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First Overnighter Cold Feet

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I recently posted about a planned overnight stay with a WG that I met recently.

After talking to a guy via pm that said it can be hard getting back to a normal routine after spending a long time with a WG, i've decided that its not for me. And after another not so good punt with her last night it's help me make up my mind.

She was as friendly as usual, greeted me with a peck on the lips & we chatted for a bit before going to the bedroom but it wasn't as good as the last time & her owo was great as usual, but I was put off a bit when we got down to it and because she was really wet & tight I finished a bit quicker than I wanted to, probably because I haven't cum for a few days, she came before me but after we had finished and laid there talking she said she hoped I could last a bit longer when we spend the night together, talk about a mood killer.

Then the conversation drifted onto how much she was charging me & that she was fine with the agreed amount because she said she likes me, but she also said she should really be charging at least £400, I already know the going rate which I can't afford, but i'm not the one that started this whole thing about sharing a night together, i've never considered an overnighter with a WG simply because I can't afford it & it makes me feel bad because I can't afford more than the price she said.

After we got dressed she needed to nip to the shop & I offered to take her, everything was fine until we got travelling and she put her hand on my leg and started stroking it, then she put her hand on my hand as i was changing gear & then as she got out of the car at the shop she leaned over and gave me a proper kiss, nice thing to do but those are the sort of the things that I would only do with a GF and not a WG, maybe I would have felt more comfortable if I had known her longer but i've only known her for just over a week.

Does she like me or is just an act, why all the touching and trying to hold my hand, any advice for a very confused guy?

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Yeah , Don't look a gift horse in the mouth . What is wrong with you man ,

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If you're having cold feet, you might ask to keep your socks on.

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After we got dressed she needed to nip to the shop & I offered to take her, everything was fine until we got travelling and she put her hand on my leg and started stroking it, then she put her hand on my hand as i was changing gear & then as she got out of the car at the shop she leaned over and gave me a proper kiss, nice thing to do but those are the sort of the things that I would only do with a GF and not a WG, maybe I would have felt more comfortable if I had known her longer but i've only known her for just over a week.

Does she like me or is just an act, why all the touching and trying to hold my hand, any advice for a very confused guy?

If was surprised for what you called a "proper kiss" from WG, hence I can't see that you was ready for an overnight with her anyway.

I am glad that she is at least established more decent rate for an overnight, as £150 seemed so low, and if any guy going to accept it, it will be certainly taking the advantage of the woman who are not exactly thinking clearly. (especcially with a guy who she only met once or twice before). Even purely social meeting for duration of 10-12 hours would not be charged as such rates.

As for "stroking your hand" (which is nothing unusual at all): she probabaly still hoping that you going to re-consider, and book her for an overnight for £400. Obviosly mistakenly so, and her "GF like efforts" were wasted.

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Actually, her comments about you lasting a bit longer weren't very kind and her mentioning the price after she agreed it is a bit tacky. If as you say she suggested it then she shouldn't moan about it now, especially in such a passive aggressive way!

I don't blame you for getting cold feet. I have no idea why she became affectionate towards the end- maybe she felt bad, maybe she really needs your business and despite agreeing to such a low overnight booking she resents it?

However, if you are likely to come quickly its helpful to tell a girl to slow things down- a good escort will do that to ensure your session lasts and I'm slapping you on the wrist for complaining she was wet and tight. Who wants a loose dry lady?!

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agree with WP and LL here....seems all a bit mixed up - no wonder you're confused me laddo

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Just walk away.

You are now expressing doubts, so go with your gut instinct.

Time to move on to the next lady possibly.

Lucy :)

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I recently posted about a planned overnight stay with a WG that I met recently.

After talking to a guy via pm that said it can be hard getting back to a normal routine after spending a long time with a WG, i've decided that its not for me. And after another not so good punt with her last night it's help me make up my mind.

She was as friendly as usual, greeted me with a peck on the lips & we chatted for a bit before going to the bedroom but it wasn't as good as the last time & her owo was great as usual, but I was put off a bit when we got down to it and because she was really wet & tight I finished a bit quicker than I wanted to, probably because I haven't cum for a few days, she came before me but after we had finished and laid there talking she said she hoped I could last a bit longer when we spend the night together, talk about a mood killer.

Then the conversation drifted onto how much she was charging me & that she was fine with the agreed amount because she said she likes me, but she also said she should really be charging at least £400, I already know the going rate which I can't afford, but i'm not the one that started this whole thing about sharing a night together, i've never considered an overnighter with a WG simply because I can't afford it & it makes me feel bad because I can't afford more than the price she said.

After we got dressed she needed to nip to the shop & I offered to take her, everything was fine until we got travelling and she put her hand on my leg and started stroking it, then she put her hand on my hand as i was changing gear & then as she got out of the car at the shop she leaned over and gave me a proper kiss, nice thing to do but those are the sort of the things that I would only do with a GF and not a WG, maybe I would have felt more comfortable if I had known her longer but i've only known her for just over a week.

Does she like me or is just an act, why all the touching and trying to hold my hand, any advice for a very confused guy?

I think you have got cold feet because you are allowing someone else to influence your thoughts.

She sounds really nice to me - especially the wet and tight bit........... sounds like you won the lottery there !

I would say to put this off for a while and maybe do it when you feel a little less doubtful. I can't see what she did wrong to be honest.

Talking about something usually takes two people doesn't it?

At the end of the day you are the paymaster. Take your time, maybe see other girls and then decide?

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An overnighter is nothing like a 30-60 minute booking, and if you dont see eye to eye with her over the booking you had, then the overnighter at £150 is not going to make you feel great, as you will know that she should be charging £400.

You have to feel comfertable with the escort to spend so much time with her, I would suggest you just see her the way you are, and think later about the £150 overnight booking.

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I recently posted about a planned overnight stay with a WG that I met recently.

After talking to a guy via pm that said it can be hard getting back to a normal routine after spending a long time with a WG, i've decided that its not for me. And after another not so good punt with her last night it's help me make up my mind.

She was as friendly as usual, greeted me with a peck on the lips & we chatted for a bit before going to the bedroom but it wasn't as good as the last time & her owo was great as usual, but I was put off a bit when we got down to it and because she was really wet & tight I finished a bit quicker than I wanted to, probably because I haven't cum for a few days, she came before me but after we had finished and laid there talking she said she hoped I could last a bit longer when we spend the night together, talk about a mood killer.

Then the conversation drifted onto how much she was charging me & that she was fine with the agreed amount because she said she likes me, but she also said she should really be charging at least £400, I already know the going rate which I can't afford, but i'm not the one that started this whole thing about sharing a night together, i've never considered an overnighter with a WG simply because I can't afford it & it makes me feel bad because I can't afford more than the price she said.

After we got dressed she needed to nip to the shop & I offered to take her, everything was fine until we got travelling and she put her hand on my leg and started stroking it, then she put her hand on my hand as i was changing gear & then as she got out of the car at the shop she leaned over and gave me a proper kiss, nice thing to do but those are the sort of the things that I would only do with a GF and not a WG, maybe I would have felt more comfortable if I had known her longer but i've only known her for just over a week.

Does she like me or is just an act, why all the touching and trying to hold my hand, any advice for a very confused guy?

If you like her speak to her and ask her these questions is my advice, at least then you willl hopefully know where you stand. On the cost front she quoted this price to you freely so nothing for you to concern yourself about, her decision to do so after all, as an adult she can quote whatever price she likes.

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Thanks for the replies guys, that's hit the nail on the head, I think maybe that's why i'm unsure about staying overnight with her because I haven't known her very long. Fair enough about the money because at the end of the day she is a WG, but why agree one price & then try for more, I was honest with her and told her that I don't have a good paying job & really can't afford anymore than what we agreed, we talked on the phone last night about the money & she said she's happy because she enjoys what she does & that I treat her better than other punters.

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If you have to ask questions like this on a board, you shouldn't be seeing her again. Confusion & stress is for 'real' relationships. Part of what you're paying for is to avoid such things.

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Surely if she"s happy with &150,then give her that,but if yourconsciene is pricking you,maybe give her a extra donation

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If you want to keep encounters simple you go for a short time have fun and then bok the next time, longer bookimgs can become a bit complicated and take away the detached feeling you like.

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Not much point in me trying her - I only last 1 minute tops

 

if she wants a long shag she should ask her boyfriend - you are the customer and you can cum in 1 second if you want as you pay the price to cum when you want

that's what I pay for - not having to hang on for grim death while she gets her thrills

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I think you have got cold feet because you are allowing someone else to influence your thoughts.

She sounds really nice to me - especially the wet and tight bit........... sounds like you won the lottery there !

I would say to put this off for a while and maybe do it when you feel a little less doubtful. I can't see what she did wrong to be honest.

Talking about something usually takes two people doesn't it?

At the end of the day you are the paymaster. Take your time, maybe see other girls and then decide?

Have to agree with this,Everything seemed to be going great until you spoke to someone.i don't get the back to a normal routine part just from an overnight,but whatever theyve said seems to have put you off

For the lasting longer part i wont comment on as without hearing the tone it was said in it cold just have been taken out of context..From all this i'd normally say i agree with the gift horse statements etc,However,you asking if she really does like you etc it may be best you cancelled

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It's almost a year since the overnighter, why add a reply after all this time?

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It's almost a year since the overnighter, why add a reply after all this time?

You'll have to ask 

 

djs43862 

 

he resurrected both your threads.

 

Others will perhaps not have noticed the date of earlier posts.

 

Now I've read it all without noticing the dates myself, are you happy to say how it resolved itself?

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This thread is almost 12 months old, interesting resurrection. :D

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This thread is almost 12 months old, interesting resurrection. :D

Ironic thing is that your doing a "promotion" & charging "special" rates for overnights :P

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For the record, I would only see my escort if the disposable income would allow.

 

If she wanted to offer a similar deal as the OP, I wouldn't feel guilty as it's her decision and her time. (£150 overnight yes please)

 

As the OP had only seen her for a week, I should imagine she liked you enough to try and see you on a regular basis and had tried to set her rates to accomodate you. ;)

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Not much point in me trying her - I only last 1 minute tops

 

if she wants a long shag she should ask her boyfriend - you are the customer and you can cum in 1 second if you want as you pay the price to cum when you want

that's what I pay for - not having to hang on for grim death while she gets her thrills

Agree. You're paying after all. I am happy if the wg has a good time too, but it's not my number one concern.

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So did you end up marrying her or what? did she really like you or was she just buttering up a potential long term customer?

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Just no getting through to some people, this thread was started a year ago & It's been a year since we spent the night together. I no longer see the lady mentioned & I gave her £150 plus a tip for the overnight & if you've read my other posts you'll see that the overnight didn't go to plan, but just for the jury i'll refresh your memories.

 

See here http://www.punternet.com/forum/index.php/topic/25896-failed-first-overnight/

 

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Just no getting through to some people, this thread was started a year ago & It's been a year since we spent the night together. I no longer see the lady mentioned & I gave her £150 plus a tip for the overnight & if you've read my other posts you'll see that the overnight didn't go to plan, but just for the jury i'll refresh your memories.

 

See here http://www.punternet.com/forum/index.php/topic/25896-failed-first-overnight/

 

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Sounds on balance ok-ish. Can understand not seeing her again though.

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