LucyDecadentDivas

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A question for the guys ..............

Why do you chose to use in call escorts? Or why do you choose to have escorts visit you?

Understandably it may be easier for some guys to visit a lady due to home circumstances i,e Partners and children etc.... but on the whole what is the reason for your choice of punt?

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One reason for me . It's a lot easier to " walk " at an incall when the lady isn't the lady you expect her to be . On an outcall I would just use my imagination and have to get on with it .

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Money. If I am using a hotel for other reasons then fine if I could fit a punt in. Have booked hotels for overnights in the past and found the whole experience very good but unnecessary.

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A question for the guys ..............

Why do you chose to use in call escorts? Or why do you choose to have escorts visit you?

Understandably it may be easier for some guys to visit a lady due to home circumstances i,e Partners and children etc.... but on the whole what is the reason for your choice of punt?

I like being in the girl's flat, because I think it helps her relax more being in familiar surroundings. I go to great lengths to make the girl feel safe with me, and I think this helps ensure an enjoyable time for both parties.

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If on a trip and in a hotel then an outcall is fine. Because it is comfortable to be at my "own" location and I dont have the trouble of travel. My best punt ever was this type. If not travelling, paying for a hotel is an unneccessary luxury. In-call locations are for the most part fine. An outcall to my home base is just not going to happen for most any of the reasons posted on this board multiple times. I dont understand in-calls to actual home. To summarise:

When travelling out-call > Home-base in-call >>> Home-base out-call

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A question for the guys ..............

Why do you chose to use in call escorts? Or why do you choose to have escorts visit you?

Understandably it may be easier for some guys to visit a lady due to home circumstances i,e Partners and children etc.... but on the whole what is the reason for your choice of punt?

Same as Worldpunter plus and this is the main reason i dont want strangers who i pay for sex knowing where i live or indeed nowadays visiting me at my hotel, Incalls are far better for me in this aspect. Never done an Outcall to my home in the last 29 years and wont be starting now.

An Incall is also usually cheaper. When with a partner i am a selfish bastard but wouldnt rub their noses in it by shagging in the bed we use or anywhere else in the home irrespective of whether they knew or not. I am a cheat but not a completely heartless arsehole.

Edited by smiths

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I'm married. While I accept punting is not entirely within the meaning of marriage, I feel that seeing a hooker in my house would be a step too far.

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Incalls are far more rewarding and generally alot cheaper. But, part of the excitement of punting for me is the buzz of finding the location, parking the car, ringing her up, and maing the walk to her place, not knowing what to expect. It could be some dodgy eastern europeans who rob people, this almost happened to me in Coventry but i saw the 'tough' guys over the road watching me as i walked up so carried on walking, missed out on sex obviously, but it was still a buzz clocking what was going on. Another time i've had to fight my way out of a potential robbery, most times though, like everyone else, i have been made to feel like i am at home by a lovely kind young lady, which is always nice, but, my point is, you never quite know what may haappen, and it is exciting.

Hotel incaalls are different, obviously there is no real risk involved, but i love the naughtiness of not being a guest, strolling past reception and indulging in an activity the hotel would not be happy about.

My favourite was at a travel lodge hotel, where, because of the keycard entrance, i had to meet a guy in the cafe area and get the room key from him by walking up and asking this guy if i could borrow the newspaper, in which was the key. It was really enjoyable going through the process. Obviously, alot of you will read this and think WTF is he on about, but we all get excited by different things.

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Outcall=bigger risk if girl is a '1st try' for you

Also more expensive in any case

Not so easy to walk away from an outcall if you get bad vibes also

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For me it simply comes down to the lower cost and greater convenience of incalls.

If there was an escort I desperately wanted to see that only offered outcalls I might make an exception. Hasn't happened yet - and I will be surprised if it ever does.

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Incall cheaper and easier to set up

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I don't want some munter bait and switch to come to my home and then have some fat guy try and harras me when i inevitably turn her down. I don't want to risk my personal possesions being stolen. I don't want to pay the almost obligatory 200 p/h. I've had an outcall with a girl i'd seen regularly and i'm happy with how it went, i have no need to push my luck. What i don't like about incalls is trecking to an unknown area i don't know well, i like to punt in areas i'm fairly fammiliar with and i generally punt in the afternoon.

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Can't help smiling...it is very subtly done...I like your new style & name, it sounds more welcoming and less diva-ish...Lucy! :)

...and I do seriously wish you all the best with the enterprise!

Thank you Mr Venturer x

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Ive prefered outcalls usually, to hotels. Ive loved travelling say... 100 miles to an hotel ive booked just for the occasion with an escort. I find it more exciting meeting someone for sex in an hotel room, like you would with a regular one night stand. Ive found that some escorts dont exactly do them self up beautifully when you visit their place, but when they come to you they are always done up nicely.

When i used to be a driver for my ex gf escort, she used to dress up really sexy for some outcall clients.

Ive had lots of incalls too, its cheaper and often its easier.

In regards to safety, for both client and escort, i think it makes no difference unless she's a reputable escort in which case incalls are very safe for both.

Im getting my own place next May in the city centre where i'll then use only outcalls. Im single, i dont have a lot of friends, family live miles away, im not a key public figure of any community, my employment couldnt give a crap if they knew i was seeing escorts, my work place is male dominant and the guys ive worked with dont seem bothered by anyone who pays for sex.

The new apartment will be very discrete with intercom etc, if the neighbours notice girls coming and going then so what? shows im getting some. For all they know i could be using normal dating sites or whatever. Some guy might ask "where do you find such gorgeous women?!" "ahh just girls i meet at bars/clubs, get their phone numbers, as you do"... yeah right lol.

As for some girls taking things from your place, just dont leave any money, credit cards, etc laying around.

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Incalls provide familiarity for the girl, and as others have said, it's easier to walk if you don't like what you see. Outcalls are great if you know the girl well, but I can understand the reluctance of punters who are in long-term relationships to use their homes.

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A question for the guys ..............

Why do you chose to use in call escorts? Or why do you choose to have escorts visit you?

Understandably it may be easier for some guys to visit a lady due to home circumstances i,e Partners and children etc.... but on the whole what is the reason for your choice of punt?

When I started punting I only did incalls as I thought it was more discreet. Then I wanted to see a lady who only did outcalls, and discovered that I enjoyed her visiting me. I can take my time getting ready, be freshly showered when the lady arrives, and don't have the anxiety of getting held up in traffic. I only punt whilst away on business, so the cost of the hotel is not an issue. Although I still have incalls with my favourite, outcalls are now my preference.

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I prefer Incalls, because I always liked meeting people everywhere else. Same goes for WGs. Mainly because if I'm already living at my flat, there's no need to spend even more time there, when you can go out.

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Only ever done outcall twice, to a hotel when I was staying in london and birmingham. When I was a newbie and I was too nervous to visit her at her place or have her visit me.

Now, I prefer incall to her place...

well, it gets me out of the house.

I can leave when I want,

I dont have to worry about her turning up with "friends" and rob me,

I dont have to worry about neighbour popping round after to asking "She looks lovely! Whens the wedding?" "Is she coming to the Barbeque?"

I never say never so I may do outcall one day but

Id never do outcall with a girl Ive not seen before, and a girl Ive seen before Id have seen as incall so might as well just see her as an incall again...

Edited by Overworked

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Incall every time.More privacy and it gives me A chance to give the car A good run.

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Much prefer outcalls. more relaxing. Your own house, your bed (sheets!) and if you want to have a drink or whatever you can. The only thing I ask is that they dress down rather than up. Kinda backfired last week when my outcall arrived dressed casually, but parked her Mercedes sports car outside my neighbour's house.

However I won't have girls over if they have a driver - don't want him sitting outside - but you can't directly come out with the question in case they think you're a mentalist or something.

Furthermore, incalls tend to be in flats and I find it too much of a palaver with parking/gated security, then finding the correct block/room.

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A question for the guys ..............

Why do you chose to use in call escorts? Or why do you choose to have escorts visit you?

Understandably it may be easier for some guys to visit a lady due to home circumstances i,e Partners and children etc.... but on the whole what is the reason for your choice of punt?

Incalls everytime. The girl only needs to know as much as I am prepared to tell her, whereas with an outcall to a hotel there is a trail to your real name etc. If you are stood up by an outcall girl and have paid for the hotel, it is very pricey and frustrating. In short, incalls = greater confidentiality and lower cost.

Jack

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With one exception I've always gone for Incalls down to home circumstances like friendly neighbours. The exception was years ago, a warm summer's afternoon and everyone I knew away.

The reduction in fee is an advantage and it costs me only time to get there ;)

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Much prefer outcalls. more relaxing. Your own house, your bed (sheets!) and if you want to have a drink or whatever you can. The only thing I ask is that they dress down rather than up. Kinda backfired last week when my outcall arrived dressed casually, but parked her Mercedes sports car outside my neighbour's house.

Are neighbours really this nosy ? I guess some are, but I have never taken any notice of the comings and goings of the people who live next door to me and I can't imagine they are that bothered about who calls at my house either.

However I won't have girls over if they have a driver - don't want him sitting outside - but you can't directly come out with the question in case they think you're a mentalist or something

So how do you ascertain whether they have a driver or not then ?

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