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I was wondering if you guys have ever gone on holiday with an escort (or one of you gals with a client)? Did you enjoy it?

The reason I ask is I've seen the same girl a few times now and mentioned I was thinking of where to go on holiday (going by myself). She made what I thought was a joke that I should take her with me. The next time I visited she mentioned it again with a price (very very reasonable if I understand what these things usually cost although since I'm not rich it's still a lot of money for me, especially when you include flights etc). Now I'm pretty sure I would have an amazing time with her, but then again that is part of the problem, I do really like her and that is something that everyone says to watch out for (doesn't help we are the same age).

So at the moment I'm really not sure what to do. On one hand I really want to do it but on the other are all the "what if" worries.

So have you ever gone through with such an experience? Did you regret it?

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There was a similar thread a while back and one of the guys told a tale of doing just as you are thinking of. He came back to the hotel room one afternoon to find his companion enjoying the intimate company of another guest.

I guess you need to set out the boundaries before you go.

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I was wondering if you guys have ever gone on holiday with an escort (or one of you gals with a client)? Did you enjoy it?

The reason I ask is I've seen the same girl a few times now and mentioned I was thinking of where to go on holiday (going by myself). She made what I thought was a joke that I should take her with me. The next time I visited she mentioned it again with a price (very very reasonable if I understand what these things usually cost although since I'm not rich it's still a lot of money for me, especially when you include flights etc). Now I'm pretty sure I would have an amazing time with her, but then again that is part of the problem, I do really like her and that is something that everyone says to watch out for (doesn't help we are the same age).

So at the moment I'm really not sure what to do. On one hand I really want to do it but on the other are all the "what if" worries.

So have you ever gone through with such an experience? Did you regret it?

This has never interested me but you have punted with her before so that helps, however this will obviously be for a longer period and would this really suit you. If so then why not go for it, be cautious though is my advice, i find it hard work sometimes with friends and family while on holiday let alone virtual strangers. Hope it goes well if you decide to go with her.

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There was a similar thread a while back and one of the guys told a tale of doing just as you are thinking of. He came back to the hotel room one afternoon to find his companion enjoying the intimate company of another guest.

So did he join in or what?

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I have never and would never go on holiday with a client. I know there are clients and ladies who love

this kind of arrangement but it just does not appeal to me..... no matter what the huge fee may be.

My holidays are precious and I prefer to spend them with people I know for sure I will get on with (for more

than just a day or few hours!) and who share my humour :)

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PP's story (and I remember it being told) above was a bit of a one-off I'd hope!

Sounds like she's up for it. I'd try an overnight first and if that goes well then talk seriously with her about it and try to understand both of you the potential pitfalls - like falling out after a couple of days!. What if you both really like each other? Sounds like fun to me :-)

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So did he join in or what?

No , As I remember he just stood around taking photographs . Holiday snaps , I think he called ' em .

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I would think you'd be better off going somewhere that you could spend time with a local escort. At least you can easily pick and choose the time you have to yourself and you have a variety to choose from.

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Definite no no in my opinion. She is after an all expenses paid holiday at your expense. I've had a number of girls who ask me if i fancy taking them on my many trips abroad (mainly through work). I always say no, and am quite forthright about why, but not rude. Basically an escort is a stranger, there is no emotional attachment and while we can have a great time for a couple of hours, after that i would think the difference in backgrounds and interests would become an issue. Apart from sex, you wont have anything in common really i would not think, as what an escort tells you during an appointment you can basically ignore as to her true feelings about things, most escorts say what they think a client wants to hear.

Equally, i tell escorts what i think they like to hear to ensure i get a better than normal service, i can carry the act off for a couple of hours, but for longer it would be hard to have a conversation purely down to completely different lifestyles aand backgrounds. Generally, women we get on with are from our own circles in life. It's like at the football every saturday, i have a laugh with the lads when there, sing songs with them etc, but i would not want to spend an evening out with them, let alone go on holiday with them, obviously i wouldnt be having sex with them lol, but i trust you see my point.

If your holiday is a quiet retreat somewhere where all there to do is sunbathe and fuck, then maybe, just maybe, it may be worth considering, but you will need alot of stamina, because once the sex is over, i think you will struggle.

it's alot of money if it goes wrong, so i would advise not to go down that route. Best thing to do is say you dont want to take her, see her reaction. My bet would be her face will stiffen up and she'll act like a spoilt brat, obviously i dont know this particular girl so it is just an observation based on my own experiences, which is all i can do.

If she just smiles, and says she understands and is as friendly with you as before, theen although i still would not recommend takinng her, at least you know she is worth seeing as a regular in this country. But if she shows another side when you say no, i'd ensure you dont spend a penny more on her.

Always keep in mind, escorts are doing a job, some do a fantastic job, but we are just clients to them, which is absolutely fine in my book, it is nice and uncomplicated. But, at end of day, it is just business.

I'll just add one last thing, lots of 'civvie' girls try and free load as well when it comes to holidays, so dont go on some dating site and say you are going on holiday soon on your own sadly!!! you'll be inundated with lovely replies!!!!

She actually is a bit cheeky to even ask, the very best and professional escorts would not dream of such a comment, just as the nicer 'civvie' girls would never ask a man to pay for a holiday.

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Snogman you explain it very well and I agree with just about all you said.

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I was wondering if you guys have ever gone on holiday with an escort (or one of you gals with a client)? Did you enjoy it?

The reason I ask is I've seen the same girl a few times now and mentioned I was thinking of where to go on holiday (going by myself). She made what I thought was a joke that I should take her with me. The next time I visited she mentioned it again with a price (very very reasonable if I understand what these things usually cost although since I'm not rich it's still a lot of money for me, especially when you include flights etc). Now I'm pretty sure I would have an amazing time with her, but then again that is part of the problem, I do really like her and that is something that everyone says to watch out for (doesn't help we are the same age).

So at the moment I'm really not sure what to do. On one hand I really want to do it but on the other are all the "what if" worries.

So have you ever gone through with such an experience? Did you regret it?

Get a girlfriend, seriously man.

Also, why bring an apple to an orchard!

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I'm a bit confused snogman, you pay for sex and you both get what you want so you both go away happy. If she wants an expenses paid holiday and I want her company, what is the difference? Yes it's something that is longer than both a lot of punters and WG's might not want, but as long as we both like it I don't see the difference. I had commented on the fact that planning a holiday alone is much harder than as a couple/group so it wasn't totally out of the blue. I also don't get why you would want to act with an escort, surely part of the appeal is just being able to be yourself without worrying you are going to upset the gf or whatever? Not every WG is going to like give you the best experience then granted, but when you find the right one you get a far better service in my view than you could possibly get having to keep up the "act".

Bobthatcher I don't really want to just go see as many WG's as possible. I prefer to find a girl you like and stick with them until it isn't special any more. The current girl is to me literally the most beautiful woman I have ever met I think (and she'll fit in far better in a hot country than me since I'm totally white while she looks Mediterranean!). Kinda spoils me for “normal” civvie woman lol

I think this has helped me decide that I need to spend more time with her, with more preferably non-sex time to make sure it isn't awkward or anything.

Oh and Podge if I could find the right girlfriend then I would, with work though that has been hard for me recently. Amazing how if you actually go looking for the right girlfriend it suddenly seems much harder than when you just live and act if an opportunity comes up!

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I'm a bit confused snogman, you pay for sex and you both get what you want so you both go away happy. If she wants an expenses paid holiday and I want her company, what is the difference? Yes it's something that is longer than both a lot of punters and WG's might not want, but as long as we both like it I don't see the difference. I had commented on the fact that planning a holiday alone is much harder than as a couple/group so it wasn't totally out of the blue. I also don't get why you would want to act with an escort, surely part of the appeal is just being able to be yourself without worrying you are going to upset the gf or whatever? Not every WG is going to like give you the best experience then granted, but when you find the right one you get a far better service in my view than you could possibly get having to keep up the "act".

Bobthatcher I don't really want to just go see as many WG's as possible. I prefer to find a girl you like and stick with them until it isn't special any more. The current girl is to me literally the most beautiful woman I have ever met I think (and she'll fit in far better in a hot country than me since I'm totally white while she looks Mediterranean!). Kinda spoils me for “normal” civvie woman lol

I think this has helped me decide that I need to spend more time with her, with more preferably non-sex time to make sure it isn't awkward or anything.

Oh and Podge if I could find the right girlfriend then I would, with work though that has been hard for me recently. Amazing how if you actually go looking for the right girlfriend it suddenly seems much harder than when you just live and act if an opportunity comes up!

What is the difference you ask? Oh, about 2 grand all told!!!!!!!!

Trust me, she is trying to get a free holiday out of you, if you dont believe me, ask her for a date! Just a normal non sexual date for the evening. If she loves your company that much, i'm sure she'll say yes, given you may take her on holiday!!!

However, i think you will find she is busier than the prime minister, and her only free time will co-incide with your holiday dates!!!!

There are loads of holidays for single people, i strongly advise you go on one of those, more women tend to go on those as well, you may strike lucky!!

Please dont get sucked in by this escort. A top class escort would never mention it either!

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Snogman you explain it very well and I agree with just about all you said.

:)

Really?

Everything?

Different backgrounds and interests - is that incompatible and just what are those different backgrounds? Lying to each other?

Im surprised Adele. Maybe when im up in the toon watching arsenal I may not make that booking. Cos i dont mix with football mates!

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I'm surprised too, Adele. Everything snogmal1 says? So escorts who fancy accompanying a client on holiday have a 'difference in backgrounds and interests'? I know some who've studied similar subjects to me and have borrowed books of mine (and vice versa!). Once the sex is over, you'll ''struggle'? The bet is that she'll 'act like a spoilt brat'?

There are escorts I'd love to go on holiday with. Though not necessarily for a significant fee. Actually, I go to parties on the continent with an escort - I pay the expenses, she enjoys the weekend. No one's telling the other what they want to hear. And I don't think it's unprofessional.

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Snogman I never suggested she didn't want a free holiday. I know she does! Just that it isn't really any different than a normal longer booking (ie one where you aren't shagging all the time) except in scale.

I guess everyone is different. Some punters and WG's just want a quicky, while others would rather have the time to make a bit of a connection since they feel it makes the time better.

I also don't get the bit when you say all WG's aren't going to have anything in common with the punter and are in a different "circles". They are woman like any other who come from many different backgrounds and have many different interests. In many cases you are probably right. In many cases it won't matter. But in others like odysseus says above, you may be surprised!

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Snogman I never suggested she didn't want a free holiday. I know she does! Just that it isn't really any different than a normal longer booking (ie one where you aren't shagging all the time) except in scale.

I guess everyone is different. Some punters and WG's just want a quicky, while others would rather have the time to make a bit of a connection since they feel it makes the time better.

I also don't get the bit when you say all WG's aren't going to have anything in common with the punter and are in a different "circles". They are woman like any other who come from many different backgrounds and have many different interests. In many cases you are probably right. In many cases it won't matter. But in others like odysseus says above, you may be surprised!

Clearly only you can decide whether its for you or not, when i go on holiday its with family and friends who i know i will have a good time with and can relax and be fully comfortable in their company, as i posted even that can sometimes be hard work. A holiday with a virtual stranger is not my idea of fun even if sex is on offer, i would rather have a wank than do this personally. But, if it suits you i wouldnt be worried about having different backgrounds or interests, you arent getting married so what does that really matter for a temporary period. Enjoy i say.

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Snogman I never suggested she didn't want a free holiday. I know she does! Just that it isn't really any different than a normal longer booking (ie one where you aren't shagging all the time) except in scale.

I guess everyone is different. Some punters and WG's just want a quicky, while others would rather have the time to make a bit of a connection since they feel it makes the time better.

I also don't get the bit when you say all WG's aren't going to have anything in common with the punter and are in a different "circles". They are woman like any other who come from many different backgrounds and have many different interests. In many cases you are probably right. In many cases it won't matter. But in others like odysseus says above, you may be surprised!

If I were living in a parallel universe where there were no offspring I would be in there like Flynn if I knew the client and I were compatible. A free holiday??? Yay!

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I say I agreed with "most" of what Snogman said and two of you then ask if I agree with "EVERYTHING???!!"

Yes I do agree with MOST of what he said. Spending possibly two weeks with someone we have only ever spent an hour or two

at a time with creates a huge gamble that it could turn sour if other factors come into play.

What if.... the conversation dries up and this can happen easily

What if.... other guys and ladies show interest in the client and wg on that sunshine holiday .... a little jealousy can rear it's head

What if.... the lady (and it probably will be the lady) starts to lose enthusiasm for the sex which may not be doing it for her

What if.... the entire holiday... loses it's sparkle in any way at all

The lady has been paid a huge fee plus her holiday expenses all covered.... she wants a great holiday and to ensure the client is

very happy at the end of it.... he wants his money's worth.

It could all go absolutely fabulously well or it could go tits up and they both wish they could cut it short and go their separate ways

all I am saying is that it is a gamble which I am not prepared to take.

I have clients I love spending a couple of hours with but would not want to travel abroad with and be their exclusive companion for a

fortnight.... even if they offered me over and above the fee.

Snogman is perhaps a little cynical here and there but the gist of what he said was in line with my own thoughts.

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I say I agreed with "most" of what Snogman said and two of you then ask if I agree with "EVERYTHING???!!"

Yes I do agree with MOST of what he said. Spending possibly two weeks with someone we have only ever spent an hour or two

at a time with creates a huge gamble that it could turn sour if other factors come into play.

What if.... the conversation dries up and this can happen easily

What if.... other guys and ladies show interest in the client and wg on that sunshine holiday .... a little jealousy can rear it's head

What if.... the lady (and it probably will be the lady) starts to lose enthusiasm for the sex which may not be doing it for her

What if.... the entire holiday... loses it's sparkle in any way at all

The lady has been paid a huge fee plus her holiday expenses all covered.... she wants a great holiday and to ensure the client is

very happy at the end of it.... he wants his money's worth.

It could all go absolutely fabulously well or it could go tits up and they both wish they could cut it short and go their separate ways

all I am saying is that it is a gamble which I am not prepared to take.

I have clients I love spending a couple of hours with but would not want to travel abroad with and be their exclusive companion for a

fortnight.... even if they offered me over and above the fee.

Snogman is perhaps a little cynical here and there but the gist of what he said was in line with my own thoughts.

Agree with much of that Adele but Shogman said a lot more. Not a chance I'd do it, personally

I took issue with the fact that he said interests, backgrounds and lifestyles would necessarily be different and that they wouldnt have anything in common. Why would the wg stiffen up and behave like a spoilt brat if the holiday didnt go ahead? Do a wg and punternet always just say what they think the other wants to hear?

I agree with Odysseus. Lots of wgs Ive met are well educated and most are bright, witty, articulate and interesting. I can name a few who arent, mind!

I wouldnt do it for a variety of reasons but not reasons of background, lifestyles and so on as suggested by Snogman

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I was not agreeing to the suggestion that a wg is intellectually inferior or less educated

than any client (If Snoggie was hinting at that which I am sure he wasn't then he is a very bad man

and should have his legs slapped) I did agree though that the mere fact those two travelling companions

may not have the same interests outside of the bedroom and their opinions may differ

hugely on a host of subjects... could create tension if the wg is constantly trying to please

and does not want to voice her disagreement over her companion's views....

you see.... during appointments we let our clients tell us all kinds of things.... some of which we

are horrified at and we lose our respect in a way.... but we accept that this comes with the job and

we nod or smile in agreement with them. Any wg who denies this is a little fibber I think. On a holiday

however.... it could become a big problem trying to be the people pleaser for two long weeks.

I am going to bow out of this one now :)

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Concur with all the warning given here.

If you still want to do this: build up very very slowly, over months, years.

Start with long overnighters.

Move on to weekends or days-out.

Go very very slowly, and see what happens to the boundaries, the enthusiasm etc.

(alternatively: get a girlfriend, or place an add for "female travel companion" .. )

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A holiday with an escort does take some working out, but can work and does work if some ground rules are in force, I have heard about a guy who goes regularly on holiday/working abroad and takes an escort from time to time, what he does, is to let her have free time for herself, say from 10am, till 5pm, that way he can do what he does, and has the knowledge that he is not going to spend all his time with the escort. so that when he does expect her to be available for dinner, or a club, or a night in, she will appreciate him for having some free time to either shop or sun bathe, or explore the sights.

Their was a bit of trouble once when the escort got friendly with a local and he found out that she was seeing him regularly on the free time she had, it was sorted out on the holiday, but when they returned and went back on the exclusive forum, they quickly fell out with each other over this, and I think he now goes on holiday with escorts, but he stipulates that the escort is not available to have sex with anyone else during the holiday.

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Their was a bit of trouble once when the escort got friendly with a local and he found out that she was seeing him regularly on the free time she had, it was sorted out on the holiday, but when they returned and went back on the exclusive forum, they quickly fell out with each other over this, and I think he now goes on holiday with escorts, but he stipulates that the escort is not available to have sex with anyone else during the holiday.

lol @ the girl double-timing ...

this would turn into a pimp-trip if he started to demand a percentage of her revenue in her spare time.

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lol @ the girl double-timing ...

this would turn into a pimp-trip if he started to demand a percentage of her revenue in her spare time.

The escort in question didnt charge for the guy who she was seeing during the day, it was just a holiday romance for her and she thought it was okay as it was in her free time.....which technicaly speaking it was, the problem was the punter thought she would have eyes only for him.

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