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I am reading a book about sex and it states that you can only have great sex if you know the person well. So I just wondered if any one agrees or disagrees with this statement? as most of the time when we have sex with escorts we dont know the escort very well the book states you simply cannot have good sex when the partners dont know each other. what do you think?

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I think the statement is wrong, if only due to the word "only".

In my opinion, and experience, great sex has a higher chance of showing its face if you know each other well, but that does not preclude great sex with a stranger. It does however, preclude great sex with someone you know well, but detest.

Edited by AsgardsSon

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I had a meeting with a new regular the other day (have only seen her a few times so far) and we are getting to know each other very well. The more I see her the more she opens up to discuss what gets her going and her likes. After giving her 2 orgasms she then said to me come on and i want you to f**k me doggie in the kitchen and I was dragged there

After the deed their was no thats it time up but would you like a cup of tea and we sat and had a chat

Like a good GF the more I see her the more we seem to pleasure each other

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I am reading a book about sex and it states that you can only have great sex if you know the person well. So I just wondered if any one agrees or disagrees with this statement? as most of the time when we have sex with escorts we dont know the escort very well the book states you simply cannot have good sex when the partners dont know each other. what do you think?

I dont just go on what a book says myself, i go on my own personal experiences. Its been much more likely that great sex has been with a woman i know well though, love can also greatly enhance sex taking it to a level beyond what punting can offer i have found. Knowing someone intimately so you know how their body and mind works takes time usually, once you know fantastic sex can be had.

However, when i have clicked with a newbie WG to me great sex has followed, and then its got better over time as she got to know exactly what makes me tick sexually and exactly how i like things. I also get bored sooner or later though.

So great sex can occur with strangers but its more likely with those i know well. Good sex can be very satisfying though, it doesnt have to be great every time in my case, as long as its not bad or none.

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I am reading a book about sex and it states that you can only have great sex if you know the person well. So I just wondered if any one agrees or disagrees with this statement? as most of the time when we have sex with escorts we dont know the escort very well the book states you simply cannot have good sex when the partners dont know each other. what do you think?

Complete and utterly irrefutable bollocks !

I've had absolutely wonderful sex with my very first bookings of girls who went on to become regulars. Maria, Champagne, Leona, Gigi.......total strangers to me until that very first meeting.........very memorable, torrid, sweaty, thrilling and thoroughly satisfying first time sessions one and all.

Although truly the best sex I've ever had has been that anytime, anywhere, frantic, passionate, heavy, pair bonding, early stages of a fledgling relationship sex with a partner who youre desperately in love with............and they feel just the same way about you too

Edited by BillGoldberg

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Some parts of that statement I can agree with. If you know someone well & connect with them i.e a partner the sex can be amazing & very special. One the other hand I once had a 1 night stand with a total stranger & the sex was awesome, ha!

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Complete and utterly irrefutable bollocks !

+1 to that.

I'd guess that...

my top 3 fucks are with people I haven't known

of my top ten only one was a hooker

and again only one would have been a long-term relationship.

I am assuming the OP refers to the sort of sex where you just can't move for a good while afterwards

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Skin-on-skin love-making with a partner you know well and trust with a dreamy afterglow makes for the best experience IMHO.

I think it would be difficult for paid sex to replicate this completely, the latex and the lack of genuine mutual loving feelings ensure there is always a barrier to the deepest satisfaction & pleasure.

Saying that, the excitement of exploring an attractive new partner is a great rush and if you both click, you can have a great time getting to know each other over the course of a few visits!

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Good sex is a combination of physical and mental stimulation. If it's with a stranger then it's mostly physical, but if it's with someone you know and are very fond of, then the mental side kicks in and it can be much more powerful than any physical stimulation. And if you happen to be in love with that person then it can go off the scale. The best sex i've ever had was with a WG, but I do know her pretty well plus she looks amazing. So I have to disagree with the statement, "you can only have great sex if you know the person well". I have to agree with AsgardsSons, take the word 'only' out and it holds more water.

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Hi there,

I would agree and disagree. Sex can be so great with a person you just met, its all about chemistry. Got to be right sexual vibe. But sex with the person you are in love relationship is love making. Cuddles afterwards are important and a must. :)

xxx

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Hmm, well I totally disagree with that statement! They say 'better' but compared to what exactly? It's too subjective to answer really.

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completely wrong. sometimes you just click

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utter nonsense - if anything I would say the BEST sex is usually with someone you have never met before.....so all you best sex is yet to come!

familiarity breeds contempt

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I've had sex that was great for me but only OK for the other person... (and via versa)

I've also had great sex where the 'greatness' is a shared feeling between sexual partner and I. Knowing a persons body helps as does knowing their likes/dislikes but learning that I don't think can be limited by time. You can literally hop into a bed with someone and 'click' or you can be with someone for years and never quite mesh well sexually (and visa versa)

Sexual compatibility is subjective between the two people involved and not solely defined by time.

IMO.

I think the assertion in the OP is too limiting and doesn't allow for exceptions.

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completely wrong. sometimes you just click

+1

I don't believe you have to know someone well at all. You have to 'click' both mentally and physically, as someone else mentioned there has to be a certain 'chemistry'. Of course, it's virtually impossible to define the formula for that chemistry, but we know it when it happens. :wub:

I met a new girl the other week (who I hope will become a regular). We just got on very well, the sex was up there with my best experiences ever. I've seen her once since and it was even better. I cannot claim to know her well, yet! :)

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I disagree here with that book statement. Its all about chemistry. You can have the most amazing, intense, room sizzling, sheet burning sex with someone you have never met if the chemistry kicks in with that first kiss..its undeniable. You can know someone for years, love them, want to spend your life with them, but know deep down that its not the best sex you ever had...or ever will have but you settle for it because you love that person so much.

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Hi there,

I would agree and disagree. Sex can be so great with a person you just met, its all about chemistry. Got to be right sexual vibe. But sex with the person you are in love relationship is love making. Cuddles afterwards are important and a must. :)

xxx

I agree with Nataly and Chloe.

However, it certainly helps when Nataly gives you "That look" and you just KNOW that she is up for it just as much as you are - probably more!

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Clearly nonsense. I would suggest people don't read too many books about sex and instead try doing it a bit more, then you'll find out!

I have only been punting for a few months and have had the best experiences of my sex life in that time. Even with a stranger it can feel amazing if you physically and mentally connect. A recent very close and tender session ended with the lady saying to me "That wasn't sex, it was lovemaking". I guess she was overacting somewhat there to make me feel good, but the point was well observed. We just "worked" together really nicely.

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utter nonsense - if anything I would say the BEST sex is usually with someone you have never met before.....so all you best sex is yet to come!

familiarity breeds contempt

It breeds boredom in my case, 100% my responsibility for being a selfish git, but it takes time for me to reach that stage, in the honeymoon period when your in love and fucking like rabbits that time cant be bettered in my experience by sex with a stranger, although that can be great as well but in a different way, its not as intense for me when i havent invested my emotional self into it which i dont do in punting. That can be a big advantage to me though and a reason i punt, as i dont want or need to do that, just have good or better sex with no hassle and no strings, punt and go.

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Disagree.

Had several "brilliant SEX" meetings on first-date (with Escorts).

But interesting discussion anyway.

I do find that it can get "even better" on repeat meetings.

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Great sex can happen at anytime, anywhere.....with anyone!!!

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Great sex can and does happen with someone you've only just met - paid or otherwise.

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I disagree here with that book statement. Its all about chemistry. You can have the most amazing, intense, room sizzling, sheet burning sex with someone you have never met if the chemistry kicks in with that first kiss..its undeniable. You can know someone for years, love them, want to spend your life with them, but know deep down that its not the best sex you ever had...or ever will have but you settle for it because you love that person so much.

Completely agree with this..

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The best sex ive ever had, was with a 21 year old Polish escort, literally everything about the meet was perfect other than she wasnt stunningly beautiful but was quite good looking, and we used a condom, but her DFK was by far the best ive ever known and ive kissed easily over 100 women in my time. Somehow i was able to give her a good pounding which is unusual for me. We got on really really well it was like we genuinely fancied each other a lot. I booked her for 1 hour, then when i was with her i extended it to 2 and then i think 3 hours because the sex was just so amazing, i asked for a 4th hour but she said another client was booked in. I walked past him outside in the hallway.

When i was in relationships the sex was never that good.

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Usually better when you know each other well I think but only most of the time. About 7 or 8 out of 20 WGs I've met it's been really good straight away. Combination of mutual attraction and both being friendly towards each other and willing to talk about both our likes and dislikes, and DFK allowed (no kissing, no good for me).

I've not experienced good sex outside of seeing a WG so far.... but the kissing's nice.

Edited by Poorpunter

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