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HELP ! ....I think I've contracted PFS

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Sugar -- I think I've contracted Punting Fatigue Syndrome. I literally launched myself into this game 6/7 months ago and literally many tens of thousands later I think I'm burning out. is this the way it was meant to be ? is somebody or something trying to tell me something ?

a few weeks ago I started a thread querying whether the punting bedroom scene was too routine;

http://punternet.com/forum/showthread.php?t=22277&highlight=routine

maybe that was the start of the disease. a week ago I met a fab russian lady[ unfortunately, not Xenia ] and couldnt believe my luck and vowed I would see her again---- I did today and she facilitated me at very short notice. but the routine started almost immediately. she wore basically the same gear-- a thong and heels- stunning figure-- I went for my usual shower [ which I insist on ] which was nice whilst she sat on the edge of the bed waiting and smiling at the appropriate time-- I notice a fairly full waste bin with used/ open condom sachet on top -- great, am I no. 3/4/5 of the day so far ? [ I know-- I cant expect to be the Chosen One ! ]. phone rings, looked at and filed away but never answered, to be fair.

dried off -- onto the bed --- off with the heels immediately --- phone goes-- how long do you want to stay ? -- sure, thats no problem -- little chat -- smiling-- bit of FR -- phone goes , ignored but not turned off. shower goes on in friends romm next door in the apt-- ah, another satisfied punter .

enough chat--- lots of smiling-- can I start the BJ --- sure. can you turn other way around for 69 ? -- sure, no problem baby. phone goes, ignored. click , click in the hallway outside-- bang of front door -- bye bye mr. satisfied punter.

BJ continues with gusto -- get the feeling shes had enough of the RO -- phone rings, ignored again -- better get on with the BJ -- I start to laugh-- its like a call centre !-- she laughs and smiles --- I feel , something wrong here-- split second decision-- dont just " keep going ",-- theres no magic, nothing different--- I get up, get dressed , pay for the time and go.--- whats wrong baby, have I made you angry-- no, no , you have'nt [ I meant it ] -- its just me, I wasn't into it. bye, bye thanks -- smiles.

will this turn into chronic PFS ? hope not but I need some advice, some guidance, some medicine -- otherwise, will I have to start pushing the boundaries ? is that the next step ? --- some domination, ws, s+ m, toothless grannies , god forbid !! help would be appreciated.

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Doesn't sound like it would take much to make you to feel special and get you paying for her new Mercedes or whatever she has got her eye on. Turn the volume of the phone down, a bit better acting for the RO, new outfit. All is well again

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After the day Ive had, makes me think I should stop punting full stop. I think you should visit another WG.

The lady should not have the phone on and if it must be on it should be on in silent. Its a major turn off, and those bloody bins. Why don't they empty on each visit. It can not be that hard can it??

I remember one wg I see in Harwich that had 5 phones all laid on the side. The phones were constanly beeping and I just said, bollox to this are you going to turn them off. No problem she said. Problem solved but I did not return.

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Xenia --- sorry nothing to drink. sh*t, do I sound that bad. well, thats blown any chance with you ! so, off to the pub.

manny --- how did you know ? she actually has a bloody merc ! and , yes with a bit of imagination and guile, she could have got me to fund many monthly repayments. but then again, shes probably already paid for it in cash-- good luck to her !

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Phones should be on silent during appointments, there is just no excuse for leaving it with the sound on.

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Sugar -- I think I've contracted Punting Fatigue Syndrome. I literally launched myself into this game 6/7 months ago and literally many tens of thousands later I think I'm burning out. is this the way it was meant to be ? is somebody or something trying to tell me something ?

Tens of thousands in 6/7 months? I think your problem is not PFS but too much disposable. If you didn't have so much you might appreciate what you have in front of you a little more?

Hope that doesn't sound mean?.....and yes, I am jealous! But also very serious.

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I am sorry to hear that you burned out after a few months. I persevered through a decade of intense punting and chasing women in general.

thank you mike --- you're a real role model. you have shown true character and grit to keep going in the face of adversity and against all odds. I feel inspired and now determined to try and follow in your footsteps and persevere in this crusade.

seriously though, I have met truly impressive and wonderful ladies over the last few months and I do not want to lose this enrichment of my life. it is for this reason that I am concerned that for some reason [ and I still fancy the ladies I can assure you ], the sexual contact doesnt give me the same kick.there is less of a build up, less of a connection. I now know why I prefer a longer date---- drinks, dinner and maybe an overnight and do you know why ?-- because its natural. if you can establish a real rapport, a true connection, then it gives the sexual contact a richness, a meaning, indeed, a sense of a shared experience-- and its that feeling of a shared experience that gives us the kick. mechanical sex for the sake of its fantastic but its span is short lived. the problem with the longer dates is that it is bloody expensive and therefore whilst it probably produces the best encounters,it is doomed to take second place.

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What you describe is dating. Don't confuse that with punting. Don't join the rank of fools.

no, its just sex with some quality attached. otherwise, why not just stick to 20-30 min appointments, which really seem to be only glorified masturbatory sessions--no time for any connection-- just a " cum and go " service, as it really is only one way traffic.there is a place for everything but I think SexyMay has a great model- time to dreate a connection and atmosphere and then on to the business, which it appears she may actually enjoy . I hope it works for her. I think it would be nice, if more ladies adopted that model, though I suspect most would not be bothered.

interesting to find out what others think ?

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Reset your anticipation senses...

Go without any sexual interaction inc self satisfactionfor a month.

Too much of a good thing,....

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Am happy with one good punt a month

cost of 80 quid Max!!!

you have had a punting lifetime in 6 months

Lucky B@stard

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no, its just sex with some quality attached. otherwise, why not just stick to 20-30 min appointments, which really seem to be only glorified masturbatory sessions--no time for any connection-- just a " cum and go " service, as it really is only one way traffic.there is a place for everything but I think SexyMay has a great model- time to dreate a connection and atmosphere and then on to the business, which it appears she may actually enjoy . I hope it works for her. I think it would be nice, if more ladies adopted that model, though I suspect most would not be bothered.

interesting to find out what others think ?

There's room for all sorts of different business models for the girls. They, hopefully, will find the one that suits them. We punters, hopefully, will use reports /recommendations/cost factors to find something that suits us. I would like nothing more than to have a dinner date and time to build up a rapport but I have no chance of that because that is way out of my punting budget (and that of the majority of punters). So I have no choice but to stick to shorter appointments or parlours to get my kicks. Ces't la vie

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Reset your anticipation senses...

Go without any sexual interaction inc self satisfactionfor a month.

Too much of a good thing,....

thanks for the advice -- not sure if I could last a month without though ! :D

some of the posters have opined that I have been spoilt over the last 6/7 months-- to be fair , it is hard to argue with that. I do feel guilty about the money that I have spent and it will have to stop-- actually I cant afford that rate of cash burn going forward but I am delighted that these experiences have opened up my world and given me an insight into the world of whoredom. its like the world in general, you dont know what people or life is like until you go there and experience it. I like the fact that this whole secretive way of life exists under everyones noses and yet if you are not in the zone, you wouldnt believe it.

I remember admitting to a london cabbie recently that I had just left a fantastic tryst with a wonderful lady. he responded with interest in that yes , he was sure that this stuff went on " if you know where to look for it ". what ?? :confused: london is the escort capital of the world !!![ thanks be to god ].

it is a drug and a very very addictive one. I have done the most ridiculous things to insert a liason in to my schedule -- maybe my current PFS is my cure. thanks for the advice.

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it is a drug and a very very addictive one. I have done the most ridiculous things to insert a liason in to my schedule -- maybe my current PFS is my cure. thanks for the advice.

An extremely addictove one.

Sex with gorgeous girls who will do whatever you want.

I forgot who on this board said it

"I dont pay for the sex...I pay to be able to walk away afterwards "

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What do you do that lets you spend so much in 6 months? Or is your overdraft and credit card waving at you, requesting more space in the vault?

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What you describe is dating. Don't confuse that with punting. Don't join the rank of fools.

I have been thinking more about this. it would be very interesting to do a poll of guys who post here on a regular basis, to find out what percentage of them have visited one of the escort ladies who also post here and who work within a reasonable distance of them. my guess is that its a sizeable percentage and the "connection " made thru' the posting is a significant factor in their choice. in fact, I think there are even examples of guys travelling long distances in order to meet up. yet, theres no question of them "dating".

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I have been thinking more about this. it would be very interesting to do a poll of guys who post here on a regular basis, to find out what percentage of them have visited one of the escort ladies who also post here and who work within a reasonable distance of them. my guess is that its a sizeable percentage and the "connection " made thru' the posting is a significant factor in their choice. in fact, I think there are even examples of guys travelling long distances in order to meet up. yet, theres no question of them "dating".

Despite what some of the guys on here will say, there is nothing wrong with wanting (and paying for) and finding a little social interaction to go with a punt. Be it e-mails, phone calls, pre-punt drinks or post-punt chats, all is fair in this game as long as you and the lady concerned are content with the deal.

With the amount of punting you have done in the past few months cumandgo, you must have met the odd lady that you have clicked with. Why not go back and see one of those. You never know, if abstinence is impossible, you might find that a couple of months of only seeing one regular once a week might re-invigorate your senses and let you relaunch yourself on the wider punting world in 2010 with a fresh perspective.

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