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I have been invited to a black tie posh industry dinner event in late Sept and I need to find a date. As of now, I don't have one and have begun to entertain the idea of taking an escort with me. However, I was hoping to find someone who is not going to be recognisable from a web site as there is nothing worst then some smug git showing you that your date is an escort on his mobile phone in front of your peers and someone who looks like they would be my plausible date. I have been to a few dinners where it looks so obvious the guy is paying for her company.

I would ideally like her to be English or central European as language and etiquette is important. I would appreciate any recommendations,

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I have been invited to a black tie posh industry dinner event in late Sept and I need to find a date. As of now, I don't have one and have begun to entertain the idea of taking an escort with me. However, I was hoping to find someone who is not going to be recognisable from a web site as there is nothing worst then some smug git showing you that your date is an escort on his mobile phone in front of your peers and someone who looks like they would be my plausible date. I have been to a few dinners where it looks so obvious the guy is paying for her company.

I would ideally like her to be English or central European as language and etiquette is important. I would appreciate any recommendations,

I think you will have to choose very carefully but why discount an Asian girl?

What you may lose in language, you may gain;

Acceptability as she will have very good etiquette.

Very unlikely to leave you embarrassed.

Will disarm most men in the room.

The women will easily accept that you have met her on a dating site, especially if you are older.

Book whoever you choose for a few "dates" beforehand so that you can get some common knowledge, familiarity and get the "story" straight.

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Asian girls are always my first choice. I would be very happy to, but I have found that many have limited English. If I could find a asian girl (asian meaning oriental or indian) who could converse well, I'd be just as happy.

I think you are right about having a few dates first.

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Just my take on it. Personally i would be so worried to bring an escort to a social event with people I knew that I wouldn't be able to enjoy it, I mean won't people ask how you guys met?, How long you've been dating? If you do go you guys would need to go through some kind of back story right?

If possible and you can't find a real date, why don't you go on your own? Come into the venue in your tuxedo and make a bee line for the bar. Chat to the lady bar tender or the single female hosts. That's what James Bond would do...

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Asian girls are always my first choice. I would be very happy to, but I have found that many have limited English. If I could find a asian girl (asian meaning oriental or indian) who could converse well, I'd be just as happy.

I think you are right about having a few dates first.

I know a couple with great English but have no way to contact them, sorry.

Personally I find that poor English with a nice Asian girl is a little charming and because of their polite and demure nature people are more understanding and patient.

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Just my take on it. Personally i would be so worried to bring an escort to a social event with people I knew that I wouldn't be able to enjoy it, I mean won't people ask how you guys met?, How long you've been dating? If you do go you guys would need to go through some kind of back story right?

If possible and you can't find a real date, why don't you go on your own? Come into the venue in your tuxedo and make a bee line for the bar. Chat to the lady bar tender or the single female hosts. That's what James Bond would do...

Hi willsmith, I may still do that. I have not made a decision yet. I was only entertaining the idea. however, sadly I am not as suave as Bond :)

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Just find a girl who doesn't have face pics, there's a lot of us on the purple site who don't show our faces or distinguishable marks. :)

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Hi willsmith, I may still do that. I have not made a decision yet. I was only entertaining the idea. however, sadly I am not as suave as Bond :)

IMO you need to know the WG quite well and have punted with her a number of times to consider this. I wouldnt do it as i punt for sex only but my advice is be very careful who you choose. :)

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Hi willsmith, I may still do that. I have not made a decision yet. I was only entertaining the idea. however, sadly I am not as suave as Bond :)

You are James Bond, from this minute on, you are James Bond, think of me as Q.

Now Mr Bond, I don't really think that hiring an escort is a good idea unless you know her, it seems you only want to do that because you want to appear kosher in front of a few people, who you really dont care too much for. Is it a crime to be single these days? You don't need a woman to have fun or a good time. Paying money for sex /pleasure, that's fine, I don't really see the point of paying money to create such a mirage.

IMO You are much better off going on your own. All the couples will be there they will look at you for a second and raise their eyebrows and then do exactly nothing. The men will be scampering round listening to their significant others whining at them about their high heels and how they need to leave early to prepare for the Saturday morning trip to Ikea to buy the new Nobu range kitchen worktops. With everyone all coupled up you will also be free to chat up all the lovely barmaids and hostesses while the other guys stare secretly l wishing they were you.

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Just wondering if you absolutely need to have sex at the end of the night, if not, why not ask for an escort that doesn't offer sex? A friend of mine does this (not in England though) and she often gets invited to company dinners and is used to playing the 'how did I meet George - well, we both reached for the last tub of Ben and Jerry's ice cream at ASDA a few weeks ago, it's all very new' game. She will meet a client beforehand and talk through a few facts but at the event she tends to mostly ask people to talk about themselves, which everyone loves doing, don't they? Definitely never been paid for sex and no intention of changing that - even if her clients seem to see that as a challenge.

Just an idea.

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Yeah I have to admit to being confused about this one myself. If its a work related do, (you say its 'industry') wouldnt the risk that she might say something to raise suspicions she's an escort be a risk too far? Im assuming that the last thing you want to be thought of by your work colleagues is the perv that has to pay someone to come along with you to a do.

Whats your intention here? Are you trying to raise your social status amongst the alpha males in your work circle. If so it seems a strange way of going about it and certainly a risky one. She's obviously going to be attractive otherwise why pick an escort? and therefore an object of interest to the male contingent at the party so at some point shes going to converse with people there and unless you gaffer tape her to your side, there's always the chance that some of it will be out of your earshot. Someone is going to get her alone at some point, maybe while she's nipping to the toilets and quiz her about your relationship. Wont that end up just being stressful?... hardly the best way to enjoy yourself at the party is it?

Personally I would try and quiz any female freinds you have. Sisters etc and see if they might want to attend with you or reccomend someone who would. Alternatively there's always wingwoman.co.uk who could do it as as a service. It would certainly end up cheaper than hiring an escort and if you are after a leg over you could always book someone for that afterwards!...

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Just wondering if you absolutely need to have sex at the end of the night, if not, why not ask for an escort that doesn't offer sex? A friend of mine does this (not in England though) and she often gets invited to company dinners and is used to playing the 'how did I meet George - well, we both reached for the last tub of Ben and Jerry's ice cream at ASDA a few weeks ago, it's all very new' game. She will meet a client beforehand and talk through a few facts but at the event she tends to mostly ask people to talk about themselves, which everyone loves doing, don't they? Definitely never been paid for sex and no intention of changing that - even if her clients seem to see that as a challenge.

Just an idea.

But don't we always just pay for time and companionship anyway?-)

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Thanks everyone. I actually decided to just go on my own aka Mr Bond lol. The thought of anyone knowing that I brought a WG to an event would seriously affect my career.

My reason for thinking about doing this is very simple. Some alpha males at these events have made pretty awful remarks dressed in a thinly veiled comments\jokes to me (in front my bosses) about my apparent inability to bring a date on numerous occasions. Sadly, bludgeoning them to death with a baseball bat in the car park while their very attractive date watches is not an option. Every so often I just want to say fuck you. They have no idea how their comments grind people down and affect someone self confidence.

The best way I can describe these people is to think of that wanker Jeff from peep show.

Anyhow, apologies for the expletives and I really appreciate everyone's help

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Bobsam sounds like you probably do need the wingwoman service.

Sounds like you could do with scoring points over those twats and maybe getting the chance to reinforce your confidence as part of the process.

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Thanks everyone. I actually decided to just go on my own aka Mr Bond lol. The thought of anyone knowing that I brought a WG to an event would seriously affect my career.

My reason for thinking about doing this is very simple. Some alpha males at these events have made pretty awful remarks dressed in a thinly veiled comments\jokes to me (in front my bosses) about my apparent inability to bring a date on numerous occasions. Sadly, bludgeoning them to death with a baseball bat in the car park while their very attractive date watches is not an option. Every so often I just want to say fuck you. They have no idea how their comments grind people down and affect someone self confidence.

The best way I can describe these people is to think of that wanker Jeff from peep show.

Anyhow, apologies for the expletives and I really appreciate everyone's help

If they are making snide remarks about you then an escort is a no-no. These people seem to lack respect so they will have no probs asking your wg date about you, in fact i'm sure bringing a pretty lady along they will want to know all about her, and will probably keep going on about it after you leave.They will be asking who is she? and later on if you are still together, if you say no they will just say you couldn't hold onto her, so I think its a lose lose situation.

If they are doing more than just ribbing, then just ignore them. Personally if I'm in this situation and friends rib me I 'djust say to them "No, I'm a loser no woman would want to go with me " and then smile. That difuses any arguement or joke or snide remark they might have. Plenty of guys have trouble finding a date, don't take it so seriously.

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If they are making snide remarks about you then an escort is a no-no. These people seem to lack respect so they will have no probs asking your wg date about you, in fact i'm sure bringing a pretty lady along they will want to know all about her, and will probably keep going on about it after you leave.They will be asking who is she? and later on if you are still together, if you say no they will just say you couldn't hold onto her, so I think its a lose lose situation.

If they are doing more than just ribbing, then just ignore them. Personally if I'm in this situation and friends rib me I 'djust say to them "No, I'm a loser no woman would want to go with me " and then smile. That difuses any arguement or joke or snide remark they might have. Plenty of guys have trouble finding a date, don't take it so seriously.

Some people are very good at avoiding stuff like this, and often women don't actually get asked that much especially if you just take a back seat. I've been out socially with real male-friends in a variety of situations, they've started on their tales of 'important' things and it's acceptable even expected for the ladies to just nod along. Don't worry I'm not a downtrodden wall flower, far from it on my own stomping ground I stand my own quite well and any male companion takes a back (supportive) seat. It's just about the right behaviour in the right place.

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Some people are very good at avoiding stuff like this, and often women don't actually get asked that much especially if you just take a back seat. I've been out socially with real male-friends in a variety of situations, they've started on their tales of 'important' things and it's acceptable even expected for the ladies to just nod along. Don't worry I'm not a downtrodden wall flower, far from it on my own stomping ground I stand my own quite well and any male companion takes a back (supportive) seat. It's just about the right behaviour in the right place.

yes but he has to pay hundreds of pounds for that "privilege", hardly fun is it.

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Mate, life is too short to hang around with wankers, and these people sound like wankers. Just don't fucking go. And don't make up an excuse either, just tell em you don't want to go. I almost never socialise with people I work with, it is always dreadful and I always end up upsetting somebody (too gobby)

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Mate, life is too short to hang around with wankers, and these people sound like wankers. Just don't fucking go. And don't make up an excuse either, just tell em you don't want to go. I almost never socialise with people I work with, it is always dreadful and I always end up upsetting somebody (too gobby)

Sensible post here , even if a bit direct , Pol Pot , I salute you.

Just go on your own , these events are not compulsory that you take a lady are they ? Have the confidence to go alone and book to see an escort after the show . just my opinion .

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Sensible post here , even if a bit direct , Pol Pot , I salute you.

Just go on your own , these events are not compulsory that you take a lady are they ? Have the confidence to go alone and book to see an escort after the show . just my opinion .

He has already posted he is going alone WP. Sometimes for career progression you have to go to such events or lose out on promotion so if me i wouldnt just say i wasnt going and let these arseholes win. :)

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Sensible post here , even if a bit direct , Pol Pot , I salute you.

Just go on your own , these events are not compulsory that you take a lady are they ? Have the confidence to go alone and book to see an escort after the show . just my opinion .

Thanks everyone. That's exactly what I am going to do. Once again, I really appreciate the support from my fellow posters.

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