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I am sure this has been discussed before but I have only recently started punting and have had good and not so good experiences

One girl was superb, good vfm, did everything that I liked and wanted. I have seen her again and it was just as good.

BUT

there are so many good looking women out there, and I just want to try them ALL!

so is it better to stick with a girl you like and trust or check out all the rest??

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A personal choice. If it is someone you know, then far less of a gamble. If you have only a 'regular', then beware forming an inappropriate relationship. A mixture of the two suits me but it is very much a personal choice.

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I fully agree with Robert, I have a regular who I see about every two months or so, but then I also see new ladies inbetween those visits. I do travel a lot so that makes choosing new ladies more of a necessity. Research your choices on here and other sites to minimise the risks of a bad punt.

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One other thing to consider, is, when you have a good booking with an escort, check who also has a good time and sends a positive fr, then you know you and they like the same thing, so you can read what other ladies they have seen and are happy with, so many people do frs, that it is easy to see who is like you in terms of likes, and follow their lead for bookings,

If Y likes Z, who you liked, and says that X is also great, then its like a reccomendation...so follow that trail and you should not go far wrong.

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I am sure this has been discussed before but I have only recently started punting and have had good and not so good experiences

One girl was superb, good vfm, did everything that I liked and wanted. I have seen her again and it was just as good.

BUT

there are so many good looking women out there, and I just want to try them ALL!

so is it better to stick with a girl you like and trust or check out all the rest??

This is one of the biggest dilemmas, although it's not such a bad dilemma to be faced with is it? :wub:

In my experience, it actually gets harder the more you punt, especially if like me you research very carefully and therefore the vast majority of your experiences are positive. It's actually harder for a WG to get into your "top 5" or "top 10" because she has to be so much better than most. For me she has to be attractive (although looks are definitely not everything), great in the sack, a lovely person all round and at least make it feel like we "click" together. That's a lot of boxes to tick!

When you meet a WG where everything clicks and she makes you feel like a million dollars then it would be silly not to go back. You want to keep going back because you think "what are the chances of finding another girl this good?". The danger is if you see one girl too often (especially exclusively, i.e. not seeing newbies in between), you can get too attached, emotions start to get involved and you treat the "relationship" as more than just business. I speak from experience, but actually on hindsight it's experience that I wouldn't want to change - I think it's something that all relatively inexperienced punters are likely to go through at some point. I'm now better equipped to "keep it real". For this reason (mainly), whilst I will return to great girls, I don't think I'll ever have a "regular", just in case I get too close again. And believe it or not, you will find another girl just as good and probably better, or "amazing" in a different way.

Also, it pays not to rely too much on one very good provider because inevitably things change - she'll stop working, move away, you'll get bored (or she just won't be quite as "amazing" after a while), etc, etc. Then you'll have to start looking all over again for that next fantastic girl - something I've learned that it would have been good to be doing all along!

Of course, my main limiting factors for this hobby (which will be most people's) are time and budget. I can't get away to punt as often as I would like and my budget is limited. The decision between a great familiar girl and a newbie has to take both these into account. You'll kick yourself for not returning to a fantastic WG when you find out next week she's suddenly disappeared! And l'm punting more now because I have a list of girls I'd see "again" and some newbies I really want to try, and life is short! :P

So my advice to you is keep a balance of both newbies and return visits, within the budget that you can afford. :)

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I am sure this has been discussed before but I have only recently started punting and have had good and not so good experiences

One girl was superb, good vfm, did everything that I liked and wanted. I have seen her again and it was just as good.

BUT

there are so many good looking women out there, and I just want to try them ALL!

so is it better to stick with a girl you like and trust or check out all the rest??

A bit of both works fine. Probably 90% of my punts nowadays are with ladies I have met and have a good time with before, but it is still exciting (if more of a risk) to meet someone new. Of course, all of the ladies I return too were a first time visit at some point!

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I am sure this has been discussed before but I have only recently started punting and have had good and not so good experiences

One girl was superb, good vfm, did everything that I liked and wanted. I have seen her again and it was just as good.

BUT

there are so many good looking women out there, and I just want to try them ALL!

so is it better to stick with a girl you like and trust or check out all the rest??

Easy answer - it isn't dating - its punting. The best part of punting is you can see as many ladies as you like, and if they are any good , and you feel like it -return and if not - move on. Simples :)

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I am sure this has been discussed before but I have only recently started punting and have had good and not so good experiences

One girl was superb, good vfm, did everything that I liked and wanted. I have seen her again and it was just as good.

BUT

there are so many good looking women out there, and I just want to try them ALL!

so is it better to stick with a girl you like and trust or check out all the rest??

Do both, stick with a regular you already know is good or better AND punt with newbies to you, that way you get the best of both worlds in my experiences.

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Easy answer - it isn't dating - its punting. The best part of punting is you can see as many ladies as you like, and if they are any good , and you feel like it -return and if not - move on. Simples :)

But, surely, there is an element of both. One of my first few ladies told me that "even with the young boys, there are only a few minutes of actual intercourse in a booking".

So, there are bound to be intervals of varying degreees of intimacy which are not "just shagging". In my opinion, it is the connection during those intervals which define the chemistry and that is somewhat akin to dating.

Recently, one WG had music on her laptop and I initiated a dance to one of the tracks. It seemed to turn both of us on more than anything which had preceded that moment in that or any of our previous encounters - just magic!

Memo to self: worthy of trying again.

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But, surely, there is an element of both. One of my first few ladies told me that "even with the young boys, there are only a few minutes of actual intercourse in a booking".

So, there are bound to be intervals of varying degreees of intimacy which are not "just shagging". In my opinion, it is the connection during those intervals which define the chemistry and that is somewhat akin to dating.

Recently, one WG had music on her laptop and I initiated a dance to one of the tracks. It seemed to turn both of us on more than anything which had preceded that moment in that or any of our previous encounters - just magic!

Memo to self: worthy of trying again.

Conwy, Sarah never said it was "just shagging" shes said it's punting. There is no element of dating - it's when you feel there is that things get dangerous and complicated!

There is of course much more to a punt than shagging. There's chatting, laughing, kissing, cuddling as well as all the other intimate stuff. With the good punts there is always a certain level of connection, the better the punt the more the connection. But it is not akin to dating, and shouldn't be from either point of view. :)

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there are so many good looking women out there, and I just want to try them ALL!

so is it better to stick with a girl you like and trust or check out all the rest??

I guess the part I've bolded sort of answers your question :D I think it just depends on your personality and what you want to get out of punting. If you want to try lots of different girls, go for it. Doesn't mean you have to stop seeing a regular girl too and you may even find a new reg.

I've been thinking about this myself a bit recently. I remember when I first made the decision to start punting, I was thinking to myself "right I want to try a few different girls - girls of different ethnicity, an 18-21 year old, then maybe a more mature lady in her 40s, a 2 girl". Lots of different experiences.

But then after my first punt, I realised all that chopping and changing wasn't really what I was after. I started doing this because I was terrible around women and had no sexual experience, so I realised I wanted intimacy, just spending time with a woman in that situation and have a bit of a connection. Thankfully the lady I chose is brilliant, I've seen her 4 times and I have a great time. Another advantage of seeing the same person is I don't have to worry about getting nervous at meeting someone new, wondering if we'll get on and even stupid things like will I be able to find her apartment!

But now I'm thinking I should probably try and branch out and see another 1 or 2 girls. As someone else pointed out, I don't want to become too reliant on this one lady because she might move, retire or be unavailable at the times I want. Spending time with more women might help my 'personal development' and make me more confident in social situations, especially around women. Hopefully I can have a group of a few different girls I see regularly. Can't see myself in the near future seeing a new girl almost every time though, just isn't what I'm looking for really.

Every time I write a post on this forum it seems to turn in to an essay :lol:

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I am sure this has been discussed before but I have only recently started punting and have had good and not so good experiences

One girl was superb, good vfm, did everything that I liked and wanted. I have seen her again and it was just as good.

BUT

there are so many good looking women out there, and I just want to try them ALL!

so is it better to stick with a girl you like and trust or check out all the rest??

My immediate thought is why you feel the need to stick when it is clear that you would like to explore further?

So you have in a way answered your very own question.

Either both like Smiths said or just move on altogether. I am not sure about 'sticking solely though', unless there are some other unknown factors that you have not alluded to

Over to you??

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I guess the part I've bolded sort of answers your question :D I think it just depends on your personality and what you want to get out of punting. If you want to try lots of different girls, go for it. Doesn't mean you have to stop seeing a regular girl too and you may even find a new reg.

I've been thinking about this myself a bit recently. I remember when I first made the decision to start punting, I was thinking to myself "right I want to try a few different girls - girls of different ethnicity, an 18-21 year old, then maybe a more mature lady in her 40s, a 2 girl". Lots of different experiences.

But then after my first punt, I realised all that chopping and changing wasn't really what I was after. I started doing this because I was terrible around women and had no sexual experience, so I realised I wanted intimacy, just spending time with a woman in that situation and have a bit of a connection. Thankfully the lady I chose is brilliant, I've seen her 4 times and I have a great time. Another advantage of seeing the same person is I don't have to worry about getting nervous at meeting someone new, wondering if we'll get on and even stupid things like will I be able to find her apartment!

But now I'm thinking I should probably try and branch out and see another 1 or 2 girls. As someone else pointed out, I don't want to become too reliant on this one lady because she might move, retire or be unavailable at the times I want. Spending time with more women might help my 'personal development' and make me more confident in social situations, especially around women. Hopefully I can have a group of a few different girls I see regularly. Can't see myself in the near future seeing a new girl almost every time though, just isn't what I'm looking for really.

Every time I write a post on this forum it seems to turn in to an essay :lol:

I felt exactly the same when I started. I was lucky with my first experience, she was lovely, but unfortunately geography prevented a repeat visit. My next WG was decidedly average. My next was fantastic, and then stopped working :( The next was even better, and I though much the same as you, why keep looking for someone new when this one's so great? But you know, this isn't dating, there's no need to be "faithful" and new experiences are what it's all about.

Metropolis I really strongly suggest you don't get too reliant on this one girl, very few escorts do this as a long term career in my experience (although I know some do) and you'll be lost when she quits. Seeing new girls will also help your confidence no end, it did me. Occasional repeat visits to the great girls you meet are a great idea because you're more comfortable and know you'll have a good time, but variety is the spice in this game in my opinion! :)

Having said that, one of my all time favourite girls has just started working again (she works intermittently) and I have a booking pending. I cannot wait - she's the most fun I've ever had with my clothes off :wub:

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But, surely, there is an element of both. One of my first few ladies told me that "even with the young boys, there are only a few minutes of actual intercourse in a booking".

So, there are bound to be intervals of varying degreees of intimacy which are not "just shagging". In my opinion, it is the connection during those intervals which define the chemistry and that is somewhat akin to dating.

Recently, one WG had music on her laptop and I initiated a dance to one of the tracks. It seemed to turn both of us on more than anything which had preceded that moment in that or any of our previous encounters - just magic!

Memo to self: worthy of trying again.

As long as you have boundaries, you can see who you like as many times as you like, and if you do have a regular and then see other ladies, she will not be offended anyway - it's a win-win situation. Boundaries....

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Dear Sarah,

Yes, you are right. I have boundaries, see more than one lady and our discussions are open enough for me to be able to discuss such things.

Several of the ladies I have met know each other pretty well. One said "You should see Roxxy, she is much more beautiful than X or me." I haven't, because I do not punt that often and I have enough variety in my tiny set to keep me occupied when I do. I have suggested that two of my WG friends might meet each other and discovered that one knows the lady of the Roxxy quote quite well. That places quoted lady in the position of knowing 6 of the WG's I have met! The dance idea will have to be with a different lady, since my dancing partner is retiring. I feel happy for her and wish her well.

So, my experience is that everything moves on, which is a common theme in this world of punting. That must be considered as a positive and emotionally healthy for everyone.

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Conwy, Sarah never said it was "just shagging" shes said it's punting. There is no element of dating - it's when you feel there is that things get dangerous and complicated!

There is of course much more to a punt than shagging. There's chatting, laughing, kissing, cuddling as well as all the other intimate stuff. With the good punts there is always a certain level of connection, the better the punt the more the connection. But it is not akin to dating, and shouldn't be from either point of view. :)

Conwy, Sarah never said it was "just shagging" shes said it's punting. There is no element of dating - it's when you feel there is that things get dangerous and complicated!

There is of course much more to a punt than shagging. There's chatting, laughing, kissing, cuddling as well as all the other intimate stuff. With the good punts there is always a certain level of connection, the better the punt the more the connection. But it is not akin to dating, and shouldn't be from either point of view. :)

I agree, but there is nothing wrong with just wanting a shag only either, thats down to the individual punter and what he wants. If a quicky which arent my bag he might not wish to do much talking, just a shag and leave. ;)

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I agree, but there is nothing wrong with just wanting a shag only either, thats down to the individual punter and what he wants. If a quicky which arent my bag he might not wish to do much talking, just a shag and leave. ;)

Oh Smiths. Do try a quicky some time. The sheer naughtiness of it so adds to the excitement.

what have you to lose?

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Oh Smiths. Do try a quicky some time. The sheer naughtiness of it so adds to the excitement.

what have you to lose?

round here about £60

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I have never seen anyone more than twice. As it's not a relationship - I do find there are limitations on having a regular and to compensate for that I personally need the excitement of a shag with someone new. I usually find the first time is the best - and after that there's a downhill slope till you plateau. Still - if you get that buzz each time with a regular then it's good for you.

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round here about £60

ouch!

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Thanks so much for all the feedback on this topic - glad i posted it.

And much good advice. I guess that I will go for the 'both' option. Return regularly to the favourite but test the water constantly for new faces and new experiences.

Punting is an expensive game and I don't want to spend loads on a disappointment, so will take the good advice to follow punters whose FRs I trust and reflect my own likes and dislikes.

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As the posts suggest...it's horses for courses. No right or wrong answer. When I saw a lot of WG I tried as many as possible where field reports intrigued me. But I also had about 3/4 who I knew I would have a great time with so visited them more often. Currently I can only meet about once a month due to finances and due to issues with hardness etc it's good to meet someone who knows what I need for a successful visit. But many years ago I really got a kick out of exploring new people!!

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My immediate thought is why you feel the need to stick when it is clear that you would like to explore further?

So you have in a way answered your very own question.

Either both like Smiths said or just move on altogether. I am not sure about 'sticking solely though', unless there are some other unknown factors that you have not alluded to

Over to you??

Only punting with one WG can work as a punting mate of mine has proved to me, he gets all he wants sexually from her and sees no point in going elsewhere, whereas a main reason i punt is because of the variety it offers. In my experiences punts with a good or better regular can get better and better as she gets to know what i like sexually and exactly how i like it, but i will always get bored sooner or later. ;)

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Thanks so much for all the feedback on this topic - glad i posted it.

And much good advice. I guess that I will go for the 'both' option. Return regularly to the favourite but test the water constantly for new faces and new experiences.

Punting is an expensive game and I don't want to spend loads on a disappointment, so will take the good advice to follow punters whose FRs I trust and reflect my own likes and dislikes.

Good luck and have fun. :)

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I started off my 'career' very much looking for variety, but I have settled down with a couple of favourite regulars.

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