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Hi all, first official post on here having introduced myself a number of weeks ago - Greeting to all, have been reading some of the stuff on here and have to say it is a godsend!

I am 30 and have punting on and off for years, had my first experience in a Soho walkup at around the age of 19. Since then I have experienced a whole load of punts scattered over the last 10 years including a number of places in the UK and and one of the best in asia!

I tend to go now when I really need to, to get relief and only do it when the mrs is away so I would say I punt 2-3 times a year and mainly in the East Mids area. I ensure I get tested 3 months after each major sexual encounter (i mostly enjoy massage and HR) as I take the hygiene side of things VERY SERIOUSLY!

I have now turned to indies as I like the email/text contact before hand - also had some crappy experiences in parlours. I tend to use the 'other site' now due to the pics etc...

I went to see a polish girl on sat in a hotel in notts and had 30mins of bliss, seriously this girl is fantastic! I am very cautious about what I do as I am married so it is always services with protection and I refrain from performing OWO. I do enjoy kissing though and this girl was perfection at this. We clicked so well but I also know that it is proberly an act?!

Anyway, I cannot get her out of my mind! never felt this way before. I have always treated all ladies with respect and have always had a pleasant experience with all even in the parlours - I dont have a regular lady either as I like to meet different ones. But this time I just cannot stop thinking about the next time I see this girl!

She was touring notts and so she has now returned to London where she is based.

Is this normal? how do I stop feeling like a lovesick puppy? any others experience 'love at first sight' and then some, after a punt.

Her eyes and face are heavenly and the impeccable english with a polish accent made me melt! Starting to think this is a dangerous game.....

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It is a dangerous game. You should avoid seeing this girl again, before you take a step you may regret.

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You are allowed to tell us who she is though before you go cold turkey!! ;)

It's all part of the therapy, so you can read about how she does the same with any punter who shows up clean and pays the correct fee...it's certainly helped keep any WG infatuations I've contemplated in check.

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I agree with JKJ this game is a dangerous game, as i have had a couple of punts where I have met girls and instantly clicked and wish I had met them in a club or out elsewhere rather than as a punt.

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She goes by the name chloe in the kings cross area but dont worry, she is not one of the streetwalkers! she has class! i know its just infatuation, i mean i am married to a woman i love but thats the beauty if this hobby, meeting lovely ladies and having a nice destressing time! even if it is an act, but yes, when u turn up and they are seriously pretty it is difficult!

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Hi all, first official post on here having introduced myself a number of weeks ago - Greeting to all, have been reading some of the stuff on here and have to say it is a godsend!

I am 30 and have punting on and off for years, had my first experience in a Soho walkup at around the age of 19. Since then I have experienced a whole load of punts scattered over the last 10 years including a number of places in the UK and and one of the best in asia!

I tend to go now when I really need to, to get relief and only do it when the mrs is away so I would say I punt 2-3 times a year and mainly in the East Mids area. I ensure I get tested 3 months after each major sexual encounter (i mostly enjoy massage and HR) as I take the hygiene side of things VERY SERIOUSLY!

I have now turned to indies as I like the email/text contact before hand - also had some crappy experiences in parlours. I tend to use the 'other site' now due to the pics etc...

I went to see a polish girl on sat in a hotel in notts and had 30mins of bliss, seriously this girl is fantastic! I am very cautious about what I do as I am married so it is always services with protection and I refrain from performing OWO. I do enjoy kissing though and this girl was perfection at this. We clicked so well but I also know that it is proberly an act?!

Anyway, I cannot get her out of my mind! never felt this way before. I have always treated all ladies with respect and have always had a pleasant experience with all even in the parlours - I dont have a regular lady either as I like to meet different ones. But this time I just cannot stop thinking about the next time I see this girl!

She was touring notts and so she has now returned to London where she is based.

Is this normal? how do I stop feeling like a lovesick puppy? any others experience 'love at first sight' and then some, after a punt.

Her eyes and face are heavenly and the impeccable english with a polish accent made me melt! Starting to think this is a dangerous game.....

I have found its best although not always possible to keep punting strictly business, can be easier said than done. I lap up good service myself but if you are feeling like this perhaps best to walk away. It most certainly can be a dangerous game.

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your right, it should be strictly business, guess i was caught off guard as she to me, has been the most beautiful escort i have seen, good service is one thing but when ur jaw hits the floor its something else! i'll get over it!

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Um yes, in simple brutal terms get over it. Even if she really liked you (it's possible, us WGs sometmes do take a fancy for a guy) we tend to keep business and personal separate.

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May i ask why everyone is saying it is a dangerous game? Is it because he is married? If so, i dont really see what the problem is, he has already done the deed so to speak, i am sure his wallet will dictate frequency of visits, and the one cast iron guarantee is his feelings will not be recipricotated by her.

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You always need to accept that it is an act - it's a job for her and she did it well.

Don't make yourself out to be a bigger fool than you are..

In any case - would you leave your wife for her?

I almost felt this way once - thought we had clicked and super GFE- then I saw her feedback go up and up and up. In 3 weeks it was 100 - comments like "great rimmer" and "fantastic deep throat fuck" sobered my thoughts and feelings.

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May i ask why everyone is saying it is a dangerous game? Is it because he is married? If so, i dont really see what the problem is, he has already done the deed so to speak, i am sure his wallet will dictate frequency of visits, and the one cast iron guarantee is his feelings will not be recipricotated by her.

Snogman, with respect, it is a dangerous game. I know someone who became so infatuated with a girl, he no longer thought of her as an escort. He spent somewhere in the region of 45k over the space of a year on her, punts and gifts. Eventually his wife found receipts and Im sure you can all guess the rest. He was so taken by this girl that when he found out another friend had met her, he actually attacked him. I do agree with you though that his feelings will not be reciprocated by her.

To the op, I quite agree, move on, have fun but keep punting separate from your everyday life.

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May i ask why everyone is saying it is a dangerous game? Is it because he is married? If so, i dont really see what the problem is, he has already done the deed so to speak, i am sure his wallet will dictate frequency of visits, and the one cast iron guarantee is his feelings will not be recipricotated by her.

For me its because he doesnt seem to be able to seperate punting and just leaving with no strings and no hassle and getting more emotionally involved, i have been there and i wouldnt recommend it.

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May i ask why everyone is saying it is a dangerous game? Is it because he is married? If so, i dont really see what the problem is, he has already done the deed so to speak, i am sure his wallet will dictate frequency of visits, and the one cast iron guarantee is his feelings will not be recipricotated by her.

How do you know his feelings will not be reciprocated?

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How do you know his feelings will not be reciprocated?

We dont, but its highly unlikely, and if you are happily married, is it worth the risk? And I dont want to start a debate on why are you punting if youre happily married!

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Woah peeps

I get it.

Theres no way I would go that mental - 45K jeez!

As mentioned before, it was a surprise to find someone so attractive and to my liking on all fronts! Yes it seemed she was reciprocating but really, even I know thats the GFE we pay for!

Im sure it will happen again but I'll be mentally prepared.

Thanks for the replies all

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We dont, but its highly unlikely, and if you are happily married, is it worth the risk? And I dont want to start a debate on why are you punting if youre happily married!

I am happily married but I punt because I like fucking and love doing it with different women without any strings attached.

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I am happily married but I punt because I like fucking and love doing it with different women without any strings attached.

Well, the "why do happily married men punt?" debate has started Pamplona!

Lets hope Lancelot, Alwayshoping, Spokseyebrows et al get a sniff of this and we'll really get motoring....

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Well, the "why do happily married men punt?" debate has started Pamplona!

Lets hope Lancelot, Alwayshoping, Spokseyebrows et al get a sniff of this and we'll really get motoring....

Have I opened the proverberbial can of worms?

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I am happily married but I punt because I like fucking and love doing it with different women without any strings attached.

Never been married but i do it for the same reasons myself. The moral judging lot on here can put their advice and opinions where the sun dont shine from my point of view, i have heard it all before and it was fucking boring then.

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Never been married but i do it for the same reasons myself. The moral judging lot on here can put their advice and opinions where the sun dont shine from my point of view, i have heard it all before and it was fucking boring then.

+1 (although I'm practically married - just minus the ceremony + paperwork)

welcome to the boards 'made for ipunt'

I've experienced just what you described as 'your jaw hits the flaw'.

seriously drop dead gorgeous young women with whom everything seems to click, you really enjoy their company, their sense of humour makes you warm to them and the sex is great.

And once I did fall just a tiny bit for a particularly delicious little TG escort - although that feeling only lasted for around a week or so

My advice to you would be to treat this wonderful pastime as what it is: paid for sex with a dedicated professional - a form of very intimate pampering - private 'you time' with an attractive and delightfully sexy girl of your choosing

With the best of these girls it seems as though they really do enjoy sex, are very good at it, and theyre able to 'click', and 'push the right buttons', with a large number of different men............and then when theyre physically very pleasant to look at too............what a combination !!

Admire and enjoy them for this, but dont assume that you'll be the one theyll go dancing happily into the sunset with

Although, this could, and does happen, I certainly wouldnt attempt to pursue this high risk route unless I was single and had nothing to lose in that respect

I'd also say its perfectly normal, totally expected and most likely a very frequent occurrence whereby male punters fall for their SP.

Of course its going to happen

Use your brain and critical faculties to look at the whole business objectively and see it for what it is.....and hopefully you can then enjoy it for what it is

Edited by BillGoldberg

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Its dangerous in the sense that men who become infatuated can spend an awful lot of money on one girl . These stories often surface in the papers, leading to loss of employment, end of marriage and a spell in prison, as the punter often starts stealing cash to fund his obsession. A sensible wg will distance herself from the obsessive type. On the other hand, loads of parlour girls hook-up with punters, either in the form of cheap punts, or actual relationships. Take away the nice underwear, and they are just ordinary woman, making their way in life.

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good reply mate

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your right, it should be strictly business, guess i was caught off guard as she to me, has been the most beautiful escort i have seen, good service is one thing but when ur jaw hits the floor its something else! i'll get over it!

Hi iPunt, welcome :)

I posted extensively about this last year. This was the time I found the first escort that I really clicked with and felt something for. You are not alone and I'd wager a large proportion of punters go through this at some point.

I'm not going to go into detail again, but suffice to say I thought the world of this girl (although I didn't go made with money and gifts, just saw her 6 or 8 times). She stopped working and disappeared quite unexpectedly, which was probably for the best from my point of view. I of course worried about her and I still wish her all the best and hope she's ok, but I guess I'll never know. :(

I'm fortunate enough (mainly thanks to this site) to have had predominantly good experiences in punting, but sometimes you meet a girl who just blows you away. Not just good looks and great sex, but the elusive "click factor" that is so difficult to define. I've met two girls since where this is the case, but I'm now much better equipped to deal with it through experience. In fact, I've got repeat bookings with both of them in the next fortnight but I feel completely in control of my feelings, which was not the case last year when it happened the first time!

These girls are fantastic, just lovely people as well as being superb in the sack and stunningly attractive - and they have the ability to make you feel like you're the most important bloke in the world to them. That's what they're paid to do and what separates a good escort from an average one in my opinion. Despite the "dangers", they are the escorts we strive to find and the ones we go back to. Just learn to keep things in perspective - I did although I don't mind admitting it was a damned hard lesson. :wacko:

I can't wait to see these girls again, and now I just go knowing I'll have a great time but it ends when I leave their apartment. I'm sure both girls will make their next client feel just as amazing as they do me, that's just how good they are and I wish them all the best :)

If I find myself getting too attached to either of them, I think I've got the presence of mind to stop seeing them. I hope I'm right...

Best wishes in your punting :)

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fantastic read, thanks mate, makes me wana go punting now but am at work!

@velcrohead

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I have a question for you experts wink.png I live in Croydon and new to punting. Saw some ads in shop windows, which I called...all I asked was to give me a little more info on the girls and price and they didnt really want to talk, one even hung up on me. Is this normal? why do they have ads put on if they don't bother talking for a min on the phone?!

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