snogman1

3sums Overrated?

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I have had a few 3sums, and although i have had fun as the chemistry was there with the girls, i have enjoyed seeing the same girls individually far more as i feel in a 3sum under pressure to give same attention to both girls and naturally sometimes with one girl i just feel that bit more passionate towards during that session, but feel i cant really get stuck in for a while as the other girl would be feeling left out.

Is this a common problem? Or is there a way to play the 3sum game?

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you need to find 2 girls where the chemistry is just right

personally i adore 3somes and if i could afford it, many of my punts would be MFF, or even MFFF

as you'll find from reading posts on here, theyre not for everyone, but i absolutely love 'em

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I know exactly what Snogman is saying here and have often felt the same way - however as Bill says when you find a couple where the chemistry is right (or they are actually willing to provide a session along the lines of how you want it to go) it will certainly hit the spot.

Communication is always the key - but sometimes girls just say they will do X, Y or Z just to get the booking then dont do what you want and you dont always want to come across like a director in porn movie - but rather it naturally just happen along the lines you outlined in the first place.

If you ever find yourself in Bangkok - you must try the Eden Club - those lasses in there will certainly change any mans mind on 3sums!

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As long as they're getting paid, I wouldn't worry too much about the lady not getting all your attention being upset at being left out ;)

I'm sure she's doing just fine!

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I totally agree with the OP but I find that a nice compromise is to have the fun element of a 2-girl for about 10 mins at the beginning and then continue with an intimate one-to-one. But not all parlours offer this; it's either all or nothing.

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What about an FMM threesome. Anyone tried it?

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I think with the threesome it's each to their own. I remember clearly my first one many years ago, where the two girls quite literally blew me away. In the interim years I have had mixed results. I spent a couple of hours with a couple of great looking girls in Manchester, who made it clear that they were not bi and would not interact with each other before we started. This believe it or not was a very satisfactory arrangement as I was the sole focus of their attention and in my opinion it was money well spent. I have also had some fairly lack lustre performances fro. girls who operate from flats in Glasgow, who do it just to attract the punters. I think it's like most aspects of punting, you win some you lose some

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Id add, if in doubt, go Thai

I've only ever had FFM 3somes with Thais, and they've always been outstanding

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If I could afford em i'd post me opinion

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I have had a few 3sums, and although i have had fun as the chemistry was there with the girls, i have enjoyed seeing the same girls individually far more as i feel in a 3sum under pressure to give same attention to both girls and naturally sometimes with one girl i just feel that bit more passionate towards during that session, but feel i cant really get stuck in for a while as the other girl would be feeling left out.

Is this a common problem? Or is there a way to play the 3sum game?

I punt to suit me so i am not worried about one of the two being left out, she is still getting paid. The thing with MFF 3somes is what you are after, is it a lesbian show or just them concentrating on you, its always the latter for me nowadays as i greatly dislike seeing girl-on-girl. This makes choosing a bit easier because some WGs are gay for pay only and i can tell that from them. Its all about researching the WGs and at least punting with one of the two first in my view.

Unless you are lucky its not just a case of putting any 2 WGs together, its better if they know each other and even better if they work together a bit or a lot in my experience, some research is the key.

I have certainly found it the case especially with EE WGs that one is inhibited by the presence of her colleague/friend, embarrassment usually, not something i want in a punt, and sometimes one takes the lead very much while the other does not a lot. When this happens i have a polite word as to what i require which i would of already got confirmation its on offer when booking and again in person before i handed my cash over, but they might need reminding.

So not overrated if you find 2 WGs who work well together, overrated if you dont. Still better than a MMF in my opinion though where you have punters rubbing out with bullshit excuses leaving me to pick up the pieces of their copping out. So much so that i dont do them anymore, apart from at parties.

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What about an FMM threesome. Anyone tried it?

Yes many, there are a number of billy bullshit merchants who have been members on here that have made an excuse on the day of the punt leaving me to explain to the WG that he wont be coming. These guys are arseholes, with a rub-out percentage of 75% or so i dont believe for a second they ALL had a last minute emergency, more like bottled out. Best to be sure before committing yourself to such a punt in my view as the WG is likely to be not too happy which does me no favours. Plus i was pig in the middle between a punter and a WG, both forum members once where she said the punter had done CIM with her that he knew she didnt offer and what did i see, i saw nothing as i wasnt watching what they were doing at that time, caused a lot of arguments on here at the time and elsewhere. The lesson was choose the other guy very well.

Irrelevant to me nowadays anyway as apart from at parties i dont bother with MMF anymore. :)

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What about an FMM threesome. Anyone tried it?

Yep, twice

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Always found them to be hard work, and a blow to my ego (not superego) that I am not the stud I thought I was :unsure:

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I've had a fair number of MFFs, several MMFs, an MFT and a MTT. They can all be hit and miss. I find it is best when the other two know each other and where you have met at least one of them individually before so there is some familiarity there but the big danger then is of the two falling into a set routine and ignoring your particular needs and preferences. So if I had to set one rule to get the best out of a threesome it would be that you have to take charge. You don't have to start bossing people around, just make sure you take charge, make sure the action is the action you want, the pace the pace you want and so on. Even that won't guarantee a great experience only improve the odds - but then there are no guarantees in punting, that's why it's called punting.

Edited by DanLeno

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Male, Female, Transsexual.

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What about an FMM threesome. Anyone tried it?

No, doesnt appeal

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Male, Female, Transsexual.

Oh you brought back a memory there Dan!

My first week as independent was amazing. I had a MFT session and

it was a lot of fun!

(I was the F by the way :P )

Unfortunately the M ..... who was the instigator of the arrangement ... was so

high on white sniffy stuff he was unable to rise to the occasion but everything else

was a hoot! A toot hoot in fact!

(I may add that he was the only one partaking in the coke) :)

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I keep having dreams about MFT 3 sums....

If you enjoy 3sums then relax and don't worry about being 'up to it' though I'd make sure the girls you book are into it/each other and not just gay for pay. ;)

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Had 2....both were sensational fun...

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Each to their own. I've had a few MFF appointments; some have been disappointing, whereas some have been out of this world. If you find a couple of girls that do it for each other as well as you, enjoy it before one or both retire or move on!

First post btw...glad to have your acquaintance!

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Each to their own. I've had a few MFF appointments; some have been disappointing, whereas some have been out of this world. If you find a couple of girls that do it for each other as well as you, enjoy it before one or both retire or move on!

First post btw...glad to have your acquaintance!

Welcome to the forum Kodiak. :) They dont even need to do it for each other with me as i dont require any girl-on-girl just them concentrating on me. ;)

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Cheers mate...christ, 13,000+ posts! How long has this forum been going?!

But I have to say there's nothing quite like two ladies really into each other... :P

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Cheers mate...christ, 13,000+ posts! How long has this forum been going?!

But I have to say there's nothing quite like two ladies really into each other... :P

Years, but i have been a member for nearly 4. I feel deeply nauseus when seeing girl-on-girl nowadays which happens at parties sometimes where its popular with most punters, i go and have a break. ;)

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Parties...never tried them. I think I'd be too self-conscious about other chaps and I'm sure there's loads of etiquette that I'd have not the slightest knowledge of.

I had a GF a long time ago that was very accommodating in the bedroom but reacted similarly when she saw two girls together if we were watching a blue movie...as with everything, each to their own.

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