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Worried About Scams

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Been bit of a lurker on here so first time posting. Thinking about going for it and done my research but still put off by being scammed or worse.

Any advice to safeguard would be appreciated?

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I'd look for a lady on the fr's who has at leat 3 FR's. Or an established parlour, again with recent FR's. If they are dodgy then they wont have FR's.

but to be honest in 4 and a half years doing this never had a problem, so relax and enjoy

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Parts of the Industry are different so its worth doing some research first. Parlours can offer a walk up service where you choose when you arrive and Agencies offer a choice of girls by appointment only. Its worth asking lots of questions when you call and any genuine receptionist will be helpful in giving you a better idea of what to expect.

Chloe x

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Covp gives good advice, he is a wise man! Read fr's and go for it.

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Contact one of our active forum lady members, most of them will have contact/website details in there Punternet profiles, just click on her name, or use the Service announcement board, Service provider database or tour caliender, all can be found at the bottom of the page, as can the field report section.

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Going with established names is a safe start.

But if you venture onwards in this Adult World, be prepared to have a few duds: no-shows, bait-n-switch, pump-n-dump, sudden-menstruations, lost-drivers, broken-phones, bad-tempers...

it happens. you learn.

Stay careful, and you will not risk life and limb or even ID.

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Been bit of a lurker on here so first time posting. Thinking about going for it and done my research but still put off by being scammed or worse.

Any advice to safeguard would be appreciated?

I used to worry about the same. Due to meticulous research, mainly thanks to this site, I've never been scammed in 2 years of punting, worst I've had is a couple of girls from the other site who are nothing like their photos/profiles. It gets easier with experience. If someone has multiple good FR's on here, or even if an agency has consistently good FRs, or there's a few regular posters saying good things about a provider you're unlikely to go far wrong.

And remember one of the basic rules of life - if it seems like it just might be too goo to be true, it probably is! :)

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Going with established names is a safe start.

But if you venture onwards in this Adult World, be prepared to have a few duds: no-shows, bait-n-switch, pump-n-dump, sudden-menstruations, lost-drivers, broken-phones, bad-tempers...

it happens. you learn.

Stay careful, and you will not risk life and limb or even ID.

Never experienced this in many yrs. I only see indie girls with their own websites not just on the other site, with a proven track record and Frs. Never done a parlour or agency. I only feel comfortable talking to the girl directly with no 3rd parties, receptionists, maids etc involved. The worst i've had is she maybe a little plumper or older than fotos but as long as they are genuine fotos that doesnt bother me. I was asked to pay a depo recently and send a foto. Not a fucking chance.

But thats just me and isnt a criticism of other methods including the purple site

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Found a couple of independents so just need to take the plunge!

Hopefully they're not duds or the law

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I think the police have better things to do than lure men who buy sex :huh:

Go with your gut :)

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I think the police have better things to do than lure men who buy sex :huh:

Go with your gut :)

And to what end would they lure them?

"You there! Yes, you, man about to buy some sex! Did you know you're about to do something completely legal? You did? Carry on then."

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Found a couple of independents so just need to take the plunge!

Hopefully they're not duds or the law

I presume by "The Law" you mean the police?

Why would they be there?You aren't going to be doing anything illegal?Well unless you are going to kerb crawl or hire someone who is underage or who has been forced by a third party?

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Been bit of a lurker on here so first time posting. Thinking about going for it and done my research but still put off by being scammed or worse.

Any advice to safeguard would be appreciated?

Research, and if your not sure than dont book her.

Before the days of pnet, I usually booked an outcall to the hotel. They didnt have FRs. Cos I can easily leave the hotel and forgot all trace of the punt behind me

If you punt wth the expectation of being scammed, plan for it.

Dont take more money than agreed. (or hide the rest somewhere)

If shes not the girl in the profile then run or tell her to leave, now!.

Personally thou, in 10 years of punting, ive never been scammed. There have been girls who were crap, or girls who were obviously photod when they were in a good light but thats punting..

Start looking through the girls that advertise where you want to punt and then start looking for feedback, asking on here if need be... I still do..

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Found a couple of independents so just need to take the plunge!

Hopefully they're not duds or the law

You don't say what part of the country you are based in. If you tell us I'm sure someone will pop up with more region-specific advice.

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Due to meticulous research, mainly thanks to this site, I've never been scammed in 2 years of punting

No. You've never been scammed because it's very uncommon. I've been punting frequently for over a decade in multiple countries, the girls I see rarely have any reviews, I'm almost never put off by dodgy-sounding places or people, and I've never had any trouble to speak of.

And remember one of the basic rules of life - if it seems like it just might be too goo to be true, it probably is! :)

As I've said before, in my experience if a WG seems too good to be true, she quite often just is that good :)

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Been bit of a lurker on here so first time posting. Thinking about going for it and done my research but still put off by being scammed or worse.

Any advice to safeguard would be appreciated?

I'm afraid there's just no way to make sure you'll get scammed. To have any chance you're really going to have to work hard. Book in at least three sessions a week, and be ready for the long haul: you'll be at it for decades before you strike lucky. Definitely seek out the most desperate obvious drug users you can find. In fact you shouldn't be on this forum as you should be looking for street walkers. Obviously stuff your wallet with extra cash and leave it lying around. Insult every WG you meet, never take a shower again, and generally behave like an asshole. The best bet is probably to search PN for the badduns. Even then, I don't know.

When it happens of course, that lost 100 quid will mean your life is over. Probably you'll cause the greenhouse effect to bubble over and destroy the world too.

Seriously, screw your head back on and start worring about Hepatitis B and C. Get a hep B vaccine. Understand you might get Hep C - there's no vaccine. And start worrying about the money and the time and getting psychologically dependent on it. Getting scammed? Nope.

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I think the police have better things to do than lure men who buy sex :huh:

Go with your gut :)

This is not the USA

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I think the police have better things to do than lure men who buy sex :huh:

Mind you, these two weeks of the olympics are the one time I'm giving parlours in particular a wide steer. This is the sort of time when police chiefs come under pressure from politicians to do things that all sides know are stupid, except the public (and maybe the politicians, if they fooled themselves too).

And with elected police chiefs coming, there'll be more of that for sure.

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Mind you, these two weeks of the olympics are the one time I'm giving parlours in particular a wide steer. This is the sort of time when police chiefs come under pressure from politicians to do things that all sides know are stupid, except the public (and maybe the politicians, if they fooled themselves too).

And with elected police chiefs coming, there'll be more of that for sure.

they will be under pressure about drunken yobs, not a few parlours

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And to what end would they lure them?

"You there! Yes, you, man about to buy some sex! Did you know you're about to do something completely legal? You did? Carry on then."

Brilliant!

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Research, and if your not sure than dont book her.

Before the days of pnet, I usually booked an outcall to the hotel. They didnt have FRs. Cos I can easily leave the hotel and forgot all trace of the punt behind me

If you punt wth the expectation of being scammed, plan for it.

Dont take more money than agreed. (or hide the rest somewhere)

If shes not the girl in the profile then run or tell her to leave, now!.

Personally thou, in 10 years of punting, ive never been scammed. There have been girls who were crap, or girls who were obviously photod when they were in a good light but thats punting..

Start looking through the girls that advertise where you want to punt and then start looking for feedback, asking on here if need be... I still do..

Good advice but i would advise sticking to Incalls as thats the easiest walking scenario. I have been scammed, the last time a couple of years ago by a couple of English scumbags in Hatfield. They were sneaky and smart enough to be as nice as pie right up until i handed my cash over.

As you say research helps and as the OP has found this site it can help, post a thread up looking for recommendations in his punting area is my advice to him.

NEVER think with your dick, its what all bad SPs rely on the punter doing, instead use your real brain and walk if necessary. Also put scams into perspective, you would be unlucky to get scammed but that research reduces the chances further, but nothing is guaranteed.

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Been bit of a lurker on here so first time posting. Thinking about going for it and done my research but still put off by being scammed or worse.

Any advice to safeguard would be appreciated?

What exactly do you mean by being 'scammed'? Do you mean getting a crap service i.e not the things on the 'enjoys' list? If so, there is nothing you can do, even girls with lots of good FB may not be in the mood for CIM for eg. at that moment in time, but you can't say you were scammed, which i used to count as a scam, but now i'm wiser appreciaate that if a girl has drunk 3 guys cum before me, she may not be able to stomach any more!!

If you mean turning up and girl is nothing like the pictures then the obvious advice is to not go ahead, but this easier said than done if you are really horny, i have fallen fould of this a few times, but now haave found a solution, ALWAYS have a reserve girl you could see, so effectively find two girls nearby and ask the 'reserve' if she takes short notice bookings. That way, if the first girl is nothing like photos you can walk and call the other girl. If the reserve is also not like her photo's, it's not your day, best just watch some porn and try again next week!!

If you mean bait and switch, which is where girl you think you are seeing takes your money and says she will be back, but a different girl enters the room saying other girl had an emergency (happened to me when i was less exprerienced) then you have two options: 1) ask for your money back, dont leave until it is returned and get nasty if need be or 2) fuck the girl who has entered the room for alot longer than time booked. If she says anything, remind her she tried scamming you so two can tango! That way you kind of leave on even terms.

However, bait and switch should never occurr if you research, girls with good FB will not bait and switch, good parlours that are established will not dare do it.

As for a girl just disappearing with your money, i dont see how that can happen. If you meet at a hotel, that is impossible obviously, if you meet at an incall place that is equally impossible as you wouldn't leave until you got your money back.

So, as i say, i dont really understand what you mean by scamming, it should not happen now you are on thiss site as people like me haave warneed you of potential pitfalls.

SO QUIT WORRYING, RESEARCH AND ENJOY!!

Edited by snogman1

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