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First-time Punt Advice

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Hi guys (and gals), yet another newbie here, although I've been lurking for some time researching as much as possible to build up the info (and guts!) I need to take the plunge and enter the mysterious world of punting. Has to be said this forum is a gold mine for information, your work is very appreciated. Anyway, just a couple of questions I havent really been able to find the answers to on here, if any of you can help...

Is it best for a first-time punt to book a lady who specifically states on her profile that she is good with newbies? My top choices are unavailable over the next couple of weeks by the look of it (trust me to schedule my debut punt during holiday season) and the other ladies on my list dont mention on their profile that they're good with newbs. It's not a deal breaker for me but I know I'll be pretty nervous so would it be wiser to seek out a lady who specifies she's good with newbies?

Also (and this is a classic naive newbies' question, but please bear with me) - do first impressions count for the lady? I'm planning an incall with an indie and would rather not get all done up in a suit for the 'occasion', especially if it's hot. I'd feel more comfortable meeting the lady in (smart) jeans and a nice t-shirt. But from some of the threads on here I get the feeling the success or otherwise of the punt can depend a lot on how you initially come across, and I'm worried if I'm too casually dressed it'll give the 'wrong' impression.

Any help/advice would be appreciated guys. And hopefully if I can get over the initial nerves and take the plunge, I might even be posting here quite often :)

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If you want recommendations, then I sugest you say which area you are looking at, and then we might be able to put forward a few names.

Smart jeans and a tee shirt are okay, politeness matters more than the clothing though.

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Smart jeans and a tee shirt are okay, politeness matters more than the clothing though.

and being clean...

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Yes, ...and being clean. Look on the SAAFE board (for escorts) and you can see how much escorts (rightfully) hate dirty men.

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Hi guys (and gals), yet another newbie here, although I've been lurking for some time researching as much as possible to build up the info (and guts!) I need to take the plunge and enter the mysterious world of punting. Has to be said this forum is a gold mine for information, your work is very appreciated. Anyway, just a couple of questions I havent really been able to find the answers to on here, if any of you can help...

Is it best for a first-time punt to book a lady who specifically states on her profile that she is good with newbies? My top choices are unavailable over the next couple of weeks by the look of it (trust me to schedule my debut punt during holiday season) and the other ladies on my list dont mention on their profile that they're good with newbs. It's not a deal breaker for me but I know I'll be pretty nervous so would it be wiser to seek out a lady who specifies she's good with newbies?

Also (and this is a classic naive newbies' question, but please bear with me) - do first impressions count for the lady? I'm planning an incall with an indie and would rather not get all done up in a suit for the 'occasion', especially if it's hot. I'd feel more comfortable meeting the lady in (smart) jeans and a nice t-shirt. But from some of the threads on here I get the feeling the success or otherwise of the punt can depend a lot on how you initially come across, and I'm worried if I'm too casually dressed it'll give the 'wrong' impression.

Any help/advice would be appreciated guys. And hopefully if I can get over the initial nerves and take the plunge, I might even be posting here quite often :)

From my perspective as the person on the other side of the door, I like a man with fresh breath and someone who smells clean and fresh. After that - I don't care what you are wearing or if you have one eye and a hump on your back. If you have fresh breath, you will enjoy so much more - the lady will be far more willing to kiss IMHO

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A lot of ladies will be accustomed to newbies, and indeed, many prefer them, as they tend to be very sweet and gentle men. Additionally, there's the job-satisfaction of getting to see someone's confidence grow during the appointment and perhaps during subsequent appointments.

If the lady you'd like to see doesn't mention on her profile that she welcomes newcomers, then email her to ask and explain your situation. I bet she'll be fine with it, but you'll hopefully be reassured.

I don't think it matters particularly what you wear as long as it isn't too scruffy. Casual but clean (and no stubble, short nails etc) makes a better impression on me than smelly in a suit!

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Wear whatever is comfortable for you. I wore a suit for my first (I was wearing it anyway as I was on works time :huh:) and a few since but I'm much more comfortable in jeans and a T-shirt. You aren't there to impress with your style and joie de vivre. So long as you're polite and don't smell like a hippy's armpit you will most certainly 'pull'.

Good luck with the nerves.

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Hi guys (and gals), yet another newbie here, although I've been lurking for some time researching as much as possible to build up the info (and guts!) I need to take the plunge and enter the mysterious world of punting. Has to be said this forum is a gold mine for information, your work is very appreciated. Anyway, just a couple of questions I havent really been able to find the answers to on here, if any of you can help...

Is it best for a first-time punt to book a lady who specifically states on her profile that she is good with newbies? My top choices are unavailable over the next couple of weeks by the look of it (trust me to schedule my debut punt during holiday season) and the other ladies on my list dont mention on their profile that they're good with newbs. It's not a deal breaker for me but I know I'll be pretty nervous so would it be wiser to seek out a lady who specifies she's good with newbies?

Also (and this is a classic naive newbies' question, but please bear with me) - do first impressions count for the lady? I'm planning an incall with an indie and would rather not get all done up in a suit for the 'occasion', especially if it's hot. I'd feel more comfortable meeting the lady in (smart) jeans and a nice t-shirt. But from some of the threads on here I get the feeling the success or otherwise of the punt can depend a lot on how you initially come across, and I'm worried if I'm too casually dressed it'll give the 'wrong' impression.

Any help/advice would be appreciated guys. And hopefully if I can get over the initial nerves and take the plunge, I might even be posting here quite often :)

Welcome to the forum wallofsound. :) Others have answered your questions very well in my view. I would advise posting a thread up on the Requests For Information board asking for recommendations in your punting area for WGs who punters know have punted with newbies and its gone well. Explain what type of WG you fancy and hopefully you will get some good responses.

On the clothes front i usually punt dressed casually, its being clean and respectful having the agreed fee that is important not what you wear assuming you dont like a tramp. Nerves are normal, take a deep breath and think of the fun to be had. Good luck and enjoy yourself. :)

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Welcome to the forum wallofsound. :) Others have answered your questions very well in my view. I would advise posting a thread up on the Requests For Information board asking for recommendations in your punting area for WGs who punters know have punted with newbies and its gone well. Explain what type of WG you fancy and hopefully you will get some good responses.

On the clothes front i usually punt dressed casually, its being clean and respectful having the agreed fee that is important not what you wear assuming you dont like a tramp. Nerves are normal, take a deep breath and think of the fun to be had. Good luck and enjoy yourself. :)

this is the most important bit of advice!!!

i dont dress specially for a punt. I have turned up in a suit (just been for interview!) work clothes (trousers and shirt and tie) casual (jeans and short sleeved shirt) and last week when it was hot and sticky, in shorts and a tee shirt. Which was nice cos she was wearing shorts too- not for long tho!

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Thanks for the replies everyone. I'm okay for reccos as I've done a lot of research on here and have a fairly solid shortlist of suitable ladies who come highly recommended by guys on here who clearly know their stuff - it's just that the only ones on my list who are available at present dont specifically state they are 'good with newbies'. But what the heck, sounds like I just need to go for it.

And thanks for the advice re appropriate dress too, that's set my mind at ease a bit. Don't think I'd go so far as turning up in shorts though - coventrypunter is a brave man!

The ladies on this thread make an interesting point about smell, which brings me to another question - aftershave: yay or nay?

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.... Don't think I'd go so far as turning up in shorts though - coventrypunter is a brave man! ....

only done it with girls i have seen before.

one other thing which you may have picked up from opther threads. Have a plan B. The best laid plans go awry, so consider having details of girls nearby who you could see if plan A gies wrong.

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1: Wait for one of your top choices to become available.

2: Jeans and shirt are fine.

3: The most important piece of advice quite simply is: Just do it. You'll be shitting bricks but just pick up the phone and do it.

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The ladies on this thread make an interesting point about smell, which brings me to another question - aftershave: yay or nay?

Don't put it on your nether regions... it takes the lining off the roof of my mouth :)

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Best to wear what you feel comfortable in as otherwise you won't be able to relax and enjoy yourself. As long as you're clean, polite and friendly, I don't think any lady will have a problem with you. It is definitely worth making some contact beforehand and telling her a little about yourself first as this will break the ice and help her prepare the session that will work for you. I am sure all girls are very used to first timers. My first few experiences were utterly nerve racking but almost without exception the girls I saw were very understanding.

Above all the key to a great time is being honest about what you like / don't like, open about your personality, being friendly and sharing a few smiles and laughs before you get going. Taking a small gift is nice, some flowers or a bottle of wine or something like that.

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1: Wait for one of your top choices to become available.

No dice. I've been 'waiting' (ie fannying around trying to talk myself into it) for way too long, it's become a now or never situ! Was planning on a debut punt at easter but on that occasion my top choice wasnt available (as it turned out, from subsequent research on here I managed to dodge a bullet cos a few of you guys weren't too impressed with her). I can only punt when I'm on a break from work so really it's gotta be in the next two weeks.

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Some ladies may not specifically state 'newbies' because unfortunately some can abuse that title. It's also impossible for a WG to often tell if a guy is a newbie or not, many don't say so, others freely admit "Look I'm going to be a bit difficult!". Most WGs have experience of those new to the activity, and even more so thanks to the wider accessibility the internet has brought to the scene. For some reason there are guys out there who think girls are only interested in seeing 'experienced' men. The reality and truth is probably a little different!

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Sorry for jumping in, what length of booking would you guys recommend for the less experienced punter?

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Sorry for jumping in, what length of booking would you guys recommend for the less experienced punter?

There will be a range of answers to this. Personally I would go for at least 45 minutes - 1 hour, just so that you can settle into the experience; otherwise it could all go past in bit of a blur. Some will recommend a shorter time, in case things don't go well, but if you do your research and are upfront about your inexperience, things should be fine! All the best and have fun!

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Sorry for jumping in, what length of booking would you guys recommend for the less experienced punter?

An hour, but of course that is influenced by my own preferences after finding shorter didnt suit ME. Bearing in mind nerves and what they might do i think an hour initially is best, the OP can always adjust that if he finds it doesnt suit him.

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Sorry for jumping in, what length of booking would you guys recommend for the less experienced punter?

For me, it depends what mood I am in, sometimes a wham bham thank you mam 30 minute visit to a parlour is enough, but usually an hour with an indie is my preference - my first punt, many years ago, was an overnighter - big mistake - I was too nervous to really relax into the punt.

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An hour, but of course that is influenced by my own preferences after finding shorter didnt suit ME. Bearing in mind nerves and what they might do i think an hour initially is best, the OP can always adjust that if he finds it doesnt suit him.

takes a few punts to get the feel of how long you want to book for. It all depends on the punter.

And a few years down the road you may like to revisit and change how you punt. or even mix and match quickies and longer ones. I do some hours when i fancy a relaxing session. half hours when time is tight (Like lunch hours from work!) and a quickie when i fancy the sheer naughtiness of a no-nonsense fuck with a girl with the same filthy mind!

but hour is good for the first few. not rushed, not so long that you are hanging around waiting for your time to finish!

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Hi guys (and gals), yet another newbie here, although I've been lurking for some time researching as much as possible to build up the info (and guts!) I need to take the plunge and enter the mysterious world of punting. Has to be said this forum is a gold mine for information, your work is very appreciated. Anyway, just a couple of questions I havent really been able to find the answers to on here, if any of you can help...

Is it best for a first-time punt to book a lady who specifically states on her profile that she is good with newbies? My top choices are unavailable over the next couple of weeks by the look of it (trust me to schedule my debut punt during holiday season) and the other ladies on my list dont mention on their profile that they're good with newbs. It's not a deal breaker for me but I know I'll be pretty nervous so would it be wiser to seek out a lady who specifies she's good with newbies?

Also (and this is a classic naive newbies' question, but please bear with me) - do first impressions count for the lady? I'm planning an incall with an indie and would rather not get all done up in a suit for the 'occasion', especially if it's hot. I'd feel more comfortable meeting the lady in (smart) jeans and a nice t-shirt. But from some of the threads on here I get the feeling the success or otherwise of the punt can depend a lot on how you initially come across, and I'm worried if I'm too casually dressed it'll give the 'wrong' impression.

Any help/advice would be appreciated guys. And hopefully if I can get over the initial nerves and take the plunge, I might even be posting here quite often :)

Most important aspect of the entire punt is speaking to the girl beforehaand on the phone. You can tell alot from a couple of minutes talking on the phone. If she is friendly, listening to what you are saying, asks a bit about you and is cheerful and makes you enjoy talking to her, you will have a wondeful time. If the lady seems rushed, answers questions with blunt yes or no answers, or sounds knackered or like she has just woken up despite it being mid-afternoon, i'd advise to steer clear!!

But you must speak on the phone first, and get a feel for her, as the best escorts like to do as well when screening clients.

As for clothes, it is utterly irrelevant. Some of my best punts have been when i turned up in baseball cap and track suit, in fact, all my best punts strangely i think have been when i was in sportswear, alot of my bad ones were when i was in a suit. Obviously probably a weird co-incidence, but my point is, it doesnt matter what you wear, as others have said, being clean and polite is the main thin. Oh, one last thing, in my experience the best escorts do not ask for the money at any stage, when i was inexperienced some only asked right at end of punt as i was at door with a polite 'have you forgot something', which i genuinely had done as it felt like a one day stand, not a business transaction, so good were the services i received. However, what i have found is if you give the money to the girl at start without being prompted (forget putting in a white envelope), and haave a bit of fun with it like place it in her knickers or bra, i have always received a cheeky giggle, the ice is suitably broken, and it seems to really settle the girl down and put her in a naughty mood and a very dep french kissing session is started by WG as they get quite horny by the cheekinesss.

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However, what i have found is if you give the money to the girl at start without being prompted (forget putting in a white envelope), and haave a bit of fun with it like place it in her knickers or bra, i have always received a cheeky giggle, the ice is suitably broken, and it seems to really settle the girl down and put her in a naughty mood and a very dep french kissing session is started by WG as they get quite horny by the cheekinesss.

I'd describe this sort of thing as an advanced punting technique and wouldn't advise a first timer who probably has little experience with women and is as nervous as hell to try it. Best to just be yourself, as long as that includes polite, clean and respectful.

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Just thought I'd bump this thread for a couple of reasons.

One was to say a big thanks to everyone on here for their advice, and the excellent reccos in the reccos threads. I finally got round to breaking my punting duck today and it was a fantastic experience - six hours later I'm still floating on air! This was in no small part to the excellent advice and tips to be found on this forum. Now all I need to do is start working through the rest of my list so I can hopefully contribute more than grovelling requests for info :)

Also thought it worth bumping for any lurkers out there who are doing what I was doing six months ago: trawling through threads for helpful info. Cos there's a lot of what you need to know in this one.

Thanks again guys and gals.

(God that makes me sound like Jimmy Savile - and no one needs that these days....)

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Most important aspect of the entire punt is speaking to the girl beforehaand on the phone. You can tell alot from a couple of minutes talking on the phone. If she is friendly, listening to what you are saying, asks a bit about you and is cheerful and makes you enjoy talking to her, you will have a wondeful time. If the lady seems rushed, answers questions with blunt yes or no answers, or sounds knackered or like she has just woken up despite it being mid-afternoon, i'd advise to steer clear!!

But you must speak on the phone first, and get a feel for her, as the best escorts like to do as well when screening clients.

As for clothes, it is utterly irrelevant. Some of my best punts have been when i turned up in baseball cap and track suit, in fact, all my best punts strangely i think have been when i was in sportswear, alot of my bad ones were when i was in a suit. Obviously probably a weird co-incidence, but my point is, it doesnt matter what you wear, as others have said, being clean and polite is the main thin. Oh, one last thing, in my experience the best escorts do not ask for the money at any stage, when i was inexperienced some only asked right at end of punt as i was at door with a polite 'have you forgot something', which i genuinely had done as it felt like a one day stand, not a business transaction, so good were the services i received. However, what i have found is if you give the money to the girl at start without being prompted (forget putting in a white envelope), and haave a bit of fun with it like place it in her knickers or bra, i have always received a cheeky giggle, the ice is suitably broken, and it seems to really settle the girl down and put her in a naughty mood and a very dep french kissing session is started by WG as they get quite horny by the cheekinesss.

The giggle probably covers the fact that she's thinking 'Well, that's disrespectful and patronising, better pretend to be super horny so he hurries up and gets out.'

Sorry, but this is possibly one of the silliest suggestions I've ever read. I'd be taking it out of wherever you'd tucked it into and giving it back to you and politely showing you to the door. :rolleyes:

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