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It's Not A Bit Like I Thought It Would Be.

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When I was a teenager sex was something a girl might let you do to her if she particularly liked you, especially if you put a ring on her finger. Girls did not participate, and although I knew they had some sensation down there I was not aware of the clitoris or the female orgasm. They didn't teach that in O level Biology. Although we were sexually active for a couple of years prior to getting married Mrs BB did not experience orgasm for a couple of years after. Sex was great in our late twenties, thirties and early forties, but then it gradually deteriorated to once a week, no foreplay, no touching, no oral, missionary only and come as quick as you can; Mrs BB has not had an orgasm for years. I started punting to augment the lean rations at home, to experience variety not on offer at home, and to experience other women. I had sex with only one other girl prior to marriage. I suppose I had some previously conceived ideas about paid for sex before experiencing it, but the reality has not reflected these ideas at all. I did not expect ladies to participate; I did not expect them to kiss; I did not expect them to have orgasms, and I certainly did not expect them to be so beautiful. So although starting relatively late my punting has been a wonderful journey of discovery, and my Sunday morning ultra vanilla session with Mrs BB complements my more adventurous activities beautifully.

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When I was a teenager sex was something a girl might let you do to her if she particularly liked you, especially if you put a ring on her finger. Girls did not participate, and although I knew they had some sensation down there I was not aware of the clitoris or the female orgasm. They didn't teach that in O level Biology. Although we were sexually active for a couple of years prior to getting married Mrs BB did not experience orgasm for a couple of years after. Sex was great in our late twenties, thirties and early forties, but then it gradually deteriorated to once a week, no foreplay, no touching, no oral, missionary only and come as quick as you can; Mrs BB has not had an orgasm for years. I started punting to augment the lean rations at home, to experience variety not on offer at home, and to experience other women. I had sex with only one other girl prior to marriage. I suppose I had some previously conceived ideas about paid for sex before experiencing it, but the reality has not reflected these ideas at all. I did not expect ladies to participate; I did not expect them to kiss; I did not expect them to have orgasms, and I certainly did not expect them to be so beautiful. So although starting relatively late my punting has been a wonderful journey of discovery, and my Sunday morning ultra vanilla session with Mrs BB complements my more adventurous activities beautifully.

It's fantastic that you're enjoying your punting and getting a lot of satisfaction from it, sounds like you're having a great time! :)

And whilst I'm sure all the girls are having great orgasms too (and not wanting to burst your bubble or anything), it has been known for a WG to 'fake it' with punters on occasion in the past (and very convincing they can be too, muscle spasms and all ;) )

But that aside, it sounds like you're having a sexual rejuvenation from punting which is one of the great upsides of our hobby!

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I can't think of a better reason for advocating sex before marriage. "Try before you buy", as a very good friend of mine has said.

Mrs P and I did the deed in advance and I had previous before meeting her. In hindsight I would have recommended that we both had more experience before we married.

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When I was a teenager sex was something a girl might let you do to her if she particularly liked you, especially if you put a ring on her finger. Girls did not participate, and although I knew they had some sensation down there I was not aware of the clitoris or the female orgasm. They didn't teach that in O level Biology. Although we were sexually active for a couple of years prior to getting married Mrs BB did not experience orgasm for a couple of years after. Sex was great in our late twenties, thirties and early forties, but then it gradually deteriorated to once a week, no foreplay, no touching, no oral, missionary only and come as quick as you can; Mrs BB has not had an orgasm for years. I started punting to augment the lean rations at home, to experience variety not on offer at home, and to experience other women. I had sex with only one other girl prior to marriage. I suppose I had some previously conceived ideas about paid for sex before experiencing it, but the reality has not reflected these ideas at all. I did not expect ladies to participate; I did not expect them to kiss; I did not expect them to have orgasms, and I certainly did not expect them to be so beautiful. So although starting relatively late my punting has been a wonderful journey of discovery, and my Sunday morning ultra vanilla session with Mrs BB complements my more adventurous activities beautifully.

You chose a good time to punt, in my early punting days kissing was very rarely offered and it was a generally colder experience in my view, nowadays there is the GFE of course.

A mainly good and can be a great pastime.

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When I was a teenager sex was something a girl might let you do to her if she particularly liked you, especially if you put a ring on her finger. Girls did not participate, and although I knew they had some sensation down there I was not aware of the clitoris or the female orgasm. They didn't teach that in O level Biology. Although we were sexually active for a couple of years prior to getting married Mrs BB did not experience orgasm for a couple of years after. Sex was great in our late twenties, thirties and early forties, but then it gradually deteriorated to once a week, no foreplay, no touching, no oral, missionary only and come as quick as you can; Mrs BB has not had an orgasm for years. I started punting to augment the lean rations at home, to experience variety not on offer at home, and to experience other women. I had sex with only one other girl prior to marriage. I suppose I had some previously conceived ideas about paid for sex before experiencing it, but the reality has not reflected these ideas at all. I did not expect ladies to participate; I did not expect them to kiss; I did not expect them to have orgasms, and I certainly did not expect them to be so beautiful. So although starting relatively late my punting has been a wonderful journey of discovery, and my Sunday morning ultra vanilla session with Mrs BB complements my more adventurous activities beautifully.

Hence my poll on what you had done with an escort that you couldn't with the missus.

I too, like many, married the first girl who opened her legs for me; it didn't last!

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From my perspective as an Escort, who had no previous experience or real knowledge of what it was like, I had expected all the clients to be only interested in getting their rocks off, never imagined there to be cuddles, kissing and conversation and most definitely did not expect to ever get an orgasm or gush.

The reality has been almost the reverse of what I expected, as I have had better sex than in my previous life (and that is with years of swinging behind me), I've been made to gush surprisingly frequently and I don't gush easily, had loads of cuddles and passionate kissing and some amazing conversations with lovely people that I have geniunely enjoyed the company of.

I won't say it is every day that I am working, but sometimes I can't believe how much fun this job is and how much I enjoy it. It's just a shame about all the timewasters, occassonal bitching and trouble makers that come with the job. You don't anticipate that when you start working as an Escort either.

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When I was a teenager sex was something a girl might let you do to her if she particularly liked you, especially if you put a ring on her finger. Girls did not participate, and although I knew they had some sensation down there I was not aware of the clitoris or the female orgasm. They didn't teach that in O level Biology. Although we were sexually active for a couple of years prior to getting married Mrs BB did not experience orgasm for a couple of years after. Sex was great in our late twenties, thirties and early forties, but then it gradually deteriorated to once a week, no foreplay, no touching, no oral, missionary only and come as quick as you can; Mrs BB has not had an orgasm for years. I started punting to augment the lean rations at home, to experience variety not on offer at home, and to experience other women. I had sex with only one other girl prior to marriage. I suppose I had some previously conceived ideas about paid for sex before experiencing it, but the reality has not reflected these ideas at all. I did not expect ladies to participate; I did not expect them to kiss; I did not expect them to have orgasms, and I certainly did not expect them to be so beautiful. So although starting relatively late my punting has been a wonderful journey of discovery, and my Sunday morning ultra vanilla session with Mrs BB complements my more adventurous activities beautifully.

Pretty much ditto, Brummyboy! :) I too settled too young without enough experience and my sex life waned predictably in the marriage (earlier than yours, I'm approaching the dreaded four-oh!).

As I have discussed before, I believe a huge proportion of the UK population have no idea about the 'more civilized' side of paying for sex. And from what I've read, this country has some of the best availability of safe paid sex. I too once perceived it as mainly street workers and seedy brothels, where you could get nothing more than a 'perfunctory' blowjob or the girl would lie back and let you get your rocks off, neither scenario being remotely of interest to me! :eek:

Thanks to the internet, and mainly this site (both reviews and forums), I discovered the other side of it. The vast majority of my experiences have been positive, again thanks to careful research mainly (but not exclusively) on this site. I've met a couple of girls who clearly do it just for the money and don't really enjoy it. I've met a couple of girls who deliver a good 'service' but nothing more. But with the majority of my punts, it goes way beyond 'service'. The girls clearly enjoy it to at least some extent. And I've met at least half a dozen girls where the enjoyment is so mutual it's just fantastic. Sometimes, as I have previously posted, it's just too good, too real and this can lead to confusing feelings which take discipline to keep in check. Despite this, these are the best punts and the one's we strive for. :wub:

This hobby is (mainly) truly fantastic and I take my hat off to all the great WGs out there! And my thanks go to Galahad for this site and to all you posters for your advice and reviews :)

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