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Car Safety - How To Ensure A Girl Is Happy To Travel With You

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As I drove a girl with whom I had had just one incall, a few days beforehand, to my place for a longer more relaxed session, we chatted.

She explained that she was happy to come to mine because I seemed like a gentleman. Her driver had glandular fever and she was delighted I had offered the transport.

I suggested that it might be wise to have a friend to whom she could text the car number when going with a stranger. She said her mum knew what she did and might follow this suggestion in future.

As we approached my village I apologised but asked her to lie across the back seats through the village and until we were inside the garage. I didn't want the neighbours wondering what I was doing with a striking young woman.

I stopped so she could nip into the back. I turned round to see if she was alright and she was rigid and pale. 'You aren't going to kill me are you!'

Then I remembered that I still had a bloody dustsheet and carving knife in the boot from butchering a road kill deer a few days before. Not a good idea to leave these on view...

I laughed, not unkindly, apologised and explained. She seemed Ok with the explanation but texted away to someone anyway - maybe her last will and testament. When we got into my garage and walked though the utility room, I made sure to open the freezer and show her the hunks of Venison (could have been Haunch of Escort 750g though - would have looked the same).

Well, that may have broken the ice but I'm happy to say we had an exceptionally good time and I thought she was an absolute sweetie. Especially after she had such a scare...

Daffon

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She saw the paraphernalia in the boot and still got in?

I am no stranger to carrying all manner of game, but to be so enterprising with public road kill is quite enterprising!

It seems rather like the opening sequence of a "gritty horror film", though.

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She didn't see the kit until nearly at our destination preparing for the secret transfer on arrival...

If she had seen it before she got in, I would still be sitting with a Viagra hard on (this was only 2 hours ago) and no prospects.

As to roadkill, most years I manage to find a reasonably fresh deer (in East Northamptonshire). I once came on a 40kg Sika Deer that was still warm, on my way to work. I called in sick and that was my Christmas Dinner that year taken care of and how!

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As I drove a girl with whom I had had just one incall, a few days beforehand, to my place for a longer more relaxed session, we chatted.

She explained that she was happy to come to mine because I seemed like a gentleman. Her driver had glandular fever and she was delighted I had offered the transport.

I suggested that it might be wise to have a friend to whom she could text the car number when going with a stranger. She said her mum knew what she did and might follow this suggestion in future.

As we approached my village I apologised but asked her to lie across the back seats through the village and until we were inside the garage. I didn't want the neighbours wondering what I was doing with a striking young woman.

I stopped so she could nip into the back. I turned round to see if she was alright and she was rigid and pale. 'You aren't going to kill me are you!'

Then I remembered that I still had a bloody dustsheet and carving knife in the boot from butchering a road kill deer a few days before. Not a good idea to leave these on view...

I laughed, not unkindly, apologised and explained. She seemed Ok with the explanation but texted away to someone anyway - maybe her last will and testament. When we got into my garage and walked though the utility room, I made sure to open the freezer and show her the hunks of Venison (could have been Haunch of Escort 750g though - would have looked the same).

Well, that may have broken the ice but I'm happy to say we had an exceptionally good time and I thought she was an absolute sweetie. Especially after she had such a scare...

Daffon

I dont do Outcalls to my home or anywhere else so this wouldnt usually be a scenario but i have given lifts to WGs on ocassion, its for them to decide if they are happy or at least prepared to get in my car in my view, i dont mind either way. I ensure i am polite.

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As I drove a girl with whom I had had just one incall, a few days beforehand, to my place for a longer more relaxed session, we chatted.

She explained that she was happy to come to mine because I seemed like a gentleman. Her driver had glandular fever and she was delighted I had offered the transport.

I suggested that it might be wise to have a friend to whom she could text the car number when going with a stranger. She said her mum knew what she did and might follow this suggestion in future.

As we approached my village I apologised but asked her to lie across the back seats through the village and until we were inside the garage. I didn't want the neighbours wondering what I was doing with a striking young woman.

I stopped so she could nip into the back. I turned round to see if she was alright and she was rigid and pale. 'You aren't going to kill me are you!'

Then I remembered that I still had a bloody dustsheet and carving knife in the boot from butchering a road kill deer a few days before. Not a good idea to leave these on view...

I laughed, not unkindly, apologised and explained. She seemed Ok with the explanation but texted away to someone anyway - maybe her last will and testament. When we got into my garage and walked though the utility room, I made sure to open the freezer and show her the hunks of Venison (could have been Haunch of Escort 750g though - would have looked the same).

Well, that may have broken the ice but I'm happy to say we had an exceptionally good time and I thought she was an absolute sweetie. Especially after she had such a scare...

Daffon

Funny OP Daffon!

I've had similar thoughts about suggesting a wg's friend notes my registration plate in future.

And also about clearing the glove compartment of the gaffer tape, scissors, club-hammer, twine, the other sets of false number plates, the bottle of chloroform and the cotton-wool balls.

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She didn't see the kit until nearly at our destination preparing for the secret transfer on arrival...

If she had seen it before she got in, I would still be sitting with a Viagra hard on (this was only 2 hours ago) and no prospects.

As to roadkill, most years I manage to find a reasonably fresh deer (in East Northamptonshire). I once came on a 40kg Sika Deer that was still warm, on my way to work. I called in sick and that was my Christmas Dinner that year taken care of and how!

Daffon

I've only ever managed reds with my grandfather's 308, although there is no way on earth I'd be able to move one myself. Even shifting the sika must have been quite an energetic undertaking.

However, back to the topic...

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I personally wouldn't get in a car with a strange man, even if I had seen him a few times, just not worth the risk.

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I personally wouldn't get in a car with a strange man, even if I had seen him a few times, just not worth the risk.

But what about the 'strange' men that look normal Lyd?

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But what about the 'strange' men that look normal Lyd?

They are usually the nutters!

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I personally wouldn't get in a car with a strange man, even if I had seen him a few times, just not worth the risk.

Very wise, i wouldnt either or with a strange woman although i have with virtual stranger to me WGs fortunately without incident. :)

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Very wise, i wouldnt either or with a strange woman although i have with virtual stranger to me WGs fortunately without incident. :)

I did get in a car with a WG I didn't know. It was Claire our respected mod. She drove me from the station to her abode. I was subsequently told by those who had strong views on her driving that I had 'taken my life in her hands'!! Does that count? :D

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I did get in a car with a WG I didn't know. It was Claire our respected mod. She drove me from the station to her abode. I was subsequently told by those who had strong views on her driving that I had 'taken my life in her hands'!! Does that count? :D

Only if she had crashed. ;)

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I did get in a car with a WG I didn't know. It was Claire our respected mod. She drove me from the station to her abode. I was subsequently told by those who had strong views on her driving that I had 'taken my life in her hands'!! Does that count? :D

You have just reminded me that a favourite WG in Peterborough in 1999 when told I was seeing her for luck before a job interview in London, drove me to the station in her red BMW starkers under a jacket. I felt like a million dollars the whole of the rest of the day and breezed the interview!

Ah happy days!

Daffon

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i take working girls home after there shift and i can be trusted I enjoy there company I feel honoured that I can take them home and that they trust me so I wouldnt abuse the situation some times they pay me some times I give it to them for free.

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As I drove a girl with whom I had had just one incall, a few days beforehand, to my place for a longer more relaxed session, we chatted.

She explained that she was happy to come to mine because I seemed like a gentleman. Her driver had glandular fever and she was delighted I had offered the transport.

I suggested that it might be wise to have a friend to whom she could text the car number when going with a stranger. She said her mum knew what she did and might follow this suggestion in future.

As we approached my village I apologised but asked her to lie across the back seats through the village and until we were inside the garage. I didn't want the neighbours wondering what I was doing with a striking young woman.

I stopped so she could nip into the back. I turned round to see if she was alright and she was rigid and pale. 'You aren't going to kill me are you!'

Then I remembered that I still had a bloody dustsheet and carving knife in the boot from butchering a road kill deer a few days before. Not a good idea to leave these on view...

sounds like the plot for a 1950s British murder mystery film (can't think which one tho) :huh:

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Unfortunately well known conmen, and even the odd lunatic can appear quite 'charming' and 'respectable' on meeting, this is how they are so successful. For this reason before getting into anyone's car I'd recommend taking down their number plate and leaving it with a security buddy, as well as also informing them of the final destination address. I prefer to make my own transport arrangements, then if anything goes wrong - even genuinely nice people can encounter problems, you are not relying on the other person to 'get you out of there'.

Edited by Strawberry

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I live in a small village where public transport is non existant, taxis are unreliable and the nearest train station is 20 minutes away by car.

I have had a couple ladies visit me who didn't have their own transport or a driver, so I've offered to collect them from the station.

Both have taken me up on the offer. I've thought it a bit risky as I've never seen them before and they have no real idea what I'm like.

All the info they have had is my home address and phone number but that could be easy to fake.

Needless to say I'm 100% trustworthy and respectfull and am thankfull they have trusted me enough to collect them but it does make the mind wonder what would happen if I was a complete nutter.

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I've seen a lady in a city centre appartment several times now. It's become the norm for me to see her as her last appointment of the day. These are very unrushed occasions and I often stay well over the paid for time, just chatting and looking on as she tidies up at the end of the day. The last couple of times I've driven her home too. The first time I dropped her at the local Tesco Express as she had shopping to do, and last time I drove her right to her door. It's become a very friendly arrangement and I have no doubt that I'll be seeing her again before long.

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Unfortunately well known conmen, and even the odd lunatic can appear quite 'charming' and 'respectable' on meeting, this is how they are so successful. For this reason before getting into anyone's car I'd recommend taking down their number plate and leaving it with a security buddy, as well as also informing them of the final destination address. I prefer to make my own transport arrangements, then if anything goes wrong - even genuinely nice people can encounter problems, you are not relying on the other person to 'get you out of there'.

I'm probably being naive here, Strawberry, but is there a fundamental difference between getting into the car of a punter you dont know or going to his house or him to your apartment? If he's a mad axeman, it's gonna happen (as you say, they're very calculating and dont wear axeman uniform) and I would've thought a car probably easier to escape. I can see cars being unsafe as in dont hitch on a country lane in the dark - but the hitcher isnt a wg going to the guy's house!

Anyway, great tale Mr Daffon. Sounds more like the start to an early 70's US slasher movie to me

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We are a social species and trust is the lubricant of civilisation. If 'cheats' of any kind rise above even a tiny minority the system (civilisation) deals with them or the society collapses.

I've mentioned it before, Liars and Outliers: Enabling the Trust That Society Needs to Thriveis really worth reading.

It is much more enlightening on the true nature of trust than I have the eloquence to express.

Edited by WykeTyke

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A friend who works tells me of the incidents she encounters driving to outcalls.

People who simply aren't at the address, don't answer door, even have door open then shout at her to get out as if she is an intruder, all these after driving quite a distance.

That's apart from punters misbehaving, not paying etc in car meets.

I am very relieved she has pretty much confined herself to booking a hotel for her workplace now but nothing I could previously do to change her ways.

Till the car broke down.

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another thing is not to drive like a twat. not eveyone appreciates driving too fast or jumping yellow lights. Just take it steady and keep her blood pressure down.

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another thing is not to drive like a twat. not eveyone appreciates driving too fast or jumping yellow lights. Just take it steady and keep her blood pressure down.

I dont drive like a twat at least I try not to but the thing is my working girl often tells me off and tells me to put my foot down.

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I've often met girls at a preset place to bring them home.

I am often amazed and distressed at the girls lack of personal security in this situation.

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I've often met girls at a preset place to bring them home.

I am often amazed and distressed at the girls lack of personal security in this situation.

I am often amazed at many WGs lack of personal security full stop. Unlike many of the WGs on here many i have punted with have no idea how to work safe.

One example, WGs on here have often posted they wont go to a hotel without the punters room number, i was never asked for my room number and simply met the WG in the bar or foyer and took it from their. It suited me as i could walk as easily as at an Incall if need be.

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