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I just had a less than successful outcall visit, which has put me off punting a little bit. I don't usually do hotel outcalls, but was away on business and staying in a travelodge, and though I'd use the opportunity to try out some of the local talent. I'd arranged a meet with a reputible escort earlier in the week, but 10 minutes before the start of the punt, I get a text from her friend saying that she won't be able to come as she is out of town. Pretty pissed off at this point, but these things happen, so I decide to look through my purple hotlist for that city and see if there is anyone else available. It was getting quite late on a Sunday night, so I decided that I was just going to try one number, and if that was a no-go, then to leave it for another time.

As luck would have it, the first girl I ring says she can be over in two hours. I got a good vibe on the phone, so I was happy to go on with things. She was someone that I'd had on my list for a while - I'd done all the research and everything looked good - 50+ excellent feedbacks, a half dozen field reports, all proclaiming this girl to be a confident and dirty-minded 20 year-old. I usually take the profile age with a pinch of salt, so I'm expecting someone around 23/34 - the profile registration date being a few years previous.

Anyway, so this girl turns up - very pretty as it turns out (accurate photos), but I immediately clock that something isn't quite right as she looks completely terrified. I should point out that I'm not a scary punter, and I did everything I could to put her at her ease. I figured she was just a wound up, and would calm down as we got on with things. She took an age to sort herself out in the bathroom, and when she came out, was shaking like a leaf still. We sit for a while, and then move in to some kissing and then things progress further. I found myself having to take the lead a little - from her page I got more of the impression that she was a raging nympho, who would jump all over me. As things progress, it becomes quite clear that she doesn't really know what she's doing handjob/blowjob and sex were all lacking in skill, and it felt more like I was guiding her first time, rather than an escort booking. This was quite obviously not part of any act, to make it seem like she was young and innocent. Anyway, we fumble awkwardly through our first fuck, and she still isn't calming down any. I cum, and she jumps right off, and say she needs to use the bathroom.

After she comes back out, it becomes quite clear that she's upset with the way things are going, and looks to be welling up, so I ask her to sit down, and have a proper chat. Finally I get her to calm down a bit, she tells me that she's only been doing this a few months, and had taken over a profile from a friend of hers that had retired. She tells me that most of her bookings don't end up in sex - she gets a lot of modelling work, companionship stuff and oral only bookings, and hasn't been having sex at all for very long (and actually is only 20 yrs old). Furthermore, prior to escorting, she had only had sex with one civvie guy. This sort of explains why she doesn't know what she's doing, but I sort of find myself asking why she's donig it at all? She plans to go off to uni in the autumn, but she has only been taking maybe one client a week, so isn't saving much money from this. She has no support, no other WGs to work with, no backup and nobody to talk to about problems she might be having. I started to feel a little bad about the whole thing - she's a really nice girl, but I worry that she's putting herself in a dangerous position by not knowing any better. The whole meeting left a bit of a bad taste in my mouth - I know she is there of her own free will, but it felt almost coercive. I'm very much used to the WG being the one with all the experience, and making all the decisions about what happens on the meet, whereas this was comepletly reversed.

I'm not asking for absolution or anything from you guys, or even any answers, its just the first time I've walked away from a punt feeling bad in this way, and as none of my civvie friends know that I punt, this is the only place I can get this stuff off of my chest

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If you are able to contact her, please advise her to visit www.saafe.info where she'll be able to find a 'buddy' as well as advice and support.

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What Claire said.

I'm glad she met you chipotle who treated her nicely and kindly, one dreads how this would effect her if she got a shitty mean client.

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I'm surprised at the companionship/ modelling bookings. I didn't think there was very much demand for that, unless the profile is aimed at the modelling side of things?

Saafe would be a very good place for her.

There was a thread on a local forum recently about another very young girl new to the scene, and how the guy was concerned. I'd worry about her vulnerability but at least if she is using an established profile this may protect her from those who target new girls thinking they are easy to manipulate.

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I've seen girls in parlours and had similar experiences...inexperienced girls, a little too young and naive, and you try to do everything a gent would naturally do, yet you end up feeling like you've almost violated a vulnerable young lady - and for me anyway, there's not really a worse feeling...

It is very worrying that, although the vast majority of us fellas behave like the OP, there are individuals out there who are sick enough to take pleasure in such situations and abuse the girl...

This girl needs to find someone doing the same job who she can trust; not only for moral support but for any emergencies also...

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I just had a less than successful outcall visit, which has put me off punting a little bit. I don't usually do hotel outcalls, but was away on business and staying in a travelodge, and though I'd use the opportunity to try out some of the local talent. I'd arranged a meet with a reputible escort earlier in the week, but 10 minutes before the start of the punt, I get a text from her friend saying that she won't be able to come as she is out of town. Pretty pissed off at this point, but these things happen, so I decide to look through my purple hotlist for that city and see if there is anyone else available. It was getting quite late on a Sunday night, so I decided that I was just going to try one number, and if that was a no-go, then to leave it for another time.

As luck would have it, the first girl I ring says she can be over in two hours. I got a good vibe on the phone, so I was happy to go on with things. She was someone that I'd had on my list for a while - I'd done all the research and everything looked good - 50+ excellent feedbacks, a half dozen field reports, all proclaiming this girl to be a confident and dirty-minded 20 year-old. I usually take the profile age with a pinch of salt, so I'm expecting someone around 23/34 - the profile registration date being a few years previous.

Anyway, so this girl turns up - very pretty as it turns out (accurate photos), but I immediately clock that something isn't quite right as she looks completely terrified. I should point out that I'm not a scary punter, and I did everything I could to put her at her ease. I figured she was just a wound up, and would calm down as we got on with things. She took an age to sort herself out in the bathroom, and when she came out, was shaking like a leaf still. We sit for a while, and then move in to some kissing and then things progress further. I found myself having to take the lead a little - from her page I got more of the impression that she was a raging nympho, who would jump all over me. As things progress, it becomes quite clear that she doesn't really know what she's doing handjob/blowjob and sex were all lacking in skill, and it felt more like I was guiding her first time, rather than an escort booking. This was quite obviously not part of any act, to make it seem like she was young and innocent. Anyway, we fumble awkwardly through our first fuck, and she still isn't calming down any. I cum, and she jumps right off, and say she needs to use the bathroom.

After she comes back out, it becomes quite clear that she's upset with the way things are going, and looks to be welling up, so I ask her to sit down, and have a proper chat. Finally I get her to calm down a bit, she tells me that she's only been doing this a few months, and had taken over a profile from a friend of hers that had retired. She tells me that most of her bookings don't end up in sex - she gets a lot of modelling work, companionship stuff and oral only bookings, and hasn't been having sex at all for very long (and actually is only 20 yrs old). Furthermore, prior to escorting, she had only had sex with one civvie guy. This sort of explains why she doesn't know what she's doing, but I sort of find myself asking why she's donig it at all? She plans to go off to uni in the autumn, but she has only been taking maybe one client a week, so isn't saving much money from this. She has no support, no other WGs to work with, no backup and nobody to talk to about problems she might be having. I started to feel a little bad about the whole thing - she's a really nice girl, but I worry that she's putting herself in a dangerous position by not knowing any better. The whole meeting left a bit of a bad taste in my mouth - I know she is there of her own free will, but it felt almost coercive. I'm very much used to the WG being the one with all the experience, and making all the decisions about what happens on the meet, whereas this was comepletly reversed.

I'm not asking for absolution or anything from you guys, or even any answers, its just the first time I've walked away from a punt feeling bad in this way, and as none of my civvie friends know that I punt, this is the only place I can get this stuff off of my chest

Not nice. I hope she rethinks becoming a WG and all that involves. The last thing i want to do is meet a WG who is upset like this.

It also shows thats sites feedback cant just be trusted on its own in my view. I hope if she does decide to continue as a WG she goes to Saafe for advice.

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If you are able to contact her, please advise her to visit www.saafe.info where she'll be able to find a 'buddy' as well as advice and support.

Yeah - I did mention Saafe to her, although I have mixed opinions about that site. Some (though not all) of the contributors on there seem incredibly bitter about their chosen profession.

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there are individuals out there who are sick enough to take pleasure in such situations and abuse the girl...

Yeah - this is why I haven't named names or cities - don't want to encourage punters who might choose to exploit her that way based on my comments (and I won't be posting purple feedback for the same reason).

Best thing I think is to pass on the Saafe info to her, and hope she's smart enough to sort things out for herself. My initial reaction would be to try and help her through it, but I'm not sure that's really appropriate, and I want to maintain punter:WG boundaries, otherwise things get messy

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Yeah - this is why I haven't named names or cities - don't want to encourage punters who might choose to exploit her that way based on my comments (and I won't be posting purple feedback for the same reason).

Best thing I think is to pass on the Saafe info to her, and hope she's smart enough to sort things out for herself. My initial reaction would be to try and help her through it, but I'm not sure that's really appropriate, and I want to maintain punter:WG boundaries, otherwise things get messy

It may be rather patronising, and if so I apologise, but I wondered about the merits of, via private messaging, sharing with her details of any lady or ladies here who might be willing to offer a few words of advice or support directly?

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It may be rather patronising, and if so I apologise, but I wondered about the merits of, via private messaging, sharing with her details of any lady or ladies here who might be willing to offer a few words of advice or support directly?

Best get permission to do so beforehand though, if you do go down this route. Mentoring a young, vulnerable WG can be a big responsibility and a time burden I would imagine. Imho, saafe are best placed to propose a buddy.

Well done to the OP for being a gent about the whole thing.

I have very mixed feelings about the ethics of taking over someone elses profile in the way that this girls has done though. It could easily backfire if she met a less considerate type who decided to come onto one of these forums and name her.

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Yeah - I did mention Saafe to her, although I have mixed opinions about that site. Some (though not all) of the contributors on there seem incredibly bitter about their chosen profession.

If you're not happy about Saafe, there is a buddy website at http://www.escortbuddys.com/.

I don't know how good it is, but maybe others can advise.

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I'm glad she met you chipotle who treated her nicely and kindly, one dreads how this would effect her if she got a shitty mean client.

What I don't understand though - is why it went the whole hog - as she was obviously uncomfortable and nervous from the offset. It obviously was not the girl he expected.

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What I don't understand though - is why it went the whole hog - as she was obviously uncomfortable and nervous from the offset. It obviously was not the girl he expected.

Well that's the thing, it was the girl I expected - she is the girl in the pictures, just not with the personality on the profile. I could see she was a bit nervous at the start, but maybe didn't realise how much until further along. She was also quite determined that I got what I came for as it were, and do the job she came to do. As far as the whole hog goes, this wasn't even half a hog - I'm not some sort of unfeeling sex fiend. I spend most of the time calming her down and talking stuff through. I didn't want to chuck her back out onto the street in a state - I was concerned with her safety after leaving as well, as it was pretty late by then.

I've spoken to her today, and given her the Saafe details. We talked through some things, and I feel a lot less worried about her than I did this morning.

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If she wants to pm me she can...

I do wonder how naive she must be to take on someone else's profile and not expect to do the things that she advertises...companionship and modelling? I am not sure that there is all that much work through the other site for that although I may be wrong, and if she has advertised a certain thing then perhaps I am being non-empathetic, but then she shouldn't have done.

She is young at 20, but when we make the decision to do this and get paid accordingly then she should look at whether she should even be advertising at all.

I have had some bad experiences, and obviously am way past 20 now. But like it has been said, she is lucky she didn't get a nutter and needs to rethink whether she should be selling sex at all and not every man is going to be a nice man.

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