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Fancy Going For A Coffee Now?

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Last week, I had just spent a jolly hour with a lovely wg in London (my second visit). I asked if she had another client booked , she said no, so I suggested we go for a coffee. A puzzled look came on her face, and she said " nobody has ever asked me that before". She didn't want to miss a call so I said it was no problem answering her phone in the coffee bar, so she agreed to come.

What followed was a memorable hour chatting about this, that and definitely the other sipping a cappuccino or two.

Has anyone else taken a girl out after doing the naughty stuff and how was that for you?

I loved it!

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I travelled to london for a 3 hour booking and on arrival she said she didnt want to be stuck in the room for 3 hours with me and if we can go out for coffee for the last hour...

I was more than a little hurt but said ok.....

But pretty much had to seduce her during the punt. Chatting, making her laugh, etc...it worked and we clicked....

We never did go for a coffee and we spent the final hour having sex instead of having coffee..... :D

Wish I asked if she still wanted to go for coffee when it wasnt my paid time thou....I wonder if she would have said yes? I ended up having a cappacino at Euston station on my own :(

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I travelled to london for a 3 hour booking and on arrival she said she didnt want to be stuck in the room for 3 hours with me and if we can go out for coffee for the last hour...

I was more than a little hurt but said ok.....

WHAAAT??? That would be one heck of an expensive coffee!! I wouldn't have been 'hurt', I would have said she was taking the piss.

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yes, after a hotel gig taken the lady down to the bar for a nice big wine

took a regular out for dinner after one appt (paid for the meal but not the time!) and now usually do it the other way round (if you get the meaning .... i.e. buy a meal before the real action!)

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I always tend to go for a bite to eat or coffee after a liaison. If I like a person after spending some time with them, I will always offer to take them out to dinner or coffee. I'm going anyway, I might as well ask if they want to join me as I enjoyed their company. WG's are real people with emotions and intellect. Why would I treat them any different to any other person. I only do it if I like the person's personality though. I do have a regular thai girl who I see (no names as I don't want to embarrass her or get her in trouble with her agency). We have grown to be good friends and she even took me out for dinner twice. We have a pact that if neither of us are married in two years she'll quit punting and move in with me.

It did blow up in my face on one occasion. She became very abusive and threatened to set her BF on me. All I suggested was grabbing dinner as I was her last punt of the day. I told her to chill out and left. I only asked her as she asked where I was going and I was being polite. She was a bit of a pre madonna\bitch mix.

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yes, after a hotel gig taken the lady down to the bar for a nice big wine

took a regular out for dinner after one appt (paid for the meal but not the time!) and now usually do it the other way round (if you get the meaning .... i.e. buy a meal before the real action!)

That's different. 'Overworked's escort wanted to go for a coffee for 1 hour when it was PART of a 3 hour booking

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I really would suggest you choose the lady carefully as to who you ask. I would go for a drink/coffee after with someone if I wasn't busy and liked them, but have been in the position where I really wouldn't want to.

Yes we are real people and sometimes, YES! We do get on with you. but don't take the wee wee. Remember what the meeting was originally for.

Perhaps I have wanted to chat longer with someone and THEY didn't want to. Not every man wants to chat after and "get to know the girl."

Again, context is everything.

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Last week, I had just spent a jolly hour with a lovely wg in London (my second visit). I asked if she had another client booked , she said no, so I suggested we go for a coffee. A puzzled look came on her face, and she said " nobody has ever asked me that before". She didn't want to miss a call so I said it was no problem answering her phone in the coffee bar, so she agreed to come.

What followed was a memorable hour chatting about this, that and definitely the other sipping a cappuccino or two.

Has anyone else taken a girl out after doing the naughty stuff and how was that for you?

I loved it!

Many times over the years but not as a paid service on the clock. I am happy to pay for a drink, i dont drink tea or coffee, or for a meal. Can be a good laugh.

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I let a client down once so we arranged to meet in London on my Birthday. He would take me for a lovely lunch (unpaid) and I would see him for an hour (paid) of my time. It worked out wonderfully! Really liked his company anyway, so was no issues.

Someone I see now I would see for free all the time, . Alas he is married so that's the end of that, as that's the point, right?? I reduced his fee the other day yet he paid me the full price... Oh the complications!! It's hard doing this 'job' sometimes...

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See that is the side of punters/punting that I just never get, why would you want to do something like that. As Student S said, we all know why we are there in the first place, we're not looking to get involved in each other's personal problems and lives, it is just a service between two adults. Just like I wouldn't want to have coffee with my GP or the taxi driver who takes me to the airport, it's just not professional.

I mean for starters surely it will just add awkwardness to the whole thing. Second, do both of you really want to be seen with each other in public?

The bobsam story shocked me, why would you get involved with a WG like that, it is just unnatural. But what I do I know...

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I've met one of my regular ladies for Coffee but not prior to or after a meeting, just as a social meeting. No fees, just a fun hour in good company.

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That's different. 'Overworked's escort wanted to go for a coffee for 1 hour when it was PART of a 3 hour booking

Ah yes ..... I misread the OP - no way would I spend paid time on that ;-)

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WHAAAT??? That would be one heck of an expensive coffee!! I wouldn't have been 'hurt', I would have said she was taking the piss.

I thought the same. Especially since it would be the same rate as a paid "encounter".. Luckily we clicked enough for it not to end up happening. Think if it did end up with coffee for the last hour then Id be fuming....

I wouldnt mind going out for coffee with a WG if thats what she wants but I dont want to pay over a hundred pounds for it. I'd pay for her coffee if we went out but that would be it...

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I don't drink coffee, I take tea my dear.. One time a girl cancelled on me last second as i got to the hotel because of ladies problems so we met in the bar and chatted for a bit before i left. Twas nice

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to the op, if you've ever had a girlfriend its not a million miles away from what you describe, to begin with...

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See that is the side of punters/punting that I just never get, why would you want to do something like that. As Student S said, we all know why we are there in the first place, we're not looking to get involved in each other's personal problems and lives, it is just a service between two adults. Just like I wouldn't want to have coffee with my GP or the taxi driver who takes me to the airport, it's just not professional.

I mean for starters surely it will just add awkwardness to the whole thing. Second, do both of you really want to be seen with each other in public?

The bobsam story shocked me, why would you get involved with a WG like that, it is just unnatural. But what I do I know...

Agreed. Enjoy the 2 hrs or so. Door closes. End of. And thats for both parties, by the way!!

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I have many a time, feels like friends and it's very relaxing as there's no sexual tension as you've already done that. I once took one of my favorite girls out to dinner on her birthday with some of her friends and her brother.

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Interesting responses from my original post. - From 'door closes, end of' to 'yes, even dinner!!'

Yes of course it is a professional relationship, but many people are friends with their doctor/solicitor and would have them round for dinner or drinks, so the professionalism of the relationship does does not preclude a friendly element as well. The girl that I took for coffee (in unpaid time of course), was delighted to be asked and to get out of her flat for a while. She has been in England 6 months, speaks goodish English, is bright and articulate, but hardly ventured out of her flat in case she missed a call. There was no hidden agenda for either of us, just a happy light chat and coffee, and as one post noted, no sexual tension as that had been sorted!!

So go on, if she isn't busy, ask her out for a coffee round the corner!

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Interesting responses from my original post. - From 'door closes, end of' to 'yes, even dinner!!'

Yes of course it is a professional relationship, but many people are friends with their doctor/solicitor and would have them round for dinner or drinks, so the professionalism of the relationship does does not preclude a friendly element as well. The girl that I took for coffee (in unpaid time of course), was delighted to be asked and to get out of her flat for a while. She has been in England 6 months, speaks goodish English, is bright and articulate, but hardly ventured out of her flat in case she missed a call. There was no hidden agenda for either of us, just a happy light chat and coffee, and as one post noted, no sexual tension as that had been sorted!!

So go on, if she isn't busy, ask her out for a coffee round the corner!

If you knew how many clients would like to be friends/get free time, I think you would be surprised. Personally I do not have enough time in my personal life to keep up with all these new friends so I am afraid I am with the door closes - end off crowd. Does not mean that I am not friends with some of my clients but it has been on my terms and the friendships developed over time.

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Girl in parlour asked if I would meet her in internet cafe to help her with her homework,,,,,,foreign bird doing some college course, I imagine she had ideas,, didnt take her up on it, as I have often said many of these girls are available.

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I think I would be uncomfortable doing that. For me the hour I pay for is a fantasy. The woman is playing a role as am I. If at the end of the hour we went for a coffee then we would be stepping out of those roles and that could lead to confusion and disappointment.

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I've taken a client for lunch after a 2 hour booking. It was spontaneous, a little impulsive and he is very good company, someone I consider a friend in terms of client/Escort relationships and I paid for it too! He did buy the drinks though. I was touring and I needed a break, it was very natural, relaxed and enjoyable.

I think perhaps it is best to let the Escort ask, as she may be free after your booking, but may have other things to do, or just want to spend sometime to herself. It is important not to cross lines and to know where the line is.

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It's nice to be nice....the offer of a coffee or a bite to eat is just that...

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It strikes me that there would be a moment of awkwardness - fancy a coffee - what - at her normal rate? It's a bit presumptuos and you pay for time and companionship (right) so it would have to be paid. You would have to put it - fancy a coffee as a friend? In any case if she says no you would get all offended.

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The other day I saw a quote - 'Asking a whore for a cuddle is like going into McDonalds and asking for a salad'.

Basically it's on offer but not what they specialise in. You may also get the same quizzical look as you would get from the dungaree wearing moron at McDonalds.

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