Tarquin

Indies Answering Personal Ads?

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Is it the sign of times or just a coincidence that just lately I've been receiving replies to my Personal Ads from WG's?

My Ads are mainly directed at females willing to exchange sex for rewards and over the last 2 or 3 months I've had several girls offering exactly what I'm after and directing me to either the purple site or their own website.

But......and this is my point , offering everything I want and in some cases, more than I want for a fraction of there advertised fee.

Trouble is unless there is a particular WG I feel the need to see I'm currently only looking for "wannabee whores" not desperate service providers!

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So basically you're looking for cheap sex?!

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Are you looking for a wannabe whore, or a sugar baby?

What kind of rewards would you be providing and is it that you want more of a relationship or something?

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So basically you're looking for cheap sex?!

No, not at all. I'm glad that you have brought that into the equation as it allows me to point out that NO, I'm not looking for "cheap sex", indeed my past Personal; Ad campaigns have cost me more financially and emotionally than Agency or Indie.

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Ok, fair enough- a more useful reply I have is that as far as I know from men who have gone down the NSA ads route it has always been common for escorts to respond to adverts. maybe in harder times some girls are more desperate and will resort to this.

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Are you looking for a wannabe whore, or a sugar baby?

What kind of rewards would you be providing and is it that you want more of a relationship or something?

I offer rewards in line with that of current WG fees, but request a more personal approach other than Service Provider / Punter.

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Ok, fair enough- a more useful reply I have is that as far as I know from men who have gone down the NSA ads route it has always been common for escorts to respond to adverts. maybe in harder times some girls are more desperate and will resort to this.

Point taken and understood. But I was more interested if that now, given the economic climate WG's are turning their attention to Personal Ads suggesting a FWB's arrangement in the knowledge that these men are willing to assist financially for sexual favours received and therefore willing to pose as desperate students to achieve that?

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Point taken and understood. But I was more interested if that now, given the economic climate WG's are turning their attention to Personal Ads suggesting a FWB's arrangement in the knowledge that these men are willing to assist financially for sexual favours received and therefore willing to pose as desperate students to achieve that?

Maybe there just are not so many desperate students around at the moment? Or they have wisened up and just become WGs without the pretence?

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Maybe there just are not so many desperate students around at the moment? Or they have wisened up and just become WGs without the pretence?

That's a thought, but not one that I necessarily subscribe to, hence this thread, however I do agree with you that the mentally strong female has embraced the WG route.

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I am intrigued, or should I just say darn nosy....

What do you say in your advert?

Care to share?

Lucy :)

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I am intrigued, or should I just say darn nosy....

What do you say in your advert?

Care to share?

Lucy :)

I couldn't post on here the exact content of my Ads as it would compromise my Identity, however I will add that having done this for several years I have become quite proficient at sorting out the Scammers, the Wannabees, the WG's.

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I offer rewards in line with that of current WG fees, but request a more personal approach other than Service Provider / Punter.

What would that be?

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No, not at all. I'm glad that you have brought that into the equation as it allows me to point out that NO, I'm not looking for "cheap sex", indeed my past Personal; Ad campaigns have cost me more financially and emotionally than Agency or Indie.

This begs the question "why do you do it then ?" . If a woman responds to an advert offering a financial inducement for sex, you are unlikely to find someone who invests emotional content into the arrangement.

If business is slow, it is unsurprising that professionals respond. If the girl thinks that you want a regular arrangement, she may offer a discounted price upfront as it will not erode her official pricing structure in the established directories.

A lot of girls who work with agencies would offer a lower rate on the other site but the agencies will not accept it. This helps them get around that problem. A bit like reverse bookings, I imagine.

Jack

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What would that be?

Hello "Curious Rose", you are the second WG in less than 12 posts that has shown an interest in this thread and the exact content of my Ads. I pride myself in the wording of my Ads, and purposely aim it at girls/women that are interested in having sex with a cash incentive. Some are genuine replies from girls that just want sex, some are girls that want sex and happy to have a cash incentive, and more recently, some........are bona fide WG's/ Escorts. Please don't misunderstand me, i have no issue with bona fide WG's replying to my Ads, just for me I know who I would choose in that respect, so my Personal Ads are designed to find someone new and less experienced but enthusiastic.

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It's almost as if working girls are a different breed to 'other' girls!

Surely meeting the right WG for you would result in the same thing? Not a criticism, genuinely curious. Or if it gifts your prefer to give rather than cash?

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This begs the question "why do you do it then ?" . If a woman responds to an advert offering a financial inducement for sex, you are unlikely to find someone who invests emotional content into the arrangement.

If business is slow, it is unsurprising that professionals respond. If the girl thinks that you want a regular arrangement, she may offer a discounted price upfront as it will not erode her official pricing structure in the established directories.

A lot of girls who work with agencies would offer a lower rate on the other site but the agencies will not accept it. This helps them get around that problem. A bit like reverse bookings, I imagine.

Jack

Hi Jack. with respect I think you are not understanding my point,

I'm not trying to find a cheaper alternative to publicly available Wg. I have no problem with having a punt with an Agency or Indie girl at the going rate, just I also know that that there are also many girls out there willing to sell their assets and no less than 2 girls have done so with me on a very amicable arrangement. The point I am making is that i've noticed a big increase in bona fide WG's posing as civvi girls looking for sex with benefits.

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It's almost as if working girls are a different breed to 'other' girls!

Surely meeting the right WG for you would result in the same thing? Not a criticism, genuinely curious. Or if it gifts your prefer to give rather than cash?

You are quite perceptive in as much that I have a certain dislike to handing over cash for services received, indeed I have never actually physically handed over cash to any WG, normally leaving it on full view on the table and if not seen normally mention that there is something they might like to look at. It's not because I am ashamed at paying for their services, no, actually because ( fluffy alert"), that I respect them.

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It's almost as if working girls are a different breed to 'other' girls!

Surely meeting the right WG for you would result in the same thing? Not a criticism, genuinely curious. Or if it gifts your prefer to give rather than cash?

Didn't I already answer that question? If I didn't then here it is.......I enjoy the interaction, not just the sex, the banter, the laughs the fun, the emotions, the going shopping......do you like those shoes? I'll buy them for you!

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It's almost as if working girls are a different breed to 'other' girls!

Surely meeting the right WG for you would result in the same thing? Not a criticism, genuinely curious. Or if it gifts your prefer to give rather than cash?

This is what's getting me, I can't follow it. I don't rush things, watch the clock and enjoy a good personal get to know other time with meets that isn't usually charged for. However I still can't figure out what Tarquin is requesting in his ad's or being offered apart an enjoyable relaxed personable service.

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I'm currently only looking for "wannabee whores" not desperate service providers!

I must of been speed reading your original post as I missed this on first reading.

Lovely stuff.

Lucy :)

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I couldn't post on here the exact content of my Ads as it would compromise my Identity, however I will add that having done this for several years I have become quite proficient at sorting out the Scammers, the Wannabees, the WG's.

I am also intrigued Tarquin. Serious question....where are you posting your ads? Is it on one of the, shall we say, 'married mans' dating sites?

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I offer rewards in line with that of current WG fees, but request a more personal approach other than Service Provider / Punter.

I see, phone contact, call for a chat, lots of between visits contact, that sort of thing? It can be arranged with WGs too if that's your bag, but I suppose it's a more structured thing in some cases. A paid mistress by another name? ;)

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Is it the sign of times or just a coincidence that just lately I've been receiving replies to my Personal Ads from WG's?

My Ads are mainly directed at females willing to exchange sex for rewards and over the last 2 or 3 months I've had several girls offering exactly what I'm after and directing me to either the purple site or their own website.

But......and this is my point , offering everything I want and in some cases, more than I want for a fraction of there advertised fee.

Trouble is unless there is a particular WG I feel the need to see I'm currently only looking for "wannabee whores" not desperate service providers!

I have no idea if its a sign of the times or a coincidence. I prefer to stick to locating just WGs off the purple site and pay rates that i am prepared to pay and this modus suits me.

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Didn't I already answer that question? If I didn't then here it is.......I enjoy the interaction, not just the sex, the banter, the laughs the fun, the emotions, the going shopping......do you like those shoes? I'll buy them for you!

I just want the sex myself.

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Hi Jack. with respect I think you are not understanding my point,

I'm not trying to find a cheaper alternative to publicly available Wg. I have no problem with having a punt with an Agency or Indie girl at the going rate, just I also know that that there are also many girls out there willing to sell their assets and no less than 2 girls have done so with me on a very amicable arrangement. The point I am making is that i've noticed a big increase in bona fide WG's posing as civvi girls looking for sex with benefits.

Perhaps linked to the economic situation.

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