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Being A Regular

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I prefer to be a regular for a lot of reasons. The main one is that one becomes more familar with the lady, the address, the routine and this makes it easier and more relaxed.

However, I don't want to give the impression that I'm becoming obsessed due to my regular visits.

What's the best way to bring this up in a conversation?

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I prefer to be a regular for a lot of reasons. The main one is that one becomes more familar with the lady, the address, the routine and this makes it easier and more relaxed.

However, I don't want to give the impression that I'm becoming obsessed due to my regular visits.

What's the best way to bring this up in a conversation?

Why do you need to bring it up? I dont with regulars, i just say i like you and the service you offer and leave it at that. My main reason for having regulars is she becomes more familiar with me and exactly how i like things sexually which can and has improved my punts with her. Although i always get bored sooner or later.

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Why mention it? Most girls are very happy to have regulars. They would only think of it as something peculiar if you treat it as something peculiar.

So if you insist that you aren't obsessed, they are far more likely to think you are obsessed than if you keep your mouth shut.

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Hey Smiths, I really need to write faster! Several times on various threads I have started to write something and you apparently haven't been around, but by the time I've posted it you've got there before me with something similar!

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I prefer to be a regular for a lot of reasons. The main one is that one becomes more familar with the lady, the address, the routine and this makes it easier and more relaxed.

However, I don't want to give the impression that I'm becoming obsessed due to my regular visits.

What's the best way to bring this up in a conversation?

I agree that it shouldn't be brought up. Whether you're becoming obsessed or not only you can know, but if you are it's your problem not hers. I don't know you so I can't judge, but perhaps the fact that you've asked this question indicates you probably feel in danger of becoming obsessed with her? If that's the case, what do you hope to gain by discussing it with the escort? That she'll declare she has special feelings for you too?

It gets easier with experience. Last year I found the first escort to give me confusing feelings, fortunately she stopped working suddenly so the situation resolved itself. I learned from it though, and I've recently found another escort with whom it would be all too easy to dream of something real developing. I'll keep seeing her as often as possible whilst we're both enjoying it or until something changes (i.e. I get bored, she stops working, etc), but I'm making sure I see other girls as well. This, for me, avoids me getting too 'hung up' on the regular - It's working so far :)

Being a regular is great, because you get to know each other, what you both like and you can relax more in each others company. Just keep the boundaries firmly in perspective!

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I like having regulars, I really like the familiarity and it's nice to know who's behind the door. That being said I have a regular who wants to try something 'new' everytime. Position Impossible I'm good with - but it's kind of gotten to the stage that I think he's kind of expecting me to shoot ping-pong balls out my Britney then juggle them....And because he's a regular I think he thinks it's ok to try and push my boundaries a little bit. Actually as I type this I've decided he may become an ex-regular.

Only you can know if you're obsessed or fixated with the woman you're seeing. If you are do as VelcroHead suggested and see other women, and keep the boundaries well defined in your head. If you're being obsessive, the other person will probably be aware of it and would have stopped seeing you by now (to me obsessive is constant daily emails, texts, proclomations of love - I had this, I no longer see this person).

Really if you're polite, respectful and not trying to intrude into someone's private life you're fine. If you find yourself constantly fixated on the thought of this girl, then you're not and I suggest you stop seeing her for your own sanity!

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I prefer to be a regular for a lot of reasons. The main one is that one becomes more familar with the lady, the address, the routine and this makes it easier and more relaxed.

However, I don't want to give the impression that I'm becoming obsessed due to my regular visits.

What's the best way to bring this up in a conversation?

Don't spoil the dynamic of the meets by bringing things like this up. It's totally unnecessary and when you start going down that route you blur over the invisible boundaries set in place, which are probably one of the the reasons why you like your reg so much but just didn't realise why, and you might also spook her into the bargain.

In my experience which is fairly limited anyway ( what do I know?) men who bring this sort of thing up are those wanting a discount for being a 'regular'. Is this what you want?

Having regular clients is nice because you don't have to go through the rigmarole of sorting out the address etc, and I always feel safe knowing the devil :) Don't discount seeing others though, it's the variety that makes punting what it is - a punt.

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Don't spoil the dynamic of the meets by bringing things like this up. It's totally unnecessary and when you start going down that route you blur over the invisible boundaries set in place, which are probably one of the the reasons why you like your reg so much but just didn't realise why, and you might also spook her into the bargain.

I agree with this. If what the OP has works well, why potentially shake things up?

Having regular clients is nice because you don't have to go through the rigmarole of sorting out the address etc, and I always feel safe knowing the devil :) Don't discount seeing others though, it's the variety that makes punting what it is - a punt.

And again, major agreement from me, this time from a punter's point of view. Punting twice a month, alternating between someone I've seen before and someone new to me works brilliantly.

Sarah and I are clearly on the same wavelength today :).

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I like regulars in one way, as I like the comfort of knowing their little ways and what they desire for their time with me.

I have a couple of regulars who say (?) they see only me, and as much as I encourage them to go see other ladies they say they can/will not.

I know a lot seem to think that having a reg guy is easy, but I actually thing having a regular gentleman can be harder in one way as you have to be at the top of your game all the time with him, making things interesting and exciting etc,

To Taffy.....

I do not think you even need to bring it up in conversation with her to be honest.

She knows you see her regularly and so do you, nothing to chat about really now is there?

Lucy :)

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I like having regulars, I really like the familiarity and it's nice to know who's behind the door. That being said I have a regular who wants to try something 'new' everytime. Position Impossible I'm good with - but it's kind of gotten to the stage that I think he's kind of expecting me to shoot ping-pong balls out my Britney then juggle them....And because he's a regular I think he thinks it's ok to try and push my boundaries a little bit. Actually as I type this I've decided he may become an ex-regular.

Only you can know if you're obsessed or fixated with the woman you're seeing. If you are do as VelcroHead suggested and see other women, and keep the boundaries well defined in your head. If you're being obsessive, the other person will probably be aware of it and would have stopped seeing you by now (to me obsessive is constant daily emails, texts, proclomations of love - I had this, I no longer see this person).

Really if you're polite, respectful and not trying to intrude into someone's private life you're fine. If you find yourself constantly fixated on the thought of this girl, then you're not and I suggest you stop seeing her for your own sanity!

Britney? Sorry, had to ask as I've never seen this before. I assume it's ryming slang - so, Britney what?

Back on topic I see one woman every 3/4 weeks, as well as five or six new ones during the month.

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Having a regular WG is fun since you can get to be a bit more relaxed with each other. You also know what the best way is to make the punt more fun for the two of you. If you feel you are getting too close then it's time to see somebody else for a month or two. Never forget that this is a commercial transaction you are involved in.

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I'm not obsessed. Not even thinking of being obsesseed. Thats exactly what I don't want. I know the score and the format of the contract suits me. I just want for everything to be clear.

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So long as you don't become obsessive in your behaviour, don't become overly involved in her life, poke or pry I can't see any problems. You haven't been hanging around outside her place, wearing a mac with your collar up, sending her texts declaring your undying love every minute of the day now have you?

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Britney? Sorry, had to ask as I've never seen this before. I assume it's ryming slang - so, Britney what?

I don't think that it's Cockney rhyming slang. I believe that it's named after Britney Spears who on occasions has forgotten to wear any knickers and has treated the paparazzi to a good view of her pussy.

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I'm not obsessed. Not even thinking of being obsesseed. Thats exactly what I don't want. I know the score and the format of the contract suits me. I just want for everything to be clear.

I would not worry about it then.

You may just be one of many of her regular gentleman callers.

I am sure lots of ladies have men who visit them quite a lot.

Of course the odd one may do what Strawberry light heartedly says above does, but then they as a rule they would then become ex regulars of the lady in most cases.

Lucy :)

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I prefer to be a regular for a lot of reasons. The main one is that one becomes more familar with the lady, the address, the routine and this makes it easier and more relaxed.

However, I don't want to give the impression that I'm becoming obsessed due to my regular visits.

What's the best way to bring this up in a conversation?

"Do you mind me seeing you regularly?" Thats pretty much how to bring it up...

If you have a good time, she gets a regular client and income and, hopefully, a good time too. And you both see it as WG/Client relationship then theres no problem..

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That's great. Good answers. I'll leave it as it is. I'm not displaying any of the signs of obsession (no lurking and no sending messages other than those to arrange a booking) so will simply carry on as a regular. Saying that I am arranging to see another lady this week so I suppose that will break the regular routine a bit which will probably make it better all round. Many thanks for all of the advice to eveyone.

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That's great. Good answers. I'll leave it as it is. I'm not displaying any of the signs of obsession (no lurking and no sending messages other than those to arrange a booking) so will simply carry on as a regular. Saying that I am arranging to see another lady this week so I suppose that will break the regular routine a bit which will probably make it better all round. Many thanks for all of the advice to eveyone.

You are welcome TAFFYPUNTER, and good luck for the punt this week. :)

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