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Purple Site Feedback - A Waste Of Time For Punters?

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When i was on the other site, i built up over 40 positive FB, yet actually found the number of replies to e-mails got less as my FB increased!! Hence, i left as i was finding it hard to book the better escorts.

I wonder whether from the girls point of view, punters with lots of good feedback are considered 'one punt' only clients and the better ones who want regulars steer clear?

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I never look at clients feedback, though never use the booking system to get feedback !!! I reply to emails and can usually tell if someone is genuine or not :)

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I am registered on the purple site but have no feedback and whenever I have tried making a booking with escorts I always get told that they wont accept a booking from me as I have no feedback.

So i dont understand why you are finding it difficult booking with the better escorts on the purple site when like you said have got over 40 positive feedback.

I have also noticed that more of the better escorts wont accept a booking if you dont have any feedback :wacko:

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I don't understand why you're seemingly experiencing difficulty either.

Personally, I have a look at clients feedback but that's a secondary consideration; what I deem important is the way in which someone initiates contact. I've accepting many a booking from 0 feedback members who have simply been polite and courteous in their initial email.

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I can say that on two occasions I've had escorts comment on feedback that has been written on me. Well it wasn't so much what was written as who it was written by. Either way, they'd clearly looked at my feedback.

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I check a guys feedback out very well.

I look at who he has seen before, what they have written about the lady on the feedback and will read at least one review he has typed up if indeed he has done any.

I would not worry a jot if a gentleman had 1 of 100 feedbacks though.

I would question what is meant by "better escorts" though?

If they are "better", they should surely do someone the common courtesy of responding to a message and not ignoring it.

Lucy :)

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I check a guys feedback out very well.

I look at who he has seen before, what they have written about the lady on the feedback and will read at least one review he has typed up if indeed he has done any.

I would not worry a jot if a gentleman had 1 of 100 feedbacks though.

I would question what is meant by "better escorts" though?

If they are "better", they should surely do someone the common courtesy of responding to a message and not ignoring it.

Lucy :)

As i say, when i had between 3-20 positive ratings everything was going swimmingly well, most ladies replied, after that i started to notice alot of messages were not replied to. I enquired with one lady as to why i had not had a reply and she said i was a timewaster who was a fly-by-night and would not be a regular so she had no interest. Really from that reply i wondered whether too much good fb becomes a hinderance due to appearing a not loyal customer perhaps.

i never encountered a single lady who refused to see me when i had no FB. However, i have noticed these days virtually all ladies have telephone numbers, so being a member is not really necessary, when i started on ** around 5-6 years ago, hardly any lady had a phone number listed so becoming a member was the only game in town really

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When i was on the other site, i built up over 40 positive FB, yet actually found the number of replies to e-mails got less as my FB increased!! Hence, i left as i was finding it hard to book the better escorts.

I wonder whether from the girls point of view, punters with lots of good feedback are considered 'one punt' only clients and the better ones who want regulars steer clear?

I have never needed feedback to get a punt sorted out, i punt in London and only with WGs with displayed phone numbers. I have many times posted my view that the feedback on that site has no credibility in my eyes and has more holes in it than a string vest.

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As i say, when i had between 3-20 positive ratings everything was going swimmingly well, most ladies replied, after that i started to notice alot of messages were not replied to. I enquired with one lady as to why i had not had a reply and she said i was a timewaster who was a fly-by-night and would not be a regular so she had no interest. Really from that reply i wondered whether too much good fb becomes a hinderance due to appearing a not loyal customer perhaps.

i never encountered a single lady who refused to see me when i had no FB. However, i have noticed these days virtually all ladies have telephone numbers, so being a member is not really necessary, when i started on ** around 5-6 years ago, hardly any lady had a phone number listed so becoming a member was the only game in town really

Not my experience of that site. I have been using it longer than 6 years and have always been able to locate WGs with displayed phone numbers throughout that time. I have never had a turn down for having no feedback either and its very rarely a subject WGs mention and when they do its asking me to leave them positive feedback.

IMO if a punter punts in a punting desert having feedback might well be necessary, thankfully i dont. I also have no interest as the service purchaser in being reviewed myself, its a premise i want no part of.

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When i was on the other site, i built up over 40 positive FB, yet actually found the number of replies to e-mails got less as my FB increased!! Hence, i left as i was finding it hard to book the better escorts.

I wonder whether from the girls point of view, punters with lots of good feedback are considered 'one punt' only clients and the better ones who want regulars steer clear?

Maybe girls try to read between the lines of feedback comments? If each girl has some small chance of reading "bad news" into any given feedback comment, then after some number of feedbacks it's going to be downhill all the way. Or are they just all uniformly OTT comments like on ebay "A++++++ great seller" that tell you nothing even subtly negative? Even then there's going to be some variation that girls could read as faint praise and read things into that.

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Maybe girls try to read between the lines of feedback comments? If each girl has some small chance of reading "bad news" into any given feedback comment, then after some number of feedbacks it's going to be downhill all the way.

Or maybe it's an STI thing? You're getting marked down as a higher infection risk, perhaps?

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Not my experience of that site. I have been using it longer than 6 years and have always been able to locate WGs with displayed phone numbers throughout that time. I have never had a turn down for having no feedback either and its very rarely a subject WGs mention and when they do its asking me to leave them positive feedback.

IMO if a punter punts in a punting desert having feedback might well be necessary, thankfully i dont. I also have no interest as the service purchaser in being reviewed myself, its a premise i want no part of.

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With the exception that I will send an e-mail to a WG who would appear to meet my specifications, asking for her mobile number so that we can have a brief chat before (possibly) taking things further. No reply, end of story. Decent reply with mobile number, possible start of a beautiful relationship. :)

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With the exception that I will send an e-mail to a WG who would appear to meet my specifications, asking for her mobile number so that we can have a brief chat before (possibly) taking things further. No reply, end of story. Decent reply with mobile number, possible start of a beautiful relationship. :)

Exactly what I do.

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I don't see what the problem is, many guys only want to book a girl once and that's just as acceptable as those who become regulars. Others see girls on their travels and may only pass by a place once. Only thing that may make a girl think twice is a high number of camming only FB, and no real action. Service seeker feedback can also be misleading, just as SP FB can become too. People on either side of the equation can feel under pressure to leave good reponses under fear of retaliation.

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I check a guys feedback out very well.

I look at who he has seen before, what they have written about the lady on the feedback and will read at least one review he has typed up if indeed he has done any.

I would not worry a jot if a gentleman had 1 of 100 feedbacks though.

I would question what is meant by "better escorts" though?

If they are "better", they should surely do someone the common courtesy of responding to a message and not ignoring it.

Hear, hear. I have said before, the purple site has it's uses but the culture whereby you can't book a girl unless you've got umpteen "testimonials" is flawed. Back to basics, people - On the one hand, a girl looking for nice, clean repectful clients...on the other, nice, clean respectful guys.. put 'em together and lets party FFS!!!

Lucy :)

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Sounds more like you met an uptight SP. Plenty more fish in the sea!

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Sounds more like you met an uptight SP. Plenty more fish in the sea!

Or even:

Pussys in the bed! :D

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I don't know if I'm speaking out of turn or if it is just social chat but I've found in my short punting experience women are often interested in other women. So I get asked have I seen other ladies, where, etc. Also I have seen some profiles on the other site that directly comment on other escorts in the context of them pinching profile details or whether they will see a client if they have seen x,y,z type of lady. For example, if a lady doesn't offer owo but you see a lady who does.

I'm sure there are aspects of safety, etc here, but I wonder if this is happening to the OP. That is a lady is checking his feedback and thinking he has seen x,y,z person so I don't want to see him for whatever reason.

I've wondered this myself. Seen as I post here, post reports, have feedback etc will this ultimately have a more negative than positive impact on appointments (not that I ever mention it) as compared to if I kept under the radar.

I do also think the other sites feedback system has some major issues, but that is another topic entirely.

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OP, you have not by any chance seen a girl that openly advertises bareback on her profile and is 'known' for it??

For example if you had feedback from Kirie, or one or two others, I think the majority of girls would turn you down as an STI risk.

Otherwise i cant think of any reason why an experienced punter with good fb would not be more welcome than most.

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When i was on the other site, i built up over 40 positive FB, yet actually found the number of replies to e-mails got less as my FB increased!! Hence, i left as i was finding it hard to book the better escorts.

I wonder whether from the girls point of view, punters with lots of good feedback are considered 'one punt' only clients and the better ones who want regulars steer clear?

I have seen a member with lots of positve feedbacks mixed in with more than a few cancellations. If I was a busy lady I would knock him back as there is a 10% chance of a no show. Don't know if this would apply in your case.

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When i was on the other site, i built up over 40 positive FB, yet actually found the number of replies to e-mails got less as my FB increased!! Hence, i left as i was finding it hard to book the better escorts.

I wonder whether from the girls point of view, punters with lots of good feedback are considered 'one punt' only clients and the better ones who want regulars steer clear?

I find that the "younger generation" understand and use the feedback system but that the more mature 35+ WGs ignore it so it looks as if I punt exclusively with 19 - 23 year olds! 35 + year olds may decide to "punish" you for cradle snatching.

I ask girls not to leave feedback, assuming that they understand English (the Hungarian educational system leaves a lot to be desired).

Jack

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I find that the "younger generation" understand and use the feedback system but that the more mature 35+ WGs ignore it so it looks as if I punt exclusively with 19 - 23 year olds! 35 + year olds may decide to "punish" you for cradle snatching.

I ask girls not to leave feedback, assuming that they understand English (the Hungarian educational system leaves a lot to be desired).

Jack

Ha Ha, some of us 'mature' types understand the system quite well thanks, happy to use it. Must be an exception.

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OP, you have not by any chance seen a girl that openly advertises bareback on her profile and is 'known' for it??

For example if you had feedback from Kirie, or one or two others, I think the majority of girls would turn you down as an STI risk.

Otherwise i cant think of any reason why an experienced punter with good fb would not be more welcome than most.

no, definitely never had any FB from bareback providers as i steer clear of such women like the plague. Different topic, but IMHO girls offering bareback must be ridddled with STI's and are maliciously seeking to infect as many others as posssible.

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I am a bit mystified too, usually lots of positive feedback is a good thing.

The BB bit is nonsense anyway, I have no idea who a man is shagging unprotected regardless of feedback and even if he has seen a BB girl it doesn't mean he wasn't safe so most rational women will just do the best they can to protect themselves.

However, most women who have their phone number will generally receive calls rather than messages so we do not get to know the man's A W name so don't see the feedback.

A lot of it is pointless sycophantic drivel anyway ie 'Oooh such a sexy gorgeous man, do come again' when having met the man he is perfectly nice but hardly sexy or gorgeous!

A decent escort will reply to all emails (bar the rude ones!) so no reply probably means she isn't reliable or professional anyway. I would also have guessed most women were not in the position to turn down bookings from someone who *might* not become a regular... all very odd. maybe just an unlucky streak?

But hey, I;m 37 so probably way too elderly to understand the feedback system!

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'Hello is this x? '

'Yes'

'Can i book for an hour on x and y?'

'Only if you become a regular..'

wtf.. click.

Ignore that wacko and keep trying.

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