SouthWalesPunter

Making A Girl Cum Through Oral?

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So...Im new to punting but I'v gotten quite a few punts under my belt already which has given me plenty of opportunity to work on my cunnilingus skills and I seem to be getting quite good.

One thing I have noticed is that many times when I'm giving a girl RO, she will grab the back of my head and start grinding/thrusting her pussy into my face and often their toes will start curling (if they arnt wearing footwear), I take this as a sign that they are close to cumming but I never seem to quite get them there.

When they do this I just keep doing what I was doing, but it doesn't seem to push them over the edge so to speak, they just seem to get to the brink, but never actually cum...should I be doing something different at the point where they start grinding against my face instead of just carrying on as I was...speed up or something maybe?

I know many will say "Take it with a pinch of salt if A WG starts cumming, shes probably faking it" but the exact same thing- grabbing the back of my head and grinding has happened 5 times with 5 different girls so Im sure it is no coincidence, anyway, atleast 3 admitted that they were close but not quite there, if they wanted to massage my ego they would have just said "yeah, I did cum"

Also...lets have a general "how to give good RO" thread :D

Personally, RO is one of my favourite things about punting

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So...Im new to punting but I'v gotten quite a few punts under my belt already which has given me plenty of opportunity to work on my cunnilingus skills and I seem to be getting quite good.

One thing I have noticed is that many times when I'm giving a girl RO, she will grab the back of my head and start grinding/thrusting her pussy into my face and often their toes will start curling (if they arnt wearing footwear), I take this as a sign that they are close to cumming but I never seem to quite get them there.

When they do this I just keep doing what I was doing, but it doesn't seem to push them over the edge so to speak, they just seem to get to the brink, but never actually cum...should I be doing something different at the point where they start grinding against my face instead of just carrying on as I was...speed up or something maybe?

I know many will say "Take it with a pinch of salt if A WG starts cumming, shes probably faking it" but the exact same thing- grabbing the back of my head and grinding has happened 5 times with 5 different girls so Im sure it is no coincidence, anyway, atleast 3 admitted that they were close but not quite there, if they wanted to massage my ego they would have just said "yeah, I did cum"

Also...lets have a general "how to give good RO" thread :D

Personally, RO is one of my favourite things about punting

I always ask a WG exactly how she likes RO, thats the best i can do. Some WGs really are great actresses as i know and have seen from parties so unless i know her well i dont take it as definite that i have made her come and indeed i never expect her to come. If they did come with every punter they could become so sore that they had to take time off to recover and thus lose money.

So i just do my best. :)

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Talking about toes curling, I remember shagging a lass a few years back and saw this happen. Afterwards I said you must have enjoyed that I saw your toes curl in pleasure. She said no you idiot you didn't take my tights off. :P

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lol phil

Aye, Asking would be easiest Smiths but I sort of enjoy trying to suss it out for myself I see it as a challenge lol

I know not all girls are the same, different girls enjoy different things but though experimenting I'v discovered a few things that seem to get most girls fired up...its just the pushing them over the edge bit that I cant seem to get right.its like a firework...light the fuse...it starts to burn...the flame gets closer and to the firework, you expect something to happen then...nothing! lol

I just dont get how a woman can go from an apparently very aroused state..grabbing my head, grinding...then suddenly, it just stops working..."did you cum"

its either "no" or

"I was almost there"

Or ofcourse, maybe Iv had a few very good actresses....

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lol phil

Aye, Asking would be easiest Smiths but I sort of enjoy trying to suss it out for myself I see it as a challenge lol

I know not all girls are the same, different girls enjoy different things but though experimenting I'v discovered a few things that seem to get most girls fired up...its just the pushing them over the edge bit that I cant seem to get right.its like a firework...light the fuse...it starts to burn...the flame gets closer and to the firework, you expect something to happen then...nothing! lol

I just dont get how a woman can go from an apparently very aroused state..grabbing my head, grinding...then suddenly, it just stops working..."did you cum"

its either "no" or

"I was almost there"

Or ofcourse, maybe Iv had a few very good actresses....

As long as you are having fun a challenge is always good in my experience. ;)

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As long as you are having fun a challenge is always good in my experience. ;)

Can't think of anything more fun than eating pussy :D

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Well, not blowing my own trumpet or anything :cool: but the majority of 70+ escort feedback on the Purple site is about how good I am with my tongue licking pussy :D I tend to go at a reasonable pace concentrating on the clit, just like the porn films.....seems to work most times.... ;)

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Not a fan of doing this to a WG. Weird as I like owo....

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Not a fan of doing this to a WG. Weird as I like owo....

I dont think thats weird at all, you enjoy receiving OWO but not giving RO to a WG, your paying so its up to you.

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About a year ago I had a booking off a chap who told me he was amazing at RO and that lots and lots of ladies had told him how good he was. I then checked out his feedback and true enough, it reiterated what he had told me and I was rather looking forward to it. I have to say it was the most uncomfortable and painful experience I have ever had. As he enthusiastically got down to business he omitted to consider his head and kept bunting me with vigour into my pubic bone. I had to ask him to be more gentle on a couple of occassions until I eventually managed to divert the attention by using some toys and then he some how managed to make me gush, which I'm sure added to his repertoire of skills and my relief that he finally managed to get a positive reaction from my body.

I firmly believe that where skills may be acquired, you also have to take into consideration that every woman is different and listen to her body. Be gentle to start with and if she wants you to be firmer or responds when you get a little firmer, then go with it, otherwise stay where you are and discover where her 'spots' are by the reaction you get. Please also bear in mind (how ever distasteful the idea is to you) that she may have seen others before you and if she is like me and does seem to orgasm quite a lot, she may be quite sensitive down there already and not need a lot of stimulation to get back to where she needs to be.

Never assume just because it 'worked' with somene else, that it will work with the lady you are with now.

This is one of the reasons why I dislike the question, 'Are you good at owo?' Well, yes I would like to think I am good at it, as I have had lots of practice, but I don't know if I will be good at it with you, until I have my mouth round your man and can see your reaction, as men are very very different in how they like to receive this. I've had a few men that practically want you to bite it (makes me very uneasy) and others you barely touch and they are telling you to be careful with your choppers (I didn't even have them in!) - Joke! Seriously, the best thing you can do is adapt and adjust, as you discover and hope that you get it right.

Edited by kissxkate

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About a year ago I had a booking off a chap who told me he was amazing at RO and that lots and lots of ladies had told him how good he was. I then checked out his feedback and true enough, it reiterated what he had told me and I was rather looking forward to it. I have to say it was the most uncomfortable and painful experience I have ever had. As he enthusiastically got down to business he omitted to consider his head and kept bunting me with vigour into my pubic bone.

I think some ladies just flatter the guy with what they say in their feedback on them Kate, type down what they think he wants to hear sort of thing.

I have had a man like that too, and as much as I told him to sort of lift his head off me he did not.

I am one the hardest to orgasm through oral alone.

I met a older gentleman the other week, he shell shocked me with his ways.

So so good, for me.

I was dizzy with the orgasm.

So I know I can do it now.

I then told one of my regs how this bloke did it to me, so we then had a session using the same techniques.......it worked again!

Lucy :)

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Lucy ..... tell us please! ;-)

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I think some ladies just flatter the guy with what they say in their feedback on them Kate, type down what they think he wants to hear sort of thing.

I have had a man like that too, and as much as I told him to sort of lift his head off me he did not.

I am one the hardest to orgasm through oral alone.

I met a older gentleman the other week, he shell shocked me with his ways.

So so good, for me.

I was dizzy with the orgasm.

So I know I can do it now.

I then told one of my regs how this bloke did it to me, so we then had a session using the same techniques.......it worked again!

Lucy :)

Quite true, i know this is the case with some WGs, being smart they flatter so the punter will return, seems a good business strategy to me. :)

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I love to give as well as receive.

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Quite true, i know this is the case with some WGs, being smart they flatter so the punter will return, seems a good business strategy to me. :)

Yes I get what you mean, but I for one use the feedback to judge a guy if possible.

I have not left feedback only 3 times, not as they were horrible, just that they were too much like hard work in the social department.

I can not recommend any man who lies there with a raging stiffy but makes no noise and no conversation at all, to another lady.

Anyway back on topic....... :) I agree with Chris above.

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Try watching true lesbian porn, not the stuff peddled for male viewing where the girls have 3ft long nails!

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I like the girl to sit on my face facing the bedhead and supporting herself on the wall, that way you have a nice view and access to her tits as you lick her out. She can then control the pressure and the speed she moves her pussy and clit over your mouth and so she controls her orgasm-and I find it more of a turn-on than straight DATY. Frequently brings them off in my experience-but they always have a nice time-or say they do!

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I find slipping a finger in pushes me over the edge (in a good way!) but all women are different! Ask her!

Oh, also if they are grabbing your head and pushing you maybe they want you to be a little firmer. Some women like rougher licks or more of a sucking on their clit. I know many like it really gently, but I personally like it a bit firmer to reach orgasm so that could be where you need to go! Have fun trying!

Edited by LondonLydia

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To add: I really see it as a personal thing.... like I really have to like a girl to do it!

I have done it once to a working girl (brunette, green eyed - dream girl). She came. Clamped my head between her thighs and said " that doesn't normally happen at work, you've done that before". Of course...

Gave her a demon massage too...

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Part of the fun for me is observing the girl and trying to deduce what turns her on. Whether she is a finger girl or a tongue girl. or a clit girl or a g-spot girl

For they are all different. And the difference is part of the fun!

Even met the odd one who ain't botherd, just wants a good fuck!

Edited by Coventrypunter

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So...Im new to punting but I'v gotten quite a few punts under my belt already which has given me plenty of opportunity to work on my cunnilingus skills and I seem to be getting quite good.

One thing I have noticed is that many times when I'm giving a girl RO, she will grab the back of my head and start grinding/thrusting her pussy into my face and often their toes will start curling (if they arnt wearing footwear), I take this as a sign that they are close to cumming but I never seem to quite get them there.

When they do this I just keep doing what I was doing, but it doesn't seem to push them over the edge so to speak, they just seem to get to the brink, but never actually cum...should I be doing something different at the point where they start grinding against my face instead of just carrying on as I was...speed up or something maybe?

I know many will say "Take it with a pinch of salt if A WG starts cumming, shes probably faking it" but the exact same thing- grabbing the back of my head and grinding has happened 5 times with 5 different girls so Im sure it is no coincidence, anyway, atleast 3 admitted that they were close but not quite there, if they wanted to massage my ego they would have just said "yeah, I did cum"

Also...lets have a general "how to give good RO" thread :D

Personally, RO is one of my favourite things about punting

Every girl I've seen for the last twelve months or so has come at least once during a one hour session through oral. I love giving pleasure this way so try to find what is best for the lady. Usually I get her to sit right on the edge of the bed and lie back, then she can put her feet on my shoulders or her legs around my neck. I start with gentle licking of the outer labia and inner thighs, then progress to licking and sucking the clit whilst gently retracting the hood. As a variation I push my tongue as far as I can inside the vagina. Some ladies like a finger or two inside a little way, with gentle massage of the front wall. Others like the anus lightly touched, however some do not like fingering at all during oral. Alternatively I may lie on my back and ask her to straddle me. She can grasp the bedhead or lean against the wall whilst I lick and suck as above. Some ladies recently have had shattering orgasms in this position. One regular who says "I come easy" had 6 or 7 orgasms during our most recent one hour meet. Its all about gently exploring what the lady does and does not like, adapting the approach accordingly, and persevering; some ladies can take a long time to climax.

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At first I thought that maybe some of your ladies may fake it.......but then with reading all your words of type I think you should be selling not seeking Brummy.

Your booked :D

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My own enjoyment comes first and if in the process of enjoying myself the lady cums then its a bonus for her.

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Recently I've found many of the girls being more honest about this, saying if they did or didn't come. One girl was quite pissed-off that I didn't make her come through oral, but my tongue had gone dead after twenty minutes! Often the girls who go away disappointed are those that don't want me to finish them off with my tongue and screw them instead.

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At first I thought that maybe some of your ladies may fake it.......but then with reading all your words of type I think you should be selling not seeking Brummy.

Your booked :D

Thank you for your kind words. I shall honour the booking next time I'm in the neighbourhood!

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