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Sexual Surrogates V Wgs

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I think all Working Girls are to some extent counsellors, though most would have no professional qualifications in that area unlike surrogates, though many would have qualifications in massage therapy!

I was just wondering has any forum member used the services of a sex surrogate and how did it compare to the services offered by an escort lady for example? Also are their services fully legal, I would say legally it's the equivalent of an Indy's service which is of course within certain constraints fully legal. Also is their any professional organisation for them , really how do you meet one?

For those of you who do not know what I mean here is a link - www.thefastertimes.com/oddjobs/2010/04/07/sexual/surrogates/more/than/just/hand/holding

I had an encounter with a well known Sheffield Indie a few years ago and she told me she had been a psychiatric nurse in a previous incarnation. I suggested to her that experience would prove invaluable to her in her current role and she agreed.

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I have been punting for over 2 decades, and have met many a escort who is qualified in many things to a university degree, but I have also seen a few who didnt get many qualifications, and yet have not met one who said they used to flip burgers, or stack shelves, the nearest I have met who is not qualified in something, was someone who used to run a stall in a market.

Makes me wonder where all the non educated girls are, though quite a few of them struggle to hold a conversation if we dont talk about X-Factor, or T.O.W.I.E.....

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I think the OP is right - that to some extent we are counsellors by default because the job is like no other, and men talk to us about things they could not discuss with anyone else in the world - even their partners/wives.

I have been punting for almost ten years and in that time I have met many a punter who is qualified in many things to a University degree, and I have met with many men who have no qualifications, and strangely not a single one who used to flip burgers either - funny eh?

Conversely, I have never met a fellow working girl who was/is a drug dealer or second hand car saleswoman either:)

I am not University educated - was far too busy to be doing all of that - and it has never affected my life. I do not feel as if I missed out on anything, and prior to doing this I have had a variety of jobs including running two small businesses - successfully - only leaving the second one to come and whore myself which I found to be much more to my liking.

I think some people want blood from us and expect no less which is why some girls like to conjure myths up more for the client's satisfaction than her own, and of those who do have qualifications, some people won't believe it anyway !

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I didn't mean my OP to be a conversation about third level qualifications, sex surrogates are therapists with qualifications in psychology and counselling in general, they have been known to work in conjunction with psychotherapists to help people through emotional/sexual problems. A sex surrogate would on ocassion bring a client to orgasm through full sex if the issue demanded it, although this could be after many sessions! I suppose it's really more of an American thing than a European one!

I have no doubt WGs in terms of qualifications including degrees, masters degrees and even PHDs are as varied as WGs themselves!

Obviously a WG who cannot relate to other people and of course I don't mean on some haughty academic level (and of course some people actually at that haughty level cannot relate to others at all) will not last long in the biz.

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You can read more on sexual surrogate partners on www.icasa.co.uk, I had spoken to them but never take it further due to the 'cost' involved, will be interested to know anyone experiences with icasa?

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A sex surrogate would on ocassion bring a client to orgasm through full sex if the issue demanded it, although this could be after many [expensive] sessions! I suppose it's really more of an American thing than a European one!

Is it possible that in "the land of the free" fucking a sex surrogate isn't prostitution, and hence is legal for both parties? Here, I have not the slightest doubt that such a lady, however well, academically, qualified would, in law, be a prostitute, so that a psychotherapist operating a clinic which employed two, or more, surrogates to assist him/her in the clinic's good work would be likely to be done for controlling prostitution and/or managing a brothel. Look good on his CV won't it?

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I think the procedure would be that a psychotherapist would refer a patient to a sex surrogate, who would not be down the hall in most cases!

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I think the procedure would be that a psychotherapist would refer a patient to a sex surrogate, who would not be down the hall in most cases!

Ah, so that's how the canny bastards get round it? And the "lady Surrogate" slips the therapist an agency fee? Plus ca change, plus c'est la meme chose?

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Ah, so that's how the canny bastards get round it? And the "lady Surrogate" slips the therapist an agency fee? Plus ca change, plus c'est la meme chose?

I accept that the concept of sex surrogacy is a legitimate one and not a scam! however I would imagine it's a lot more expensive than visiting a WG. Also in many ways it maybe more genuine and effective than psychotherapy or psychological counselling on its own!

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from their site, a good Definition of GFE with a pro$$ie:

The relationship with a Surrogate Partner is a time-limited relationship with identified boundaries. It is, however, an authentic relationship for the purposes of resolving the client's presenting complaint. The full range of emotional feeling and connection at an intimate level is experienced. This is the essential aspect of the healing process. Both client and Surrogate Partner are aware of the eventual closure to the therapeutic relationship and are prepared well in advance for the closure session, which remains a precious and very positive experience.

Good luck to them.

And if this allows US residents (or desperate folks in other places) a legal way of "getting their leg over", Clever!

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