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i want to see an escort I have her mobile number so I sent a few texts and rang a few times to try to arrange some thing when I ring it just rings until you get to the answer phone. When I text she never replys to my texts. So I just wondered am I doing any thing wrong? I dont think I was ever rude to her in my texts well I deffo wasnt rude. any one experienced this before any one know how I should deal with this so I can secure my hot dream date?.

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Sounds like a dead deal - plenty more girls out there who do answer their phones, so just pick somebody else

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just emailed her and got this automated response from her email...

Hi x

This is an automated email response.

I am having problems connecting to the internet at the moment so if you need to contact me regarding a booking or you just have an enquiry ...

You would be better to text or call me on my phone number which is shown on my profile page as I cannot guarantee I will read your message in time and I would hate for you to miss out.

I will look forward to hearing from you ...

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Move on and find another dream datei is my advice.

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It has surprised me how difficult it is to communicate with some genuine looking girls on the other site. Either they don't respond to emails or don't answer the phone or respond to messages. You're not alone and probably not doing anything wrong, just move on and find one that will communicate is my advice :)

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It has surprised me how difficult it is to communicate with some genuine looking girls on the other site. Either they don't respond to emails or don't answer the phone or respond to messages. You're not alone and probably not doing anything wrong, just move on and find one that will communicate is my advice :)

yeah this.

I just made one final phone call after that email and still no pick up so will have to move on and hope that she sees my missed calls and calls me back but its unlikley as she prob would've rung me by now. time to move on and find some one else.

it did say a strickly limited number of appointments are avaliable

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yeah this.

I just made one final phone call after that email and still no pick up so will have to move on and hope that she sees my missed calls and calls me back but its unlikley as she prob would've rung me by now. time to move on and find some one else.

I would be surprised if she does. The advice you have already been given is absolutely correct. There are plenty of willing, happy ladies who will be happy to meet you. Just keep looking, and good luck.

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i want to see an escort I have her mobile number so I sent a few texts and rang a few times to try to arrange some thing when I ring it just rings until you get to the answer phone. When I text she never replys to my texts. So I just wondered am I doing any thing wrong? I dont think I was ever rude to her in my texts well I deffo wasnt rude. any one experienced this before any one know how I should deal with this so I can secure my hot dream date?.

This is obviously not what's happened here, but I would add that I don't reply to messages if they're too short/ poorly punctuated/ in any way irritating or disrespectful. "Are you available?" rarely moves me to respond, and asking me anything that's explained on my website/** profile rubs me up the wrong way completely. It's not that difficult to read a website and send an intelligible message outlining who you are, what you're looking for, and suggesting a time or date. :rolleyes:

Call me fussy.

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Did you withhold your number when you called?

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i want to see an escort I have her mobile number so I sent a few texts and rang a few times to try to arrange some thing when I ring it just rings until you get to the answer phone. When I text she never replys to my texts. So I just wondered am I doing any thing wrong? I dont think I was ever rude to her in my texts well I deffo wasnt rude. any one experienced this before any one know how I should deal with this so I can secure my hot dream date?.

I have experienced it many times and if a newbie to me i only phone, no texts to enquire and i have no interest in leaving a voicemail message with a complete stranger so dont.

I try a number of time if i dont get an answer i go elsewhere but might try her again in the future. There is no indication you have done anything wrong from what you have posted here in my view, she might be on holiday although it helps to say that on a profile in my opinion, sick or just busy and/or fully booked so isnt looking for punters at present.

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This is obviously not what's happened here, but I would add that I don't reply to messages if they're too short/ poorly punctuated/ in any way irritating or disrespectful. "Are you available?" rarely moves me to respond, and asking me anything that's explained on my website/** profile rubs me up the wrong way completely. It's not that difficult to read a website and send an intelligible message outlining who you are, what you're looking for, and suggesting a time or date. :rolleyes:

Call me fussy.

I dont agree because through past experiences some WGs simply lie about the services offered on their sites/profiles, so nowadays to me they are a guide to be confirmed by speaking on the phone as thats the best i can do to get the confirmation i require. Any WG that simply says read my site and wont discuss services offered which i find is rare and other things on the phone wont get my business.

I have a number of times arrived at a WGs and spoke about her services only to be told OWO actually isnt on offer and she "forgot" to update her site/profile leaving me to stay or walk. If i arrive to find anything agreed with the WG not on offer its because she has lied, i confirm services when enquiring, booking, confirming and once again in person before i hand my money over being crystal clear at all stages.

The good thing is i rarely get lied to about this nowaadays, but being very careful and seeking phone confirmation is absolutely essential to me.

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UPDATE I got through to her she texted me and said sorry she couldnt talk but would respond by text. So I tryed to book her but she then told me that shes fully booked this weekend any way. so I will try some one else.

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You don't say where you got the profile from so I am just guessing. Did she suggest you access her private gallery to put you "in the mood" when you meet?

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You don't say where you got the profile from so I am just guessing. Did she suggest you access her private gallery to put you "in the mood" when you meet?

Ah you are thinking there is trickery a foot!

I do not answer withheld numbers. Sometimes ppl forget they are calling from a withheld number and most the time they know it full well and there is mischief on their minds. Sometimes I can't answer the phone, because I am at home with family or out with friends. It can also be difficult to text back and I admit I am hopeless at responding to messages left for me.

I have now configured my profile on another well known site so I can read messages on my phone while I am away from the computer and I have found that very useful, as now I know if it is something important and will get to a computer as soon as I can to respond, although I won't phone someone up if they leave me a number, as I never phone clients (unless they are lost trying to find me for a booking).

Responding to calls that have been left or texts after a period of time can be dodgy and in my mind it is better for you to try again when it is convenient for you, than have an Escort call or text when you are with someone who could get hurt by the revolation. Perhaps better to lose the odd client, than to lose them their partner?

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Down most girls dont reply to texts, nor witheld numbers. There is so much choice for your "hot dream date" I'm sure you will find someone who answers their phone and is available (but call from a displayed number) - good luck !

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I dont agree because through past experiences some WGs simply lie about the services offered on their sites/profiles, so nowadays to me they are a guide to be confirmed by speaking on the phone as thats the best i can do to get the confirmation i require. Any WG that simply says read my site and wont discuss services offered which i find is rare and other things on the phone wont get my business.

I have a number of times arrived at a WGs and spoke about her services only to be told OWO actually isnt on offer and she "forgot" to update her site/profile leaving me to stay or walk. If i arrive to find anything agreed with the WG not on offer its because she has lied, i confirm services when enquiring, booking, confirming and once again in person before i hand my money over being crystal clear at all stages.

The good thing is i rarely get lied to about this nowaadays, but being very careful and seeking phone confirmation is absolutely essential to me.

I didn't say that I wouldn't talk on the phone, I was specifically talking about punters who choose to make initial contact by text or email (which for me seems to be a high percentage.)

If someone asks me "Are the services on your website accurate?" then I'm happy to confirm that, but if it's clear from the questions being asked that the guy hasn't done anything more than look at my pictures and dial my number, then I will refuse to go through the details over the phone. It's a waste of my time, frankly, and it acts as a good filter -- I don't want to see someone who's too impatient to read my website and get a sense of who I am and what kind of experience I provide. Anyone who's done a bit of research (i.e. anyone who I'd want to see) will know that I am genuine and provide the services I claim to, because they'll have read my reports and checked me out, so I don't feel the need to prove myself over the phone by describing anything that I've already detailed on my website.

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I didn't say that I wouldn't talk on the phone, I was specifically talking about punters who choose to make initial contact by text or email (which for me seems to be a high percentage.)

If someone asks me "Are the services on your website accurate?" then I'm happy to confirm that, but if it's clear from the questions being asked that the guy hasn't done anything more than look at my pictures and dial my number, then I will refuse to go through the details over the phone. It's a waste of my time, frankly, and it acts as a good filter -- I don't want to see someone who's too impatient to read my website and get a sense of who I am and what kind of experience I provide. Anyone who's done a bit of research (i.e. anyone who I'd want to see) will know that I am genuine and provide the services I claim to, because they'll have read my reports and checked me out, so I don't feel the need to prove myself over the phone by describing anything that I've already detailed on my website.

Thanks for the clarification, sounds perfectly sensible to me. :)

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I didn't say that I wouldn't talk on the phone, I was specifically talking about punters who choose to make initial contact by text or email (which for me seems to be a high percentage.)

If someone asks me "Are the services on your website accurate?" then I'm happy to confirm that, but if it's clear from the questions being asked that the guy hasn't done anything more than look at my pictures and dial my number, then I will refuse to go through the details over the phone. It's a waste of my time, frankly, and it acts as a good filter -- I don't want to see someone who's too impatient to read my website and get a sense of who I am and what kind of experience I provide. Anyone who's done a bit of research (i.e. anyone who I'd want to see) will know that I am genuine and provide the services I claim to, because they'll have read my reports and checked me out, so I don't feel the need to prove myself over the phone by describing anything that I've already detailed on my website.

I'm with Smiths. No matter what the feedback, I will always seek to reassure myself that the services are on offer to me.

However, I endeavour to ask in such a way that the WG will understand that I've read her profile and I'm not getting my jollies from her answers.

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i want to see an escort I have her mobile number so I sent a few texts and rang a few times to try to arrange some thing when I ring it just rings until you get to the answer phone. When I text she never replys to my texts. So I just wondered am I doing any thing wrong? I dont think I was ever rude to her in my texts well I deffo wasnt rude. any one experienced this before any one know how I should deal with this so I can secure my hot dream date?.

Does it say how often she works?? I am extremely hard to get hold of as I only work a few days a month, one thing I will not do is answer a text if I have not seen it within a couple of hours let alone a couple of days.

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I'm with Smiths. No matter what the feedback, I will always seek to reassure myself that the services are on offer to me.

However, I endeavour to ask in such a way that the WG will understand that I've read her profile and I'm not getting my jollies from her answers.

That's the ticket.

If someone says 'I see from your website that you offer the peanut butter and celery experience, I'm very interested in that..' they'll get a positive, chatty response.

If they say 'What do you do?' they'll get 'Did you get as far as my personal site? All details are on there'.

If they persist with 'yeah, but I just wanna know what I'm getting' the positive, chatty Claire buggers off... <_<:D

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storm in a teacup.

even if you re-establish contact, you are probably on the wrong foot.

move.

(or do whatever you please...)

best thing from this thread: we now know Curious Rose can be called "fussy"

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storm in a teacup.

even if you re-establish contact, you are probably on the wrong foot.

move.

(or do whatever you please...)

best thing from this thread: we now know Curious Rose can be called "fussy"

*fusses*

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*fusses*

"begins to have a weak spot for fussy girls"

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