you. Some of us just NEED a lot of intense stimulation from the outset. 'Oh you have had loads of sex, so your fanny is numb to it.' Our nervous system doesnt work like that. In fact, in my experience, as I have gradually learned exactly how to get there, it has become EASIER.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201102/vibrators-myths-vs-truth

I think the neurological system recognises the pathways more easily as you learn, you are making a new pattern it recognises more and more easily. There's actually a lot of research into this, not just in sexual research, but education, health care, rehabilitation etc.

I like having my wand used on me personally, though obviously it is better if the guy is willing to take a bit of gentle instruction. And it blows your mind so much, it feels so absolutely amazing, I'm sure its fascinating to watch. I often use it on a guy, and watching the response when they first feel it is brilliant! As with women, some of them find it a bit much, but you have to just find what works for them. It is the most incredible toy. An Eroscillator you say.......?

'Wanders off to search Google.....'

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This is a bit of a myth. That the use of intense stimulation desensitises you. Some of us just NEED a lot of intense stimulation from the outset. 'Oh you have had loads of sex, so your fanny is numb to it.' Our nervous system doesnt work like that. In fact, in my experience, as I have gradually learned exactly how to get there, it has become EASIER.

Actually it wasn't the intense stimulation that I thought might desensitise WGs to the eroscillator. It was the violent pounding that their pussies sometimes receive from the rougher men. But I may well be wrong on that anyway.

The fact remains that 10% of the WGs I have used the eroscillator with did not achieve orgasm through it, even when they handled it themselves. To judge by the reports, that is a substantially higher percentage than in the general population. There must be some reason for this, even if the one I suggested is wrong. Or maybe my sample size is just too small . . . .

'Wanders off to find suitable candidates to increase the sample size....'

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I often use it on a guy, and watching the response when they first feel it is brilliant! As with women, some of them find it a bit much, but you have to just find what works for them. It is the most incredible toy.

One of my regulars used the eroscillator on my penis shortly before she disappeared on a trip round the world. She found it fascinating, watching the penis grow under her direct control. I remember her little squeal of delight when I came. It's something the girl doesn't normally see, even when she's giving a hand job.

Trouble is, I can't hold out with either of them. With the Wand I last about five seconds, and I don't find it all that pleasant. It's as if I'm being bullied into submission. The eroscillator is much gentler and I can last longer, but even so I can't hold back for long.

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Actually it wasn't the intense stimulation that I thought might desensitise WGs to the eroscillator. It was the violent pounding that their pussies sometimes receive from the rougher men. But I may well be wrong on that anyway.

The fact remains that 10% of the WGs I have used the eroscillator with did not achieve orgasm through it, even when they handled it themselves. To judge by the reports, that is a substantially higher percentage than in the general population. There must be some reason for this, even if the one I suggested is wrong. Or maybe my sample size is just too small . . . .

'Wanders off to find suitable candidates to increase the sample size....'

But that seems like a TINY amount of women to not achieve orgasm.....with ANYTHING!

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/sex-study-female-orgasm-eludes-majority-women/story?id=8485289

Just picked this one at random, but I have heard figures quoted of up to 25 - 30% either never, or only with extreme difficulty reaching orgasm with any form of stimulation. On the Lovehoney site, the video presenter quotes a figure of 87% of anorgasmic women achieving success with the Eroscillator. And thats in an advertisment ! Still leaves 13%.

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Interesting. The abcnews article says that 10 to 15 percent of all women never climax under any circumstances, and I have myself seen similar figures elsewhere.

But what does "under any circumstances" mean? Had they actually tried the eroscillator? If they had, it would fit fairly well with my statistic that 10% of the WGs I had seen didn't climax with the eroscillator, but it wouldn't fit even remotely with the claim on the Lovehoney website.

And in any case, the WGs I visited who couldn't achieve orgasm with the eroscillator could still achieve it by other means. For instance, one could and did achieve it with the Magic Wand, another could with her own pet combination of toys, and another said she could achieve orgasm through normal but rough sex provided she was strapped down, immobile and totally helpless (I wasn't interested in following that one through). Of the WGs I have visited since I started using the Wand and the Eroscillator, 100% have been able to achieve orgasm by one means or another. Perhaps WGs are particularly orgasmic people, or perhaps it's just the ones I select.

(You might suggest that some were acting, but it's hardly necessary to act when you have an eroscillator or Magic Wand on your clit. And if they were, it would push the proportion even higher than 10%.)

Lovehoney says 87% of anorgasmic women achieve orgasm through the eroscillator. (Note that that is the proportion of anorgasmic women, not of women in general.) If we accept the abcnews figure of 10 to 15% of all women being anorgasmic, and if we assume that none of them had used the eroscillator previously, then Lovehoney is suggesting that 87% of the 10 to 15%% could achieve orgasm through the eroscillator. That means that only 13% of 10 to 15% of all women would be unable to do so, i.e. only 1.3% to 2% of all women would be unable to achieve orgasm with the eroscillator. That is the sort of figure I had in mind when I said that my figure of 10% for WGs was much higher than the reported figure for the general population.

Of course, as you say, the Lovehoney claim is in an advertisement. Nevertheless, if the eroscillator has any substantial success in enabling anorgasmic women to achieve orgasm, then the proportion of WGs unable to achieve orgasm with the eroscillator should be lower than 10%, unless there are other factors at work.

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I suspect the women that never achieve orgasm have a mental barrier rather than a physical one, so any kind of magic tricks or even magic wands wouldn't work. Many men seem to forget that the main point of stimulus is the brain! If I get asked to orgasm I can't, if I want to come and think about it too much I can't. Nothing more irritating than some man saying 'cum for me' or 'go on, go on, I wanna see you cum' ; makes my orgasm run away

On another note, I personally find it creepy and icky if a man brings along vibrators or dildo, while I am sure they have been cleaned and they would be used with a condom I just can't do it! happy for him to watch me use my own though!

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Actually it wasn't the intense stimulation that I thought might desensitise WGs to the eroscillator. It was the violent pounding that their pussies sometimes receive from the rougher men. But I may well be wrong on that anyway.

I think you are wrong. The clitoris and the vagina are separate entities. Rough sex has not made me any less sensitive around the clitoris and I still need stimulation on the clit to be super light to get off, no matter how much rough sex I have.

The fact remains that 10% of the WGs I have used the eroscillator with did not achieve orgasm through it, even when they handled it themselves. To judge by the reports, that is a substantially higher percentage than in the general population. There must be some reason for this, even if the one I suggested is wrong. Or maybe my sample size is just too small . . . .

'Wanders off to find suitable candidates to increase the sample size....'

Something like 20% of women have never or rarely orgasm, so I would maybe reassess your results in light of this.

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hi

does anyone know about the rules regarding toys?

basically i want to find wg's who will give toy shows or allow me to bring along a magic wand - obviously cover it - then use it on them... or does anyone know of any WG's who have a magic wand? (bit of a thing i have)...

lots of girls suggest toys on the purple site profiles but there is never any mention and i once asked one who just said no i dont have any - even though it was on the purple profile...

thanks!

Cheers, just had a wee sesh with Angus under the blanket after being reminded of him whilst reading this - pure magic ;)

Bons x

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so this magic wand thingemjig can be used on men as well....the plot thickens

Ms Squires and Dexi both have one - my afternoon in Mancland might just have to be extended :eek: - (what are your rules on another chick using it on you Ms Squires)? I'm not too sure my ticker could take such a combination though!

(I'm still struggling with the notion that a girl wouldn't want a bloke to use it on her....surely with the right instruction, it's better to have someone else use it on you - much like the difference between wanking yourself and an expert HJ off a pro - I know what i prefer - but each to his/her own i suppose!)

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