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Had an enjoyable session tonight,plenty of GFE and at the end thought ooh ooh,was the rubber still on,as I climaxed I had that sensation that you have when you climax without a rubber on.As I expected the johnnie had stayed inside the girl when I withdrew,she seemed unconcerned about the event,as she said the sperm was inside the rubber,however I wonder if she knew it had came off when we were making love.Wonder if I need to get a check up or put it down to an experience which was nice and go with the flow on this one.Your thoughts would be useful on this one.As a punting experience it was one of the best I've had.

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Get yourself to a GUM clinic. You can't be too careful. You might be lucky but there is a chance that you may not.

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Had an enjoyable session tonight,plenty of GFE and at the end thought ooh ooh,was the rubber still on,as I climaxed I had that sensation that you have when you climax without a rubber on.As I expected the johnnie had stayed inside the girl when I withdrew,she seemed unconcerned about the event,as she said the sperm was inside the rubber,however I wonder if she knew it had came off when we were making love.Wonder if I need to get a check up or put it down to an experience which was nice and go with the flow on this one.Your thoughts would be useful on this one.As a punting experience it was one of the best I've had.

This can happen if you do not withdraw very soon after you have cum. If you stay inside the girl afterwards and then withdraw, the contents inside of the condom can sort of lubricate your cock and it slides out leaving the condom in situ. I would not worry - especially if the girl said it was fine, but there is always the safety of clinic as has been suggested.

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It has happened to me, and I'm sure has happened to others also. More than likelt nothing to worry about but to completely put mind at ease it's not a great pain making an appointment at the GUM clinic, or your doc can refer you.

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Get yourself to a GUM clinic. You can't be too careful. You might be lucky but there is a chance that you may not.

This has happened to me and i went to the GUM, as you say you cant be too careful. I was negative fortunately.

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Had an enjoyable session tonight,plenty of GFE and at the end thought ooh ooh,was the rubber still on,as I climaxed I had that sensation that you have when you climax without a rubber on.As I expected the johnnie had stayed inside the girl when I withdrew,she seemed unconcerned about the event,as she said the sperm was inside the rubber,however I wonder if she knew it had came off when we were making love.Wonder if I need to get a check up or put it down to an experience which was nice and go with the flow on this one.Your thoughts would be useful on this one.As a punting experience it was one of the best I've had.

Accidents happen.

I imagine she acted unconcerned whilst she was with you as to not upset you.

She probably trotted off to the GUM clinic though as soon as she could after the event, just in case.

Lucy :)

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I agree with everyone else. It's just one of those things, but you really should pop to the GUM just to be on the safe side.

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Cheers guys,thanks for the info and I will get a check-up to make sure things are okay

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Had an enjoyable session tonight,plenty of GFE and at the end thought ooh ooh,was the rubber still on,as I climaxed I had that sensation that you have when you climax without a rubber on.As I expected the johnnie had stayed inside the girl when I withdrew,she seemed unconcerned about the event,as she said the sperm was inside the rubber,however I wonder if she knew it had came off when we were making love.Wonder if I need to get a check up or put it down to an experience which was nice and go with the flow on this one.Your thoughts would be useful on this one.As a punting experience it was one of the best I've had.

I seriously doubt she knew the condom had come off but is probably a true professional so knows to act calmly when things go wrong because its already happened, you cant undo it so what is the point in freaking out in front of the client and freaking him out too. She was probably just attempting to make sure you didnt panic. I suspect that after you left she probably did have her own private freak out and called her local sti clinic for the first check up she can get. If you freak out then the guys gets insulted and thinks you are assuming he has an sti which never leads to a comfortable end of booking.

I always find it hard to understand though how a guy can carry on fucking a girl when the condom has come off, how can you not feel the difference?

As to getting checked, you should be getting checked every few months anyway even if things dont go wrong in a booking as its silly to assume the onus is ONLY on the girl to get checked , so many times I have been asked if im regularly checked and i said of course, as I was when working, unfortunatley when i then asked the guy the same thing it was only a minority who said yes, the usual response was no, i always have protected sex, errrr, i just sucked your willy without a condom, you stuck your fingers inside me then licked them..hint!!! YES you should now get checked.

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leave it 14 days before going to the clap clinic. that allows any infection to show on tests. I believe they dont test for infections but for antibodies. and they take a while to be created.

don't take my word for it. ask the clinic.

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leave it 14 days before going to the clap clinic. that allows any infection to show on tests. I believe they dont test for infections but for antibodies. and they take a while to be created.

don't take my word for it. ask the clinic.

This is true. You need to leave it a couple of weeks and then get checked.

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I seriously doubt she knew the condom had come off but is probably a true professional so knows to act calmly when things go wrong because its already happened, you cant undo it so what is the point in freaking out in front of the client and freaking him out too. She was probably just attempting to make sure you didnt panic. I suspect that after you left she probably did have her own private freak out and called her local sti clinic for the first check up she can get. If you freak out then the guys gets insulted and thinks you are assuming he has an sti which never leads to a comfortable end of booking.

I always find it hard to understand though how a guy can carry on fucking a girl when the condom has come off, how can you not feel the difference?

As to getting checked, you should be getting checked every few months anyway even if things dont go wrong in a booking as its silly to assume the onus is ONLY on the girl to get checked , so many times I have been asked if im regularly checked and i said of course, as I was when working, unfortunatley when i then asked the guy the same thing it was only a minority who said yes, the usual response was no, i always have protected sex, errrr, i just sucked your willy without a condom, you stuck your fingers inside me then licked them..hint!!! YES you should now get checked.

I dont trust anyone outside a relationship enough to take their word they get checked out, they might or might not but its not a fact thats provable so i look after my own sexual health. The onus is on the individual to look after themselves in my opinion, and never take within punting a WGs or punters word EVER.

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leave it 14 days before going to the clap clinic. that allows any infection to show on tests. I believe they dont test for infections but for antibodies. and they take a while to be created.

don't take my word for it. ask the clinic.

This is true. You need to leave it a couple of weeks and then get checked.

That's interesting, had no idea. If the body is produding antibodies then wouldn't it follow that the infection would eventually clear up? Obviously HIV attacks the immune system, so that would be different, but as we know STI not treated can persist and cause all sorts of problems.

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.... to completely put mind at ease it's not a great pain making an appointment at the GUM clinic....

I hear this often and disagree. I do find it a pain to visit the GUM clinic and have not been to one in the UK for a while. First is the walk in nature of the visit. With no allotted time you never know how long you have to wait and normally there is a long queue of people. Then there is the lack of discreetness. The moment you arrive there it is clear that you are there due to concern for some sexual diseas. It would be embaressing to bump into someone you know. Then there is the unsavory nature of the some of the charactors who attend. All and all, I find it a dreadful experience and one I wish to avoid in the UK.

Few years back. the local hospital had a GUM section which provided great service. You would make an appointment and arrive at the right time to be seen. You would sit in a general waiting area waiting to be called with no one would know ahy you were there. Everything was done with great efficiency. Sadly the section was closed down.

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Had an enjoyable session tonight,plenty of GFE and at the end thought ooh ooh,was the rubber still on,as I climaxed I had that sensation that you have when you climax without a rubber on.As I expected the johnnie had stayed inside the girl when I withdrew,she seemed unconcerned about the event,as she said the sperm was inside the rubber,however I wonder if she knew it had came off when we were making love.Wonder if I need to get a check up or put it down to an experience which was nice and go with the flow on this one.Your thoughts would be useful on this one.As a punting experience it was one of the best I've had.

I'm a little puzzled here. Are you saying you felt it had come off during sex and you were aware of it but continued? And that the wg assumed, understandably, that it had just come off during withdrawal? Or do you think it may have come off during withdrawal, as well?

I always, always, hold the condom at the base when I withdraw so there is no chance of it coming off accidentally on withdrawal. My regs know I always do this and dont hold it themselves.

Fortunately, Ive never had one come off during sex (too tight - ha ha!) or burst.Tthere was a thread about one bursting a while ago and the girl (parlour) hit the roof

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Well Fred, I personally wouldn't be any more embarressed bumping into someone at a GUM clinic than I would be bumping into them at the dentist. Maybe I have a bout of thrush and dont want to wait 3 days for a doctor's appointment.

All a visit to a GUM clinic implies is that I have had sex with someone, and am a responsible person who takes care of my sexual health. I can understand it being very different for someone who is married, or in a monogamous relationship though.

Funnily enough, my last visit, the nurse said 'it's really responsible of you to come regularly, well done'. I found that quite odd to be honest, the implication was that a lot of people are too shy, too ashamed to attend, which is really, really desperately sad. If you have sex with more than 1 person, if you are not totally monogamous, there is ALWAYS a risk. It doesn't mean you are dirty or a bad person if you pick up an infection. It's just a disease process which can be treated, like tonsillitis, or a stomach bug. Obviously, people with a bit of sense work within their margins to reduce the risk, but its always there.

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Well Fred, I personally wouldn't be any more embarressed bumping into someone at a GUM clinic than I would be bumping into them at the dentist. Maybe I have a bout of thrush and dont want to wait 3 days for a doctor's appointment.

Forgive me but I beg to differ and I do differentiate between paying a visit to the gum clinic and to the dentist. One is a clear sign of having a tooth problem and the other a sign that you have put your dick somewhere you should not have.

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Forgive me but I beg to differ and I do differentiate between paying a visit to the gum clinic and to the dentist. One is a clear sign of having a tooth problem and the other a sign that you have put your dick somewhere you should not have.

I think what she was trying to say was that there's nothing about going to a GUM clinic that says you put your little man where you shouldn't have, just that you had got some use out of it. A lot of people visit a GUM clinic regularly just for peace of mind or because they might be promiscuous, not everybody at a GUM clinic is there because they have something to do with the sex industry. They let normal people in as well, it's very nice and inclusionistic (I'm not even sure if that's a real word but I like it) There's no big sign over the door saying people who pulled with 2 different blokes or girls down the club on saturday night come through the Winner Door, everyone else crawl in shame down the corridor to the Prostitution Wing.

People go there for many different things and I'm sure that most people there are too busy minding their own business to be looking around at everyone else and playing the 'wonder what he/she's got game'

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But both potetially involve putting something bad

in your mouth.

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I think what she was trying to say was that there's nothing about going to a GUM clinic that says you put your little man where you shouldn't have, just that you had got some use out of it. A lot of people visit a GUM clinic regularly just for peace of mind or because they might be promiscuous, not everybody at a GUM clinic is there because they have something to do with the sex industry. They let normal people in as well, it's very nice and inclusionistic (I'm not even sure if that's a real word but I like it) There's no big sign over the door saying people who pulled with 2 different blokes or girls down the club on saturday night come through the Winner Door, everyone else crawl in shame down the corridor to the Prostitution Wing.

People go there for many different things and I'm sure that most people there are too busy minding their own business to be looking around at everyone else and playing the 'wonder what he/she's got game'

Punters and prostitutes are normal people too. I am not a teenager and discreetness is critical for me and no doubt many other punters.

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But both potetially involve putting something bad

in your mouth.

Yes but I am sure you have never visited a dentist just because you sucked someone's cock, have you?

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Yes but I am sure you have never visited a dentist just because you sucked someone's cock, have you?

No but by visiting the gum clinic you are not showing yourself to be irresponsible, you are proving that you are actually the opposite

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No but by visiting the gum clinic you are not showing yourself to be irresponsible, you are proving that you are actually the opposite

What is the matter with you guys?

Showing to whom? What do I care what the general public thinks? I do however care if an aquaintance of my Mrs sees me visiting the GUM clinic. Is it so hard to understand? Should I draw a picture?

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I go to various GUMs and feel zero embarrassment, i couldnt care less what a stranger might think, and havent seen people i know. Sometimes there are queues, sometimes not i have found, but like the Dentist i dont particularly like going but its necessary to me so i go.

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What is the matter with you guys?

Showing to whom? What do I care what the general public thinks? I do however care if an aquaintance of my Mrs sees me visiting the GUM clinic. Is it so hard to understand? Should I draw a picture?

go to one some way away from home then.

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