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To Or Not To Overnight

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I had a query on what people thought of overnight callouts both guys and gals. A little while a go when I use to punt regularly I always thought an overnight was the way to go. Invest a bit of money, treat the girl like a lady and a good time could be had by all. Generally the adage the more effort one puts in to having a pleasant evening the more likely it is to go well. After getting royally ripped off on an occasion I put punting on the back burner. I was just wondering whether Im actually wrong and overnighters are not such a good idea. Maybe the girl has places to be and prefers the 1-2 hour punt over and done with.

Finally now Im a forties something am I correct in thinking a WG would rather not be out in public at an event with me in which case does this rule out overnighters for 40s somethings or what is the girls preference in the format of an overnighter. Your thoughts please...

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I don't think overnights are the norm on either side of the transaction, but can be enjoyable with the right person. With the wrong person they can be problematic.

I went through a phase of them and out of maybe twenty, only two were less enjoyable, but not necessarily disasters.

I moved back to shorter times, then later a bit of both, but what I learned is that overnights were generally better all round with someone I had met first on a shorter visit and had noted in the book for a re-visit anyway.

My advice, for what it's worth, is not to focus on the timescale. See people you enjoy. Do incalls, outcalls, hours, overnights. Variety is the spice etc.

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I certainly don't mind being in a public place with someone in their 40s, 50s or even 60s. Then again I am getting on a bit now myself aren't I? I've had overnights with men in most age brackets, although I find men in their 20s really do not seem to go for this type of booking, it's more an over 30 activity.

Aside from this I think overnight bookings are a matter of personal choice between the WG and client. Some like them, some love them, some can't stand them, some would never dream of paying for such a booking. Whatever it is only you can decide, it's not for others to tell you what you want.

For me as a WG, yes sometimes I like shorter, 1 hour bookings, sometimes I like longer 2 hours, dinner dates and overnights. It just depends on the situation, how I'm feeling and who the client is. Short and intense is fun, just as long and slow is.

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Finally now Im a forties something am I correct in thinking a WG would rather not be out in public at an event with me in which case does this rule out overnighters for 40s somethings or what is the girls preference in the format of an overnighter. Your thoughts please...

Bless of course not! You just need to pick the right girls!

Personally I have no problem with being out with older men, I'm off to spend time with a man later in the month who is at least 50/60 but he's so much fun to be around and we do such fun things together, I could spend weeks with him!

Overnights are something you both have to agree on - some want to be up until the small hours of the morning and never leave the hotel, other like fun, then bit of dinner/a show, more fun, sleep, more fun in the morning.

Just be clear before you go ahead with it xx

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I had a query on what people thought of overnight callouts both guys and gals. A little while a go when I use to punt regularly I always thought an overnight was the way to go. Invest a bit of money, treat the girl like a lady and a good time could be had by all. Generally the adage the more effort one puts in to having a pleasant evening the more likely it is to go well. After getting royally ripped off on an occasion I put punting on the back burner. I was just wondering whether Im actually wrong and overnighters are not such a good idea. Maybe the girl has places to be and prefers the 1-2 hour punt over and done with.

Finally now Im a forties something am I correct in thinking a WG would rather not be out in public at an event with me in which case does this rule out overnighters for 40s somethings or what is the girls preference in the format of an overnighter. Your thoughts please...

To not in my case. I have no interest in overnighters preferring overday punts like parties or parties and a 121 instead. If considering an overnighter ensure you know you get on with the WG by punting with her first at a shorter punt or punts is my advice.

No idea why you would think being in your 40s would be a problem for a WG to be seen out in public with you, it might be dependent on the individual WG, all you can do is ask and see what she says of course.

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Well, I have done overnights and generally found them to be fun. Some are: meet up in the early evening, a few drinks, a pre dinner fumble, then a restuarant, maybe a bar, some flirting, getting to know each other then back to the hotel the rest of the night. Bed LATE! Then you wake up, morning sex a few times then you go your merry way after a hearty breakfast of eggs... Ha.

Then, I have done some where it's ALL night in the hotel, non stop action! Bedtime is literally when you crawl out at 7am. That's pretty hardcore,

Also done a couple of odd ones. Went to a guy in a wheelchair who booked an overnight. Had seen him before. When I got there, we had some gorgeous cheese and wine, all very civilised and enjoyable. Then we had a play about.... THEN he fell fast asleep! I was thinking 'Oh no...'. I woke him up, gave a nudge. He came 'round and said "You can go now, I am done. Your money is over there." Well, not quite like THAT, but you get the gist. Stayed for a good six hours, roaming the hotel, thinking he would wake up. I had no plans so was getting bored No chance, so I took it at face value, took a discounted amount then toddled off. It was only midnight or so! I went into town and met up with some friends. Had my phone on thinking he would call. Nope! I saw him the following week and he was so embarrased!

I guess you win some, you lose some.

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"overnight or not"..

stop asking.

Longer appointments (3+ hrs), overnighters and other arrangement such as have the girl doing a small tour on request,..

They have to grow on both of you.

You can try to steer towards these arrangements gently, but dont rush.

Let it develop slowly, gently. And keep the budget under control, I dont think I ever had an overnight at full rate.

Once I was prepared to pay the full rate for someone I had met only few times, and was quite confident with.. she had to cancel due to verifiable reasons (bugger). I could re-allocate the budget - we'll try again later.

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I had a query on what people thought of overnight callouts both guys and gals. A little while a go when I use to punt regularly I always thought an overnight was the way to go. Invest a bit of money, treat the girl like a lady and a good time could be had by all. Generally the adage the more effort one puts in to having a pleasant evening the more likely it is to go well. After getting royally ripped off on an occasion I put punting on the back burner. I was just wondering whether Im actually wrong and overnighters are not such a good idea. Maybe the girl has places to be and prefers the 1-2 hour punt over and done with.

Finally now Im a forties something am I correct in thinking a WG would rather not be out in public at an event with me in which case does this rule out overnighters for 40s somethings or what is the girls preference in the format of an overnighter. Your thoughts please...

First thoughts are that if you want to 'overnight' with a girl, you should have met her before - and preferably more than once - so you know exactly what she is like, and this lessens the chances of you being 'ripped off'. For me, this is one of those 'unwritten rules of punting'. Common sense really.

I don't do overnights any more because I don't want to be spotted by anyone who might know me, but if I were in another city miles away from home I would have no problem being seen out with a client, no matter what age he may be within reason.. I am over forty so I would not want to be seen out with a twenty year old - it may be embarrassing for the pair of us :)

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I'm not a good actress, so I don't offer overnights as standard in case I don't get along with the punter -- I can enjoy myself for an hour or two with someone, but if there's no 'click' I'll soon get bored and grumpy. My maximum appointment with a new client is three hours, which might be pushing it if I met someone I really didn't like.

Once I have met someone once or twice, and definitely like them, I'll do longer bookings. I'm doing my first overnight next month with a favourite regular who keeps me well-entertained (we drink beer and debate politics and have sex in every position that exists and a few that don't.)

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Overnights are a grand idea if with the right lady....Drinks can linger as long as you like...well into the night, dinner can be enjoyed at leisure (and always go for the sweet tray always always always)...the rest can be a flicker of fantasy that remains embedded in your soul forever (or at least until the following morning)....

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Just booked my first overnight: it's a little way off yet but it's with my favourite lady (and we do seem to get on really well with each other), so the anticipation will kill me for the next few weeks. She also seems really up for it: the cynics will say she would be at the price of an overnight! However, to my absolute pleasure, we had one of those "well, since it's you" conversations, so the hole in my pocket will not be too massive either. Planning a nice meal and a decent hotel, too......

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I personally only ever do overnights with people I've met before, therefore know I'll enjoy there company.

Dinner & drinks for me are usually always included, in the hotel is fine but with been a escort that shows my face I'm always up for heading out with clients :) its usually them at times that have the worry.

The only thing I'd suggest is you do overnights with girls youve met before and know you click with :) that way you should also be able to avoid getting topped off etc.

But to answer your question simpy I think demand for overnights is still there, just make sure it's with the right lady :)

Cara xx

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Have done them and enjoyed them but they are an incredible waste of money unless you are trying to pull her (hands up M'lud guilty ). You will be no further thought of than if you did a half hour quickie. In fact if you get on their nerves, bore them to tears and are physically repulsive they can find it an ordeal (so I've been told).

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Have done them and enjoyed them but they are an incredible waste of money unless you are trying to pull her (hands up M'lud guilty ). You will be no further thought of than if you did a half hour quickie. In fact if you get on their nerves, bore them to tears and are physically repulsive they can find it an ordeal (so I've been told).

I would have thought this would be a terrible way to "pull" a WG, considering you're guaranteed sex on an overnight booking anyway. Surely it would just confirm the business-like arrangement of the relationship and set appropriate boundaries going forward? On the assumption that you've seen the WG you want to "pull" a few times before, surely just asking her out would have a higher success rate?

Sorry for dragging this OT. To get back on track, I think overnights are like marmite - you either love them or hate them. Personally, I can't justify the expense in the VFM part of my brain, so don't usually indulge. I once did have an overnight for £350 and must admit I had a whale of a time, but boy was it hard dragging my weary bones off to work the morning afterwards :).

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Have done them and enjoyed them but they are an incredible waste of money unless you are trying to pull her (hands up M'lud guilty ). You will be no further thought of than if you did a half hour quickie. In fact if you get on their nerves, bore them to tears and are physically repulsive they can find it an ordeal (so I've been told).

Are most punters who do overnights trying to pull the WG, i doubt it, but i could be wrong. I agree they are a complete waste of money to me as i punt for sex, sadly i cant shag for hours on end and the cost makes it not VFM, but even if it was VFM one WG for that period of time isnt for me, i go to parties instead where there are multiple WGs and its likely to be VFM compared to an overnighter, at least VFM to me as i view it.

If i rate a regular that much instead of an overnighter i prefer to punt with her every day or a few times a week, i get more fun for my pound that way.

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Had a few overnights with the same person............and loved it every time...........absolutely loved it

Due to my work/lifestyle choice I didnt have to worry about getting up for work so that was a non-issue

With the right girl and the right attitude to the whole affair (both yours and hers)..............whats not to like about an overnighter ?

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With the right girl and the right attitude to the whole affair (both yours and hers)..............whats not to like about an overnighter ?

Well, there is always the 4 figure price tag :) :)!

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A couple of years ago I regularly did an overnight with a particular girl and it was great, but it did cost me 300 quid which in itself is a good rate, but did involve me not arriving until 10pm when she had "finished work", so it was effectively two 150 quid punts with a long kip and some nice spooning in between.

I used to stay in hotels in London a lot on business, which cost 150 or more, so I figured i was gonna spend that anyway plus 150 quid for a couple of hours of fun before bed and a quickie in the morning was good value overall.

I don't stay up so often now so prefer to spend my 300 quid on 5 out of town half hour punts.

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I've seen a few girls that charge £400 or less for an overnighter. AS said above, you could easily get a couple of shags, if not more depending on how much stamina you both have, out of that.

I'd be happy paying that amount for a girl I'd seen before and had a good time with. Far more relaxed than in and out during an hour session as no rush etc. Spooning and showering together are fun as well.

If an overnight were say £1k, I'd hit a club and try my luck there rather than pay that amount.

Half hour sessions don't do it for me. Generally takes me up to an hour to complete as I like to take my time concentrating on the girl. If I'm not, still not always easy cumming to schedule.

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Good advice above. I love long punts and I've had a few overnights and longer, always with girls I know well, and they've been a resounding success.

My advice obviously applies to longer stays but it should be a mutually enjoyable experience and I find that she key to success during long punts is breaking the time up to do 'normal' things - like going out to dinner and building some structure into the experience, rather than expecting to spend a straight 48 hours in bed. You need to fully engage with the girl and keep her entertained and interested.

It's not something I can afford to do regularly but as an occasional treat an overnight, or longer, can be extremely rewarding.

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